Proof of Joe Gorga’s Hypocrisy – See How He REALLY Talks to Women

RHONJ's Joe Gorga

The truth about how Joe Gorga really talks to women is uncovered after the Real Housewives of New Jersey season 13 finale episode!

Joe Gorga is nothing more than a hypocrite, and that was further proved during the season 13 finale episode.

The drama started when Melissa Gorga continued to antagonize Louie Ruelas to the point he needed to reply to the 44-year-old directly.

Melissa quipped

“Why are you looking like that with your eyes, like, what’s the matter? Why are you talking like this? I’m the one getting all this s–t, thank you very much.”

Louie fired back with nothing more than a “you’re welcome,” which enraged Joe so much that he went charging after Louie and had to be held back by the other husbands.

According to Joe, it was inappropriate for Louie to “talk to his wife [Melissa] like that.”

In his confessional, Joe said:

“Don’t get in her face like angry like the devil. I mean, who talks to a woman like that?”

This drama resulted in Melissa and Joe skipping Teresa and Louie’s wedding. Melissa and Joe blame Teresa for the cheating allegation against Melissa coming to light on the show, even though that is NOT true at all, according to our insider sources. In fact, this all was just an excuse for Melissa and Joe to come across as justified in skipping Teresa’s wedding. From the looks of it, they NEVER had any intention of attending Teresa and Louie’s wedding.

However, let’s get back to Joe Gorga’s anger issues and how he has treated women over the years.

Tweet from AllAboutTRH

It’s no secret that Joe has a long, long history of treating women horribly. For years, Joe has been seen talking to women in a way that is not only degrading but also cruel and full of vitriol.

Examples of Joe Gorga’s Anger Towards Women

Over the years, on and off RHONJ, Joe has referred to his sister, Teresa Giudice, as “scum,” “a b-tch,” and “garbage.”

He infamously called Kim DePaola a “Dirty ass. F—ng whore.”

Joe Gorga vs Kim D at Posche Fashion Show

Then at BravoCon last year, Joe verbally attacked Jennifer Aydin in the lobby of their hotel, telling her, “Shut up, you dirty b–ch.”

Joe Gorga yelling at Jennifer Aydin during a confrontation at BravoCon.

If all of that weren’t enough proof, Joe has been caught having numerous aggressive tantrums and outbursts on and off RHONJ.

He’s screamed, hit tables, caused a brawl at his own son’s Christening, and more, all because he can’t control his temper.

As the RHONJ finale episode aired on Bravo, fans couldn’t help but call out Joe’s hypocrisy on Twitter.

One fan wrote: “Joe treating women horrible. A compilation.”

“Joe is a clown!! He can call women “trash, garbage, & scum” & get the guys together to mock/watch Danielle Staubs sex tape, etc., but LOUIE is the monster- nah, you have met your match,” a second fan commented.

Said fan continued: “I need the screenshots of Joe calling women: TRASH, SCUM, DIRTY B*TCH, etc. This man really thinks he is a saint. It’s scary. It’s certifiable.”

A third fan notes: “Joe Gorga did not just say, ‘who talks to a woman like that?’. He’s out of his f@cking mind.”

“Joe Gorga is a violent thug. How many physical altercations w/ different cast mates does he have to have before @BravoTV realizes he’s a liability and a complete menace to the show? I am shaking, watching his extreme temper and constant threats,” another fan wrote.

Others noted that Joe has a history of being “unhinged” on the show.

Fans then began posting their favorite photos of Joe’s tantrums on Twitter.

A compilation of Joe Gorga’s tantrums

Joe Gorga’s tantrums on RHONJ
Joe Gorga yelling and screaming.
RHONJ’s Joe Gorga

The Real Housewives of New Jersey airs on Tuesdays at 8 pm on Bravo.

Thoughts on this all? Is Joe a hypocrite? Do you think there’s an issue with how Joe talks to women? Sound off below!

During the RHONJ Season Finale, Joe Gorga was caught criticizing others for their behavior while engaging in similar actions himself. This exposed his hypocrisy as he preached one set of values but acted differently.

Sure! In one scene, Joe Gorga criticized another cast member for spreading rumors, yet he was later shown gossiping about someone else behind their back, contradicting his own stance on gossip and rumors.

Many of the other cast members expressed their disappointment and frustration with Joe Gorga’s behavior. Some confronted him directly about his hypocrisy, leading to heated confrontations during the Season Finale.

