Teresa Giudice Responds To Marriage Rumors; Says She Is Happily Married!

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RHONJ star Teresa Giudice stopped by ‘The Couch’ earlier this morning to talk Real Housewives and addresses the recent controversy regarding her and Joe Giudice’s relationship! Teresa explains that there is no trouble in her marriage and says she is ‘happily married!’ Teresa says you shouldn’t believe everything you read and if you follow her on twitter you see that the family has been soaking up in the sun at the Jersey shore!
Teresa talks upcoming episodes of RHONJ and reveals that there is an upcoming feud that will air that’s going to be instigated by someone! Wonder who the someone is…Teresa also says no matter what’s going on, she’ll always be there for Joe Gorga.

Teresa explains she’s a positive person and although some people accuse her of being in denial, she says she wakes up every morning, looks at her 4 beautiful daughters and that’s who makes her happy plus motivates her. Do you believe Teresa and Joe are happily married?!

 

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  1. LilMama says:

    Ugh. She’s so delusional. That marriage is a train wreck. Even the way his kids react to him reflects that.

    • Bionic says:

      at the end of the day… IT IS NOBODY’S BUSINESS! If it works for them then wtf are we to care????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      Dont you all have your own issues to tend to?

      • Divorce says:

        I agree and well said!!!

      • JPG says:

        Right. Said the person on this here website commenting on stories of reality stars. They put it out there, we get to comment. Get with it.

      • FREE KROY says:

        This is reality TV. It’s marketing to viewers to get an inside look at these housewives lives. We are not turning on the TV to see a concert performed by a legitimate singer nor watch a movie staring a talented actress. This is what we watch this show for: THE DAY IN A DAY OUT LIFE OF THE HOUSEWIVES…this includes kids, marriages, foundations, girlfiend lunches, vacations, ect. But, mostly fights and conflict. Just like the daytime soaps. If we actually had “lives”, we woudld have all this stuff going on ourselves (foundations, trips, drama, ect) . But, because we don’t, we sit at home watching these Bitches and making them RICH. So, yes they better bring the drama or we won’t watch and they will be irrelevent, like they were before they started borrowing money and building these million dollar homes just to get on the show to only later sell them or file bankrupcy because they can’t afford them anyway. So, them getting on the show putting their business infornt of million of viewers makes it our business. Without viewers, there would be no one blogging about them, or any companies that want them to endorse their products, or shows to go on for interviews, or no one to purchse their cheap products. Yes, it’s our business.

      • team tre says:

        off subject here…I say lets all stop watching. that will send a strong message to bravo! who’s with me?

        • Say What?? says:

          I am invested in the season. I wont watch next season if they dont make changes..

          I have avoided this thread because the way i feel about this situation is a touchy subject. But days later, and after watching the extended trailor on bravo.. I still feel the same way.

          I feel that Joe Giudice is abusive to Teresa. I dont think he would “hit” her but verbal abuse is just as bad. Im seeing it with my own eyes and ears. What i’m having the most trouble with is that Teresa fans (and i am the BIGGEST Teresa fan!) are finding excuses for Joe. The non Tree fans are saying she deserves to be treated this way by him. She is such an awful person she deserves to be verbally abused. I personally believe she doesnt deseve to be treated this way. She CAN support herself now and i personally wish she would take her beautiful children and leave him. I was on Joes side blaming editing for a long time.. but enough is enough. Even if editing is involved, this happened, the words came out of his mouth at some point and I wont make excuses for it any longer.

          I’d also like to say that bravo learned NOTHING from Russle Armstrongs death. What they have allowed these people to do to Teresa is ridiculous. I know that the producers for season 3&4 have been fired but Bravo could have changed some of this with edititing. We are watching a woman who went through a bad bankrupcy, her husband is facing prison time, her family came on the show to destroy her ability to make money to support her family and her friends turned on her for not investing that money in their get rich quick scheme.. Now on top of that we are going to watch her own husband verbally abuse her and cheat on her… I’ve seen people kill themself for less than this.

        • Samantha says:

          And miss the fashion show? Are you crazy?

        • NonnaGabi says:

          I am!

      • Jada says:

        Well then they shouldn’t be on tv!!’

      • dellsbells says:

        If it’s nobody’s business then they can get off my TV screen and stop collecting a paycheck from Bravo.

      • HRH says:

        So true! And if he is running around and she leaves him then her daughters will be around these women, plus who knows what else with his drinking? She’s being smart for her girls

    • Say What?? says:

      I still wonder if its a teaser and Joe s actually repeating something someone else said.. or is being sarcastic. We will soon find out!

    • Daisy says:

      Teresa can forgive her husband for whatever she wants, only she knows what goes on in their marriage and where his heart is.

      The past 2 seasons of this show have really revolved about Teresa and Joe with everybody else attacking them.

      Here again we see something negative and it’s certainly not that it didn’t happen, but why not show anything positive and nice? The show should not be intent on knocking people when they are already down and under a lot of personal and private stress.

      Did they not learn anything from Russel and Taylor Armstrong?

      • mktgdrivethru says:

        Exactly — Bravo will not be happy until there is another suicide. Disgrazia.

      • pita0013 says:

        I totally agree, Bravo should have learned from Russel Armstrong. I hope it’s not true about Juicy Joe cheating, but even if it is I don’t think T will admit it. I like T…I just don’t see her putting that out there, for the world to turn on Joe.

      • michers says:

        Daisy I agree, I also agree with what most of what Say What states above. Teresa is not only getting talked to like that by her hubby, but Im unsure why her own flesh and blood has not gotten much backlash by his verbally abusing her? Sure, some of us on here disagreed here on this blog about it, but I am also sure across America when this fully airs, JoeGi will be bashed to no end more so than Joe Gorga treating his own sis like that also!! The constant airing of these men in her life verbally abusing her is not OKAY. What message is Bravo or people on this show sending? Im so at war with myself for becoming so invested in this show and the whole entire franchise.. Another thing that bothers me is that even though her closest friends and some family have contributed in some way to hurt her for 2 years, I do not like how not any grown adult on this show has said something to defend her or any other woman being treated like this- no one deserves that. I cannot even make jokes or find anything funny anymore regarding this show at this point. I find it very trashy that this is what Bravo decides makes the show. A Mother, wife, friend or sister does not deserve to be constantly humiliated and degraded. I as a viewer am disheartened and disappointed that the show has become what it has. There are no excuses for JoeGi or Joe Gorga to treat women like they have, no reason for them to use the words they have for Teresa. And her own brother still walks around on this show like he is a king. Her husband – I can’t say more until I watch. Im so BLAH with this show right now. Th more I get annoyed, the more Im disgusted with more of them- especially Kathy’s nasty hubby. The whole season has been pretty much a big cluster eff.

        • Rosalie Marie, says:

          I have to say, Say What and Michers have good points. I would hate to think that Joe Giudice’ physically abuses Teresa but unfortunately, I actually do believe he has hit her. If you watch the video where Joe was talking about Teresa giving her brother his (Joe Giudice’) money to help her brother with his business, then Joe Giudice’ did a flip and chipped his tooth, that was the video that lead me to believe that he hits on her. I do feel for Teresa. I do think Joe Giudice’ hits her but I also believe that he loves her and helps her. He’s strict. That’s what I think.

    • Lee Bassett says:

      I couldn’t agree with you more.

    • RahRah says:

      Do you know where your husband is and what he is doing? Do you have a husband?

    • bbc says:

      I can’t tell if she’s delusional or a liar. She keeps claiming that everything reported about her are just RUMORS even when the evidence is in the public eye.

      SHE might be happily married, it doesn’t seem that her husband is. She spent so much time trashing the other HWs marriages – she should have been focused on her own, and on her children’s happiness.

    • team tre says:

      please state you case!

    • Mego the Lying stripper says:

      Gee, I feel so sorry for Teresa. Unless Bravo has edited Joe’s sneeky phone call to get us to tune in for ratings and it is an innocent remark or phone call, I don’t see how she can stand by Joe after that. In the worst, worst, worst fights my husband and I have had he would never call me the C word, much less to another person. I am dreading this next episode. I really don’t see how Teresa can explain this away, if in fact it is what it appears to be in the clip. I feel so bad for her.

      • Whitegirl1 says:

        I don’t see anyone divorcing their husband because he called them a cunt. I would simply call him a Dick! Then all would be fine in the world. I don’t know about anyone else’s, but my cunt is clean, and smells like a bed if flowers so I wouldn’t give a rats ass if someone said that to me.. They just better be ready for what I say in return.

  2. NonnaB says:

    Love love love Teresa and her family. Just another ploy by the Manzoid clan to discredit Teresa & Joe.

    • LilMama says:

      How is joe treating Teresa like shit controlled by the Manzos??

      • NonnaB says:

        I’m not saying Joe is an angel but what man is? I believe he truly loves Teresa, if he didn’t, I don’t believe Teresa would stay with him. I think her brother Joe treated Teresa way worse by the way.

        • staceychris says:

          The Manzo’s and the production crew are up each others butts. They will film ny and everything that’s gonna make T look bad. That said if this turns out the way it appears then I feel very bad for Teresa that this has to be so public – and I’d bet money the toxic 4 are jumping for glee over this
          :(

          • Buck Henry says:

            They aren’t happily married, they are just married. Eventually Teresa will have to make a decision about Joe. Also you don’t hear anything anymore about happy wife happy life do ya.

          • cammierari says:

            Buck! I’m surprised to hear you say that considering I don’t think you know Tre and Joe personally lol

          • Jennifer says:

            No one knows the inner working of any marriage on these shows. If you go to Franklin Lakes, NJ many talk of Chris Laurita’s infidelity and that Albert has a woman for better part of 15 years on the side, so I am disappointed with Joe but not surprised.

    • ComeON says:

      Come on people! This is NOT editing. He said what he said and got caught. He hid so the cameras woudn’t catch him but was still mic’d and didn’t realize it. Also, Teresa referred to Melissa as her brother’s “c*nt wife” in the episode at Kathy’s pool party when she was driving away with her children in the car. Watch it again. It’s called KARMA. She loves to talk about the other womens’ “skeletons” and imply about their husbands cheating and it came back to bite her in the ass. Get real!

      • Seven says:

        Oh please. She only started talking about their skeletons last week, after putting up with their nasty gossipmongering and bad wishes for how long now? Two years? Three? I don’t condone her calling Melissa that, but her brother had just called her an effing bitch, Melissa had thrown her the stupid digs about the margarita, I don’t know about you, but I don’t go to family parties to be ambushed by hostile, jealous family members. And yes, as awful as it is there’s a difference between being called that by another woman as opposed to a guy, especially one who’s supposed to love you. It’s only karma if you think a hangnail is the same thing as appendicitis.

      • michers says:

        So.. what do you think about her brother degrading her since he joined the show? If you want to bash Tre and her hubby, put them all on blast!

      • littlewitch says:

        She never implied anyone’s husbands cheat. Ido not know about the car I would have to watch that and see for myself

      • Melissa's Forehead says:

        She never called melissa a cunt lol. And joe has been on 4 seasons I doubt he would forget he is mic’d which is why this seems so strange. I will wait to bash joe till the episode airs.

      • Jennifer says:

        Melissa deserved the can’t wife appraisal where Joey Gorga called Tre a f’ing b!tch and Joey Gorga spouted that psychotic and delusional statement that he was, “An angel from God.” that statement was beyond disturbing where Joey Gorga needs to seek psychiatric help and possible commitment.

        Melissa grabbing at Tre’s children during that instances was beyond intolerable. Mel deserved far more than out the door derogatory remark. She deserved to her face.

        • michers says:

          Right out of the gate, his first episode the Baptism- he called his sites garbage and let his hooch sister in law talk smack to his flesh and blood- he is degrading pig, just like Rich Wakile. I will hold further frustration for Joe Gi after I see the episode. All of these grown men should be ashamed of themselves.

    • bbc says:

      I don’t get it… does this mean that the Manzos made Joe say those things? they made Teresa sneak off in the bushes to catch her husband in action? They forced her to discuss the cheating rumors with her husband on TV and to use Gia to try to get him to not cheat?

      When are the Giudices ever responsible for the dirty rotten things they’ve done to each other or to other people?

