Teresa Giudice Almost Brought to Tears When Asked About Joe Gorga

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We all know that RHONJ has revolved around Teresa not getting along with her brother and his wife Melissa. They just saw each other for the first time in a year at the Season 4 reunion taping and we already know that it did not end very well for them!

Teresa spoke to OK! Magazine when she attended the 6th Annual Eric Trump Foundation Golf Invitational in New York City earlier this week, and according to the magazine’s report, Teresa was almost brought to tears when she was asked about her current relationship with Joe Gorga. Teresa says, “I haven’t spoken to my brother in a year and I never thought that would happen. So, I don’t know, hopefully in another year we will be speaking. Who knows, maybe we won’t. Where I see myself, is that hopefully I will be speaking to him.”

I feel really awful for the Gorga family and I hope they can move past their drama as soon as possible! It’s time to get past the drama of reality TV and make things better for the sake of family and not fame. Do you think the Gorga family will ever be able to reconciliate?

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  1. LilMama says:

    I think Melissa and Teresa are too much alike in the worst ways possible. Until their 15 minutes are up, I don’t think they’ll speak.

    • nannynonna says:

      Good observation. They are very much alike in many ways. NO AMOUNT OF MONEY IS WORTH THIS. Would they be on the outs anyway? Who knows. The show did not help. Public scrutiny does so much damage to private lives.

    • s says:

      Agreed, I will say this – on WWHL maybe the after show? Teresa got a call about Melissa and she looked very sad and said I love her and I will always love her. Melissa was watching WWHL and at some point said – she looks happy. I think they do both have regrets. I wish they would just call a truce. I feel bad for the kids and frankly for them. I think Melissa would do it and that Joe Gorga is stopping it. He is a big baby. But Melissa would have to get her sisters to shut up – they really fuel the fire on twitter.

      • Andrea from Alabama says:

        Although I do love to bash the hell out of Melissa I will say the scene of her taking Antonia to school and with Teresa girls was cute. The scenes with Teresa kids involving Melissa makes her little bit more likable to me. Honestly, I think that they both have people in their ears telling them that the other is wrong, and that they should hold their ground. From the reading tweets, I’m positive that Melissa’s sisters and make up artist are in her ear. JMO.

        • hannavas says:

          I feel the same way. If all the cameras and all the negative people were gone they’d be able to get along. The problem is that the most negative influence of all is Melissa’s family. Her sisters don’t want them to make up because then they’d have no reason to be on the show.

          • hotsummerday says:

            I think the most negative influence of all is Melissa herself. She doesn’t care about Teresa or the rest of her husband’s family. She has totally isolated him from his sister, and how could the outcome have been any different? They thought dragging Teresa through the mud every week would bring them all together? Yeah, right!

            Melissa, Joey Gorga, and Kathy are scum. We’re taught to believe that family members always have our best interests, but in this case that’s false. Teresa’s brother is not who she thinks he is.

    • Obvious says:

      They are nothing alike, nothing. Mel is very vindictive and cunning. Tre actually has a moral compass.

      • Kelly says:

        I agree when I was reading the post that they are so much alike, I was thinking no way. Those two are night and day.

        • jeanie says:

          Plus, IT WAS Melissa and Joe who joined the show KNOWING they weren’t getting along, and whom ultimately decided to air their dirty laundry. So, sorry, it is Melissa and that ultimate baby/disgusting Joe Gorga’s fault. For 2 seasons, Teresa never said anything negative about her brother or sister-in-law, but they were so damn jealous and got on the show in a very wicked way.

          • Prettypinkie says:

            Wow! You are right on point and not only that but Melissa was talking to Danielle for a long while about things that we as the viewers don’t know. Melissa and her sistas we’re all in on it so Melissa figures I have to get on the show for more drama and she did.. Melissa had it all planned out the singing sticking it to Teresa anyway she could’ve and she got very very closes to Jaco-sicko this nut bag really really needs medication she’s serious problems OMG, she’s worry all about TERESA,and TERESA THAT I mean come on she should be more worried about her SON then Teresa done you think??? Melissa knew what was up that’s why she wanted to go on the show to start drama in the family it’s so sad what Melissa did was ruined the whole family. when Teresa started on the show she never said 1 thing about her family at all not even 1 time to have the drama put out their. It’s so SAD FOR WHAT MELISSA DID TO A FAMILY. You think she woulda been nice CARING more so of her FATHER IN LAW because of her FATHER pass away. This is why I feel she doesn’t have a care in the world about Joe & Teresa’s Family and uses Her husband Joe just like a puppy dog cuz of all the hate and jealousy she has towards Terese a Melissa wants to be Teresa. Really think about it Melissa is nuts and her sistas are too.

