Melissa Gorga: Unveiling the Truth Behind Her Relationship with Joe Gorga and Her Personal Struggles

The Gorgas are being exposed – yet again!

It’s time to expose the truth about some of Joe and Melissa Gorga’s claims from the most recent episode of the Real Housewives of New Jersey.

To start we are going to discuss the Gorgas insisting they’re still upset over Teresa Giudice for agreeing with Jennifer Aydin declaration that Joe acts like a “bitch” at the season 12 reunion.

“This is your blood and Jennifer made fun of him. And you chimed in,” Melissa quipped during the March 28 episode of RHONJ.

At the season 12 reunion, Jennifer told Joe, “Your behavior that night was a little bitch girl” to which Joe replied, “Oh I’m a bitch, now.”

Teresa added: “And Bitch boy, I’m sorry, Joe you’re kind of like a housewife. Sorry!”

To this day the Gorgas still insist that they are heartbroken over Teresa backing up Jennifer’s “bitch” comment however the truth is not on their side.

First off, Teresa did defend Joe when Jennifer first called him a “bitch” during their fight at the Jersey shore last season. Teresa said her brother was just defending his wife and that Jennifer should try to make peace with the Gorgas.

More importantly we have to point out that this isn’t the first, or the last time, Joe was called a “bitch” on the show.

Melissa called Joe a “bitch” during season 3 of RHONJ. So, if Joe is so upset with Jennifer calling him a “bitch” then he better be as equally as pissed off at his wife since she also made the comment on national TV.

“Omg you’re such a bitch, like is he on his period or something,” Melissa said of Joe in her confessional interview.

As for Melissa, you condemn Teresa and Jennifer for their comment about Joe being a “bitch” when you have said the exact same thing on the show.

Yet that isn’t the end of it. A photo of Joe recently popped up on social media that shows him holding a shirt that reads: “Bitch Boy.” In the photo Joe has a huge grin on his face and seems to be enjoying the joke and the attention.

To further drive the point home that Joe and Melissa are hypocrites, said photo was taken at their luau party which was the night before Joe and Melissa got into a blowout with Teresa and Louie Ruelas at Rachel Fuda‘s BBQ.

Odd, that the “bitch boy” comment didn’t bother Joe just 24 hours prior but it only upsets the Gorgas when it can make Teresa look like a piece of crap.

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We aren’t stopping there though. Now, it’s time to deep dive into why it’s BS that Teresa is getting backlash for her comment that Melissa has “daddy issues.”

“My brother needs to get therapy because he keeps blaming me for everything. It’s not just me, she has daddy issues she needs to go get help,” the RHONJ OG told co-stars Margaret Josephs and Jackie Goldschneider on Tuesday’s episode of the show.

Jackie took issue with Teresa’s comment telling her, “That’s not nice.” As fans know, Melissa’s dad died in a car accident when she was 17 years old.

However, Teresa disagrees.

“There’s nothing wrong with that,” Teresa replied. “She’s attached to my brother like, yeah, there’s issues.”

“Melissa always talked about that she had daddy issues, how her father would go out all the time and he was cheating on the mom. He was never home, so that’s why she always had a leash on my brother,” Teresa explained in her confessional.

RHONJ Source, on Instagram, located and shared clips from season 5 of RHONJ where Melissa talks about her relationship with her father and how his infidelities impacted her life and relationships.

In the clips, Melissa discusses how much of her life she wants to share in her book.

Melissa explained that her dad was a “great provider” but that he was disappear for days because of this Melissa says she “grew up having trust issues with men because where did my dad go.”

The 43-year-old acknowledged that was hesitant on “how deep to go” in the book but notes that she spent her young adult life searching for a man to “support, love, and care for her” the way her dad did.

“Joe reminds me so much of my father,” Melissa noted.

Check out the clip below!

It is important to point out that Teresa didn’t reveal anything that Melissa hasn’t already said about her life and relationships with her husband and father on the show.

Teresa also said that her own daughters, Gia, Gabriella, Milania, and Audriana “have daddy issues” due to their father, Joe Giudice, spending four years in prison then being deported to Italy in 2019.

There seems to be a lot of hypocrisy happening on RHONJ at the moment.

RHONJ airs on Tuesdays at 9 pm on Bravo.

Thoughts on this all? Who’s side are you? Sound off in the comments.

Yes, Teresa did defend Joe when Jennifer first called him a “bitch” during their fight at the Jersey shore last season. She said her brother was just defending his wife and that Jennifer should try to make peace with the Gorgas.

 Yes, Joe has been called a “bitch” before on the show. Melissa called him a “bitch” during season 3 of RHONJ. So, if Joe is upset with Jennifer calling him a “bitch,” he should also be equally upset with his wife since she made the same comment on national TV.

Yes, Teresa made a comment about Melissa having “daddy issues” on the show. She mentioned that Melissa always talked about her father’s infidelities and how it impacted her life and relationships. Teresa believes that Melissa’s attachment to her brother stems from these issues.