      • michers says:

        I have not seen them do anything to anyone, so you lost me there. I have seen the others do and say nasty things about Tre and her family though, all the time for years :) And if they are trying to keep at least one thing private, LET THEM. Its a housewife show, not a documentary on her marriage!

      • Jennifer says:

        Your statement seems not in line with what th original poster stated. She stated that behind the scenes the Manzos have a personal relationship with Andy and Shed Media. This has been stated in many articles and on many sites as being true. So, it is not a stretch to infer that the Manzos are asking Bravo to place unflattering scenes of Joe. There is not cheating. Do you know who he spoke to substantiate your point. You do not. You are speculating just like we all are on this site.

  3. mickey says:

    Even though I don’t always like her, I do respect her positive attitude in the worst of situations. I say good for her!

    • michers says:

      Me too! What good is it to mope, stress, cry, and act like a train wreck? The only thing that does is give the rotten rest of the bunch happiness! It hurts them more that she stays happy and I love that! Just because she signed up for a tv show does not mean that she is not entitled to any privacy she can hold on to :)

  4. Erin says:

    This woman is in lala land. She says she wakes up and looks for her 4 daughters who make her ao happy, well if her marriage is so great why isn’t Joe included in that sentence. Only reason they are still together is because she would rather ignore joes actions rather than let hersel get treated better.

    • mari says:

      Because nobody’s marriage is perfect. How many women sat around thinking they were happily married meanwhile the husband went out and did whatever they felt like. None of those women can say their marriages are perfect, they just might wake up to a surprise. At the end of the day no matter what joe does, which is onhim not teresa, she has her four daughters to look to for unconditional love, and she is a great mom. That is something noone can take away from her.

      • bbc says:

        No one has a perfect marriage, I agree, but most people have GOOD marriages and you certainly wouldn’t expect a man to call his wife the ‘c word’ to his mistress. She gave that slug four children.

        Ultimately, I have no sympathy for her because life in a house of cards (money they don’t have, fidelity that doesn’t exist) seem to matter to her MORE than the truth. It seems to matter more than not exposing her children to this disgusting stuff.

        • Jennifer says:

          BBC,

          With a 52% divorce rate in the US most people do not have good marriages. Further, we see only 1 hr of their lives during a weeks of taping so we do not know how they act. We do have other evidence on other interviews and friends who say Joe and Tre have a loving relationship. So I do not understand you point.

    • cammierari says:

      marriage isn’t a guarantee for daily happiness. Some days being married sucks. Some days being married means you have to deal with crap you wouldn’t have to deal with if you were single. Sometimes being married means you have to carry your husband and your family thru shit you’d rather not have to deal with. And hopefully it means the same thing for your husband. Taking a vow for better or worse isn’t for the faint of heart-and leaving the marriage isn’t always the answer.
      I applaud Tre for not giving specifics about this situation because it’s no one else’s business. Sometimes, people make mistakes-it doesn’t mean things can’t be worked out. I hope for Teresa’s sake (and her girls too) that Joe ISN’T cheating and calling her names while on the phone with a girlfriend, but if he is, I’m pretty sure Teresa isn’t the type to lay down and let it happen. And any of her “friends” finding satisfaction in this coming to light makes them look bad, not Tre

      • CeeGee says:

        Very well said, Cam!

      • mktgdrivethru says:

        I wish there was a like button for your post cammierari. Well done.

      • Kate (not the ignorant, Tre-hating "kate") says:

        Great post cammierari!!! What you said about marriage is so on point! I work for a divorce attorney and sometimes wonder, what person doesn’t err and what point is getting married and making those very lofty vows if you don’t intend to have to forgive sometimes and then keep going?? Some people give up and quit for their own personal happiness and, while that’s all well and good, that’s not what marriage “til death do us part” means. I really think people should think about what you said about marriage before they enter into one. Divorce is messy, not fun, and very expensive.

      • BravNo says:

        Great post.

      • michers says:

        So agree Cam! Knowing that this may be the case tonight, I find it gross that the infamous 4 have stated on twitter the other day said this episode was “fun”. To them, Im sure they are talking about Teresa being humiliated again. As horrific as this season has been, I really think that these women take pleasure in another human being that they claimed to love or loved being shown like this and being treated the way she has been, even by her brother.. and they find him ” funny”? Class act bunch.

    • RahRah says:

      I guess because she is living for her children regardless of what Joe does? That certainly was my attitude. Just because my marriage went south didn’t mean I went south too. I still had the best reason in the world to be emotionally healthy and financially hearty. My life wasn’t over because the marriage was and the child had suffered enough and now her home was broken.

      Some of the comments lead me to believed that a lot of people live a dog’s life and are not grounded mentally.

      • bbc says:

        It’s more likely that people who think that children deserve more than being exposed to:

        frequent drunkenness
        verbal abuse
        infidelity
        public humiliation

        aren’t “mentally impaired”, but are parents who wouldn’t expose to their own children to that same hell for the sake of saying that there are two parents in the home. They wouldn’t do it for the sake of keeping a lifestyle they should never have cheated their way into, either.

        There are times when one GOOD parent (if you can find one who puts her children’s happiness before her pride) is better than two dysfunctional ones. That’s what I think of as “living for my children”. I would put my child’s happiness before pride and money.

        • michers says:

          Oh poop, Jac and Chris are out then.. Oh wait, half the cast then!

        • BravNo says:

          It will be interesting if you see things so myopically once you are married with kids. Most people with kids and who have been married for a while never speak in absolutes. People with families weigh the pros and cons of this stuff every day.

        • Jennifer says:

          BBC,

          Then you should say that DYFS should be called to Joe Gorgas house because that is the one that showed the most scenes on drunkenness and placing children in jeopardy. No one here has forgotten the pool scene where Joe Gorgas was mad drunk and jumping in a pool with children present.

        • BravNo says:

          Aside from the cheating the adult Laurita and Manzo children have repeatedly demonstrated these behaviors……wonder how Caroline will save them, ……….from themselves

      • BravNo says:

        There was a quote I saw in a Jane Austin film that went roughly, the harsh truth about having children is, no matter how much you love your spouse, you love your children more. I think marriage has its ups and down good times and bad and your committment to the vows is critical in weathering the tough times. Kids, the fact is you love them, even when they hurt you, even when the do stupid stuff. I totally understand putting what is best for the kids first, I totally understand the committment to marriage, I totally understand Teresa putting her feelings as a back seat to the two other issues. That is what married with children people are supposed to do. If you are not of that mindset you should not get married.

        • pinkie says:

          alot of truth in what you say.

        • michers says:

          Bravno- totally agree and get what you are saying.. I feel that way :) And at the end of the day, not one of us are to tell or blog or comment or demand what Teresa do with her marriage. It would be disappointing though if he were really cheating on her, and thinks of her the way he allegedly spoke in the upcoming episode. We don’t know everything , we do not know them personally, its not my brother or sister and even if it was, I couldn’t make one or the other leave! Teresa is smart, tough and a good mom and wife- when her life gets bad enough and things have really been done to her by him, Im sure she will figure out what to do with her life, even if she has to write a book about it, lol :) I wish her the best! P.S. There are certain situations when I would make my sis leave her man( I would not sit by and do nothing if it were a highly toxic situation)

          • BravNo says:

            Agree, there are totally deal breakers that end marriages. I guess what I am saying is relationships are complex, it rarely comes down to a black white, leave them or not, it comes down to the complexities of unraveling a family. You tend to overlook things when you are married with children to preserve the family and do what is best for the kids, and at times it is really hard, while at other times it’s perfect. Teresa is not stupid. She likely has the best grasp on what goes on in her household and we see one hour of modified and dubious reality from Bravo. She loves her kids, she is going to do what she this is best for them and that should be the end of it.

    • housewife99 says:

      Don’t think you are married, or know about married life. And if Teresa chooses to ignore Joe’s comments, that is on her and her alone. He is her man so back off!

  5. Stephanie says:

    I have to give her props for keeping her head held high, but just like watching her on the past few seasons of RHONJ she is always doing great is very happy, and we all know that wasn’t always the case. But we all have to realize that this was filmed last year, and maybe they were having trouble and now there doing fine. None of us can judge or assume what is going on in there lives now, but I do hope they worked it out, and that Joe is changing for the better. We all have to remember she comes from an old school Italian family and that she will stand by Joe no matter what, because that is what she was taught. I wish them both the best of luck :)

  6. Tenisha says:

    I really hope she has trustworthy people in her corner that she can talk to. They way he treats her is horrible and I cannot believe that her marriage is a happy one. I give her props for staying positive in public but if she’s like this away from the cameras, she is in denial.

    • RahRah says:

      Life is not a bowl of cherries..no marriage is perfect. My parents were married 51 years before I lost my Mom. People stay because they are committed and they’ve shared so much together.

      • Tenisha says:

        I get that. Marriage vows are sacred…however a marriage in which one spouse doesn’t respect the other is not going to work. Calling the mother of his children and the women he vowed to love and cherish before God those names is unbelievably disrespectful. I can’t say she should see past that when I know I wouldn’t. If my husband spoke to me like that…there would some serious problems.

        • michers says:

          Tenisha, agree with your comment about respect. This was a year ago and from the looks of it it seems that Joe is more respectful toward Teresa more now then in the past. If they can get past everything that has gone on with their finances, the hurt caused by friends and family, and everything else that has transpired since being on the show, Im sure today they are in a much better place or at least trying and I commend them for that. ” For better or worse” is not to be taken lightly and so many others give up trying to fix things the right way which may be the hard way and forget what the vows truly mean. Im hoping that after seeing , hearing, and realizing how he may have acted on the show made him realize what is important to him so as not to lose it! I still prefer him ( as of right now) more then the other males on the show but I guess I will see tonight .

  7. Schlette says:

    She shouldn’t continue to excuse his bad behavior for the sake of her children, they will grow to think that this behavior is acceptable and it is not! Joe should be ashamed of the way he speaks to his wife! I love Teresa but this just went too far for me!

    • Mego the Lying stripper says:

      I think Joe is a very loving father. We can’t take THAT away from him.

      • littlewitch says:

        Really. Remember when Gia was going to walk in a fashion show and they were in the car. Remember how he told her she was not so great etc and made here cry???

        His stunt with the drivers license shows that he could care less about his children and his wife. He took a big risk for nothing and could be sent to jail. The anxiety and embarrassment for the children and Teresa is enormous. Joe is much to selfish to love anybody.

        • Someone Who is Watching says:

          I disagree littlewitch

        • BravNo says:

          The license issue was stupid but it was not a reflection on if he loves his children. The thing in the car, it’s called teasing, lots of dads do it and it does not always mix well with pre adolescent girls, lol.

          • Jennifer says:

            Exactly!

          • dellsbells says:

            So, telling your 8 year old daughter who’s about about to perform under pressure in front of hundreds of people that she’s ugly, and will have to walk down the “ugly runway” is just teasing? It was obvious that poor Gia was very upset and was trying to hide her crying from the Bravo camera.

            Ask any child psychologist if that is good parenting. That kind of “teasing” not only leads to a child not trusting and losing respect for the parent, but damages their self-esteem.
            That part of the episode from Season 2 was disturbing to watch, especially Teresa telling Gia afterwards that she should be used to the “teasing” by now.

        • Jennifer says:

          I disagree as well. There is no indication that Joe does not love his wife and children.

  8. MissVIgyal says:

    I think all marriages have their ugly points where people say things they don’t mean. Its too bad Bravo puts those parts on TV because one day their kids will see that and its a shame.

  9. Elkerosey says:

    I don’t understand why everyone says he treats her horribly. We see a few snipits of him sick of hearing the same complaint over and over. He’s never spoken down to her, hit her, belittled her, etc. He makes jokes, but who doesn’t?!

    • Mego the Lying stripper says:

      Are you kidding me? Here comes my bitch wife she is such a c***? That is a joke? I must not have a very good sense of humor.

    • Bionic says:

      Well, if you really think about it… NONE of these husbands on NJ are exactly the greatest. JGorga is a addict. Rich is teaching his kids that they can say whatever to whoever and it’s all dandy as long as they are “joking”. Passive Aggressive is acceptable. The Manzo’s. Their boys have their father’s feminine ways… *pause*
      and their daughter seems to think that physical appereance is everything. Thanks to her parents downing her every sec. The Laurita’s- what a role model household! The mother is a drunk, pill popping poll sliding wreck and Chris is an adulterous punk.

