Video: Gretchen Rossi Reveals Her And Alexis Bellino No Longer Communicate!

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RHOC star Gretchen Rossi updates viewers on her friendship with Alexis Bellino and reveals that they no longer communicate and haven’t spoken since the reunion! Gretchen also has a few things to say about Alexis claiming she was getting bullied! Check it out after the jump

I think it’s sad the two are no longer friends mainly because they have been friends and stopped for no good reason. Do you think the two will ever be able to move forward? Who do you think is the problem? Gretchen or Alexis?

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  1. Steph says:

    As much as I like Gretchen, I have to say its her fault. If she was a true friend to Alexis she wouldn’t have been that hard on her. I agree that Alexis seems fake, but Gretchen could have approached her in a kinder way about it.

    • Brownie says:

      I too was a huge Gretchen fan from Gretchen’s first appearance on the show but the change in her this season has completely turned me off on her. Gretchen and the other women can deny till the cows come home that they weren’t bulling Alexis but the fact is they were. If Gretchen had been a true friend she wouldn’t have stepped in and bullied Alexi when all the other women ganged up at her during that dinner. Use your brains ladies, would you have gone to the dinner knowing that you were going to be confronted and bullied by the women during dinner? No I highly doubt anyone would want to be bullied and ganged up on during a dinner. I honestly believe that Gretchen flat out lied and didn’t warn Alexis. If Gretchen can lie so openly about her extensions and her lips, what else will she lie about? I know that I personally wouldn’t have cared if Gretchen had that stuff done and I doubt many other women would have had a problem with it so why did Gretchen lie about it? I’ve been bullied for almost 3 years so I know what bullying is and beyond a shadow of doubt Alexis Belino was a victim of some heavy duty bullying this season. Heather definitely was influenced also by I believe Tamara from day one about Alexis. Remember in the very beginning Tamara made some mean remarks about Alexis.

      • Say What?? says:

        Im late because i had to catch up on the reunion but you sk whos to blame Gretchen or Alexis.. I believe Tamra is to blame. She chose to bring Gretchen into her circle and use her against Alexis. She manipulted that situation. Tamra will get hers though. They will turn on her soon enough!

    • rj says:

      I’m watching the new RHOC – Gretchen’s lips look awful. Not even proportionate to her face. And what happened to her eyes, or her cheeks. I can’t believe how bad she looks this year. She was so pretty and now, just awful. So disappointed, wow!

    • rj says:

      Funny how gretchen and tamara hated each other not long ago, now they are saying such snide remarks and being bullies…yes, they are bullies, big time! disgusting

      • rj says:

        Vickie was right about one thing when she said Gretchen in stupid, she really is…gretchen is stupid LOL OMG, very stupid, just being a co-signer for Tamara

    • rj says:

      Tamara is ridiculous…wow, what a psycho. Heather and Gretchen are such followers.

      • rj says:

        Heather you are such an idiot….the more you try to come across as being ‘smart’ the dumber you look. What a horrible role model for your children….and Tamara, i can only pray your children are living with Simon and can never watch this show. You are truly a mean spirited woman, deep down inside, i only hope Eddie sees it before it’s too late. Gretchen…well you’re just a prop for Tamara, only time until you 2 are back at it. Again, the 3 of you comin’ after Alexis…niiiice. And i’m not even an Alexis fan but wow, low class at it’s best, keep it up girls! :)

  2. Sammy says:

    I’m sorry but I don’t feel like Alexis was bullied…I feel like she made it in to a lot bigger deal than it was!

    • michers says:

      Sammy I feel the same. I hate that Alexis throws that term around so loosely on a trip when there are people who killed themselves because of it.

    • Brownie says:

      What we watched this season and if you do any research on bullying, this whole season from the beginning was what is known as Pack Mentality Bullying. The women can kid themselves and lie to themselves as much as they want but it was Pack Mentality and they ganged up on Alexis and made life hell for her this season. Just the expressions on some of their faces said enough without words like the expressions on Tamara, Heather and during the reunion Gretchen. I’ve lost all respect I had for Gretchen and I was a huge fan of hers. It really makes me sad to see the horrible change in her.

