RHONY Reunion: The Ladies Address Claims of ‘Gaslighting,’ Cheating and Playing the Victim

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The drama heats up at the RHONY season 14 reunion as shocking accusations of “gaslighting,” cheating, and playing the victim emerge.

On Sunday, part one of the Real Housewives of New York season 14 reunion aired on Bravo, and no one was safe from landing in the hot seat.

As Erin Lichy opened up about her new business venture with Million Dollar Listing alum Fredrik Elkland, Ubah Hassan called out Jenna Lyons for being disingenuous.

“I think TV Jenna is ‘poor me,’ victim, ‘I’m old, I’m this,’ and the real Jenna is [a] powerhouse,” the Ubah Hot founder said, leaving the former J.Crew CEO speechless.

“I mean, I don’t even know what to say,” a stunned Jenna admitted. “I think it’s a lot different having cameras watching you. Having vulnerability and being powerful … can exist together. I’m not in a power situation in this dynamic at all.”

Ubah Hassan accuses Jenna Lyons of playing a "victim" on TV.
Ubah Hassan accuses Jenna Lyons of playing a “victim” on TV.

Ubah didn’t stop there. She then claimed Jenna was “nowhere to be found” every time there was drama and a Housewife was “yelling or something.”

“[Jenna tends to] avoid a lot of things,” Ubah continued.

 When Jenna explained that she wasn’t “excited” about “weighing in on someone else,” Ubah pointed out that she had a lot to say behind the scenes.

The focus then shifted to Erin’s friendship with Sai de Silva and where it stood at this moment in time.

 RHONY reunion host Andy Cohen asked Erin how she felt about Sai’s hurtful comments about her shakshuka and cheese.

“Honestly, I have no idea what happened to her. Something like switched,” Erin said of Sai, who jumped in, claiming Erin was a liar.

Brynn Whitfield threatens to "put people in the funeral home" in the dramatic RHONY reunion trailer.
Brynn Whitfield threatens to “put people in the funeral home” in the dramatic RHONY reunion trailer.

Sai took issue with Erin, saying that she complained about the cheese being served at her party when she didn’t.

“I never came to your house and said that. Never,” Sai said. “Ubah was there, Jessel was there, I brought you a nice bottle of champagne. We were there to have a good time. I was the only person eating the cheese, actually. Stop insinuating this story that I’m a rude person who came to your house and complained.”

Erin Lichy reacts to being called a "sh-t stirrer" at the RHONY reunion.
Erin Lichy reacts to being called a “sh-t stirrer” at the RHONY reunion.

Erin admitted she “misconstrued” Sai’s comments and didn’t relay the events “accurately.”

“I don’t think Erin’s rude. I think she’s polite. She’s elegant. She’s nice, but I think she’s a s—-stirrer,” Ubah added. “And she gaslights. I think she gaslights.”

“One hundred percent,” Sai agreed. 

RHONY stars Sai De Silva, Ubah Hassan, Erin Lichy, Jenna Lyons, Jessel Taank, and Brynn Whitfield face off at season 14 reunion.
RHONY stars Sai De Silva, Ubah Hassan, Erin Lichy, Jenna Lyons, Jessel Taank, and Brynn Whitfield face off at the season 14 reunion.

Later on in the reunion, Erin and Sai found themselves in the hot seat yet again when Jessel Taank called them out for talking about her marriage to her husband, Pavit Randhawa, in a “disgusting f—ing way.”

Sai insisted that she never talked badly about Jessel’s marriage and merely said it’s “sexless.”

However, Jessel didn’t agree and stated that both Erin and Sai implied that her husband would cheat on her during his trip to Vietnam.

Erin denied that she “insinuated” that Jessel’s husband cheated on her, to which Jessel fired back, “Did you watch the show Erin? Did you watch it with a f—ing blindfold over your face?”

Ubah Hassan gets emotional at RHONY reunion over "nobody having my back" during fight with Erin Lichy.
Ubah Hassan gets emotional at the RHONY reunion over “nobody having my back” during a fight with Erin Lichy.

The fashion public relationship expert then accused Erin of spreading rumors about why her husband, Pavit, doesn’t wear his wedding band. This all turned out to be a misunderstanding, as Brynn Whitfield incorrectly relayed the message. Erin noted that her own husband, Abe Lichy, doesn’t wear his wedding band often, which is why she didn’t want to bring up the topic on camera.

Afterward, Jessel turned her sights onto Sai, who explained why she believed Jessel and Pavit lied about having sex on their staycation.

Jessel Taank confronts Erin Lichy at Real Housewives of New York reunion
Jessel Taank confronts Erin Lichy at the Real Housewives of New York reunion

“You know what, it’s none of my business,” Sai replied. “I’m sorry. I shouldn’t comment on anyone’s marriage but my own. From the outside looking in, it just doesn’t feel like you have a connection, but that is your relationship, and I can’t justify your relationship at all.”

Jessel said, “No one deserves to comment on my marriage, and especially not in a negative way,” even when it comes to the sex drought she and Pavit faced in their marriage following the birth of their twin sons.

Sai de Silva denies bashing Jessel Taank's marriage throughout season 14.
Sai de Silva denies bashing Jessel Taank’s marriage throughout season 14.

“And also, I was talking about postpartum. You understand when you have babies, when you have four years of IVF, it’s OK. It’s OK to have these struggles,” Jessel explained to Erin and Sai, who both continued to deny her claims. “It’s fine. It’s normal. You both implied my husband is cheating on me because I’m not having sex with him.”

The Real Housewives of New York City reunion part 2 airs Oct. 28 at 9 p.m. ET on Bravo.

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