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38 comments

September24 March 30, 2023 - 5:42 pm
LOL! The hag marco clan is spiraling. hahaha!!! Their own words and actions come back to haunt them. Priceless...hahahaha
Jshappyday March 30, 2023 - 4:06 pm
So many first time posters! How fun. I have been posting ten years on now and never seen so many new names bring on the interest. This site has been around a very long time, it’s not new, fyi.
MOD1980 July 27, 2023 - 10:48 am
And just because someone shares an opinion doesn't mean they haven't read discussion's before. Not everyone has the urge to word vomit everything they think about people they don't actually know. Hey but that's just what I was thinking after reading this. ????????????????????
MOD1980 March 30, 2023 - 2:47 pm
I don't understand why everyone that comments on here that agrees with things they as a viewer have also noticed about the Gorga's are suddenly labeled "Team Teresa". I like to consider myself neutral and enjoy myself the show for what it is, Entertainment. Of course these are real people who are sharing (Part of their lives) with us but we aren't aware of the back story, things that go on behind the scenes. Just like the whole Pizza deal that went down. Two completely different stories from both sides and to be honest Joe doesn't have the best track record and if you listen to half the things he says he doesn't want to do things with a legally binding contract just give his word that he's good. With the lawsuits he's in now it's looking like he's not so good for his word.
TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes March 31, 2023 - 7:15 am
Joe has two failed business from what I recall - the waste management truck and the pizza parlour. He still works construction and has his property business. Teresa went to jail for fraud and tried to file a fraudulent bankruptcy and denied it for years and Luis was fired from the business he co founded, face several lawsuits and filed bankruptcy for another business last year. I don't know why people think Joey is the one with the bad track record.
MOD1980 July 27, 2023 - 10:45 am
Agreed, Seems like Neither are very reliable sources for themselves.
Stacy Estes March 30, 2023 - 1:57 pm
It is so frustrating to me how people can not see the lies and hypocrisy of Melissa and B boy. I used to be a big fan of theirs but in the last year I have seen how well they play the victim and how they twist the truth to fit their narrative. A light went on and now I really SEE them. This article is right on point and ya Teresa can say and do things that if you didn't know the back story might seem cruel or a little nuts but once you put all the pieces together you cant un-see how thirsty her little brother and his trash wife really are. Wake up people...I finally did.
MOD1980 July 27, 2023 - 10:53 am
??LOVE COMMENT ?? Exactly what I think as well. Straight and to the point and anyone else who feels the same way are somehow lable "TreApes, TreHuggers or my favorite BOTS!!!!!!
NikkiJax March 30, 2023 - 12:01 pm
Exposed?? The only thing exposed is the writer's obsession with Teresa! Not coming to this site anymore it's one sided.
Nurse Lina Tano March 30, 2023 - 6:17 am
I remember that s5 comment by Melissa. Good point . No matter what it is, aa long as Teresa is breathing, these 2 will always find a way to pick at her. Like little sand gnats. Or mosquitoes. They just constantly pick, nit and bite. They know they have no storyline without Teresa. Since they don't want their fraudulent business practices to come to light, they divert with all thesw bombastic dramatics over nothing. I would say Melissa does know how to control Joey, and he is her lil bit h boy. Anything to harass Teresa with, they jump at it. She tries and cares way too much and they use this against her. Can't wait for her idgaf fed-up period. She has a high tolerance for B's, but once she's fed up, she's done. That's the season I'm waiting for, when the Gorgas get the Wakile treatment.
Ginger Snap March 31, 2023 - 11:26 pm
Tre has no storyline without them too. Do you think she wants the camera focused on her marriage? That’s what going to happen if the Gorga’s are fired. Be careful what you wish for Tre.
Flower power March 30, 2023 - 9:47 am
Not only are Teresa's girls going to have daddy issues they're also going to have step daddy issues as well. Why doesn't this site do an expose on Louie beating women, his multiple bankruptcies getting fired from his company that he claims he co-founded, and his s e x addiction
NikkiJax March 30, 2023 - 12:04 pm
Because this site is another Teresa lap dog.
Jane_one March 30, 2023 - 12:37 pm
That isn't going to happen on this website. Luis is playing games with Teresa. He is more concerned with this image on camera than he is with anything else. He wants to come off as the guy who changed Teresa to the viewers. The guy who calmed her down and stopped the tantrums and getting physical. He has two faces, the one that agrees with Teresa in private or at times on camera and then the one that wants to be seen as the voice of reason and it happens in front of the cameras for the benefit of himself. The guru taking on the unreasonable and out of control HW.
Janice Provetti March 30, 2023 - 9:02 am
Melissa's issues with her father are well documented - she talked about them herself - so there is no exposure there. Oh, and you say something about my father I'm throwing hands for hours.
Jane_one March 30, 2023 - 12:24 pm
