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Vicki Gunvalson Accuses Kelly Dodd of Playing the “Victim;” Says She Didn’t Break Girl Code

Vicki Gunvalson says she didn’t break girl code when she set Kelly Dodd‘s ex-husband up with one of her friends.

However, Kelly doesn’t agree and recently revealed that Vicki’s actions permanently fractured their friendship.

Now, Vicki is taking aim at Kelly’s parenting and her decision to involve her daughter in adult drama. Vicki also accuses Kelly of playing the victim and pretending to be upset that she set up Michael.

On Monday’s episode of RHOC Kelly discussed her fight with Vicki with her daughter Jolie. And in her latest Bravo blog, Vicki reveals she found this conversation unsettling.

“First of all, for Kelly to be involving her 11-year-old daughter in OUR disagreement is wrong. In my opinion, Kelly should NOT be asking Jolie for any input in this matter, NOR does Jolie know the entire truth of her father’s dating life,” Vicki explained.

Vicki then accuses Kelly of pretending to be upset that she and Steve went on a double date with Michael and his new girlfriend.

“I am close with Kelly, however, I won’t tolerate her yelling at me like I’m her child. I truly believe she is overacting to create sympathy and drama for herself. I don’t get it. Kelly has been dating several men for many months and IS the one who wanted the divorce.”

Oddly enough, Vicki then attempts to downplay her friendship with Kelly and claims she’s closer to Michael due to his good friendship with Steve.

“To get you up to speed, Michael and Steve became very good friends a few years ago, and Steve and I hang out with Michael more than we do Kelly. During the holidays, we saw Michael quite often, and he hung out with our families while Kelly was out of town with Jolie and even came over for Thanksgiving,” Vicki explained. “I very rarely heard from Kelly during the holidays and didn’t really think it was my place to tell her that her husband was dating someone. Michael was interested in meeting one of my VERY dear friends and wanted us to introduce them.”

As for claims she broke girl code Vicki says she honored it just not with Kelly.

“I was asked by both Michael and my longtime friend Teri to NOT tell Kelly they were dating and for me no not get involved. This is where the GIRL CODE began as I honored my friend Teri’s request,” Vicki revealed. “Teri and Kelly both live in the Newport Beach area, and it was NOT my place to tell Kelly who he was dating.”

Vicki then accuses Kelly of playing the victim all for the sake of creating drama.

“Furthermore, Kelly told me numerous times that she “wished he would date” and that “she was over him,” so I never ever thought she would be upset. Kelly had been dating numerous men for months at this time, so I did not think it was my place to let her know her husband was dating. I really was respecting my girlfriend Teri’s wishes, as well as Michael’s. Teri surely did not want to deal with Kelly’s potential backlash, so I honored her request. That’s it. The tears and screaming that Kelly demonstrated was nothing more than drama and acting like a victim. She doesn’t want Michael dating, but she can? It doesn’t make sense to me. It’s like she wants her cake and eat it too.”

Meanwhile, Vicki also discussed her drama with Kelly on Monday’s episode of WWHL! Check out the clip below to see what Vicki had to say!

Thoughts on Vicki blog? Is Kelly playing the victim? Is Kelly right to be pissed at Vicki? Is it odd Vicki is downplaying her friendship with Kelly? Did Vicki betray Kelly after Kelly stood by Vicki time and time again? Sound off below!

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