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114 comments

chrisitne May 23, 2023 - 2:06 pm
Really, Joe and his sister are Fame Whores!
GJ May 20, 2023 - 9:03 am
He's just a shrimpy little guy who is trying to act like a big guy with hair!
Rafa G May 18, 2023 - 1:37 pm
You should also address Teresa and Luis's hypocrisy. So, for example, she expects loyalty from family but does not feel that she should be loyal back. Such as her calling Joe over to her house so that her and Luis can be shady about his marriage to Melissa. She also brought up Antonio (just like Joe brought up Gia). They also talk about deals falling through and losing money when she went to PRISON for financial items. Finally, she was married to Joe Giudice for years and allowed him to cheat and talk crap to her and about her and continued to pretend it was not happening. So, she should not be talking about happy marriages especially when her new husband is a walking red flag (literally, he is reddd). Both sides are full of hypocrites and honestly so is this article for attacking one side for behavior the other also partakes in.
zona9 May 18, 2023 - 5:56 am
Remember when Joe Gorga called his wife a C*NT? Oh , wait, no, that was Joe Giudice.
September24 May 18, 2023 - 6:42 am
Of course not. We all remember. It was an awful moment.
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 3:40 am
Lara and AATRH, you guys crushed it tonight! 12 hours later and comments are still blowing up. Is this a new record? Are we about to hit 100? WooHoo!!! Well done and thank you for all your hard work. Kudos to you and your team. For years, it's been very good, but these past few months has been one great post after another. When the characters start sending bots to your blog, you start trending on Twitter, and tabloid media quotes you all in 1 week, you know you are doing something right. You really have set the bar so high that you are getting noticed and quoted. We are so grateful to you for all your hard work and efforts. More grease to your elbows. Keep it up! We appreciate you guys.
Bravodude420 May 18, 2023 - 7:00 am
Reading your words - so pathetic
Bravodude420 May 18, 2023 - 6:25 pm
You are such a loser
Jamie Velazquez May 17, 2023 - 10:58 pm
Joe is great. He seems like a good time to hang with and he is funny. Melissa and Joe make a great couple.
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 2:58 am
Yes. They deserve each other. May they stay together forever so as to save 2 other people from their misery.
September24 May 18, 2023 - 6:43 am
I said the same thing to myself when I read the comment. LOL! They can have each other. hahahaha
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 2:56 am
71 comments. Wow. You're rocking this reporting tonight AATRH! So much that someone sent their 'fans' over here to start some funny business. We all know who? , but Andy won't be fooled. ---- I've always disliked Joey intensely, not for his hypocrisy and emotional immaturity as much as his extreme misogyny. The other males are mostly Jersey gentlemen but he's a thuggish bull that Messy keeps trying to housetrain. It seems like he actually hates women, not just Tre but all women, no matter who they are, he is so disrespectful....from his mama (member how he screamed at her), to Gia, Melissa to the bus conductor. Even Antonia was not spared. Maybe he's parroting how construction workers talk, but he has no tact, no filters, nor control of his frontal cortex. His comments about women, even in jest; are often crude, vulgar, and borderline if not outright misogynistic. It's odd because he is at the same time gossiping, scheming, and hysterical like a woman. Does he wish to be a woman? Or wishes he was born a lady? Maybe not to the point that he wants to wear drag, but msyhap6 due to his conservative upbringing, he likely hates that part of himself with the vitriol and intensity of 10,000 suns. So he projects and turns the rage to women. It's ironic yet at the same quite sad to watch. He plays women's games, then when the women react, he yells, mocks and belittles them. There is no blow too low, no line he can't cross. Once his face turns red or that vein on his head pops out, you know his blood is boiling and he loses all control. Messy can't rein him in, but she sure knows how to rile him up. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Alcohol only intensifies his rage and hatred toward women. Maybe he got bullied by the high school cheerleaders in the past or something. There is much more to this. (Now that's a storyline they could have explored and developed). But he lacks the self awareness to grow and change. Now I feel a little pity for Poor Messy. With how he is in public, Imagine the brute she has to sleep next to and what's going on behind closed doors. No wonder Melissa cheats often. She is not getting the respect, consideration, and love she wants at home; so she seeks it elsewhere. A few trysts to get her self -esteem back. The sad thing is that if they split up, they probably would eventually both be much happier. Instead they focus on making happy folks miserable because they are miserable. Such a pity. What a tragic and toxic duo the Gorgas are. No wonder they ooze it from every pore. It's just so sadly pathetic. The truth always comes to light.