      There you have it… Did I miss anyone?

      • staceychris says:

        lol right on!

      • Patticakes says:

        Hey Bionic,

        I like your take on it! LOL!

      • cindi123 says:

        Chris is an adulterous punk and you know this how? Oh that’s right, you made it up in that little pea brain of yours. All the kids are going to see what’s written about their parents, not just the Guiduce kids. Have some respect for the other children whose parents are on this show.

        • Lisa says:

          Please everyone all these husbands have rumors of being cheaters. Joe gorga at the martini bar in his home town

        • Jennifer says:

          Cindi,

          Chris’s infidelity is common knowledge in Franklin Lakes. The same is true for Albert and his mistress is one he has had for years. In Monteville there are rumors of Joe as well. No one can deny it, but as for chris and albert have been rumored for years even before the show.

      • Lee Bassett says:

        It sounds like you know these people personally to make these statements or maybe read something that SAID these things. LOL

    • bbc says:

      He’s called her a “trick” before. He yells at her frequently. He belittles and demeans her over small things (like in the various drives in the car). He tells her that he doesn’t want her opinion – in matters that have nothing to do with her family.

      What does he say when the cameras AREN’T around??? My guess is that this time being caught on film is the best example of how he describes her to others, most especially other women.

      • Jennifer says:

        When did he call her a trick. I will say that is not a very NJ word…so do have the exact scene please for confirmation.

  10. Debbie says:

    Even if this is true I think it’s disgusting that Bravo would air this. This is a family you are talking about and I feel that Bravo has hit an all time low. Are the ratings that important that you would set out to hurt someone’s family.

    • NonnaB says:

      I agree. And Chuckie started it by her disgusting prediction so of course Bravo is playing right into that hand.

    • Mego the Lying stripper says:

      So true. Bravo didn’t have to air this at all. But now we know their true colors. I swear they would have filmed Russell’s suicide had they had the opportunity. I might just be done with Bravo for good.

      • Donna says:

        Mego ie: Russell, I had that same thought pop up in my mind many times.

      • team tre says:

        also, remember when caroline made that prediction about joe and tre’s marriage? well, that gives bravo another story line, carol’s predictions. bravo and crew is hoping for the failure of their marriage, because this simply gives the rest of the crew credibility! BINGO!and the plot thickens……

      • BravNo says:

        Seriously, I have no ideas how the Bravo executives sleep at night. Karma is a b$&@?, I’d be scared to death. I agree about being done. Bottom line I guess they think people like what they are airing. I thought they would become more responsible after Russell’s death but they have gotten worse. This situation reminds me of the thing that happened with Jill Zarin where she was having what she thought was a private conversation with a producer, she vented something mean about Ramona, the producer taped it and played it out of context. That is not reality. The producers need to be part of the cast if they are going to tape private phone calls/ conversations etc. either that or just tap everyone’s phones, all the Manzos calls with producers and the governor of new Jersey, Al Manzos talks with his CPA, Al juniors rejections, from college, Caroline at her lap band doctors office, Chris Lauritas numerous lawsuits, well you get the drift…..Bravo has their favorites and those they drive into the ground. It’s clear they hated the Guidices when they filmed and it’s clear they have no idea what to do since Teresa has created her own fan base who will follow her to another network.

    • T says:

      @Debbie
      Totally agree! Seems like Bravo & crew will stop at nothing to bring this family down & rip them to shreds. It’s actually disturbing.

    • jerseygirl says:

      Yes Debbie!

      I said in a different post that it’s Andy Cohen’s vendetta against Joe for using the “f” word. He is willing to trail a camera around on a man who is clearly on the edge just to get back at him. Willing to ruin a family to exact revenge over the use of a word. The way he’s going after Joe Giudice & his family, you’d think he had taken Andy into an alley and beat him up for being gay.

      I feel for Joe. If you were going through a bankruptcy and facing criminal charges all on national television with everyone constantly judging and writing their two-cents, wouldn’t you be thiiiiis close to losing it?? I would have snapped like a twig!

      • cindi123 says:

        How can you blame bravo? Teresa is the one who signed the contract to have her family filmed for TV. Everybody wouldn’t know about his bankruptcy and all his personal business if Teresa hadn’t gone on national tv and showed it. She was the one that brought it up on camera. It’s nobody’s fault but hers.

        • Capile says:

          Actually, no. It was danielle who brought it up on camera and it was Melissa who fed her the information. It’s not really her fault that she has malicious famewhores in her family.

        • jerseygirl says:

          cindi123, I’m not blaming Bravo for Joe Giudice’s legal problems becoming public.

          But it is the editors who decide how to handle the story line. Notice how Chris and Jacqueline’s bankruptcy issues are not being discussed on the show. Or the legal battle behind BLK water? Or the financial problems facing the Brownstone? It’s in the editing.

          And I’m blaming Bravo for adding fuel to the fire by setting up him and his wife this entire season to provoke reactions out of them. It’s no secret that the producers wanted to stress out Tre and Joe. I mean we all know why the producers recruited Melissa and Joe. And by producers, I mean Andy Cohen who is STILL not able to get over Joe Giudice’s use of the “f” word (it’s clear that Joe Giudice is a sh*thead, not a homophobe, but Andy won’t let it go!) or Tre shoving him at the reunion.

        • Jennifer says:

          Cindi they do not show everything. That is also in contract stipulations. Otherwise we would have had a lot more info on Joe Giudice’s legal issue or Lauritas’ legal issues

    • Donna says:

      ITA thank you for using commen sense. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors. Bravo should not have filmed this for public consumption.

    • michers says:

      Debbie, I agree. I think they have earned enough ratings since starting RHONJ. Its twisted the things they have chosen out of all they filmed. Its pathetic that they would get so excited and keep anticipating the ruining of someone’s family and marriage.

    • JPG says:

      Yeah, don’t blame the idiots (and I mean ALL of them) who decided to air the lives (which includes dirty laundry) to the world. You all seem to forget. They signed up for this. They are getting paid for this. Maybe THEY should remember that a camera crew is following them around at all times. I don’t know how you can forget, but apparently they do. Quit blaming Bravo.

      • rukidding? says:

        yeah they signed up to a show to show their expensive glamourous lives. that was what housewives was supposed to be about but instead it turned into vicious fights, backstabbing, cheating, lying, free for all. signing up for a show doesn’t mean you have to take the abuse. dina doesn’t put up with it and left. yes, i agree that they need to remember that when a camera is in your face you better becareful with what you do and say but i have heard from past reality stars that first did it on mtv that you can forget that the cameras are there. how that is possible i have no idea but i believe it since the lines of reality and show business are crossed and fused together.

  11. Lee says:

    Joe Guidice lost his business and livihood and he is depended on his wife, plus he might go to jail. Who expects this man to be happy. He is going through a hard time and needs people to leave him alone. If you people believe the Gorgas, Lauritas, Manzos and the Wakilies have the marriage that Bravo has portrayed on the show than I will sell you some beachfront property in Arizona. Thise men play to the camera, especially Joe Gorga and Richie.

    • Bionic says:

      IT’S NOBODY’S BUSINESS AT THE END OF THE DAY!!!!!!!!

      WHO CARES what they are going through. Show me a couple that hasn’t! People here and on the show are a bunch of fakes. Swear that they live perfect lives… Yeah! perfect MISERABLE lives.

      • donnalee says:

        True True!!! This all took place a year ago..apparently they got over it..maybe??? Plus how happy can Caroline be when it has been out there that Al had a mistress and supposedly Chris has cheated on Jaqueline…Melissa has that open marriage..*LOL* and look at Kathy’s husband…YIKES!!!

    • Capile says:

      All of his problems he brought on himself. I’m not saying I don’t feel some sympathy towards anyone in that position, but he’s a freakin’ lucky man to have a wife who always stands by him and is supporting him to pay off all the debts. He’s justified in lashing out at her because he feels dependant after everything he’s put them through? I don’t think so. Some gratitude is in order. Think how hostile and nasty he’d be if she wasn’t supportive and was always blaming him for his stupidity, which frankly she’d have every right to do too.

      • Mego the Lying stripper says:

        Amen, Sistah!

      • reddvette says:

        Amen! That is so true, Joe should have better manners. Joe doesn’t have something he needs to be a better person. This was a year ago and this is their business.

      • bbc says:

        He ran those debts up giving his wife what she wanted. Her fault? NO. THEIR fault. He said that this was a life THEY chose. I believe that. They both knew what was going on, IMO. She stood by her partner-in-?

        • Seven says:

          They both admitted he lied to her. So it’s partially her fault when he’s telling her they have a lot more money than they do? I’m fine with the lifestyle I have, but common sense dictates if I thought I had 100X more income than I do, it would change my spending habits. Yes, I’d probably spend more. That’s not the same thing as knowing I make Y but trying to spend 20 times Y. Most of their debt was from failed investments and properties and businesses that went under, anyway. Don’t tell me, she forced him to make non-viable investments, then caused the economy to tank?

          Bad Teresa!

          • bbc says:

            If your phone service is cut off, your credit cards are cut up, and you’re getting notices about bills, you’re not clueless. He seems to always be taking the fall. He lets it happen. Bad Joe, it doesn’t excuse the cheating, but it explains the disgust and distance he displays.

          • Jennifer says:

            BBC,

            When was it stated that their phone was cut off? This is non sequitur. Do you have additional information you have on Tre you would like to disclose?

        • Jennifer says:

          BBC,

          That is absolutely false with not basis. Please provide BK docket with bills for clothing, furiniture, jewelry and cars totaling $11M. You will never find it. The $11M was due to his business which was tied to personal guarantees.

  12. jen says:

    I’m not giving Joe a pass on his behavior towards his wife but this did happen a year ago and while on WWHL a few weeks back T did say Joe realized how he was talking to her and was very sorry. Maybe they hit a bump in the road like any other couple does and they are working through it. They have been through alot with the legal and finacial troubles and that does put an enormous amount of strain on even the happiest of couples. With that being said I’m sure the evil ugly 4 will have their blogs out by Monday morning ripping them both a new one. This will make them all happy to see Joe talk this way to T. It is just very very sad that not one of them defended T when LARGE MARGE gave her interview about T and Joes marriage and problems and basically blaimed every thing on T.

  13. Lia says:

    I wonder if Teresa would be so forgiving if it was one of her daughter’s husband who was behaving the same way as Joe? She needs to start being honest with herself about her marriage, IMO.

    And I don’t understand the need to blame Bravo for Joe’s behavior. He signed up for this. He should be held responsible for however he decides to behave.

    • Tenisha says:

      I totally agree! This is a reality show…they are filming for the drama to get ratings. Why are they responsible for what happens to its reality stars. They signed up for it…they can also walk away.

      • littlewitch says:

        They signed a two year a contract they could not walk away.
        Their contract is up just now. Now they can walk away. Bravo is not responsible for causing what happens, they are responsible for exploiting it.

        • jerseygirl says:

          amen, little witch!

        • Tenisha says:

          Of course they are going to air it! It’s a reality show. My point is when you sign up to live your life on air you have to deal with the consequences. You can’t turn around after the fact and get upset because they are airing your issues.

          • cammierari says:

            the fans are getting upset. I haven’t heard Teresa get upset. SHE knows she’s on a reality show and SHE knows that Bravo CAN portray her and her family any way they want. I don’t think most of the FANS know that tho, so they are shocked that Bravo would “out” someone as it appears they are doing to Juicy…

          • rukidding? says:

            getting upset is human nature. are they all supposed to be happy and have huge smiles all the time because everyone knows their personal family problems? everyone knows teresa’s because her enemies spill their guts and run to blogs and magazines. as for the other housewives their past and records come back to haunt them. it’s too late for any one of them to quit now. they all invested too much on relying on bravo to make money. they need the exposure to sell their products.

    • Bionic says:

      and this is your business why?

      • Tenisha says:

        Maybe because she joined a reality showed and agreed to film and share her life with the public. How is it your business to respond to my opinion?? Because I put it out there for people to respond to. Why are you taking this so personal?