      • michers says:

        Brownie, I will check that info out. However, if you or anyone else thinks or believes that, then I would guess that every show pretty much condones bullying. These are grown women, not children, At any time if Alexis felt she was literally bullied, or was in any danger, she could have got up and walked away. She could have got a lawyer to fight her Bravo contract. Do not forget, she was the ringleader in “bullying” Vicki on a trip last year. Alexis had no problems running her mouth at Peggy, Tamra, or Vicki before and had no problems blasting Gretchen’s secrets. Im just saying that that term should not be thrown around loosely especially when a ” rich ” chick from the OC gets called out on some behaviors. It peeves me to no end, as I have witnessed children being bullied at bus stops, in the schools, and neighborhoods. What I have witnessed and what she went through are different- my opinion on that :) . Also( sorry to keep going) Im noticing now when people get the tides turned on them , they say they were bullied on these shows. Look at Teresa g!! way worse, and never once, I do not believe, said she was bullied!

        • donnalee says:

          this is what I found about bullying! Verbal bullying is saying or writing mean things. Verbal bullying includes:
          Teasing
          Name-calling
          Inappropriate sexual comments
          Taunting
          Threatening to cause harm
          Social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social bullying includes:
          Leaving someone out on purpose
          Telling others not to be friends with someone
          Spreading rumors about someone
          Embarrassing someone in public
          Physical bullying involves hurting a person’s body or possessions. Physical bullying includes:
          Hitting/kicking/pinching
          Spitting
          Tripping/pushing
          Taking or breaking someone’s things
          Making mean or rude hand gestures

          No where does that describe anything that was done to Alexis. They simply told her about herself which was all true.

        • Srt_3 says:

          Nice post, Michers…..

        • T says:

          Perfect post Michers!

      • Lauren T says:

        I completely agree with you with the pack mentality. Perfect example of this was Heather’s Party.

        • Copy That says:

          Does everyone have alzheimers on this site? What, pray tell, was Alexis doing to Vicki in San Francisco? What about Alexis retweeting the vile things said about the other ladies online? How about the fact she NEVER shuts up during an argument with someone to let the other side talk? What about Jim’s website set up for nothing more than to talk all kinds of smack about the other women. Give me a break. Besides, the othre ladies are right…stop bragging about your money, its annoying, classless and just icky. Truth hurts.

          • michers says:

            Thk you, see my post above! Not that I do not respect Brownie, I do :) I do not respect what Alexis does in regarding her claims to bullying.

  3. JS says:

    Gretchen has openly lied to sell her makeup. I have lost all respect for her.

    • the 1keke says:

      How did she lie!?

      I use to really like Gretchen but she is being pretty mean to Lex not that she is friends with Tamera! Its so crazy 2 watch because Tamera use to be so evil to Gretchen!

      • michers says:

        I think Tamra and Gretchen were evil to each other before becoming friends.

      • LJ says:

        Gretchen was asked several times whether she had her lips done platic surgery/ botox wise. Every time she said NO. Andy even asked her on WWHL and again she said no. Even went as far as saying her lips were bigger because of her lip plumpling product by Gretchen Christine. She’s also said she doesnt have hair extensions. Well Alexis called her out on it. Gretchen did have her lips done by a doctor. When she claimed her products were responsible for the changes she lied and falsly endorsed them. No matter how much I used to like her I cannot like someone who would lie to veiwers just to sell more products.

        • michers says:

          Good point!! Why are more and more people on these shows becoming fibbers??

          • JS says:

            I am surprised she still has it for sale on her web site. The description is laughable.

          • LJ says:

            Idk Michers!!! It blows my mind why she’d lie about it. But what really made her sink to an all time low was trying to use it to endorse her products! Thats just shady and low in my opinion! Why lie if you arent a phony? Own that shit!!!

        • Brownie says:

          Great point and if she will lie about things that in my opinion are no big deal what else will she lie about? I’m starting to look at all those questions and her answers from previous seasons with a completely different view now. Maybe Gretchen has lied about everything. At least Alexis owns up to everything and is honest from what I’ve seen.

