If there’s anything I learned from the last episode of RHONY it’s to wear a red scarf if I ever decide to speed date.
We saw the mysterious ‘red scarf guy’ be cornered by Ramona, a supposed match for Carole however was really only interested in Bethenny the entire time. In the end it seemed that Carole was annoyed that she never got a chance with him; however Bethenny claims she actually tried to set the two up.
‘It takes guts to be open, and I really tried to engage as much as possible. It was so funny running into Brian, AKA “red scarf.” From what little I know, I thought he was a super nice guy who I texted later that PM to set up with Carole.
He is a pursuer and the guy who texts you after one date to say he will take care of you when you’re sick. When you meet someone, you’re also weeding them out for your friends. I thought it was very endearing that he was so honest about coming there to see me. That was sweet and takes courage also. Who knows? Maybe I think I’m open but actually not really. My entire life revolves around Bryn and during the time I’m not with her is when I jam all of my business in with a scramble to cover grays and get a manicure.
Dating is brutal. At this age, I do find that dating online or with a matchmaker is probably wise, but I really dread it. I love stories, fate, and the moment. I love happenstance. I am a hopeful romantic who would love to be in a great partnership but would rather be alone than feel alone in a relationship. I am fortunate to have a beautiful daughter, financial means, and an incredible career, so anyone I date is simply for that connection and sharing. Who knows how my story ends? Xoxo’
Personally I don’t know what all the fuss was about ‘red scarf guy’ but it did seems like slim pickings from what we saw. I have a feeling this won’t be the last we hear of this eligible bachelor this season so stay tuned!