    • Meri Ulrich says:

      I agree. As long as they remain on this show and are competing for fame and fortune they will never reconcile. I’m not sure that Melissa wants to make up with Teresa because I think she joined the cast to give Teresa a bad time and to replace her as the star of the show. Teresa’s no angel but this was her show prior to her family joining up. I believe that Melissa and Kathy had an agenda. I believe that kathy is a huge trouble maker and that she never liked Teresa.

      • reddvette says:

        Totally agree. I think Kathy is the major source of Tresa, Melissa and Joe drama. Kathy has been dealing with issues about her feeling for Teresa since she married Richie when Teresa was 16yrs old. The divison really makes her day.

  2. Jenny says:

    I feel so sorry for Teresa! Husband, brother, $$, friend drama…all on top of normal life raising 4 kids. She can’t seem to catch a break.

    • Joanna says:

      It all seems so unnecessary right? I’ve been thinking, why does Joe jump at the chance to keep friction and distance in their lives? Thats not normal. Either he has some low level mental issue or Teresa knows something about little brother that would be very embarrassing to let out. I bet he’s got some big secrets and keeping Teresa at an arms length makes him feel better. I know he was accused of raping a girl, but I’m betting there’s more out there.

      • Bobbie says:

        I think your far reaching with your thinking. Re a possible rape, if that were so, i’m sure the authorities would have pursued it. There is definately something wrong with this picture, but only those involved truely know.

        • michers says:

          Bobbie, according to whatever info was put out possible to be seen, there was an alleged rape and it was stated that his father paid the girl off to drop the charges. Something like that leads me to believe that is one reason he is the way he is! He has issues with respecting women, and gets away with everything he has ever done wrong, hence, why he acts like a little jerk off still as an adult

      • Prettypinkie says:

        Are you sure about that?? Did you see that somewhere ? I mean you really have no reason to why you don’t know them, BUT RAPE,.JOE are you sure he was accused of it ? you could be right there is more to the family drama than anything.. OK…. Keep all of us in touch wit whatever you know about Joe,. Thanx. oh wait a minute wouldn’t being in the court records for everyone to see ??? If it was true?

    • Obvious says:

      Wow! All this because of Melissa. I think if Mel was a better person, Joey would follow suit. Then again, if Joey was a better person, none of this turmoil would have started. As the brother in the middle, he could have and should have nipped it in the bud. Instead he handled this whole thing like a sniveling lil man child.

  3. stay says:

    No because Joe Gorga wants fame to much. maybe down the road when the show is over. But if Theresa is still succesful defiently not

    • Kathy says:

      Hello????? Shes the one who’s money/fame hungry. Mag covers, shameless promotions, throwing shade at anyone else who tries to make a living. She’s disgusting. All you crazies drink her kool-aid

      • Lisa says:

        Who came on the show out of the gate bashing Teresa her sister-in-law and Kathy. Very green eyes. Teresa is not perfect but she did not destroy the family they did.

      • Michele says:

        Is this you Samantha? I honestly beleive thru all this Tre would probably just be happiest at home. She is doing this for her family. She really is a hard worker – not a fame whore like your sister.

      • michers says:

        The koolaid is delicious! Fabulicious!

        • Harper says:

          It’s Fabellini!!! Duh! Lol

        • Kathy says:

          Go ahead, keep drinking it, that narcissist pig is laughing all the way to the bank and would stab you in the back on the way-hahaaaa

          • michers says:

            hahahahaha!! Let her, she deserves to laugh all the way to the bank :) She cannot “stab” any of us, we don’t hang with her, only support her because with the 4 pigs and their spouses around, Teresa still needs help pulling the all the knives out of her back! Good day to ya!!

