RHOP’s Candiace Dillard Afraid to Have Light-Skinned Children

RHOP star Candiace Dillard

RHOP star Candiace Dillard shocked the Bravoverse this week when she revealed she’s afraid to have light-skinned children with hubby Chris Basset, saying: “I want my kids to be brown.”

Candiace Dillard of the Real Housewives of Potomac appeared on the Don’t Call Me White Girl podcast where she shared some controversial thoughts.

The Bravo star revealed that as a brown-skinned black woman she is afraid of having light-skinned children.

“I do have a fear of having light-skinned children,” Candiace Dillard said during the interview.

“I want my kids to be brown. But they’re probably not gonna be brown. And I’m like, becoming okay with it. I want my kids to be brown. But if they’re not, it’s fine,” the RHOP star explained.

Chris Basset and Candiace Dillard of RHOP

The 37-year-old budding singer and actress is married to chef Chris Bassett, who is caucasian. The RHOP couple tied the knot in 2018 at the Andrew W. Mellon Auditorium in Washington, D.C. Their wedding was featured on season 4 of the Real Housewives of Potomac.

“Whatever happens happens,” she noted. “But I didn’t think about [that] when I was falling in love and like ‘Oh this is my husband. Oh wait I’m gonna have these swirly babies.’”

The reality TV couple have been open about their journey to have a family. Initially, Candiace pressed pause on having a baby Bassett to go after her dreams of being a singer but she has since stated that she’s ready to be a mom and has even gone through IVF to freeze her eggs.

No word on when Candiace and Chris plan to start the baby making journey but the reality star admits her husband has given her a timeline.

Until that day comes, the couple enjoy their family time with Chris’ children from a prior relationship.

“I have bonus kids. They’re wonderful,” Candiace said. “His two younger kids are amazing. We talk to them, they live out of state [so] we need to go see them and bring them to us.

“But they’re at that age where they’re, like, little adults and they have opinions and thoughts, and they have goals, like, talking about going to school,” she added.

Meanwhile, Bravo fans had quite a lot of thoughts on Candiace’s fear of having light-skinned children.

“Please just chose to continue to be childfree,” one Bravo fan shared.

“I’ve never heard someone talk about skin color more than she does,” a second fan wrote.

A third fan commented, “Hello you married a white man ! What is she thinking!” while a fourth added, “Then why did she marry a white man?”

“She really has deep rooted issues with light skin women and she needs to deal with that shit ASAP,” someone else commented.

“She’s obsessed with skin color, she takes it out on Gizelle/Robyn and makes ridiculous statements like this. ? She says the most colorist/racist statements and feels completely justified in doing so!” another fan wrote.

Another fan agreed, commenting, “Ironically I think she suffers from a lot of internalized self-hatred/colorism.”

The Real Housewives of Potomac airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET on Bravo.

Thoughts on Candiace’s comments? Sound off below!

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27 comments

TA March 22, 2024 - 4:22 am
As a mixed race person, (black mother, white father), I find this comment to be so rude, insulting, offensive and racist. It irritates me that she thinks she can say anything offensive towards lighter skinned people, but if someone says something in the reverse she cries the victim. It’s people like her who make the right wing feel validated in their criticisms of people of colour. She’s ignorant AF. She’s a Karen. Should rename her Candy Karen
JMMW March 21, 2024 - 7:12 am
Chris has three children and the two that have been in the show are children of color. Light color. I’m sure the mother of those children feels some type of way to these comments by her kids stepmother. She should be happy if they get a healthy child instead of worrying about the color of its skin.
Sharona March 20, 2024 - 9:15 pm
Then why did you marry a white man? Stupid bitch.
Snarky Enigma March 20, 2024 - 6:37 pm
And let's not even talk about mixed-race kids have a higher risk of health or behavior problems ... just ask Kim. Khloe, and Kylie.
Nancy Fancy March 21, 2024 - 3:46 pm
BAM!
TA March 22, 2024 - 4:26 am
Ugh, rude
675309 March 20, 2024 - 4:43 pm
This is an example of someone who shouldn't have kids, IMO.
jlf March 20, 2024 - 4:14 pm
I just want to say, mixed race babies are so beautiful. I agree she shouldn’t have put it in print.
ontoiran March 20, 2024 - 4:07 pm
Can’t blame her for wanting to preserve her own race BUT, you flipping dumb ass why marry a white man??? Stupid Girl
Snarky Enigma March 20, 2024 - 5:07 pm
He's actually a rather odd shade of pink.
Nancy Fancy March 21, 2024 - 3:46 pm
But he has a brown penis ?
Snarky Enigma March 21, 2024 - 7:03 pm
Sounds like a bad case of Vitilago.
Nancy Fancy March 22, 2024 - 3:34 am
OMG that is hilarious ???
Snarky Enigma March 22, 2024 - 2:12 pm
Reminds me of when the D/A's were going after MJ, and photographed his privates (and got a surprise).
Nancy Fancy March 23, 2024 - 6:34 pm
I may be in the minority but I loved MJ. I saw him in concert and he was amazing.
Snarky Enigma March 24, 2024 - 3:06 pm
I'm not sure I ever bought it either; I think he was just extremely child-like and weird. The charges just seemed so outlandish, especially the second time around. Also, for me, it's very telling that Macauley, Emmanuel Lewis and all the others all exonerated him.
Nancy Fancy March 26, 2024 - 3:32 pm
The only accusers he had were the money hungry ones. MJ was eclectic but I don't think a pedo. Come over to RB, the nasty trolls were kicked out.
Dulcette March 20, 2024 - 11:25 am
What a thing to put in print for your children to read some day!
Champagne Hangover March 20, 2024 - 3:09 pm
Perhaps she can get her future little accessories dyed to match her… ? https://media4.giphy.com/media/26xBMdRMlR1jzfirm/giphy-downsized-small.mp4
675309 March 20, 2024 - 4:54 pm
No kidding and no kids.
Snarky Enigma March 20, 2024 - 6:38 pm
Chris looks like he was bleached.
Champagne Hangover March 20, 2024 - 7:30 pm
Lol. He kinda does! ?
Snarky Enigma March 20, 2024 - 8:56 pm
He's gross ... she could have done way better, and I'm sure she eventually will with the next one.
HermanL22 March 20, 2024 - 9:32 am
Candiace has always rubbed me the wrong way. Always thought she was so beautiful - until she opened her mouth. She has some definite racial issues of her own that she needs to work through. And it clearly wouldn't take a genius to know a white man with a lighter-skinned black woman is more than likely going to make light babies. But genetics are just that, so I guess you won't know until you actually have them!
675309 March 20, 2024 - 4:49 pm
Someone needs to convince her that it is fine for her not to have kids plus her husband already has some. Maybe she should try getting a small brown dog (not puppy) and see how that goes before having a kid although maybe she isn't qualified to have a dog.
HermanL22 March 21, 2024 - 9:12 am
I just can't imagine her as a mom. Probably a terrible thing to say, but she is so self-absorbed and self-focused, I can't imagine it.
675309 March 21, 2024 - 1:21 pm
I may have seen her on UGT but I don't remember. Sounds like she needs to skip it.
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