        • Bionic says:

          Why are you taking someone else’s life so personal? My same answer.

          She put her life on a reality show but it’s really nobody’s business to mandate what or how she should act. It’s her life… all we are expected to do is watch. After all, nobody has a “perfect” life or marriage. Who’s to judge us?

          • Tenisha says:

            I don’t recall judging her. She is not to blame for her husbands actions. I stated that I hope she has a supportive inner circle and you can’t blame Bravo from airing all since the housewives signed up for it. Secondly….this is a blog. The blogger asked a question and we responded. If you have an issue with that, don’t read the blog.

        • Jennifer says:

          Tenisha,

          bionic has a point. Just because you have an opinion doesn’t mean we cannot question it or the why you ask it or why it is your business. That is the thing with the first amendment it protects your speech, but it doesn’t stop someone from responding to you. Bionic’s point is valid.

      • Lia says:

        By being paid $ by Bravo to televise her life/her children/her MARRIAGE for public (i.e. ME) consumption, Teresa has agreed to make her televised life EVERYONE’S business.

        My comment was in response to a televised clip and therefore I have every right to make it my business and state my opinion about it.

        • Mego the Lying stripper says:

          This is true.

        • Jennifer says:

          That is not true. The mere fact we do not see everything supports that fact. If we really saw and heard everything we would know more about Jac and Chris’s legal issue BK and Joe’s legal issues. We see only a very small sections and what both Bravo and the cast allow us to see.

      • Medicated Fan says:

        You can’t put your life out there for public consumption and then get offended when someone obliges. That what reality television is. How could anyone not realize this?

        • Tenisha says:

          Exactly!

        • Jennifer says:

          This is not reality. This is not news where we have an event happen in it is not snagged and there are not a million stipulations in a contract that says you cannot film x, y, or z. You believe these contracts have no exceptions? If you do then you are extremely naive.

        • rukidding? says:

          so whoever is on a reality show cannot get offended? that doesn’t make sense. there is a reason why it’s called a reality show because it’s real people with real feelings. they have the right to act however they want and have the right to tell people it’s none of their business. we can watch the shows and have our own opinions but to feel entitled and say their lives are our business is not true. the reality stars have the right to reveal as much or as little as they want. i do agree that reality stars are at fault for joining the show in the first place but it is also bravos fault as well because they have the power of editing and are responsible on how they want to portray people and what story they want to show.

    • michers says:

      Lia, I think that whether Joe said it or not, Bravo should have some ethical professionalism regarding some things, at least! That is and should have stayed ( if true) between Teresa and Joe. This show has become too dark and they are profiting off of topics that they should not. This is a case where they should have asked Teresa and Joe if that is something they wanted public or private. I think someone should draw a line somewhere. T’s marriage is not the focal point of this show. None of these Housewives shows are supposed to be about one person’s every little personal private detail. At some point, they need to get back to square one of what these shows are supposed to be about . The potential demise of T or her marriage should not be that focal point, IMO.

      • michers says:

        And, I may add, if this is the route “everyone” is interested in then they need to let the skeletons come out and be shown in re to Jac’s marital affairs, as well as MeHo, Kathy, and Caro. They ALL have nasty little dealings they hide and lie about. Bravo should ban their little secret keeping contracts and open the flood gates!! There are many witnesses, people waiting to run their mouths and have not been allowed! So, if we are to judge and cast stamens on T’s hubby and what she puts up with, then let it all out about everyone.. and YES they are all shady and have secrets! The others husbands may not call them C U Next Tuesdays, but they have fun with others, and are some of the biggest pervs and sexualizers of women on our tv’s.

        • T says:

          BOOM! @Michers!
          Completely agree…this season & last season have been deliberate attacks on T & her family, by bravo & crew.
          I can not think of any other HW that has been treated like this. Not in any city!

          • Lee Bassett says:

            That may or may not be true but do you think Teresa will say “Wow this is really affecting my family in a bad way and making us look foolish” and not come back for another season? My money says no.

          • michers says:

            Lee,not sure! She was kind of stuck in that big debt this was her way out and has helped her get into other things to gains success and money. It would be nice to know how long her contract is for. Im sure she realized the minute her bro and other family joined that it was affecting her family, but to set her kids future up and get herself out of trouble may be worth it for her in the long run, don’t know? I personally do not know what I would do if it were me. I can guess but until in that situation, don’t know. I hope in the end everything works out for her and her girls and wish her happiness.

          • michers says:

            I know T. No one else- not even ex strippers, alleged strippers/rapists, other’s court cases and lawsuits and infidelities, lies, criminal activity. Frankly its pure bullshizz but nothing we can do. We keep feeding the monster of Bravo and they could give two craps about what we think.

          • BravNo says:

            They did this to Jill Zarin. She brought most of the original Ny cast on including Bethanny. I think she felt some ownership. Once Bravo and Andy had got what they needed from her they gave her the nasty edit, started taping her conversations off camera and playing them out of context and ultimately let her go and kept crazy Ramona. Don’t get me wrong, Jill could be self interested, but IMHO, she was no more so than Ramona and Bethanny and she was a classier person. Bethanny is manipulative and ultimately turns on everyone. Bottom line Jill could be sort of distasteful, but certainly no more than Alex, Ramona, Bethanny or the countess, then her husband got cancer, Bethanny was not there for her after everything they had done for her which even Bethanny said was considerable, and Bethanny got upset and wanted a break from her. In the meantime Bravo who did not want Jill as the leader any longer gave her the bad edit and she became a villain. Bottom line Bravo took a hiccup in a friendship and turned it into Jill is a villain. When Jill left I quite watching NYC. When they supported the grifter Taylor and I think played a role in Russell’s death i quit RhBH. What Bravo is showing is fiction not reality IMHO.

        • michers says:

          Lee: excuse my typos, long day.

      • Medicated Fan says:

        If Bravo gave the Housewives editorial control they would be too dull to watch. That is ridiculous. It would be a one hour commercial for whatever products they are hawking at the moment. It is almost that bad now.

        • BravNo says:

          I disagree season 1 and 2 oc, jeanna selling houses, Lori Waring kid troubles, Vicki selling insurance, nice clothes, fun outings….the show was not boring it was real. Now they have people secretly being taped and stuff being taken out of context, it is not reality….if they did season 2 O C today, I wonder if Lori’s kids would be shown buying drugs or shooting up…..and Jeanna and her x husband fighting. The families have not changed, Bravo has. I will be interested in seeing who comes back from N J. Maybe they will say the fake ness is not worth it and move on like Bethanny. I for one would love it if Teresa moved to E! Or Food Network.

          • michers says:

            Great point and my thoughts!!! Bravo has most definitely changed and changed for the devil and the dark side. Thats exactly why I loved watching all of the cities- it seemed more real at one point- until they found ways to be tricky and shady, and got away with misleading us viewers!

    • JanP says:

      I totally blame Bravo. It would be one thing if the Guidice girls were older, but they’re young girls. Also, they may not watch the episode, but what about their peers at school. They may end up being bullied which sucks and I blame Bravo for that. I just keep reminding myself this was filmed a year ago and hope Teresa laid down the law with Joe. They may not go to therapy, but maybe a priest could help. Not looking forward to carowhine’s opion regarding this situation. If she blames this on Teresa, that’ll confirm to me Al cheats on her. Just a feeling…

      • michers says:

        She pretty much already did- remember her little prediction 2 weeks ago? Writing a book, blah blah blah, whine whine whine.. Caro psycho giggle and smiles, then ” you heard it hear first”.. she is so jelly, she can’t see straight and has no heart, no soul, just menopause, allegedly!

        • JanP says:

          Oh, I remember the prediction. I just thought that was before anyone saw this new scene. If she’s smart (hahaha), her blog won’t mention Teresa at all (again lol). “Can’t stand ya” Manzos! (Seinfeld).

        • DEB says:

          This season has been so dark its ugly!! If Caroclown has this much power with Andy and the production team its soooo sad. Michers I agree with what you said about Caro she is so bitter and jealous and I believe she set this up from her prediction 2 weeks ago.

  14. Stacey says:

    Her marriage, her business.

  15. PandaBear says:

    I have an issue with people claiming Teresa is in denial or whatever. She knows what she will deal with and what she won’t. She knows what her marriage is and what it isn’t. I don’t demand that she fall apart and leave Joe as someone who does not know her.

    When I left my first husband I was absolutely miserable but no one knew it, people were actually shocked when I left. As far as I was concerned putting on a happy face gave me time to figure out what I was going to do without people asking me about it. It was my personal business and I kept it that way.

    Yeah Teresa is on a reality show but she has every right to defend her husband and act like everything is fine even if it isn’t, that’s what people do in real life.

    I see it less about her being weak or stupid than her keeping that part private regardless of what we the viewers and her co-stars may think.

    She has 4 beautiful daughters to think about and those are the only people she really owes anything to. I wish her the best and if she’s ok with Joe she should continue to live her life the way she wants to not how the rest of us think she should.

  16. RHOAmbler says:

    We do need to keep it in perspective that this was all filmed a year ago. A year ago my husband and I were in a lousy place. We worked on it and we are stronger now because of it.

  17. old NJ girl says:

    I think that Teresa and Juicy marriage did hit a rough spot last year. Between the real estate market crash, him losing his businesses and buildings, the bankruptcy, him becoming a stay at home day and depending on his wife to bring home the money, cameras in his face all the time, all the nasty rumors in the press, his brother and sister in law treating him and his wife like crap, his ex friends believing the lies,… it is no wonder that he was falling apart.
    I also strongly believe that their marriage and life has never been better. They are now surrounded only by her parents, his family and loyal friends who get them and love them. Teresa and Juicy worked together on the wine and teeth whitening products. Juicy seems to believe in himself again as a husband, father and man.
    Every picture I see of Teresa and Juicy since CA radiates an inner peace.

    • kate says:

      ?????????????????

    • Rosalie Marie, says:

      Old New Jersey,
      While I do think Teresa is earning a decent income, I also think Joe Giudice’ is still bringing home a lot more. He’s the bread winner.

      • JanP says:

        I thought he wasn’t working? I have no idea. How does he make his money?

        • Rosalie Marie, says:

          JanP,
          I just wrote a long comment explaining my comment, then I realized, frankly, it’s none of my business. I do think Joe is working though.

          Also, if Joe wasn’t working, why would he excuse himself from the table in Napa to make a call to his work? If he wasn’t working, he would not have said that. Joe has pride and I don’t think he would lounge around doing nothing while his wife was working.
          I don’t know the Giudice’ family so I could be very wrong.
          It’s really none of my business though and like I said, I should have never made the comment to begin with.

  18. kate says:

    They deserve each other – both are such trash – he has probably cheated on her off & on for years – wake up people & although it is not really my business THIS IS A BLOG TO DISCUSS THINGS LIKE THIS – you can’t discuss the positives aspects only – He is a pig & she likes pigs.

    • jen says:

      Must be something with the Gorga’s then. It seems like Joe Gorga also likes pigs, he sleeps with one every night :)

    • Bionic says:

      LOL! Baffles me how everyone here likes to trash talk and I bet 80% rejoice in the same activities…

    • girlnbayou says:

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      what she said!
      And no Im not a “Gorga”. Before you say that about me too. Im just not a fan of the way Teresa treats people. No cooth. Look at the things she said to the RVers. Since when is it wrong to be mindful of your tongue and be polite?

      • girlnbayou says:

        Sorry It didnt post under Kate

        • Mego the Lying stripper says:

          At least she was being sincere and trying to find common ground (grappa and moonshine) Melissa was the one who came off condescending. Couth.

      • Capile says:

        Yeah, if they had a sign “We love this trailer park more than our own children, if anybody doesn’t like this trailer park we’ll cut them” then it would have been rude. Otherwise, nobody cares. Have you ever gotten upset because you were staying at some random hotel and other people didn’t like it? Seriously?

        • cats-eye says:

          You know i live in those mountains to the left and no one camps there,your suppose to park and walk down the dirt road and put a tent up open a bottle of ripple get the pie out and party with everyone on the beach.Thats a party beach for teenagers been there done that.

      • littlewitch says:

        The way Joe Gorga treats people, that doesn’t bother you?