          • LJ says:

            Brownie Im w/ ya on this one! I used to love Gretchen! She has zero credibility w/ me now! Im questioning everythings she said now and as much as I despise Tamra I now believe she’s been telling the truth!

          • Teddy bear doctor says:

            I think she had her boobs done too. Remember she kept saying it was due to her push up bras. BS

  4. Natalie says:

    Gretchen’s fault. I don’t always agree with my friends, but I would never call them out in front of their enemy (Tamra). I think Gretchen doesn’t need Alexis anymore since she has a new BFF, and has treated her like crap.

    • LJ says:

      Exactly Natalie! You nailed it on the head! Its so sad. Im sorry but she should have had her back since Tamra was involved! But since her Tamra were new BFFs she didnt have any reason to!

    • Deb says:

      100% agree with you Natalie. This show has become almost as mean as NJ!!!

  5. Lauren T says:

    I have zero respect for Gretchen. Hopefully Bravo fires her. She lied to viewers, and is a crappy person in general.

    • JS says:

      Yes, she sure did..

      fraud/frôd/
      Noun:
      Wrongful or criminal deception intended to result in financial or personal gain.
      A person or thing intended to deceive others.

      • LJ says:

        Exactly!!! I wonder if she can get in trouble for that? False advertisment? Im glad Alexis called her on it. She desrved it. She’s really gonna agree w/everyone that Alexis is phony yet she lied about her lips, tried to give her lip plumper product credit for it, and lied about extensions in her hair? All for what? Maybe to sell some lip plumper but idk why about the extensions. But Ms.Gretchen isnt that right there phony??? I believe so. Hmmmm… Doesnt this also make you a hypocrite like you’ve been calling Vicky? Again I bleieve so. Maybe heather, tamra, and gretchen should just shut up and stop while they’re ahead! Ganging up and calling out one person for the same shit you do! Sounds a bit phony and hypocritical to me.If the shoe fits…

  6. cammierari says:

    Gretchen is a mystery to me. I have no idea what’s going on with her! Between her and Alexis, I’d rather spend time with Gretchen because Alexis is nauseating.
    The only thing I can fault Gretchen for is lying about her lip enhancement, and saying it’s due to her lip plumping product.
    Seems to me that Gretchen and Jeff had an agreement that she would stay with him and help care for him-but I doubt that it was a romantic thing. I bet Jeff knew that she as having her carnal needs met elsewhere since he was pretty sick, and as long as she was discreet, he was fine with it. In the end, he didn’t leave her his “fortune” so it certainly seems like it wasn’t a “love connection”, but more of a mutually satisfying arrangement. They were both adults so I don’t know why anyone else feels they should judge. Just my own theory-who really knows?

    • pinkie says:

      i absolutely do not judge Gretchen, but over the seasons I have seen her lie more than once, which has changed my mind a bit about her. The friendship with Trampra, has seemed so staged.

  7. LJ says:

    Cannot believe Gretchen has the balls to act like they didnt bully her! Tamra went in to that w/ obvious and clear intent to hurt Alexis! TO MAKE HER FEEL ALIENATED AND LIKE THE OUTCAST!!! They didnt do it to help her! Thats bull shit and Gretchen knows it! She’s trying clean up her end by down playing it and making it look nice! Tamra acted out of malicious intentions w/ the sole purpose to hurt her! If not Tamra never would have said “If not we’ll just kill the bitch” to Heather before hand. I believe Heather did it out of spite and I 100% believe they both enjoyed “calling her out”. This is bullying someone! I was watching reunion re-runs and I watched Alexis stick up for Gretchen to Tamra. This is just disgusting and vile behavior by grown women. Alexis was bullied. No it wasnt severe but any bullying is bad! Props to Alexis for speaking out on it!

    • michers says:

      I think Heather and Gretchen did, but Tamra did not like her, did not try to hide it! Out of everyone, i think Tamra has the most dislike for Alexis. They never really hit it off well, and I do not think they will. Who knows?

