Sonja Morgan and Ramona Singer’s friendship has always been a rollercoaster of ups and downs and twists and turns throughout their time together on the Real Housewives of New York.
But during last week’s episode of RHONY, their friendship hit a wall and there may be no turning back.
Sonja told fans that her friendship with Ramona was over for good.
“I’m done,” Sonja revealed. “I’ve benched her before, and it didn’t work. I always take her back. This is the kiss of death. Hasta la vista!”
The kiss of death turned out to be a nasty text message Sonja sent Ramona that called her out for being a bad friend.
“‘You’re a bitch, Ramona,’ ” Ramona read, quoting Morgan. “‘You never stand up for me. You cannot compare each other’s pain. Period. You could have cleared it up because you know the truth. You know I never cheated on my husband. I loved him and then could not stay with him. It was extremely difficult on me and you did nothing to diffuse it at brunch as usual.”
“‘You have no limits? Friendship means nothing to you? You need help? I waste my time bonding with you?’ ” Ramona continued, asking Medley, “Really?”
The now infamous text ended with Sonja calling Ramona a “P.O.S.”
The drama started after Ramona refused to shut down Dorinda Medley’s claim that Sonja cheated on her husband while they were married.
“Ramona’s my closest friend. She knows the whole story. She sees I’m obviously in pain. Could she just say, ‘Dorinda, you’re hearing rumors, just say you’re sorry.’ I don’t feel like I have to explain the love I have for my ex and the pain of my loss,” Sonja told viewers in her confessional. “With Ramona, she always wants to put a band-aid on the situation. Apologize, just apologize. Make it go away. It’s like she puts up a wall that says, ‘I’m not getting involved in this. I’m not going there. It’s too dirty, it’s too much.’ It kills me.”
After receiving Sonja’s less than kind text, Ramona questioned if she could be friends with Sonja moving forward.
“Sonja is not 2 years old. I don’t need to defend her,” Ramona said. “I did try to help her. I gave her what I thought my best advice is. She called me an ‘unfeeling P.O.S.’ You know what? I’m not going to say I’m done, but I feel like I can’t relate to her anymore. I can’t make sense of what she says. I feel like she doesn’t listen. I don’t like when people hid behind texts or emails.”
“This is something I never had to deal with,” Ramona continued. “How do you deal with a woman who doesn’t make sense? I mean, I don’t even know who Sonja is anymore. She surely isn’t my friend. She’s not acting like she wants me as a friend, that’s for sure.”
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