  19. lauren t says:

    Anyone else what Kathy wrote in twitter:

    “Well, well it looks like the #ArmyOfIdiots is recruiting some new soldiers again. When u all get to H*LL make sure u tell the DEVIL I sent u.”

    what a b!tch.

    • michers says:

      Well she will be talking to herself I guess…. She is the Army of Idiots.. Army of One :)

      • Jennifer says:

        Kathy is a prize idiot. Her failure to grapple at any business is a testament to that.

        • michers says:

          Right? I mean they are just desserts.. how long does it take to get a business deal? If she is knowledgable and somewhat business savvy, or WORTH something to a business, she would have had something by now besides schlepping her goodies at the Brownstone..LOL. She has been on for 2 years, but yet DREAMT of this ? Yeah ok Kathy.. Im serving you a super sized eye roll honey.

    • bbc says:

      LOVE Kathy… GO GIRL! Stay strong.

    • rukidding? says:

      she’s using the word “soldiers” now? isn’t that what jac always says?!! seems like kathy has been hanging with jac and caro too much. they seem to be brainwashing her.

  20. hoolie says:

    #1) Her marriage is between her, Joe and God. Period.

    #2) Last I knew the only perfect person to walk this earth was Jesus Christ

    This being said, no one is perfect.
    Everyone makes mistakes and ‘falls short of the mark’.

    If someone is committed to accepting another person, flaws and all, and is willing to walk lifes journey with them, forgive and grow then I will not tear them down.

    God Bless Teresa and Joe. They are more real than alot of folks want to admit.

    • Bionic says:

      This is true. I love it that people look at marriage and suggest that the minute things get a bit rough it is time to bail out.

      That’s life! Marriages will have infidelity issues, money problems, raising unruly kids, etc… but I wouldn’t respect one that calls it quits the second shyte aint peachy “trash” either. It’s her choice to decide what she accepts and doesn’t.

      SO how are you husbands? Are they all the perfect man, shining armor and all? Stop being hypocrites! I am sure if your friends were able to comment on your personal lives , they will sound like some of you on this board.
      LOL!

      • Bionic says:

        *call

      • Mego the Lying stripper says:

        Actually my husband is pretty perfect. Married 31 years, and I love him more every day.

        • cats-eye says:

          mine too 24 yrs. he just got home from work and is asleep in front of the t.v.already.

          • Rosalie Marie, says:

            Cats-eye, See, who says marriages don’t last! 24 years Congratulations!:)
            Guess what? That’s exactly what my husband is doing! Lol
            He falls asleep on the sofa (the television actually helps him sleep) and that’s where I leave him. lol

            Does that mean he sleeps in a seperate bedroom and we’re looking at divorce? NOT!! My husband loves me as much as I love him. A Lot. :)

        • Rosalie Marie, says:

          God Bless You Mego! 31 years is something to celebrate :)

          Been with my husband twenty years this past november. I do include the years we lived together because we were never seperated. Never. My husband is perfect to. I am lucky! :)

      • Tenisha says:

        If my husband talked to me like Joe talks to Teresa…you are absolutely right! My friends and family would be very vocal and if my husband wasn’t careful my dad and brothers would yank out his teeth.

    • LJ says:

      AMEN Hoolie!!! Idgaf if she’s on a reality show! We see what Bravo wants us to see! Only Teresa, Joe, and God know the full reality and truth of the situation and I’m not gonna jump on the bandwagon and make mindless accusations! Even after it airs I still wont because I wasn’t there! Bugs me when people decide for themselves the situation between a couple yet I’m sure they’re own relationship isn’t perfect!

    • LeAnneisBliss says:

      I couldn’t agree more. I don’t always like what Joe says and I don’t always like things T says. However, they’re REAL & don’t try to be someone they’re not just because the cameras are rolling.

      I have mad respect for anyone, whether I like them or not, for being TRUE to who they are & not allowing others to make them into something they’re not. Unlike the OTHER cast members of rhonj.

      All in all, J & T can be rough around the edges sometimes, (Joe especially) but they are who they are both on camera and in real life. THAT is something I can respect.

    • Medicated Fan says:

      Let’s not bring Jesus Christ into this mess. He’s got nothing to do with ANY of this mess.

  21. Jillian_Mancini says:

    Bottom line is people need to mind their business, especially when it comes to someone’s marriage. As Tre has stated in the past, there is about 80 hours of filming done to get 1 episode. So clearly, Bravo takes bits and pieces and creates the story THEY want us to see. If Tre and Joe went through something (over a YEAR ago) and all is well now, so be it. If she can live with whatever may have/may not have happened and her and Joe are good, that’s all that matters. Personally, I wish she would stop feeling the need to explain herself when it comes to her marriage. It is what it is. If people don’t like it, oh well.

    Finally, I am willing to bet that a large number of people that throw the nagativity at her on this topic are NOT married. Just sayin’.

  22. Olivia says:

    I think Tre has a lot of pride and would rather hold on to a maybe no so great relationship just to prove the haters wrong. But that’s not a good reason to stay in a hurtful relationship. I get that they’re old school Italian and you tough out a marriage no matter what, but when Joe acts like that, she’s setting an example to her girls of what they should tolerate. I hope they are happy and this was just a rough patch. But who would care even if Caro and Jac and Melissa were right about their marriage? Joe was right about karma. If I were them, I wouldn’t gloat over someone else’s marriage problems.

  23. Jessica says:

    Joe Guidice is an ass. I like theresa but she needs to own it. F**k all that pride B.S. This upcoming episode proves what a douche he is. He calls her, the mother of his children, a “C**t” and a “Bitch” WHILE cameras are rolling…..She needs to chuck up her deuces at him.

  24. love28 says:

    I love T, but Joe Giudice treats her like crap! Maybe now they worked things out. But you can tell a year ago he is cheating or something.. that phone call where he calls her a c*** is unacceptable.. and who would want to cheat with him? He has no job , 4 daughters, married.. That Daviana woman should be ashamed of herself.

  25. udontevenknow! says:

    Good grief! If Teresa doesn’t mind I guess we shouldnt. She doesn’t seem to care that Joe is a problem. I am sure when it goes down she will be surprised

  26. Maria says:

    Teresa will keep taking it from Joe & stay with him & defend their marriage until she can’t take it anymore, and really that is up to her. I did notice that she said the thing that makes her happy is her 4 children. She didn’t say anything about Joe making her happy. I think this is telling for the future!

    • donnalee says:

      You are exactly right..she did keep talking about her children and did not say that much about him..so we will see.

    • Jennifer says:

      Exactly! It is her marriage. If this does not bother her or they have worked past it, then it is no one’s business but Joe and Tre

  27. S.B says:

    99% of the men from Northern Joisey are obnoxious

  28. BravNo says:

    Aside from Huffington reporting it, has the footage actually aired? If the two people in the marriage say they are happy that should be the end of it.

  29. Someone Who is Watching says:

    Well there we have it straight from Tres mouth THERE IS NOTHING WONG WITH HER MARRIAGE. It is not even debateable. Until you have gone through a similar circumstance you do not understand how this works. Go Teresa! You have alot of class! I would and have handled myself exactly as you are! Too bad Bravo cared about their ratings instead of morals and values. As for what came out of Joes mouth well thats between a husband and wife. I would feel this way even if we were trying to debate Caro’s marriage. In fact I have stayed silent on the issue of the apartment above the Brownstone for this very reason it is none of our business! SHAME on BRAVO for trying to make it everyones business!

  30. Honnie Badger says:

    Good evening (at least in NJ) everyone! I am going to try to corral what I’m seeing/sensing and make it cogent; please bear with me and please weigh in, OK?

    OK.

    I think that when Teresa first signed up for this show and her husband Joe agreed, they did not anticipate the national combination of fame and notoriety she would bring during the course of three years, since Season 1 and “table flipping.”

    In those ensuing years, Teresa, prior to fame/notoriety was a dynamic young housewife. Now in 2012, she is a guaranteed tabloid cover girl (meaning $$ for the magazines), has 3 NY Times bestsellers, made a great path on Celebrity Apprentice — and meanwhile, hubby Joe has had legal issues and can quite possibly still go to prison.

    Therefore — traditional roles have been both quickly and publicly reversed. I feel he has butt-chap over it, cannot deal. Suddenly, stay-at-home wife/mom has become number-one income-earner AND a true modern TV star.

    I do feel Joe is deeply resentful while also feeling … a bit emasculated.

    Thoughts? I love the commenters here and love our interaction, so lay it on me!

    • Someone Who is Watching says:

      You very well could be right I hope we never know and whatever is going on (if there is something going on) remains as it should between Tre & Joe.

    • Mego the Lying stripper says:

      I think you have made valid points.

    • Susan says:

      I think you are right on. I also think Teresa and Joe’s “old school Italian” upbringing plays into why they are still together. I think if it wasn’t for Teresa’s parents and their traditional-Italian-devout Catholic beliefs, she may have already thrown in the towel. Teresa has too much respect for her parents to disappoint them.

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Honnie – I think ur right. I think that’s

      What I don’t understand is how the guy keeps getting “caught” saying these things while miked. Makes me suspicious editing is more at play. I mean, we don’t even know if tht whole sentence was said as one sentence. They splice things together.

    • Jennifer says:

      This is true. The role reversal is an issue that can cause resentment in any marriage. I do believe that is Teresa is fine with it, then I can personally think Joe needs to curb his tongue, but I am not the one married to him.

  31. Nicole says:

    every marriage has it’s ups and downs. No one’s marriage is perfect. It’s clear that Joe adores Teresa and loves her from seasons 1, 2, and 3. Season 4 they’re obviously having problems. But it’s also obvious that they worked through their problems. Joe even stated on WWHL that he regrets the way he talked to Teresa and the things he said to her. He acknowledged that he was wrong in that sense.

    • Mego the Lying stripper says:

      Actually it is not clear that he adores Teresa as he picked up his phone and some female said, “Hi Baby” The he told the caller that his wife was a b**** and a c***. Which is unacceptable and is not an indication of adoration, love and respect. It’s pretty much the lowest thing you can say about a female. Bravo took the clip down. they must have gotten some awful feedback and rightly so.

      • Nicole says:

        With all due respect, I think you should re-read my post. I said he obviously adores/loves Teresa from the first 3 seasons. I also made it a point to say that they’re obviously having marital problems in season 4 and perhaps he was cheating on her. No one’s marriage is perfect. They worked through it enough for Joe to realize he was wrong and admitted that the way he spoke to Teresa was unacceptable.

  32. Dubbalicious says:

    Having not yet read all the comments posted regarding this HOT topic. I will say this! My friend is starring in a VH1 show. I spoke to her recently about an episode that aired a few weeks back. They showed her and her boyfriend fighting in front of a customer at her place of business. Needless to say, I was shocked that she’d put herself and her business in such a bad light. After speaking with her she enlightened me. First she told me that the customer was absolutely not there during the fight ( they were alone in the store) secondly she told me that she called the producers and read them the riot act for presenting not only herself but her livelihood in such negative way. She also went on to tell me how words are being edited in that were not said at the time they were spoken. Another scene looked as if she had arrived late for a planned event, when in fact she’d been waiting there for 2 hours. With that being said, who knows how Bravo really manipulated this situation. Clearly anything New Jersey creates quite the buzz and even more so when it surrounds anything regarding Teresa. With that being said, I’ll wait till Sunday’s episode plays out and make an assessment then. As an adult woman who’s been married and divorced, I can say that it’s not my place to judge what goes on behind closed doors..Anyone’s doors.
    One thing I’ve realized while watching this show is that Teresa has made a conscience
    effort to keep her personal life private. We see what she wants us to see. Now, how
    Bravo decides to piece it together is another thing all together. While some call it
    denial, others like myself know that nothing about a husband/ wife relationship is easy.
    Throw in some children, in laws Reality TV and you got a lot on your hands. Even the
    greatest relationships weather storms. I always assume the biggest haters are
    probably not married and or are young. I’m sorry but until you live life, experience
    hardship, tragedy etc. You haven’t a clue what people are willing to tolerate and why they’re willing to do so!!

    • LeAnneisBliss says:

      AMEN!!

      And, we need to keep in mind this was LAST year. It’s not the present.

