Bethenny Frankel Talks ‘Cold’ and ‘Suffocating’ Marriage to Jason Hoppy; Admits to Miscarriage Relief

Bethenny Frankel crying over divorce from Jason Hoppy on RHONY

Bethenny Frankel reveals shocking revelation about a miscarriage she experienced during “suffocating” marriage to ex Jason Hoppy.

Real Housewives of New York alum Bethenny Frankel admits that she once told her ex-husband, Jason Hoppy, that she was “so incredibly relieved” when she suffered a miscarriage during their “suffocating” two year marriage.

“In a constructive way, I said, ‘I’m kind of relieved … because I don’t think this is a healthy or positive relationship,’ the Skinnygirl mogul recalled on Tuesday’s episode of her “Just B Divorced” podcast.

“It was a nightmare that it happened,” she clarified. “[That was] my first step to saying something.”

Bethenny Frankel claims that Hoppy called her a “real piece of s—t” in response before temporarily moving out of the marital home, which she called a “relief.”

Bethenny Frankel and ex-husband Jason Hoppy at a basketball game in NYC.

This isn’t the first time Bethenny, who was already mother to her now 12-year-old daughter Bryn, addressed the pregnancy loss. In a June 2012 Glamour essay, the RHONY alum admitted to experiencing “relief” at the time but not because of her rocky marriage to Hoppy.

“There was, I have to admit, a bit of relief that I wouldn’t be starting my new TV job seven months pregnant,” she wrote at the time. “And then there was immense guilt at the relief.”

Meanwhile, on Tuesday’s episode of her podcast, the former Bravoleb spilled some details about her sex life with Hoppy prior to the miscarriage. She claims that Hoppy compared their bed to a “block of ice” since Bethenny “didn’t want to have sex at all.”

“I did not want to be intimate,” she explained, adding that her coldness was due to her lack of “respect” for the businessman. “I used to force myself, gag myself through doing it. … It is torture.”

Bethenny and Jason marriage lasted two years.

Bethenny and Jason tied the knot in March 2010. They announced their separation in December 2012 with Bethenny officially filing for divorce a month later.

Over the next decade the two battled it out in court over custody of Brynn and finances. They reached a financial settlement in 2016 but their divorce was not finalized until January 2021. By December of that year, Bethenny had gained full legal and physical custody of Brynn and was no longer required to pay Jason child support.

The Real Housewives of New York will return to Bravo for season 15 in late to mid-2024.

Thoughts on this all? Sound off in the comments!

Related posts

REPORT: Bethenny Frankel Splits With Paul Bernon After 6 Years

Andy Cohen Talks BravoCon Being Paused and Sonja Morgan Selling her Iconic Townhouse

RHONY Alum Sonja Morgan To Auction Off Iconic Townhouse

19 comments

Dulcette April 19, 2024 - 11:08 am
I saw a 'clip' of some of what she said. She is repeating what her husband at the time said to her in private. And then goes on to state what sex was like with him. I truly only think of her daughter. B had daddy issues and has discussed her 'man issues' in the past on the show and no matter how good at hiding that, her daughter will pick up on this. And whatever you criticize of her father, is a direct criticism to her.
Snarky Enigma April 18, 2024 - 9:34 pm
No sooner do I comment about having just recently finally seen Bethenny Ever After, and feeling like we were left hanging just as their marriage started to crumble, and Bethenny does this episode explaining exactly what happened in detail ... what are the odds of that? I can't believe Jason's mom (a notary, forged Bethenny's name to get Jason's name on the deed of the $5M apt. featured on the show. To quote Ramona ... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b789b9888c6449a7108cefa9ffad9a7ac489bcfee81fc606593557c6cdc12b8f.gif
Dulcette April 19, 2024 - 11:10 am
Is this true? I had never heard that.
September24 April 18, 2024 - 6:22 pm
Stop badmouthing the father of your daughter. It shouldn't take a gag order to shut your mouth. You should have self awareness to know this by now.
Zap It April 18, 2024 - 1:44 pm
I like Bethenny for the most part. She was good TV but this is pretty bad. She needs to be quiet. The child that she does have can read and hear this.
cammierari April 18, 2024 - 12:59 pm
“Mention it all” is still Bethenny’s motto I guess…
Yazmean April 18, 2024 - 12:36 pm
Janice Provetti April 18, 2024 - 11:38 am
Beyond full of it. I will die on the hill of him being the victim.
Champagne Hangover April 18, 2024 - 11:45 am
Even if he is not, how can she not see that Bryn is??? ????
Janice Provetti April 18, 2024 - 4:43 pm
That is even worse.
Janice Provetti April 19, 2024 - 9:07 am
LOL
Zap It April 18, 2024 - 1:44 pm
?
Snarky Enigma April 18, 2024 - 9:40 pm
Really? I went in thinking I was going to be on his side completely, but then saw the warning signs immediately. I think they were in love, but he became the stereotype (of the emasculated male) when she hit the lotto.
Janice Provetti April 19, 2024 - 9:06 am
I think that he was just a regular down home guy and she is this powerhouse. The two don't mix and I think he definitely was insecure with her increased wealth. However, her treatment of him is where the power lies. More now than them. She's trashing him for no other reason but to be the victim. If you have to say you are the victim, you aren't.
Dulcette April 18, 2024 - 9:15 am
I believe he has a gag order. So once again she gets to tell her side of the story and nothing else. Just let it be. And why would you want to air that all, when your daughter is going to hear or read everything. Even if Hoppy is everything, you say he is, you both have a daughter who is genetically 1/2 him.
Champagne Hangover April 18, 2024 - 11:43 am
Exactly. And what good does it do this child that not only her schoolmates, friends, friends’ parents, teachers, neighbors, etc. have access to this information about her father (true or not) but complete strangers do as well? Where is the benefit from this for the child? Where? Oh, there isn’t one??? Ok then stfu about it then, Bethenny, and put the well being of your child BEFORE your hatred of your ex. Even if the ex has earned such ire, the CHILD does not deserve one iota or one single dot of the fallout from it. None. Zero. ????
Champagne Hangover April 18, 2024 - 8:55 am
Add Comment