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Danielle Staub Says She Has ‘No Respect’ for Andy Cohen After ‘Over a Decade’ of ‘Pain’ Plus, Slams Andy for ‘Drugs and Partying’

Danielle Staub is coming for Andy Cohen, and she’s not holding back at all.

The former Real Housewives of New Jersey star sounds sounding off on the Big Daddy of Bravo in a major way.

On the August 26 episode of the Absolutely Danielle podcast, initially titled “The One We Call Daddy” and later changed to “The Last To Know,” Danielle details the pain Andy allegedly caused her and her daughters over the past decade.

Just after the episode went live, Danielle took to Instagram and gave fans a taste of what she had to say about Andy.

“No Pause… let’s get to it! This week on @absolutelydanielle_podcast, I finally open up about @bravoandy,” Danielle began. I am no longer forced to walk into the Lion’s Den! Andy kept me In the dark long enough! He has taken what’s mine and given it to others! Now that you are a parent I’d hoped you would see some of the pain you caused my family, even when I left the show to protect my young children, you mocked me repeatedly defaming me and yet I still continued to give you over a decade to do right by me and mine! Now it’s time you understand that “for every action, there is a reaction.” You must’ve seen this coming, and YOU know you were wrong, yet you continued.”

“So for all the times you held me down and picked me apart instead of building me up and standing with me, for all the times you made me stand-alone “kept me in the dark”, may you tread lightly in your own darkness. “For letting me be the last to know,” may you learn to do better. May you and yours never experience the pain you’ve caused my children and I. Take it or leave it, but my [advice] is You should lead by example bc many have put you on a pedestal they watch you and wait for you to lead, where they may follow. And follow they have they Follow your lead and mirror your behavior. I should know because the way you’ve treated me is duplicated and reflected by your fans. I’ve been waiting for you to revere me, I’ve even gone as far as to ask you to be kinder and more gentle with me, but it fell on deaf ears. No more waiting or asking, I have no hate, no more respect I don’t honor you, and I won’t defend you,” Danielle continued.

She added, “But I will advise: ‘be careful who’s toes you step on today because they may be attached to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow.’”

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No Pause…let’s get to it! This week on @absolutelydanielle_podcast I finally open up about @bravoandy I am no longer forced to walk into the Lions Den! Andy kept me In the dark long enough! He has taken whats mine and given it to others! Now that you are a parent I’d hoped you would see some of the pain you caused my family, even when I left the show to protect my young children, you mocked me repeatedly defaming me and yet I still continued to give you over a decade to do right by me and mine! Now it’s time you understand that “for every action there is a reaction.” You must’ve seen this coming and YOU know you were wrong, yet you continued. So for all the times you held me down and picked me apart instead of building me up and standing with me, for all the times you made me stand alone “kept me in the dark”, may you tread lightly in your own darkness. “For letting me be the last to know” may you learn to do better. May you and yours never experience the pain you’ve caused my children and I. Take it or leave it, but my advise is You should lead by example bc many have put you on a pedestal they watch you and wait for you to lead, where they may follow . And follow they have they Follow your lead and mirror your behavior. I should know because the way you’ve treated me is duplicated and reflected by your fans. I’ve been waiting for you to revere me, I’ve even gone as far as to ask you to be kinder and more gentle with me but it fell on deaf ears. No more waiting or asking, i have no hate no more respect I don’t honor you and I won’t defend you. But I will advise: “ be careful who’s toes you step on today because they may be attached to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow” thank you everyone for tuning in to a Absolutely Danielle my podcast episodes drop every #Wednesday please be sure to tune in from @spotify @applepodcasts or whatever you listen. #absolutelydanielle #absolutelydaniellepodcast #spotify #podcast #apple #rhonj #og #bravotv #thelasttoknow @strawhutmedia #strawhutmedia #loveyourself #standup #standtogether #lionsden #firsttoknow #reality #realitycheck

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Meanwhile, on her podcast, Danielle took a shot at Andy’s parenting and warned that she hopes Andy is ready for his son, Benjamin Allen Cohen, to find out who he is one day.

Danielle started off claiming that she doesn’t want to show Andy hate because she doesn’t think she truly hates him but goes on to say she hates “everything he’s done to me.”

She then claims she used to “beg” Andy to “look at me as a mother” and see what the drama on RHONJ was doing to her kids. She said despite her pleas, Andy “didn’t care” and was “too busy getting his head getting blown up.”

“No other Housewife, no other show in the franchise, will ever call him out the way I’m going to because I’m calling him out for the right reasons. I’m not using him to get you to listen,” Danielle said.

The podcast then took a turn, and Danielle started going off on Andy’s parenting.

“Is Andy ready for his son to know who he is? Because the Andy I know would hit up Grindr and go on three or four Grindr dates an evening,” Danielle threatened.

“And these are people who are pretty reputable sources, I don’t, I don’t even want to talk about the drugs and the partying, not now anyway, but we can get back to that. I can accuse him all I want, and I’m not talking about marijuana. I’m not talking about legalizing,” she continued. “I’m talking about like things that I’ve been accused of doing, and he allowed to happen while he was doing the same things that he was accusing me of, or allowing other people to accuse me of.”

She then wondered, “Is this really a spokesperson? Or is this really someone spiraling until ‘Oh my god. You found Jesus?”

“Good luck now explaining this to your kids. Just good luck because if I had a choice, if I had good parents like his, I would have made different decisions. I’m not saying you’re immune to it when you have wonderful parents because everybody grows up differently, but I’m saying I didn’t stand a chance. He could have given me a chance, but he didn’t,” the RHONJ villain declared.

“I gave him over a decade, be he just, he didn’t want the truth,” she concluded. “But, now, you’re gonna have to look at it from my perspective, Andy. And, you being the last to know is on you now. Good luck.”

The Real Housewives of New Jersey will return to Bravo in late 2020 or early 2021.

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