Teresa also has daddy issues according to her recent comments, now that she is in therapy. She is blaming some of her behavior on how she was raised. So, what is the difference? Other than Teresa never did that until she met Luis and is doing his bidding. Teresa's comment about Melissa and daddy issues didn't have anything to do with what was being argued about. If Melissa had pulled the same stunt Teresa would have been out of her chair and charging Melissa.
Janice Provetti March 30, 2023 - 1:11 pm
100%. She is a typical narcissist. She will deflect her faults onto others, is beyond hypocritical and never has any self-awareness.
Flower power March 30, 2023 - 7:53 am
This site has a bigger hard on for Melissa that her own husband all in the name of making apeface look better, but ape woman will always be the worst of the worst
TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes March 30, 2023 - 6:34 am
What Melissa calls Joe is very different to what someone else can call him. For example...Teresa was okay with Juicy calling her his "bitch wife" and "c*nt" but I am sure she wouldn't like another of the husbands calling her that.
Janice Provetti March 30, 2023 - 9:02 am
TTTHHHHIIIISSSSSSSSSSSSS
Jane_one March 30, 2023 - 12:39 pm
Good point. Who can forget that episode. It was so cringe worthy.
TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes March 31, 2023 - 7:12 am
So many times Juicy looked like he hated her. The way she talked about their sex life is exactly what she is doing with Luis now. How long will it be until Luis can no longer stand the sound of her voice either?
Stacy Estes March 30, 2023 - 2:00 pm
From what I saw and this is just my opinion but I don't think she was ever ok with it but was trying desperately to hide it because it was embarrassing and she was humiliated. She wasn't ready to end her marriage yet.
Jane_one March 30, 2023 - 2:56 pm
She would still be married to him if she hadn't gone to jail. Teresa's priorities have always been screwed up. She would rather put up a front to have a certain image to others than face the realities of her life. She went ballistic when Jacqueline said Teresa had told her she caught Joe with a woman in his office. She screamed Jacqueline was lying. There was a scene in one episode with Gia, Joe and Teresa in the car. Joe said he was going out that night and Gia said don't go around women. She was maybe 12, not sure. He told her to shut up. How pathetic is that? She blamed him for losing a year of time with her mother and that was something she couldn't get past. She blames Joe entirely for the crimes they were charged with even though she was involved. It took a year in jail and knowing that Joe was going to be in jail for 4 years and then not return home after his sentence to finally divorce him.
TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes March 31, 2023 - 7:11 am
Precisely. She is uber competitive and needs to present an image of a perfect life. I think Joe came home she would still be with him even with the resentment she felt about her mother. Right up to his deportation she was saying that she isn't divorcing him. Remember when Gia also said that Juicy slept in another room?
Stacy April 3, 2023 - 1:30 pm
I agree with that. I do think she would still be with him if he hadn’t been deported. She is pretty old school and she does care a lot what people think especially back then. I mean I kinda get that as I hid a lot of my marriage of 15 years before I got divorced. And when I did everyone including my family was shocked because I hid so much and I did it because it was embarrassing to not have the marriage I wanted people to think I had. Times have changed a lot (I am same age as Teresa) so nowadays it’s not the same so I guess that’s why I get why she is the way she is. I however have never flipped a table. ?
TheBeverlyHillsHaveEyes March 31, 2023 - 7:09 am
Teresa always pretended that they had the best sex life, were so in to each other, when we all saw him barely grunt at her. He treated her like rubbish for years. She would still be married to him if he wasn't deported because Teresa can't ever let anyone know her life is less than perfect. That's why she is so angry and resents Melissa and her marriage to her brother so much. She will never divorce Luis for the same reason. He will be the one to leave her when he realises he will never change her and she isn't making as much money when she leaves the show eventually.
Nurse Lina Tano March 30, 2023 - 6:17 am
I remember that s5 comment by Melissa. Good point . No matter what it is, aa long as Teresa is breathing, these 2 will always find a way to pick at her. Like little sand gnats. Or mosquitoes. They just constantly pick, nit and bite. They know they have no storyline without Teresa. Since they don't want their fraudulent business practices to come to light, they divert with all thesw bombastic dramatics over nothing. I would say Melissa does know how to control Joey, and he is her lil bit h boy. Anything to harass Teresa with, they jump at it. She tries and cares way too much and they use this against her. Can't wait for her idgaf fed-up period. She has a high tolerance for B's, but once she's fed up, she's done. That's the season I'm waiting for, when the Gorgas get the Wakile treatment.
Fuzzy Peanut March 30, 2023 - 6:09 am
pffft. this whole issue is one big fart.
Flower power March 30, 2023 - 9:42 am
Ya, people are making fun of this site on Twitter and other social media platforms. People realize well most people that what this site is posting about the gorgus is all of vendetta and they're being fed information by Teresa. And the site didn't expose anything. They're acting as if they're some kind of investigative reporters which they're clearly or not. They can't even get their wording right. It should be whose side are you on not who's.
Que Sera May 23, 2023 - 2:29 pm
Now I can see why.
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