      • LJ says:

        I think part of Heather’s heart was in it for the right reasons and the other part enjoyed it. I think gretchen did care in ways but in the end chose the cool girls but tried to minimize her involvment. Completely agree w/ you about Tamra Michers! I know you like her so I really appreciate your honesty! To me I look at it like this- Thats completely okay if Tamra doesnt like Alexis! I get it. Sometimes no matter how hard you try you just dont get along w/ certain people. Thats Tamra’s right and perogitive! However, if you dont like someone, and they are well aware of it, dont go in to a situation like that knowing your gonna come off hostile if your intentions arent to hurt her. In fact agree to disagree and just bew polite to one another! Thats just my veiw and opinion! And I lvoe hearing yours Michers!

        • Daisy says:

          I think Heather had a chip on her shoulders and a score to settle in regards to Alexis. And I’m not saying that Heather didn’t have a right to be miffed at the comments Alexis made about her. However I do think Heather went to far in confronting Alexis on what was suppose to be a vacation and fun. No wife and mother leaves her family, especially with young kids, to go and be with a bunch of mean girls.

          • LJ says:

            You said it perfectly Daisy! I think that because of that score she wanted to settle is why she took it so far!

    • cammierari says:

      I don’t think it was bullying. Heather asked Alexis if they should talk about it, and Alexis agreed to-not in private, but right there, in front of everybody. If at any time Alexis had said, ‘ok girls, I’ve had enough’ I’m pretty sure it would have stopped.
      The only person who took it to another level was Tamra, by getting angry. Prior to that, it was a civil discussion. Tamra has a problem sticking her nose in everyone’s business. I have no idea why she thinks anyone cares what her opinion is of their business!
      Alexis knows she’s a pretentious, snobby, phony. She just didn’t want to get called on it on camera-just as her husband doesn’t want to get called on his shit on camera either, which is why he refuses to film. Unless he is controlling the situation, he refuses to participate. Both of them are shallow, self-centered morons and perfect for each other

    • Brownie says:

      I completely agree, none of those women went into their “sessions” to help Alexis but to hurt her with everything they had. Tamara has a negative effect on everyone she becomes friends with and you can slowly see the person change right before your eyes. They become as mean and vindictive as Tamara is.

  8. FireFly says:

    Of course this wasn’t bullying! It was group therapy . . . BRAVO style!

  9. Jodell24 says:

    sorry Gretchen but the only thing that’s grotesque is the way you lied about Getting your lips done so you could increase your sales of your lip plumper!! That is maliciously deceiving viewers in order to buy your product! That is grotesque behavior… not Alexis doing speaking engagements about bullying! What I think is funny is I believe Alexis is getting a lot of viewers this year mainly because of the way she was treated by those three women! Viewer saw she was being treated like crap and sympathize with her. The other three just look like grotesque mean girls!

    • JS says:

      Looking back now, Tamra used to say Gretchen was a Lier and a fake. Although I am far from a Tamra fan, I wonder how much of what she was saying was true?

      • Daisy says:

        I’m sure there is more that Gretchen is lying about and it’s kind of shady that the reason for her lies is to promote hair and beauty products that deliver specific results. Trouble is those results are not from the use of the products she endorses. I don’t think she’s been all that successful with anything she tries to market. On the other hand, Alexis clothing line has done very well. She can hardly keep things in stock. Not that I’d buy anything but just saying.

        • JS says:

          I didnt even put it together that by endorsing her hair care line, she was infact showing false results if she had extentions! I was just shocked about the lip plumper thing, I hadn’t even thought of the hair. Now i feel Double Lied Too. Ugh.

      • michers says:

        I am a Tam fan, but I enjoy everyone’s perspective! I am wondering, if because of everything Tam called Gretch out on seems to be truthful, if Gretchen is playing the game of keeping friends close and enemies closer? Tam was the only one who could blow her out of the water! She may be playing a little game with Tamra for revenge, who knows?

  10. Jodell24 says:

    I would like to add that Gretchen should always do her makeup the way it is in the picture above because it usually is way too heavy and this pic lOoks pretty natural!

  11. Daisy says:

    I do think Alexis was being bullied when everybody at the table, except Vicki was confronting her with accusations that were putting her down for her personality and character. It’s sad that instead of accepting that Gretchen should of stood up for her friend at that table, Gretchen dismisses Alexis’s feelings yet again by minimizing them.