      I don’t like ANY man talking that way to/about a woman (if this was the case), but it’s HER life to live, her marriage and her RIGHT to stay in it if she chooses.

      With age comes wisdom, Dubba ;)

      • Mego the Lying stripper says:

        Of course it is her right to stay in it. She should do whatever makes her happy. maybe they throw those words around like they were nothing all the time.

        • LeAnneisBliss says:

          Hi Mego,

          I can tell you if my husband were to call me that word, that would be the last time.

          I don’t really know anyone personally who has a relationship throwing around words like that. Ugh, I can’t imagine.

          • cammierari says:

            lol I bet you don’t swear ever tho, right? It IS an ugly word, but for people who routinely use bad words, it’s just that extra “oomph” you need sometimes. Sort of how casual swearers used to think of the word “f*ck” for instance. I hate to admit that I have TERRIBLE language (very salty) from years of working as a bartender, so I don’t even flinch when I hear that word. Hey, I have been CALLED that word by a patron or two-it’s always what drunks call you when you shut them off (which is proof in itself that they DEFINITELY need to be shut off lol).
            Anyway, I’m not defending any husband calling his wife that. I’m just saying that for some people, bad language wouldn’t be a deal breaker.

          • Tenisha says:

            I get bad language…but my hubby calling me a c**t will cause Armageddon in my household. I would never talk to him like that. I wouldn’t accept anything less than the respect I show him.

    • Honnie Badger says:

      Good morning, Dubba!

      Unfortunately, for anyone who signs up for a reality show, expect the worse — debasement, embarassment, humiliation, degradation. Your friend likely had some sort of multi-page document to sign.

      Let me enlighten about those dang reality TV documents! A reality show as filming part of an episode near where I live and go to enjoy a cocktail. After about 7:00 pm, everyone in the place had to have signed a three-page consent form, if not, you had to get out.

      I cadged a copy of that form. I was one of the ones who said, “no way.” I read the whole thing at home and was shocked. See — even if you are only taped for a millisecond and it is showm — both the producers and the network (Oxygen in this case), had complete and full rights to do anything with that taped footage for perpetuity.

      Further, the contract explicitly asserts that it has the right to portray and manipulate all characters and situations in any way it desires.

      Now, imagine what a featured character signs away? Did your friend read the contract?

      • Kate (not the ignorant, Tre-hating "kate") says:

        I’d love to read that contract! You should scan it and post it somewhere! (Helen’s site maybe? Or give to Roxy?)

        • Honnie Badger says:

          Hi, Kate! You know I gave it to a friend of mine who is an attorney because he did NOT believe me when I told him about it — and he still has it!

        • Dubbalicious says:

          Does Helen still have her site? I forgot the name. Would you mind sharing it with me??
          Thanks!! :)

      • Dubbalicious says:

        I’m sure she did. Mob wives Chicago is the show. Funny enough, I have another GF I grew up with who resides in Scotsdale AZ. Bravo was going to do a housewives of Scotsdale version. She was all set to sign her contract but reconsidered. First because her son said he’d never talk to her again. Lol. (He’s in his early 20′s) and secondly she said her marriage was in a good place and didn’t want her past indiscretions brought to light. Renee was angry when they presented her and her business in a bad light. I would think that the money is enticing, free advertisement for her business as well. I also believe after reading through a contract and knowing what you think you might be getting yourself into, nothing prepares you for the way production manipulates a situation. All in the name of ratings/drama. I know with Mob Wives, they sees the episode when we do.
        It’s crazy stuff..that’s for sure!!

      • Jennifer says:

        That is true and standard. I was at Cipriani’s during a segment of RHWNYC and they handed out a very similar form.

      • rukidding? says:

        honnie, wow that is a scary contract. i don’t know what i would do if i was presented with that contract. many people have dreams of being on tv so i do believe many will sign that contract in a heartbeat regardless of the consequences. many people sign things not thinking of how it will change their lives or the responsibilites you have to accept through terms of conditions.

    • DEB says:

      AMEN DUBBALICIOUS!!!! WELL SAID PEOPLE SHOULD NOT JUDGE,AND I TRULY BELIEVE BRAVO SETS THINGS UP.

  33. fan of jerseyhousewives says:

    Do I think Joe and Teresa are having problems. YES! I also believe he has cheated on T. The main reason is because the kids pick up on it. The very first episode this season Gia was questioning Joe about a girl. Gia is old enough to know what is going on. I am sure as parents you try your best to sheild your kids from fighting but sometimes you cannot. Second reason was when T noticed he found his watch and he was being very shady about it. However this is all my opinion from just watching the show. I am not behind their closed doors. But they do say when there is fuel there is fire.

  34. cats-eye says:

    This is so pathetic and i think she is so strong to the public and feels she has to do this to survive but underneath all of this is a very sad person.She can’t be happy about this at least she has her kids and she is doing it for them and kudos for that she a great mom and she has alot of close friends off the show that are helping her.I understand her that’s why i will keep on being a fan.GOD BLESS TRE and the girls.

  35. Dubbalicious says:

    Indeed LeAnne. ?
    I’m feeling a little Bravo manipulation. Caroline makes a controversial comment..fast forward and Bravo is previewing Sunday’s episode showing Joe making a controversial comment. They have 1,000′s of hours of film that they can use when putting together an episode. We watch as if each week is an ongoing week, but it’s not. Bravo is piecing together a story and the viewers are going crazy!!

    • NonnaB says:

      I know, this trip to Napa has got to be about the most boring show ever. I’m just sick of the Lauritas, Manzos and Wakiles. I quit watching at the beginning of the season then I started watching and now I just wish the show would go away. It’s nothing but a penis flying sick show. Can’t stand none of it.

  36. Dubbalicious says:

    Emoji malfunction. ? = :)

  37. kydnaas says:

    I love Teresa but in all of my relationships, I’ve never been called a b word or the c word. Even if I had, I wouldn’t put up with it.

    I cannot even imagine my own father addressing my mother that way =/ I really really hope that this is just a case of editing the promo to make things look more dramatic than they really are… I love the Giudice’s :(

  38. Rosalie Marie, says:

    Gia had a stage appearance to dance in Florida, and while they were there, they went to Disney, and now they are soaking up the sun in New Jersey. They are living life in the sun. Looks like my wish came true. I want them healthy, wealthy, and living a lifetime of sunshine. Soak It Up! lol

  39. Rosalie Marie, says:

    I’m sorry, but if my husband ever called me a “C” word, I’m going to call him one right back! lol

  40. Rosalie Marie, says:

    I left this in the story regarding Joe calling Teresa a bitch. I am also going to post this here because I want everyone to read the link that connects it all together….”My Bitch Wife Is Here!”
    Caroline’s Sudden Prediction Of A Giudice’ and The Friendship Between Caroline And Bravo Producer That Really Connects It All Together!

    It’s a shame that Bravo would even feel the need to air this and I can’t help question why? It’s also baffling why Bravo would include to mention that the other housewives did not know about this. Really? What Bravo is really saying is Teresa did not know about this. Stoopid Housewives did a story that included information regarding Caroline. Caroline is friends with a producer. This would make sense why Caroline would make that divorce accusation. I think the producer friend went to Caroline and told her what he captured on tape, then the producer asked Caroline not to tell anyone about it. Which explains why Caroline would suddenly think about a divorce prediction for Teresa and Joe! This is all the stories came out that Joe Giudice’ is cheating. Joe sleeps in a seperate room. And of course, that famous prediction in the tabloid and Caroline’s talking head interview, “Teresa will play a victim, divorce Joe and write a book about it!”
    Caroline and her producer friend knew about this footage. I think that producer should be fired!!

    Anyway, this was filmed long before Celebrity Apprentice, and if you watched CA you would have noticed Joe running around and really trying hard not once, but twice to be there for Teresa. When she needs her husband, he is there.

    • Rosalie Marie, says:

      Someone told these women things that only that person would know.

      The producer.

      The producer told Caroline about the ‘apartment’ Teresa and Joe were building. Caroline told Jacqueline and she spread that rumor.

      The producer told Caroline that Joe slept in a seperate bedroom! It got to Jacqueline, which then got to us.

      The producer told Caroline about Joe Giudice’ talking on the phone with a woman, and called Teresa a bitch.
      Caroline called the tabloid herself claiming about a Giudice’ divorce.
      Then Jacqueline, right in sync with Caroline, throws a photo out there of Joe Giudice’ with another woman.
      The Producer Is Very Good Friends With Caroline.
      Which explains why Caroline is so confident with herself.

      • NonnaB says:

        Not to mention Bravo owes Caroline for letting Greggy be on the show and live with her boys. Greggy is a friend of the producer, not a long time friend of the Manzo boys. Says a lot about the lengths Caroline would go to – to insure her boys get film time.

        • Mego the Lying stripper says:

          This is true. I remember BBGreggy was cozying up to Teresa at the first Posche fashion show. Now all of a sudden, he is BFF’s with the Manzo’s? What??????????????

        • cammierari says:

          really!!? I didn’t know that about Gregg…that would also explain why Lauren always acted like SHE was just as good a friend to Gregg as either of brothers. Very interesting

      • jen says:

        I think you’re right Rosalie! I said a few days ago somewhere that C had a lot of nerve commenting on T’s marriage esp. when she already claimed she was never friends with her. How would she know so much about her if they weren’t that close. Can’t stand the MANZO’S!!! I really didn’t like the way she treated Danielle either, it was almost like she felt she was better then her so that made it alright to sh*t all over her. And now what she is doing to T is disgusting because she has T’s family involved in it too.

      • Samantha says:

        Nobody had to tell Caroline about the apartment. Everyone in town who drove by their house could see that they were building it.

        Teresa was the first to announce that she and Joe sleep in separate rooms. She told her hairdresser, on TV, that Joe was in “his room” before Melania (who also said it) or Jacqueline ever said anything.

        Teresa, imo, has been calling the tabloids herself regarding Joe’s cheating. To add insult to injury, she then tells everyone, the viewers include, that Jacq, Caroline, Melissa etc. etc. are the ones who are doing it.

        As for the fashion show, people are already saying that the producers were involved in the set-up and that it’s therefore their fault.

        Of course they were involved — they had been made aware, through Teresa’s actions, that Melissa was going to be set up. Did anyone expect them to just pretend it wasn’t going to happen and not film it?

        And I think we’re going to find out that the whole “released picture” of Joe at the diner is a joke.

        • Jennifer says:

          Sam,

          You are wrong. Do you know how far Teresa’s house is from the street. I know personally so I can tell you the house is NOT visible from the street at all. You are a liar as usual!

          • Rosalie Marie, says:

            Jennifer, I’ve never been to Teresa’s house or neighborhood (And I never will) but from what I have seen in photos, the house looks far from the road, and is built around a wooded area, and the street that leads to their home appears to be a single lane country road. Just from photos alone, it’s easy to see that Teresa’s home is blocked by trees and a huge gate. So I doubt anyone can simply drive into her neighborhood and see what’s going on at her house.
            Samantha, are you a stalker? Have you been stalking Teresa’s home? I have to tell you, I live in Maryland which is only a hop, skip and jump away from Teresa’s New Jersey home, and I would never even dream of going by her home. That’s just too close to comfort for me and I would feel like a stalker.

    • Someone Who is Watching says:

      Makes sense Rosalie. Sorry I missed the first time you posted this!

  41. Victoria Veney says:

    I wanna say I liked Mich’s comment too, that being said I am really disapointed in some of you and your comments!! First off who are we to judge Teresa and Joe’s marriage? No one or no marriage is perfect 1st off we have no ideal what that call is about or if he said that comment at that exact moment we all know how Bravo does these 2!!! Just because this couple is on tv does not mean they dont have a right to their privacy and to not be put on the spot like that if that is really true call and Joe is doing something he shouldn’t God be with them both and help both of them work this out cause this is a beautiful family and I wish Joe and Teresa nothing but the best!! I hope they are fine and I hope that it’s all a ploy by Bravo for more ratings!! People should not go around judging people and their marriage we dont live with them we dont see them on a day to day bases only thoes 2 know what going on with their marriage!! Like I said I hope and pray to the Lord above if this is true be with this family and put this marriage back on the right track agin Lord. Let just wait to see this sunday before we start saying Joe’s cheatin and Teresa caught him cause it could be very well Bravo doing this just for ratings that my hope anyway!!

