Aside from their over the top mansion, Heather’s main storyline on RHOC this season has been Terry and his absence. Despite that someone has to pay for their hotel – I mean new home – Heather feels that Terry is missing out on the children’s childhood and damaging their relationship as well. So how are they doing in the present day?
Speaking with Bravo, Heather states that they are in a better place although it has been baby steps for them:
“Watching Terry struggle with our family dynamic is — you know, I lived it so I saw it there, but then watching it on television does two things for me. First of all, it reminds me how far he’s coming now and, you know, part of it makes me sad.”
“It’s still not always perfect, but I think I have a good balance going on right now, knock on wood. For Terry, going from just a super-busy plastic surgery practice to a super-busy plastic surgery practice plus television shows, and we have a book coming out, and our Consult Beaute skin care line — we have a lot going on. He really does struggle this year about that balance, and usually we talk about that with women but this year it’s really Terry’s issue.”
Heather also added that she feels pressure to hold the family together as Terry is constantly gone saying:
“it’s my job as the glue of the family to make sure that he’s getting that face time with them and that’s a lot of our struggles this year on the show. Terry and I are great. We have a lot of projects together, we get a lot of face time. But when he’s getting home so late, there’s days he just doesn’t even see the kids. You’re really gonna see on the show that the kids feel Terry’s absence. I can be the best mom in the whole world [but] they need their dad.”
I was shocked when Heather and Terry sold their gorgeous home for an ever larger and more extravagant home! I think it’s obvious that this home is being built with Terry’s hard earned money; therefore Heather shouldn’t be surprised when her husband constantly needs to work. On the other hand I agree with Heather that Terry is missing out on a huge part of the children’s lives – you can’t have it both ways! Personally I would rather downgrade and cut back on work; however maybe Terry just loves plastic surgery too much to cut back!
What do you think of the Dubrow’s storyline this season? Do you think Heather should cut Terry slack since he provides their amazing lifestyle, or should Terry cut back to spend more time with his family?
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