    Why would Alexis want to be friends with women who clearly don’t like her? And I don’t believe they were trying to be her friend or help her. Who needs friends or help like that?

    Like her or not, I don’t think Alexis was wrong in how she felt.

    • michers says:

      Not defending Gretchen per se, but it has been stated multiple times that Gretchen had tried nicely and friendly from the heart to speak with Alexis so she did not get hurt or turned on. Alexis was not comprehending! Gretchen, up until this season was , in my opinion , a good friend to Alexis! No one liked her until Tam and Gretch became friends, and her only ally was Vicki.

  12. Daisy says:

    And having said that I remind myself that their are two sides to every story and I really don’t always know who to believe.

  13. LouAnn says:

    It is neither Gretchen nor Alexis’ fault. It is Bravo TV pushing any kind of drama for continued ratings and viewers. At some point someone needs to stand up and realize any relationship under this kind of constant microscope is bound to disintegrate.

  14. Heidi says:

    There’s always THREE sides to every story, ‘theirs, yours AND the truth’…….

    Bottom line, it takes two to make this friendship work, if they want it……..

  15. Lauren says:

    I don’t feel bad for Alexis at all. What they are all saying is true but they could have done it a little differently instead of everyone attacking her. I had a friend just like that who was always bragging about everything she had and always trying to making everything a competition. It drove all my friends crazy and now no one talks to her so I know exactly how they feel. I always liked Gretchen and I don’t like the fact that she lied saying it was her lip gloss that made her lips bigger but I don’t think she had to reveal that she had her lips done if she didn’t want to. If you want to keep that private then that’s your own business. I definitely don’t agree with her lying saying it was her lip gloss just so she could sell more products.

  16. ajaii says:

    This Chick is a LOW life. aside from Opportunist , Gold Digger , Liar, & Turncoat , she can add BITCH as well.

  17. Cajsa says:

    I think Tamra’s comment, “Let’s kill that bitch” as Heather and she prepared to leave for supper can remove any doubt from anyone honest person’s mind that this was a premeditated ambush by bullies. Gretchen is delusional if she thinks it is anything else.

    She seems to have decided that Tamra and Heather are “cooler” than Alexis and by materialistic and celebrity standards, they are. Tamra is a amateur porn actress with a raunchy mouth who likes to party. Alexis is more family-oriented while Tamra is a party, good time girl. Heather is dripping with ostentatious wealth who can afford a lifestyle far beyond the Bellino’s. She made choices based on shallow values.

    Alexis was the one who went backstage at Pussycat Dolls to encourage Gretchen. She stood by her and even challenged Vicki for her sake. She was repaid by Gretchen piling on with the bullies.

    • LJ says:

      Thank you! Thats exactly what I said and felt! And Im not buying for one minute that Heather and Gretchen werent smart enough to catch on to that! They knew damn well!

  18. Sofia says:

    That’s a great photo of those two!
    So sad that people can’t stay friends on these shows!
    I know for sure if Alexis and Vicky are no longer on the show, someone else (Gretch..Heather..Tam?) will be the ‘target’ next season…It sad to see on other HW shows as well…
    BRAVO loves this shit but is it worth it for the wives?? I guess they never are friends to begin with. ;0(

  19. Rosalie Marie, says:

    If Alexis felt bullied, than it’s time for her to think like a woman instead of a child screaming bullies and walk away from the show. Goodbye Alexis

    • Brownie says:

      You don’t walk away from bullies you stand up to them. If you let them get away with it without calling them out, who is going to be their next victim? That is the problem with bullying in this country and all over the world. People have the idea that you just ignore the bullies and walk away. That doesn’t work and they will continue to bully you. If bullies aren’t called out for what they are, they will just go on to the next victim. When does it end? Sadly far too many victims have ended up comitting suicide because people DO have the attitude it’s no big deal. If you are the victim it IS a big deal.

