We have yet to see a lot of positives in Kandi Burruss’ life when it comes to love, but now that she’s met Todd Tucker, Kandi shares how she feels her and Todd are a force, and she even reveals that he motivates her. Speaking to Ebony, Kandi talks about how she lacked confidence when it came to marriage and says she couldn’t wait to grow up and have kids!
“I’ll be honest: both of my parents have been married multiple times. With that being said, I never really had confidence in marriage. I felt like, if you can get married and divorced so easily, ain’t that just like going together? I used to grow up and say that I couldn’t wait to grow up and have kids, but not that I couldn’t wait to grow up and get married. I knew other girls who knew exactly when they wanted to get married and what their dress would look like. That wasn’t me.”
So what made Kandi change her mind? She says,
“I think love changes things. And as I got older, I wanted a teammate to spend the rest of my life with. Todd and I are a force. We’re able to do things together that I probably wouldn’t have even thought about. He pushes me. He motivates me. I just love us, us. And at a certain point in your life, you don’t just want someone who you go with. You really want to be in it together. It’s a different type of commitment. You can’t just walk away from it.”
Thoughts on what Kandi had to say? Do you think her marriage to Todd will last?