Bravodude420 May 18, 2023 - 6:26 pm
You are a loser
PjC May 18, 2023 - 2:24 am
The Messy Melissa (paid) BOTs are just going nutzo in this comments section. Lovin' it. This site is not journalism. Its Pop culture recap of the BRAVO HWs. Let the mouse go. . . She'll be fired by September anyways and Melissa will have to sell more fake Chanel to keep that hotel/motel house which Joe didn't pay for any of the building materials. Attack the messenger--Marge and not the writers of the blogs or fans.
Bravodude420 May 17, 2023 - 6:08 pm
How much booger sugar does Luis do! How terrihle is teresa? Melissa and Joe are the ones who look good here. Not Teresas criminal ass. And to the author of this article. You need to keep your opinions to yourself and deliver facts. This whole season, Teresa said we will see how she will be validated in what she says. All I saw at the end of the season was Joe and Melissa rising the top and Teresa as trash. Luis is a joke.
Bravodude420 May 17, 2023 - 2:04 pm
It is beyond obvious that the person(s) running this webpage Do not like Joe and Melissa Gorga. It’s like all the headlines on here are the writers opinion. Just like CNN and Fox no one gives a crap what you think- It would be like if someone said Joe Biden is a good president. You will look at them and say what the f you just say?? Same situation here. With that being said. After watching the finale of the real housewives of New Jersey. Teresa Giudice is fucking slime. Joe and Melissa actually are not in the wrong at all. Keep Gia Giudice off of TV. No one cares what she has to say… Other than the bags of chips that she is apparently eating. And eating. And eating. Louis is a slimeball. It looks like he just does cocaine all day. The show used to let you escape and enjoy the lives of others. Now its cringe. Snoozefest. #teamgorga.
September24 May 17, 2023 - 5:46 pm
You need to send this to all of the husbands and let them see who they are defending. Their wives are next on his hit list....
Daniel May 17, 2023 - 5:16 pm
Wow. To the author of this article your bias view is evident to see. Ever considered stating the facts and being impartial? Firstly, you were watching a different finale than I was. Joe charging Luis.... that didn't happen. He mouthed off but charged him. Nope. And clearly you're mind is made up about Teresa and Luis. If they are as innocent as you claim, what was the scene in the car a few weeks back when Luis said they weren't inviting Melissa and Joe to the dinner. Odd behaviour for a couple who say family stick together and that they want piece. Same could be said as to why they pulled Joe aside to tell him about this rumour 6 months ago. They didn't tell Melissa so again they didn't have her back, shoeing again how their motto of family sticks together is bogus.
I'm Not Batman May 17, 2023 - 7:29 pm
Oh ffs, you’re that idiot from the other site. Leave this site’s owners alone. They put a lot more work into this than you do.
Bravodude420 May 18, 2023 - 7:01 am
You’re not Batman you’re a loser troll
JMMW May 17, 2023 - 4:52 pm
Ladies take notice in Jersey. Hopefully his sons will not have this macho attitude. Warn your daughters now. Seriously though it’s not the best role model for a young boy.
JMMW May 17, 2023 - 4:49 pm
Still would like to know if the rumor of Tarzan and assault on a fellow student is true when he went to college. Rumor is his father paid the young lady off.
September24 May 17, 2023 - 1:54 pm
I hope his daughter dates a guy just like him. LOL!
NikkiJax May 17, 2023 - 3:26 pm
That's harsh! You really hate them.
Angela May 17, 2023 - 1:08 pm
Joe probably does, but this article is just whataboutery and seems very biased.
NikkiJax May 17, 2023 - 3:24 pm
Every article is the hate for Joe and Melissa is ridiculous on here.
Jamie Velazquez May 17, 2023 - 10:59 pm
Agree
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 3:13 am
I disagree! Nice job AATRH! It's alot of work to run a blog and you know how to get the info out about these messy Gorgas. Keep it up. Tonight is a testament to all your years of dedication coming to fruition! You're trending on Twitter!
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 3:14 am
Don't forget to send your invoice in the am! Andy will see this and finally fire Joe & Melissa. We need a more family friendly show.
Bravodude420 May 18, 2023 - 6:57 am
You also get the award for one of the dumbest comments on the Internet.
Jshappyday May 18, 2023 - 12:28 pm
It is easy to skip articles you don’t like. Also, everyone complaining, there are other blogs that hate on Teresa and her daughters 24/7 and Kiss Joe and Melissa feet every day so you can try there if you hate this site so much. Or just skip the articles you don’t like or comment but keep the personal attacks to a minimum. Everyone needs to do that all around. This blog has been here for 10+ years and only now are Melissa fan base having issues daily. Anyone can do their own work to start their own Blog or Podcast at anytime and if you want to make it a love fest to just Joe Gorga every day or any HW, that is your right as a blog is Opinions. But everyone is free to post, Melissa fans too, just let’s not attack each other on here.