      • LJ says:

        Im so sorry Brownie for what you’ve endured from bullies. I myself have always been outgoing and straight forward. Im the kind of person who when I was little always defended the kids who got bullied. I even lost a friendship defending a girl who grew up poor and threw up all over the classroom when a freind made fun of her. I even ended up in a physical altercation to protect a girl who was getting ganged up on by 6 girls. Im not proud of that but I was 15 and I’ve always felt the need to protect those who cant protect themsleves! I like the underdogs too lol! I myslef have had people attempt to bully me but I always stood my ground. Still it hurts! Your comments are all very wise and correct in my opinion! I hope you dont have to deal w/ bullies any longer! Dont let anyone tell you your not amazing because Im 100% sure you are!

        • michers says:

          LJ- same here, even loving underdogs,but I cannot be sympathetic to Alexis with the bullying- not going for it. Not after watching her be inauthentic from day one, and the way she has treated others.. nope.

      • michers says:

        Then Bravo should just cancel all of their shows! Bullying is a serious subject! Brownie, Im sorry, I know you are pointing things out, but Alexis is no victim. Its a show , she signed on for and again, NO ONE but Gretchen ever liked her, she talked just as much smack as other people. Well I goes Alexis bullied Peggy Tanaous so much so that she quit after one season…

        • Rosalie Marie, says:

          Oh My God! Are you all serious? This is a woman who is choosing to be on a reality show. This is not a teen in school getting beat up by other kids. Come on, you are all getting too carried away with the “Bully” nonsense. Christ, she’s a woman.

          • Rosalie Marie, says:

            In all honesty, I don’t want to see Alexis leave the show because all these women, including Heather, make for an interesting show. Alexis does get carried away and overboard. She’s either screaming because she’s frightened about something or she’s crying because someone said something she didn’t like or she acts too confident when clearly she shouldn’t be. She’s an entertaining flake.

          • JS says:

            I think it just depends on where you’re coming from and your perception, boundrys and tolerance. Heather has fire in her eyes and anger on her mouth when she scolds Alexis. It’s alittle over the top.

          • Becky Grey says:

            It looks as though you feel that bullying only applies to children not adults. That’s not true. I’m not saying Lex was being bullied, but I will say that it happens all the time. Just to clue you in that bullying occurs durning spousal abuse/domestic abuse. So think before you make a brush stroke statement, that because someone is grown/ adult they can not be bullied.

          • michers says:

            Becky- I understand that, and I know it happens with adults. I just think its a bit much for Alexis to say that, especially when she acted how she did before with Vicki. Now its against her, and its bullying! If thats the case, then every one who has a disagreement is bullied? I do not agree with that…

          • cammierari says:

            I agree. Alexis was no victim. She just wants a pity party for herself rather than admit that she was giving as good as she got at that dinner. At any time, if she had just said she wanted the discussion to stop, I think it would have. Alexis was just being a drama queen-and even still, managed to twist the knife in her friend Gretchen’s back by not allowing her into her room afterward, but allowing Vicki in. THAT’S high school behavior in my opinion, not a group of friends admitting to another that something she does drives them crazy. When ALL of your friends tell you the same thing, you need to admit that THEY might be right…

  20. JS says:

    the original link:

    http://news.lalate.com/2012/02/14/gretchen-rossi-lips-prompt-tamra-barney-disbelief-exclusive/

    quote” Rossi is telling the truth. A year ago today, Rossi told fans that she uses a lip plumper to create the deception of bigger lips. She even advised viewers how to achieve the same look of larger lips for less than eighty dollars.
    On her Gretchen Christine website, Rossi said one year ago today wrote “It is important to keep your lips moist, healthy and happy – especially for this Valentine’s Day. … For thin lips, try using a lip plumper. Most lip plumper use ingredients like cinnamon, menthol or caffeine for a slight tingling sensation that safely swells up the lips.”unquote.

  21. rukidding? says:

    Tamra and heather definitely were being bullies and gretchen wasn’t being a good friend. alexis has the right to feel that way. she was the one being constantly picked on & they all ganged up on her on their so called “intervention”. It annoys the hell out of me when gretchen says she’s a good enough of a friend to tell her the truth. Well, if she was good enough of a friend she should’ve warned her, defended her and escorted her out of that situation Instead she just joined in & let her sit there & cry. Tamra influenced Gretchen & Heather & they acted like a bunch of catty, spoiled, stuck up school girls. They’re in huge denial of how they looked & they don’t want to take responsibility for their actions.