    • singer030587 says:

      I agree!! if its not your relationship you need to stay out. That’s the problem with the other ladies they need to stay out and so does bravo, If It is all for ratings then bravo should be in trouble for that

    • jerseygirl says:

      I think it’s clear that what Joe Giudice said was out of line.

      But I 100% agree that we have no business commenting on the overall relationship over clips of Joe Giudice unfiltered mouth. And Bravo has no business editing the storyline to make it look like they are having marital problems.

    • disgusted says:

      I AGREE BEFORE YOU JUDGE SOMEONE MAKE SURE YOURE PERFECT

  42. RahRah says:

    I am sticking by Teresa, thick or thin.

    • bbc says:

      I don’t know any of these women. I’m not related to any of them. I’m not part of anyone’s PR firm. I don’t feel that I owe them anything – most especially not sticking with them thick or thin. When they’re wrong, they’re wrong. When the show goes off the air, they’re gone, too, unless they’re in other projects I care to follow.

  43. Margie says:

    I hope they do have a strong marriage and that things work out. I adore their beautiful kids.

  44. Lindafromnj says:

    I just watched this new preview clip from people.com and I noticed that when we first hear Joe talking you don’t actually see him on camera until T gets up and walks over to him. I really think that Bravo did some editing and took his words from other scenes throughout the season.I really think it was a set up.

    http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20619673,00.html#disqus_thread

    • NonnaB says:

      First why are people blowing this all up, we’re not talkn about a preppie guy talking here. It’s Joe and most Italian guys I know talk like that around other guys (which I’m sure he was talkn to another guy on the phone). It was not meant for Teresa or the public to hear and I’m sure he feels awful about it. Shame on Bravo for airing that. Did anyone talk to Joe to see what he had to say???

    • Lindafromnj says:

      I think when Joe says her comes my wife followed by she’s such a bitch he is not shown on camera because those words came from 2 different scenes throughout the season and Bravo put them together to make it seem like Joe was saying this about T when he was on the phone.The first time you actually see Joe on the phone instead of just hearing his voice is when T asks who he’s talking to.

  45. NonnaB says:

    I think the one to watch is Jacko and Chris. From recent pictures on her twitter and her appearances in scaming the public with Blk they don’t seem to together. Down right cold in fact.

    • bbc says:

      Chris watches out for his wife, frets over her hurt feelings, and doesn’t want her trusting “friends” who aren’t worth her time. He even wanted to make sure the women could get along and enjoy the lovely Cali trip. I don’t see Chris treating his wife the way Juiceless treats his.

      • NonnaB says:

        You are kidding right. Creeper Chris we’re talkn about. He made his wife the lush she is. He wanted to get paid by Bravo. He very rarely even touches his wife. Not even to hold her hand.

        • Jennifer says:

          Totally agree about chris being a creeper. Plus he needs his wife on the show as a platform for BLK. He is near penniless now!

      • jen says:

        Chris watches out for his wife alright but not because he cares about her getting her feelings hurt he wants to make sure the drunk b*tch isn’t running her mouth about their legal problems causing him more trouble when it comes to the case and if she is he wants to be there to shut the b*tch up!

  46. NonnaB says:

    A lot of fans are upset over Kathy Wakile’s twitter about Teresa’s fans.

    6 Aug Kathy Wakile ?@KathyWakile
    Well,well it looks like the #ArmyOfIdiots is recruiting some new soldiers again,When u all get to HELL make sure u tell the DEVIL I sent u????

    I’m sure Bravo would be proud of how she treats fans.

  47. HAILIESMAMA says:

    Here are some Melissa Gorga quotes i found in her past blogs. quite interesting. Sorry if its long.

    ‘I will do reality TV as long as it makes me happy and I am enjoying it.’
    ‘One thing you will learn about me is that when I’m wrong, I say I’m wrong.’

    ‘Teresa has kept my husband, Joe, and his family (me and my three children) away from everything she has been going through and everything that has been so exciting in her life for the last three years’

    ‘Teresa has kept my husband, Joe, and his family (me and my three children) away from everything she has been going through and everything that has been so exciting in her life for the last three years’

    ‘She has never been happy for her brother or cared about anything good going on in his life or his children’s.’

    ‘She kept us as far away during Season 1 and Season 2, because I think she knew this would happen when they found us. Karma is a bitch. ‘

    ‘Family comes first for me’

    ‘ We are not fakers, sorry’

    ‘hairdresser, Evelyn. She has been my hairdresser for four years now. She used to do Teresa’s hair as well. As far as I knew, Evelyn was no longer doing Teresa’s hair…Evelyn still does my hair three times a week’

    ‘eresa says she was her brother’s best friend before he got married, I believe that was true…She was the only girl around, and there was no one else to share the spotlight with. Teresa likes to be the center of attention…Well she has met her match! ‘

    ‘ Teresa has made Joe and I cry for years’

    ‘When Teresa called my sister Lysa for advice because we didn’t want to talk to her anymore, I warned my sister not to talk to her.’

    ‘ My sisters have always welcomed her with open arms, and sometimes they were too nice to her, if you ask me!’

    ‘Can’t this family see how hurt this man is?’ REFERRING TO JOE GORGA.

    ‘… he was drinking. We were celebrating our son, it’s very normal for us to have a good time and let loose at a party.’ (@BAPTISM HMMMM…)

    ‘He is the best uncle in the world…he expected the same when his daughter was born, but unfortunately he didn’t get it. Why? Because it’s all about Teresa.’

    ‘He will always be an amazing uncle to them, even if she chooses not to be an amazing aunt’

    ‘Jacqueline seems a little passive, but believe me, she is smart and tough. She is very good at remaining calm.’

    & THIS IS JUST HER FIRST BLOG LOL

  48. HAILIESMAMA says:

    MORE MELHOE QUOTES:
    *IM LEAVING QUOTATIONS OUT BC ITS A LOT OF WORK. LOL BUT ITS HER QUOTES AFTER THIS:

    Sorry to all my haters, but I’m not going anywhere! Something tells me that as the season goes on the haters may change their opinions. Well, I hope so at least.

    If I just keep telling the truth, I won’t get myself into a bind. It’s the best way to go.

    Joe and I have never once asked Teresa to put us on TV.

    To be perfectly honest with you, Joe never wanted to be around the cameras.

    We were happy for her when she got the show, and I told her she should do it.

    It might be easy to think that we were jealous that she was on TV, but that is not the case.

    Whether cameras are there or not, we just wanted to be a family… I know it might appear otherwise, but it’s just not the truth.

    You will come to see that when my kids walk into a room, Joe and I just light up. (CAN WE ALL TELL BY THE COCKBLOCKER STATEMENT? LOL)

    At this point I’m really starting to like Kim D., but I am not so sure about Kim G.

    Friends come and go, but family is forever.

    Kathy and Rich invited us over to talk about what happened at the christening.

    (TALKING ABOUT JOEGO & TERESA ABOUT CHRISTENING)
    He wanted an apology for doing what she does best, causing a stir and getting everyone crazy when it all could have been avoided in the first place…He then would have told her he is so sorry for calling her garbage.

    Jacqueline hits the nail right on the head when she says, “Whenever Teresa says hello or congratulates someone, sh– hits the fan.”

    really didn’t want me to go over by Joe Giudice’s mom because of some of the events that happened at the christening. I will never embarrass that family more than they already have, so I choose not to talk about it

    I’m sure you know by now whenever Teresa pauses, thinks for a minute, and you see that blank face come on, you know what’s coming.

    , I am caught in the middle of a brother and sister quarrel. Sometimes the sister doesn’t like to fess up to things she has done to hurt the brother-sister relationship.

    she even blames it on the fact that he got married. This is so not true. If he or I ever did something wrong, believe me, Teresa would tell you. You would know by now. You will see that I do everything in my power to mend the fences here, watch and see!

    I just ask that you don’t be too judgmental until you know us a little better.

  49. NonnaB says:

    Well at least she didn’t tell fans of RHONJ to go to Hell like Kathy Wakile did.

    6 Aug Kathy Wakile ?@KathyWakile
    Well,well it looks like the #ArmyOfIdiots is recruiting some new soldiers again,When u all get to HELL make sure u tell the DEVIL I sent u????

  50. HAILIESMAMA says:

    MORE MELHOE QUOTES:
    *IM LEAVING QUOTATIONS OUT BC ITS A LOT OF WORK. LOL BUT ITS HER QUOTES AFTER THIS:

    I want you all to know I read each and every one of your comments, so keep them coming!

    (REFERRING TO KW)
    We have never spent Thanksgiving at home together, this is the first time

    (REFERRING TO HER FIL SHOPPING ITALIAN STORE)
    When I first got married I used to go all the time with my father-in-law, we would go shopping together a couple times a month and before every holiday!

    why did I write “redone home?” … Was it a dig? Yes! Teresa did live in that house for five years before they decided to put the addition on it…Did I know she would not like the wording, yes.

    We spent almost every Sunday with them and we went out to dinner with Joe and Teresa and Kathy and Rich almost every weekend! Believe me I tried, I put his family first.

    I have to admit I’m a little sad today seeing how Joe Giudice was talking about me…I’ve never done anything to hurt him, and I made him the godfather of my first born child, Antonia..

    At this point I will do anything in my power to get this fixed and have everyone work it out. When I say I will deal with anything I have to so he can have his family I mean it. Anything. I will stop at nothing to fix this.

  51. HAILIESMAMA says:

    MORE MELHOE QUOTES:
    *IM LEAVING QUOTATIONS OUT BC ITS A LOT OF WORK. LOL BUT ITS HER QUOTES AFTER THIS:

    The way Joe is supporting me is so untouchable. I know he loves me and I thank him everyday for what he does for me. I can’t repay him with money, so I repay him by keeping his children immaculate, having dinner ready every night, having clean clothes for him everyday, and most importantly waiting on him. Since the day I married Joe, I have been waiting on him… I give him the peace of mind that his wife is home and waiting on him.

    they say the best revenge is success.

    I want everyone to understand that we all need to forgive and forget, let the past be the past. It’s time to get over it. It’s time to move on.

    Okay so now Ashley gets a car? Wow, she is one lucky girl! This girl is good!

    Caroline is doing radio! Yay! We all love to hear what she has to say.

    (REFERRING TO JOEGORGA & TERESA)
    I know at this point I’m going to have to take whatever they want to dish out to me, and I am willing to do it for my husband….I am willing to let things slide if that’s what it’s going to take..

    It’s obvious That I will support whatever it takes for my husband to reconcile with his sister. It is so emotionally draining..

    Teresa and I may never see eye to eye..

    As you see…the breakdown between my husband and his sister began well before I entered the picture.

    Anyone who knows me knows that I am not cold. I am one of the most loyal people around.

    Joe tells Teresa to “do what you do best” and ignore us. He’s referring to the fact that Teresa doesn’t call to see how our kids are or come over to see our family…I never wanted to ignore her phone calls, but sometimes I would be having a nice day with my kids and she would call…

    what Joe tries to explain to Teresa is that I wrote that card, because when we finished our new house, she called not to congratulate us, but to say that we only finished your home in a year because we had a loan. It seemed like Teresa was upset that we finished our home first, like it’s a competition.
    (HERES THE LINK PROVING TERESA WAS RIGHT. http://famewhorgas.wordpress.com/2012/02/08/melissa-says-we-pay-our-bills/)

    The problem is that Teresa pretends like everything is fine when it’s not. She has a tendency to throw a blanket over everything instead of sitting down and getting to the root of the problem

    (JOE GORGA)He just wants Teresa to own up to her mistakes

    She tells Jacqueline that I’m a “gold-digger”

    I held down three jobs to put myself through college when I first met Joe…what’s so wrong with Joe and I falling in love and moving in together quickly?…Joe and I hit rock bottom financially and I stood by him until …

    “As soon as I met Joe, I saw his house. I wasn’t stupid like my two sisters, I was smart.” Now that is an absolute lie. I never thought Teresa would go so low as to outright lie.