Que Sera May 18, 2023 - 9:21 pm
"Kiss Joe and Melissa feet every day..." is where you lose credibility. I have never seen a site like that. Even on RB there is only one out of hundreds of comments on some articles that say, "I like Melissa".
Angela May 22, 2023 - 9:12 am
How is this an attack? I don’t want to live in an echo chamber and only read articles with people who think like me. I’m not a dictator. I never said I was a Melissa fan. I can take her or leave her. I find Teresa viscerally horrible, that’s true, and I still think that Joe Gorga being a caveman doesn’t negate Louie coming off as a psychopath, in my view.
Que Sera May 23, 2023 - 7:12 pm
Ditto. They just need to advertise the site as "A Blog for Teresa Guidice" and avoid the confusion for people who come here thinking it is a site with articles (not blogs) about RH!
Que Sera May 22, 2023 - 5:44 pm
So are you Lara or otherwise involved? Do you and several others want to attract RH fans or only Teresa fans? If it is only Teresa fans as it appears over and over plus what you just said then just say it up front. I thought sites with articles or in this case, blogs as it turns out, wanted readers. Apparently others think so and obviously there is a demand for RH gossip sites. Somehow there must be a way to head off realistic criticisms about the bias so people know what it is about before they read the article. Another option is to just get rid of the Disquis commenting portion. PS Assuming those who want Teresa gone because they hope the show is salvaged want a "love fest to just Joe Gorga every day" or are part of a "Melissa fan base" shows you are totally not getting it. People who are extremist fans of Teresa are mistakenly assuming that anyone who criticizes Teresa because she ruins the show aren't automatically Melissa fans. My well meaning advice is to just put it out there up front this is a Teresa fan based blog. You did say it will all change to BH once NJ is done but at the time I wondered if it will be so personally nasty or do you get different people?
Hilda Quezada May 17, 2023 - 12:56 pm
Baby Joey is the biggest jerk since day 1. He wants to be the main character in the show. His characters in the show James Bond Sexiest best husband best dad best uncle best brother best son best friend best business man best poison best pizza maker best contracter best brothernlaw
September24 May 17, 2023 - 1:56 pm
best fame wh*re...LOL!
JMMW May 17, 2023 - 5:10 pm
Forget Johnny, the best Tarzan…lol.
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 3:19 am
Reminds me of that blog fameWhorgas? That was another one that showed us who the real Gorgas were.
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 3:16 am
I think he's living in a fantasy world. He is such a sad angry, broke, little man. Melissa needs all this to save her for having to spend all her hours holding up Joe's pathetic ?go. Fire Joe & Melissa Gorga. RHONJ is better without their toxicity.
book7175 May 17, 2023 - 11:30 am
Wow, this is like Twilight Zone stuff. Who wrote this Lobster Louie?
Que Sera May 17, 2023 - 4:08 pm
They could do one on the sister with the same thing regarding her brother, sister-in-law and past and present co-workers.
Bravo Bravo Bravo May 17, 2023 - 10:21 am
Lara Sophia - you are a terrible writer. You are a tree huger - learn to be bias.... Ugh, anything you write - I know what it will say before I even start.
Que Sera May 17, 2023 - 10:38 am
When I complained a little for a similar reason, I was informed this was just a blog, not supposed to be journalism and therefore an opinion. ?? I think they should do one of these on how Teresa or Jennifer Aydin talk to their co-workers. Ha! (Not really.)
SU May 17, 2023 - 5:29 pm
See comment above to B/B/B, same goes for you. Since you have so much to say on almost every blog and every comment, perhaps start your own site and watch the criticism fly in at your direction and see how you like it. Give you opinion but don't insult others trying to do their job. Have some respect.
Bravodude420 May 17, 2023 - 6:12 pm
Respect? Its freedom Of speech. She is a complete, one-sided biased author. She’s like CNN.
SU May 17, 2023 - 6:27 pm
Yes it is freedom and If you don't like the way it is written or the articles on the site...find another blog to read that you do agree with! Don't insult the writer if you don't agree with their views.
Que Sera May 17, 2023 - 6:27 pm
