Meghan King Edmonds is bidding farewell to the OC!
On Tuesday, Meghan revealed that she will not be returning to the Real Housewives of Orange County for season 13 and instead will be focusing on her growing family. Currently, Meghan and her husband Jimmy Edmonds are expecting twin boys due in June.
In a lengthy blog post, Meghan explained her decision to leave RHOC while reminiscing about her time as a Housewife.
In fact, Meghan insisted that it’s a “bittersweet” to be hanging up her “OC Housewife hat.”
Read Meghan’s full post below!
Today is a bittersweet day for me. After three seasons of the rollercoaster that is The Real Housewives of Orange County, I’ve decided to hang up my OC Housewife hat.
I arrived at this multi-faceted decision after much thought, and then I thought some more. As you might suspect filming this show takes a massive emotional toll: I’m literally filming my real life in real time and engaged in situations and circumstances which can be contentious. Then, when the show airs, we relive some of the most trying moments in our lives and then endure the public’s reaction; we never come out as winners to every viewer. But what you might not suspect is the physical toll: filming is grueling! After my first season I knew what to expect for round two, but even still, filming during IVF and then the beginning of pregnancy during my second season was difficult. I was hormonal and tired all the time. But my third season takes the cake: I had a newborn and had to hire a full-time live-in nanny (my cousin) so as to allow me the flexibility to meet my obligations of continuous days and long hours of filming, traveling, etc. When I was home I was a full time hands-on mom (you didn’t get to see this) doing all the regular mom stuff including waking up at all hours to breast-feed my baby – all while my husband worked his crazy baseball schedule around the US while I was learning how to be a first time mom. Again, I was hormonal and EXHAUSTED. My mind was often foggy as I filmed but I put on a great face and did it because I loved being a Housewife and was so grateful for my opportunity. It was only after the season was filmed that I felt I was finally out of the newborn fog and I could look back on the past few months of season 12 with clarity. I had no idea how exhausted I actually was until I wasn’t exhausted anymore! Season 12 was a real challenge for me.
As I was filming the season 12 reunion I knew in my heart I was done: this wasn’t my place anymore. (The funny thing is that going into the reunion I was so committed to coming back for season 13; just one more season before the twins were born.) I was only 5 weeks pregnant when I filmed the reunion and I was already exhausted. I knew that I was going to have a long pregnancy growing the twins and it would be next to impossible to film. I could do it, but did I really want to? Twin pregnancies must be treated more delicately than a singleton pregnancy and are high-risk by default, so I also wanted to have a peaceful pregnancy with positive influences. Consistent positive influences are harder to find on RHOC!
I’m sad to leave RHOC, I’m sad to leave Orange County. I wasn’t ready to make this decision for another year but I felt it was time now. In October when I told Jimmy I was finished he urged me to take a couple weeks to think on it before I called Andy Cohen. So I did. And then over Thanksgiving Andy and I met up in our shared hometown of St Louis and I told him about our impending twins as well as my intent to leave the show. He was completely understanding. In fact, all of production has been nothing but understanding and supportive of me and my decisions every step of the way. I have only praise for everyone behind the scenes from the tip-top of the totem pole down to the production assistants doing coffee runs for the crew. These people were my family for three years: cleaning up Girly’s Girl’s potty as she got too excited, punching in the code to my front door because I was in the shower, walking around in my robe with wet hair while getting ready to film. One of my fondest memories was after I had done my embryo transfer with what would become Aspen I was laying in bed falling asleep. I’d dozed off and woken up to a camera staring in my face with a camera operator behind it. I remember smiling and feeling comfortable knowing I wasn’t alone. This illustrates the extent to which the staff and crew became an almost constant part of our daily lives, almost like they were part of the family.
And lastly but not least importantly, I wanted to spend more time with my husband during baseball season and more time with my two young step kids who live full-time in St Louis. So Jimmy and I have decided to dig our roots into the mid-west as we begin to build our dream home for our rapidly expanding family. We also continue to focus on K Hall Studio (based in St Louis) and my line, The King Collection.
Finally, I know this is what I must do. I must focus on my family and my pregnancy. I will miss the rush of the first all-cast event of the season, the anticipation of receiving each week’s episode, the thrill of wrapping the reunion. I have made soul sisters in Shannon Beador and Tamra Judge and that can’t be lost. They have touched my heart and I would do anything for them and I know they feel the same way about me – what a gift to have found that on RHOC! But I guess it’s time for me to become an actual real housewife of sorts. Oh, the irony!
While it seems like Meghan chose to walk away from RHOC on her own accord, her exit comes on the heels of rumors that she was on the chopping block for season 13 along with Lydia McLaughlin and Peggy Sulahian.
However, at the time the rumors surfaced Meghan seemed less than fazed about them telling AllAboutTRH, “You never know I guess but if I am fired I wouldn’t miss the darkness and cloudy energy that comes with engaging with people whom you don’t hold in high regard or even respect for that matter.”
Meanwhile, it’s not surprising that Vicki Gunvalson was the first OC Housewife to speak out about Meghan’s departure telling Radar Online, “fine with me. We were never really friends anyway. She was tough to film with.”
Mere months ago, Vicki made it clear she wanted Meghan off “her show,” and it looks like the OG of the OC got exactly what she wanted.
Check out some photos of Meghan’s time on RHOC below!
I’m sad to see Meghan go. I thought it was nice having a younger housewife in the mix who is someone younger housewife fans can relate to. Personally, if Bravo wants to keep the Housewives franchises going, they need to start interjecting younger Housewives, 30+ in age, into the mix so that younger fans can relate. There are so many successful, wealthy younger women with careers in social media, blogging, and YouTube, out there that would be amazing for shows like RHOC. I mean how much longer will Vicki and co be relatable especially to the younger and younger generations.
Are you surprised Meghan is leaving RHOC? Do you think Meghan was fired or chose to leave RHOC? Do you think Vicki played a role in Meghan’s exit from RHOC? Will you miss Meghan?
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