    • Jodell24 says:

      While I hate how the terms bully and bullying are thrown around so much lately…you are spot on here! Gretchen acting like it is because she loved Alexis so much that she had to throw her under the bus. I call bullshit.

  22. Tenisha says:

    Alexis needs to stop accusing the women of being bullies and stop acting the victim. It was fine when she confronted Vicki but its bullying when you’re in the hot seat. Bullying is ugly, painful and leaves scars that last for years. Kids skip lunch and hide fron their bullies out of fear of ridicule and physical harm. It digusts me how many people throw around the word bullying like it’s the new fad. It is horrible for the victims who can not or don’t feel safe enough to defend themselves. What happened at that table was NOT bullying just because she didn’t like what they said.

    • Becky Grey says:

      I don’t know if you heard of the Basketball wives, where Tammi Roman bullied Keisha unbearably in front of three other adult women. The viewing public was outraged at what they saw. (Even though they had seen it before…but I digress ) Tammi didn’t believe that she bullied anyone. She was jut telling Keisha how she needs to change in order to interact with her. (Sounds familiar ?)

  23. littlegoobie says:

    Me thinks Gretchen’s new “hair do” was not a hair cut. It was het getting her extensions out before the reunion aired & she was called out on it.

  24. jen says:

    I wouldn’t call it “bullying” what went on this season I just think they wanted to point out her faults since she is always walking around acting as if her life is “perfect”. However I think they all blow it out of their a**’ so maybethey should have also took some of their own advice. The one thing I don’t get is Gretchen, I think she is the biggest POS on this show. Alexis has been the same person since her first appearance and G had no problem hanging out with her then because Lynn basically told G to shove her vibrator sideways up her you know what and Tamra hated G from the first time she was on the show. So now that T decides its time to make up with Gretchen, Gretchen jumps on the hate train with T over Alexis?I’m also really shocked that A would even talk to G being that she is a holy roller, G seems very shady. That being engaged to someone older then her dad who is dying of cancer,sleeping around on her dying fiance while he is in the hospital, lying about her lip injections to sell her make-up.

    • JS says:

      If I was Alexis and Jim, I wouldn’t align myself with people like Slade and Gretchen. They judge come off like users and scam artists.

    • Sherice says:

      Exactly. Whether you wanna call it bullying or not, the point is…it was wrong. Tamra had a plan to confront Alexis and she got Heather and Gretchen to go along with it. Yes Alexis has problem, but so do all of them. It wasn’t being friendly for Gretchen to sit by and watch Tamra and Heather rip Alexis apart and there’s no way they didn’t know that happened because the look on her face while it was happening said it all. And the fact that Heather called it a friendly convo when Jim was talking to Terry about it really burnt my cookies. I mean seriously, if you are so big and bad to confront a person, be so big and bad to admit it everyone else. I mean, you meant it for their good right? WHATEVER! My advice to Heather is come off that soapbox and stop being used and don’t pretend you REALLY meant to help Alexis. Now that’s inauthentic and phoney.

  25. reb says:

    Heather is the bully along with Tamra. I think Vicki was right when she said that Alexis was drop dead gorgeous and they are all jealous. During the reunion show Heather kept changing the subject back to Alexis saying she wasn’t an actress. Heather said ten times worse about Alexis. Tamra is just awful and she is too old to act like a porn actress. She’s the one that called out Gretchen on her posted nude pics with a plug in vibrator just two years ago. Now their fake best friends. Tamra just aligns herself with whoever will keep her popular on the show because she is so fake. The engagement scene with her and Eddie was so poorly acted. And Heather is too old and weird looking to get acting jobs. C’mon, they are all jealous of Alexis and her cute stints on the news channel.

  26. Melissa says:

    G has lied about things so stop attacking lex. And ladies you talk too, alot. Lex was doing everyone like they did her. Everyone one to tell Vicki she was judgemental and talked about everyones business but thats the name of the game. Right Gretchen. And they all wanted to say the same things to Vicki how is that wrong.

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