What comment above? I commented a while back politely that there were errors. In fact they contradicted the things the writer quoted but I didn't even point that out. I was told by a commenter that it was an opinion blog and not an article. Okay. I realize it so I was trying to give the person that strongly complained (not nearly as polite as I did by the way) a heads up not to expect anything different because it is an opinion/blog. Period. Note I didn't even upvote their comment! I do have respect in spite of the fact that I read all the info in the "About Us" button and it doesn't seem to follow some of the articles but so be it. It was my opinion and it was respectful. Maybe the info in "About Us" needs to be updated. Are you the writer? Here is my respectful opinion: If the basic rules of journalism along with the site's own rules were followed, there wouldn't be complaining plus there would be a whole lot more comments! You are complaining about me commenting with "Since you have so much to say on almost every blog and every comment...." , which isn't even close to true. I've had 3 people get personal because I made far milder comments about Teresa or Jennifer or Luis than many other people have about others on the show . In fact, like you just suggested, they don't want me to comment!!! What kind of site is this that doesn't want people to read and comment?
Jshappyday May 18, 2023 - 1:16 pm
Blogs do have opinions. Every blog site, every one.
Que Sera May 18, 2023 - 1:29 pm
Yes. I'm used to articles where the writers don't blatantly let their biased opinions render the article not even close to factual. What's wrong with presenting facts and throwing in opinions on the side so readers know which is which? I don't intentionally read blogs that are nothing but opinions. I assumed the site's articles were more or less factual but I was wrong. Like I said, I got it. I just had to lower my standards. Ha!
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 3:31 am
It's like they attack the blog but don't have the dedication to start their own. But thanks bots for making AATRH trend on Twitter tonight. Y'all did the blog a huge favor!
I'm Not Batman May 17, 2023 - 3:19 pm
TEN YEARS of baby Joey trashing women. Whatever troll.
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 3:29 am
He's a misogynist. I've said it from day 1. Losing him and Melissa Gorga will be losing the dead weight that dragged this show down for years.
NikkiJax May 17, 2023 - 3:25 pm
I totally agree, she never mentions anything negative about Teresa or Luis only the Gorga's
Que Sera May 17, 2023 - 4:10 pm
Unbiased in the future (maybe). She is bias now.
Jshappyday May 18, 2023 - 1:36 pm
Blogs are supposed to be biased, it is their own opinionated view. Same with Reality Tea writers opinionated view write ups, and Reality Blurb opinionated view write up, and All About The Tea… they each write a recap from their own viewpoint which is why they are all different. Reality Tea writers do not like Melissa and Marge so their write up comes off differently than Reality Blurb way biased all in for team Marge, Melissa and Jackie for instance so that is how the recaps and blogs are opinionated. Even on the reporting RB does not carry many of the court ordered lawsuit stories for Marge or Melissa and Joe, while they will run press releases by people who are “threatening” to file a lawsuit ( that is not even a legal document, it’s nothing actually, but threats) against Danielle, that was the whole headline last week, not an actual lawsuit, a company “threatening” to sue and the media having no research if they even had legal grounds to sue? Unlike for Marge and Joe, those were already court ordered lawsuits, one for Marge for mortgage fraud basically. So their blog is biased blasting press releases against Danielle that have zero legal culpability, she has not been charged or sued for anything but the site put her on blast. That is their bias. Would they have done that to Melissa?
Que Sera May 18, 2023 - 2:25 pm
You are commenting on me correcting someone's spelling error by the way! And yes, I realize that. It starts with choosing WHAT to report.
SU May 17, 2023 - 5:26 pm
Don't insult someone doing there job. If you don't like it, fair enough, but to tell someone they are terrible at their employment is completely out of line. Given your lack of understanding of the English language (see definition of bias/un-biased opinions in the future), you should be the last one to criticize.
Bravodude420 May 17, 2023 - 6:13 pm
Look at you hypocrite. After you made your holier than thou statement, you then turned your hat and criticize them for the lack of understanding of the English language? Get over yourself
SU May 17, 2023 - 6:45 pm
I am well over myself and people like you for that matter. I always appreciate people who try and defend the undefendable for their comments and actions towards others (that's sarcasm if you are not familiar with it). Imagine someone walking into your place of employment and insulting the way you go about your job.
Bravodude420 May 17, 2023 - 9:28 pm
Its their* job. And you just had the audacity to talk to Luis about the English language. You must be affiliated with this website you loser
Que Sera May 17, 2023 - 7:05 pm
By the way, it is "their job", not "there job".
Nurse Lina Tano May 18, 2023 - 3:27 am
That's so unfair. Are you are so blinded by your inanity that you don't have any ethics or human decency? Leave Lara alone. Hopefully i get to host the party when the Gorgas are finally gone. The show will be so much better for it.
holy cannoli May 17, 2023 - 9:48 am
This- all of This??
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