    I’m glad you get to see our dinner with Kathy and Rich at Kim and Bob Hiza’s house. You can clearly see that we had the perfect opportunity to discuss Teresa and Joe Giudice’s financial problems, but we took the high road as we always do when that topic is brought up in the press, on the show, and around other people. (YA RIGHT MELISSA …LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL)

    We are not out to get Teresa or talk about their legal issues

    When I say I want this family to get back together, I truly do mean it.

  52. HAILIESMAMA says:

    ROXI I HOPE YOU’RE OK W/ THIS !!!

    MORE MELHOE QUOTES:
    *IM LEAVING QUOTATIONS OUT BC ITS A LOT OF WORK. LOL BUT ITS HER QUOTES AFTER THIS:

    I’LL START OFF MAKING U LAUGH… READY… LOL :

    it might seem like I roll my eyes a lot, but that is not because I don’t want to listen to her, it’s because I’m thinking. I think with my eyes, I always have, so I just wanted to clear that up.

    I also got a little frustrated when she brings up her brother’s business deals… It’s almost like she’s trying to expose him or something. ..so I got a little aggravated.
    Family is everything, even if we don’t always see eye to eye. When all of this is over, who will still be here? Family.

    I was that girl in high school who just wanted to get married and have babies…

    Music was my first love! I could remember being in elementary school and loving music… Mrs. Orkfiz. She wrote in my sixth grade yearbook that she can’t wait to see me on the cover of People Magazine. I still have it and will never forget she wrote that. I loved her!

    I’ve come to find that Jacqueline and I have a lot in common, we both just want everyone to be happy…Neither of us will push anyone or say a word unless we are provoked.

    Albie, Chris, and Lauren are such a breath of fresh air!

    I have a very close relationship with God, and I’m a very spiritual person. I believe in thanking Jesus for everything that goes well in life. It is my belief that all good things come from him…

    Lauren reminds me of a little Caroline…I feel like she says it all with her face

    Kathy and Teresa’s little clash was sad…ragging it on and on I don’t think is a good idea…

  53. HAILIESMAMA says:

    ROXI I HOPE YOU’RE OK W/ THIS !!!

    MORE MELHOE QUOTES:
    *IM LEAVING QUOTATIONS OUT BC ITS A LOT OF WORK. LOL BUT ITS HER QUOTES AFTER THIS:

    some of the christening moments came back to haunt us, which might explain some of my sister’s hard feelings and a lot of mine and Joe’s. My whole family was just trying to help and hold people back, Joe Giudice’s family was actually throwing punches. Joe’s reluctance to go to Christmas Eve at his sister’s house was because Joe Giudice’s parents were going to be there. He was still hurt by what they did at the christening

    eally looking to get along with Teresa now, I want her in my life and I really just want for us to enjoy being together. For the first time in a long time it doesn’t feel forced.
    Christmas Eve at Teresa’s house seemed perfect to me.

    Teresa said I don’t act like a Gorga, but the truth is I’m not a Gorga! I’m a Marco and very proud of it! She needs to realize that her brother’s married and learn to welcome people into the Gorga family. There are a lot of wonderful people out there that are not Gorgas!

    Just for the record, I have done nothing to hurt Joe Giudice or his family. I have no idea what his problem is with me. Joe and I were really taken aback by his comments.

    well Joe Giudice, I happen to be very grateful for everything in my life and I think I live a great life, so please stop analyzing it and just worry about your own.

    I wanted to clear up all those nanny rumors out there. I read in more than one place that I have two nannies, a live in maid, and a cook…. Not true! Silvina, who was our au pair for six months on the show…I actually can’t believe I let a young girl that beautiful live in my house ( that’s so not like me)!…
    I do the cooking and cleaning in my house just like the rest of the world.

    (REFERRING TO TERESA PASSIVE AGGRESSIVELY)
    A couple of weeks ago they were dining on the floor and now she has a huge dinning room table big enough for twenty people! God bless them that they are able to turn everything around and have a special day for their kids.

    I can’t believe Teresa said I don’t cook! I cook! My husband gets a home-cooked meal five nights a week and happens to love my killer pork dish.

    I want to be in a better place with Teresa, and you can tell that I’m actually trying…constant jabs and negative comments play a big part in why our relationship unraveled in the first place…When I told Teresa that I am pursuing my dream of recording an album, she completely dismisses me…SHE say she’s never heard me sing and try to put me on the spot to sing for her right then and there. I wasn’t going to sing for her so she could cut me down… I remember when we were driving to my wedding shower, I sang in the car…

    I’m glad that she is leveraging being on the show to make opportunities for herself. (TERESA)

    Teresa said that my Joe built the recording studio to make money, it was hard to remain positive…He built the studio in our basement so that I could be at home with the kids, who are always my first priority…

    It’s honestly exhausting to carry on this way and we have been at it for years!

  54. HAILIESMAMA says:

    ROXI I HOPE YOU’RE OK W/ THIS !!!

    MORE MELHOE QUOTES:
    *IM LEAVING QUOTATIONS OUT BC ITS A LOT OF WORK. LOL BUT ITS HER QUOTES AFTER THIS:

    Teresa trying to get her speech out was funny too

    m so excited to be performing at Beatstock on Saturday in Long Island! It’s going to be a long week… I just flew in Cris Judd to work with me on the choreography

    acqueline, Jacqueline… Stop making me cry, you break my heart. I know that things will work out for her and Ashley

    vented to Kathy about the play date that Teresa and I had, because I didn’t want to vent to my husband and I had to get it off my chest.

    Kathy is my friend and I tell her everything. Doesn’t everyone vent to their friends?

    Joe Giudice was upset that we were going to Teresa’s book signing and let my husband know over a text message. He felt like it was just for show.

    We never knew she was writing a book in the first place until we heard about it in the press.

    Joe wanted to tell Teresa about what her husband was texting and saying about him because the tension between them is what’s continuing to cause the problems with his relationship with his sister.

    Yes, I do argue with Teresa and it does make me resent her sometimes. It’s like she will never say she is wrong.

    (REFERRING TO JUICY JOE) It was just so unsettling to see a grown man drunk at a dinner party…

    the phone call between Teresa and I gave me a headache

    I know the party got a little sad with Gia, but as horrible as it may have felt, I think we needed that.

    If my daughter was ever upset that way and I was seeing this at home, you couldn’t get me to fight with my sister-in-law no matter how hard you tried.

    did you see Lauren and Vito practically making love with the mozzarella!

  55. HAILIESMAMA says:

    ROXI I HOPE YOU’RE OK W/ THIS !!!

    MORE MELHOE QUOTES:
    *IM LEAVING QUOTATIONS OUT BC ITS A LOT OF WORK. LOL BUT ITS HER QUOTES AFTER THIS:

    It’s amazing to see how Joe and his family went a complete 180 from the first episode to the last. Thank you, Jesus!

    tHIS IS IT FOR NOW… I HAVE THINGS TO DO, IF ALRIGHT W/ ROXI I CAN DO MORE LATER.

    • Rosalie Marie, says:

      HAILIESMAMA

      Somebody Is On The Roll! lol
      This is very good!

    • Rosalie Marie, says:

      As a matter of fact, if I don’t know any better Hailiesmama, I would say you are preparing for that reunion. lol
      Wow, this took a lot of time to put together. You did really good with this. :)

      • HAILIESMAMA says:

        Thanks guys, had free time lol. I was hoping Roxi wouldn’t get mad. That isn’t even all of her blogs. I just wanted to expose her for the liar she clearly is. she says one thing, does another. i was getting so angry while reading through them!

    • cammierari says:

      thanks HAILIESMAMA! That was a lot of work, but very interesting to have it all there in black and white!!

    • Medicated Fan says:

      Cool story, bro.

  56. JanP says:

    Maybe Teresa won’t leave Joe till their kids are older? Happens all the time.

  57. Medicated Fan says:

    I am really starting to think this is all a plot device with the willing participation of the Giudices. Surely, he is really not stupid enough to “forget” that he is mic’ed and on a nationally seen reality show. I think they are both willingly playing out this farce to show they are able to do whatever needed to increase viewership. Either that or they are the stupidest folks in NJ.

    • Tenisha says:

      Wow…hadn’t thought of that.

    • Samantha says:

      I agree 100%. The money they’re getting from the tabloids for these stories doesn’t hurt, either.

      • Samantha says:

        I’m not saying that he’s NOT cheating, but if he is it has nothing whatsoever to do with this badly-written dog and pony show the Giudices have been putting on for us all season.

        • HAILIESMAMA says:

          no one cares about what u think Samantha.

          • Samantha says:

            What happened, did you get tired of copying and pasting every single thing Melissa has ever said? And you’re doing this why again, exactly? Obsessed much?

          • Hailiesmama says:

            Samantha, I didn’t copy everything…. just some of the most ridiculous ones. & to answer your question, i was TIRED OF READING ALL OF YOUR FAKE ASS BLOGS, I WAS LITERALLY GAGGING. I DO FEEL OBSESSED WITH JUSTICE. YA, I GUESS THAT IS TRUE! MELISSA IS A FAKE PHONY. SHE ISN’T FOOLING US.

          • Jennifer says:

            Samanatha is the ne that wrote those disturbing posts on this site in May about Gia. All her posts in May towards Gia were pedophilic in nature, so do not give a seconds thought to Sam she is a vile and disgusting person.

        • JanP says:

          I get the feeling you’re a shutin. Do you have cabin fever? I have no idea of your age and all the attention you seek is bazaar. Either your parents ignore you or your husband. My guess is you have no children considering some of the comments you’ve made regarding children. Maybe you were bullied as a child. Hmmmm. Do you think making off the wall comments will give you attention? Sure seems like it. Whenever I read your comments, I feel sympathy for you.

          Don’t bother replying I stopped reading comments from Samantha. No more pity coming from me.

          • JanP says:

            This comment was for Samantha. Sorry.

          • Rosalie Marie, says:

            You are absolutely right about Samantha. She/he wants attention and probably gets a good laugh pissing off some of the readers here. Why else would she be leaving comments here instead of a blog that is more in line with her view, such as Reality Tea or Us Weekly?
            I don’t go to Reality Tea because the bloggers are extremely vile and because the stories are anti-Teresa. So why would I blog there? I don’t.
            Why would Samantha blog her knowing she’s going to receive opposition? She’s creating humor for herself.

    • MrsA2u says:

      I was thinking the same thing. Its like if we all feel bad for T than we will all go out & buy her products. When this show first started years ago it was great but now I feel like its just one long commercial, one wife after another pushing the latest product. I miss the old episodes when it was about the wives & there life. Maybe we might see that again but I highly doubt it will be with this show.

    • dellsbells says:

      I do believe Joe is stupid enough. This is the same guy who thought he could get away with fraudulently using his brother’s name and info for the DMV while said brother had the same ID. He also thought he could avoid a DUI charge by claiming he drank after the car accident.

      As to Teresa leaving Joe, it’s never going to happen.
      I believe even if he was physically abusive, she would be making excuses for his behavior. Divorce to “old school” Catholics is not an option.

  58. Heidi says:

    I’m confused. Isn’t Teresa the one who recently said that we, the viewers, don’t get to see everything that happens because of EDITING? Now we’re just suppose to believe what we see, now that she’s saying someone else is about to be an instigator in drama? Well Teresa, make up your mind. Is what we see real or is it fake? You can’t have it both ways. You can’t pick and choose what you want us to believe. Get a grip lady.

  59. disgusted says:

    ALTHOUGH NO MARRIAGE IS PERFECT I BELIEVE TERESA LOVES JOE AND IS A LOYAL FAITHFUL WIFE …. AS FOR JOE I BELIEVES HE LOVES HIS WIFE BUT HE IS A MAN SO WHO KNOWS?????? I HOPE ITS NOT TRUE THAT HE IS CHEATING

  60. Joannaaa says:

    If that is what she calls a “happy marrige” she´s even more delusional than I thought. We are gonna se him call T a “b*tch” and a “c*nt” to his mistress. So sad.
    You can tell that she knows that he is cheating just by the way she talks to him and is so nerveus around him. Even Gia knows, it shows very clearly in the episode when they are in the car and Joe´s been out with “some ladies”. Just look at poor Gia´s expression and what she says.
    Also so sad that she has to hear her mother calling Melissa a c*nt in the car after Kathys poolparty.

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