          • holy cannoli says:

            @ Kathy

            Jesus… Why don’t you drink some, or pop a Jacqueline zanax, or something?? Lighten the f-up!!

          • hannavas says:

            She sure is laughing all the way to the bank…and we’re laughing right along with her. The more they try to knick her down, the more money she makes.

          • lena says:

            Why don’t u have some blk water, hmmm? U seem to want to swallow the laurita/manzo/gorga bs. I think this would help u wash it down

          • Kelly says:

            Wow you hate to much girl. Hate will get you nowhere. We are Tre lovers no changing us we see who she is. We know Mel is a coniving backstabbing bag of crap who has pulled her husband away from his family. She is fake fake fake. Her and her husband are nasty. The things they have done and said on television makes my stomach churn.

          • U can't hide stupid says:

            Wow…crazies? (isnt that what kathy wakile called tre’s fans?) Narcissistic pig? Pig? There’s no possible way that “Kathy” is just a “fan”. Shame…..

            Maybe Teresa finally called her cousin out on her Betty Crocker(chit), June Cleaver (in your back) nonsense at the reunion. Just a guess, but have any of the other ladies called annother woman a pig?

          • Samantha says:

            “Have any of the other ladies called another woman a pig?”

            You’re joking, right?

          • Samantha says:

            I mean, seriously, that’s one of the NICER terms I’ve heard used to describe other women around here lol.

          • Prettypinkie says:

            Wow, I hear some jealousy in that,I would laugh my ass off to the bank too. so I’ll keep drinking more and more..

      • jen says:

        HELLO!!!!! How is Teresa throwing shade on them?????? Teresa was on the show first,her SIL was the one hunrgy for fame thats why she promised anything to BRAVO. What Teresa does to make her money has nothing to do with what they do. Melissa thinks she is going to be a “ROCK STAR” at 30+ years old, Teresa has no desire to be a “ROCK STAR” so its not like she feels Melissa is stealing her thunder.

        • Kathy says:

          The fact that you guys can’t see thru her smoke and mirrors routine tells me that you are
          A) probably not very smart (unable to read past surface pleasantries in people, extemly naive, iow
          Or
          B) similar in nature(narcissistic),

          I’m going to guess the former, because You actually think that the only people on earth who don’t like Tre are the Gorga’s, the Manzo’s, Melissa’s family. Big fat duh on everyone of you dummies. Including you Roxie. I’m inclined to contribute this to age on your part, but there’s no excuse for some of these people.

          And no, I’m not related to anyone (Melissa, Manzos, etc). Just someone who actually has great intuition. self-awareness and doesn’t buy everything at face value unlike most of you on here.

          • Sydney says:

            Wow Kathy, aren’t you just great! I’m assuming you’re a top notch executive somewhere and a member of Mensa so thanks so much for taking the time to educate us here in Stupidville. Since I am obviously not that smart, please give me the definition of “iow”, and while you’re at it, tell me again how to spell “extremely”. Yes, Teresa is trying to make a living, just like the rest of the cast of RHONJ, and throwing shade? Example please – haven’t seen that happening except being thrown in her direction. Maybe people just have a different opinion than you…..I for one don’t even like Kool Aid.

          • Mego the Lying Stripper says:

            If we were to believe everything at face value, we would be buying the Bravo storyline that Teresa is a bad, terible person. Teresa’s fans became so numerous becuause we cannot bear the hypocrisy and true motives of the other cast members. That makes us clever. We don’t believe everything we see on t.v. with it’s Bravo spin. They are bullying the living crap out of Teresa, especiaslly at the reunion by bring in even more jealous haters, (her brother, Lapband and Rosie) for the attack. That seem fair to you? I’m sure it does, actually. By the way, Bravo. Not only gays should not be bullied. Nobody should be bullied.

          • holy cannoli says:

            @ Kathy

            Well aren’t you a ray of sunshine??

            Real nice, coming on and attacking posters and the blog owner!

            Maybe Realty Tea, is a site you may like better.. They hate Teresa,and are nasty.. You will fit right in!!!

          • lauren t says:

            Kathy the only idiot here, is you. Go back to realitytea.

          • hoolie says:

            look who’s back….

