Being a good friend?
During the season 9 premiere of the Real Housewives of New York City, Ramona Singer came under fire from her sometimes good friend Luann de Lesseps for trying to dig up dirt on her fiance Tom D’Agostino.
However, in her latest Bravo blog, Ramona defends her “research” on Tom; claiming that she’s only trying to protect Luann.
Find out what else Ramona has to say below!
This season we see Ramona continue her journey of remodeling her life except now she’s moved on to her kitchen; explaining that she wants her home to reflect how she feels in her life.
“I decided that I wanted a change! I wanted my home to reflect how I am feeling: cool, calm and relaxed. I wanted to move away from the traditional type of aesthetic that I had and move forward to an uncluttered, free-thinking space,” Ramona explains. “I chose to make the apartment more comfortable, adding a huge curved screen TV in my living room, which is something I never had. I love entertaining, and I love being in my new home. I am currently under phase two of this project, so I will keep you all posted! “
Speaking of changes, Ramona also reveals if we will finally see more of her dating life in season 9.
“As far as my dating life, dating is never a problem for me. I meet men all the time and go out a lot, trust me! Now it’s about finding the right man to share the important part of this next part of my life! I really want him to be fun, smart, daring, a go-getter and someone that wants a family commitment as much as I do,” Ramona says.
Then Ramona gets to the good stuff and dishes on the “detective” work she’s been doing on Luann’s fiance.
“I don’t really consider it detective work. I look at it as research to protect my friend. It’s not that I am “interested” in the true definition of interest. It’s more about caring and trying to protect my friend,” Ramona says. “I have come from a place of lies and cheats, and if I can offer up to Luann details or information so she can make the best choices for her, why not? I would hope that someone would do that for me. “
To wrap things up Ramona opens up about her lunch with Luann; admitting that she’s hurt she wasn’t invited to the bridal shower and questions how Luann could not have included her.
“As far as not being included or invited? To her bridal shower, yes, of course, it bothered me,” Ramona reveals. “Not sure totally how she couldn’t have included me, as we do have a 10-year friendship together. We may have had our ups and downs through the years, but at this point sometimes you have to look past the past! And move forward to the future.”
I totally understand Ramona being upset she wasn’t invited to Luann’s bridal shower or wedding. If ANY of the ladies didn’t invite Luann to their wedding/shower it would be made into a huge deal and she would be so offended at the snub.