          • Keppler says:

            You are obviously a genius, but it’s sad that you’re wasting your brilliance trolling blogs about reality TV. If you present your “big fat duh” hypothesis to the committee in Stockholm, you’ll be guaranteed an on-the-spot Nobel in literature.If you can demonstrate how you turn the computer on all by yourself, you’re looking at the Physics prize, too.

          • lena says:

            No need for personal attacks. We don’t have to agree with you. I think you’re the one whose brainwashed. This is a tv show, not your momma or daddy so take a hike and go worry about something imp. To you. Bye

          • cammierari says:

            Kathy-
            please do me a favor and don’t assume that Tre fans are dumber than YOU.

            I have never said this because it sounds too mean and judgmental towards people I really don’t know but…I think the only reason why people (on and off the show) can’t see that Teresa is not at fault here is because NO ONE can believe that there is a person out there so loyal and respectful to her family and friends. She is always thinking the best of everyone, no matter what they do or say to her.
            She might make jokes about different situations and different people, but they are made TO THEIR FACE, and they are in on the joke. Caroline thought it was funny when Tre called her 1/16th Italian on the Rachel Ray Show-so why would T think it would be a problem including it in her book?
            She asked Richie to stop with the wisecracks to her-and when he finally did, she was willing to be friendly with him again.
            She spoke to Kathy about the comments Kathy made about her cookbook, and then dropped it. Kathy did not.
            She apologized to Caroline and moved on. Needless to say, Caroline did not.
            Same with Jac.
            She knows Andy is making her marriage the focus of speculation-and is still respectful towards him because he is HER BOSS. I can assure you, I would sound more like Juicy than Tre if Andy was doing this to me and I had to sit next to him on a live show.
            Teresa knows a LOT more than she is saying and I give her huge props for that. She is not wallowing in the mud like her co-stars, or revealing things told to her in confidence. She is an adult who knows who she is and what’s important.

            She is a strong woman who doesn’t CARE what is said about her because she KNOWS the truth.
            Try watching the show without your Tre hating glasses and Caroline blinders on. You might change your mind.

            Or maybe you’re just not very smart.

          • michers says:

            Kathy you are such a party pooper, for real!!! And you are very rude to insult the owner of this site. Have an opinion, but my goodness! You are just as bitter an nasty as the Gorga/Wakiles/Manzo/jacaholic, Lysa Simpson, Kim Pirella..Um, I think you seem a little more emotionally invested then us Tre Hugging Koolaid drinkers, LOL I think you meant this comment for yourself, poor thing. Hope your day gets better!

          • NonnaGabi says:

            Who the hell made you the judge? What makes you think you are right and everyone is wrong. I think you are the narcissist. And if Rox and this site is so offensive and distasteful, why dont you go elsewhere. You came out swinging, just like the Gorgas and the Wakiles. You have no idea how offensive you are. But the narcissists usually are.

          • worldgirl says:

            What you said but I think the identification with this tacky woman is something else. I think its like oh look a role model for women like us!

          • Kelly says:

            Your Mel’s sister!

          • Kathy says:

            @sydney
            In other words(iow
            You are in stupidville, Sydney, the kool-aid reference is a figure of speech. Sorry my auto correct was off and I’m typing fast, is that all you got? Really?

            To everyone else-hahhhhhhhaaaahhaaaaa! Look at you all! To say I’m the hater is hilarious. You guys are all crazy!

          • Capile says:

            You’re a grown-ass woman who trolls websites about TV shows and says shit like ‘haaaaaaa,’ but yeah, everyone else is insane. Go call your parents and tell them you’re kicking ass and taking names in the reality show infantry, they’ll be so proud.

          • Samantha says:

            I think it’s both A AND B; always have. And I also think you’re right about Tree’s Trolls being very similar in nature to Teresa herself. All of her dementia seems to have enveloped the minds of roughly five extremely weak-minded people.

          • Sydney says:

            @ Kathy
            Seriously Kathy, ‘ drinking the Kool Aid” is a figure of speech? I guess the fact that it’s been used ad nauseum on all the housewives blogs should have been a hint – thanks for the lesson because none of us have already read that tired term a thousand times already. Really, thanks for the public service. Gotta go – we’re all busy trying to screw in this d&mn lightbulb here in Stupidville……..

          • Samantha says:

            LOL! That was funny! How many Teresa fans does it take to…

          • Samantha says:

            Question: How do you get a one-armed Teresa fan out of a tree?

            Answer: Wave!

          • Samantha says:

            Question: How many Teresa fans does it take to screw in a light bulb?

            Answer: None. They only screw in vineyards.

          • Samantha says:

            Question: How many Teresa fans does it take to screw in a light bulb?

            Answer: Seven. Six to screw it in, and one to run to In Touch magazine to try to sell a story about it.

          • Samantha says:

            One more (swear):

            Question: How many Teresa Fans does it take to screw in a light bulb?

            Answer: MY SISTER-IN-LAW IS A WHORE!!!

          • Samantha says:

            One more (I really mean it this time):

            Question: How many Teresa Fans does it take to screw in a light bulb.

            Answer: One. But only if the light socket resembles Teresa’s ass.

          • Sydney says:

            @Samantha
            Ba- dumdum…….she’s got a million of ‘em! You’re welcome for the set up. :-)

            I have to admit, I never had a fav NJ housewife, but I’ve taken a liking to Teresa. Kind of funny to read the few “anti-Teresa” comments on here making it sound like you’re an idiot that is barely able to function if you like her. whatever. To each her own. I like her. There, I said it.

          • Samantha says:

            Thank you, Sydney :) ! And I never suggested you shouldn’t — like Teresa, that is.

            How many “fans” she ACTUALLY has isn’t a problem for anyone but Teresa’s Fans (and their MANY aliases), their having a stroke over every single criticism notwithstanding.

          • Capile says:

            Sam, is that a clue to your identity? Tre herself has been known to tell some seriously stupid and unfunny jokes, you’re trying to let us know you’re one of the 7 faces of Teresa?

          • Samantha says:

            Oh, please. My jokes are SO much funnier than Teresa’s, and you know it! :;

          • Samantha says:

            That was supposed to have been a ;)

          • rukidding? says:

            lol look how happy sam the man gets when one of his other troll friend from under the bridge comes out. he’s having such a ball. that is so adorable. it’s so funny how angry anti teresa trolls get. they’re the ones that come in here to harass and get off on angering people. you know what they say. misery loves company. the trolls flock together and be miserable together just like their depressive, bi polar heros the manzos and lauritas and gorgas.

          • Capile says:

            In general, a box of rocks is funnier than most of Teresa’s jokes, but sadly, no. Congratulations, being less funny than Teresa is something the world said could never be done.

          • michers says:

            At least Sam something correct for once: Sister in law is a whore!!!!!

          • jar says:

            It’s funny that your default argument is that those who hold a different view than you must be stupid. And then you want to chalk it up to age. Yet, it is you who adopts the most pubescent of arguments- you’re stupid for disagreeing with me. The wisdom that comes with age hopefully will eventually teach you that there are a range of possible views of any event. The mature adult learns that their experience is not the sole barometer of what’s right. I hope you eventually come to this enlightening revelation.

        • Prettypinkie says:

          Ya, take it easy didn’t you know Melissa is a rockstar…NOT. she also thinks she’s has it in the bag .please she’s a nobody and she always will be. And she will always look up at Teresa cuz right now trisha is best business woman come on really what is Melissa? hey she was the 1 to put it all out the a she just needs to get over herself and fast. Melissa if I ever saw you on the street I would just keep walking. Get off the show you are the biggest trouble make and everybody knows it and sees through you not at you ..

      • Seven says:

        Oh noes! I don’t want to be stabbed! Protect me!

        What do you think, the other housewives joined these shows because they love you and want to reach through the tv screen and gently stroke your hair? Amazingly, they’re all in it for money and fame. Jac and the others would kill for magazine covers, they’d promote plastic holders for corn if anyone wanted them. They’re not turning down opportunities so they can lovingly gaze at your photo, they just don’t have any offers.

      • old NJ girl says:

        Kathy
        We are not drinking her kool-aid. We are smart enough to search the FACTS beyond the show. I follow Lookers, her sisters, her husband, her make up dude and what they do each and every week on twitter is disgusting. They never let an opportunity to pass where they can make Teresa look bad. I also follow Teresa and she never says anything bad about her cast mates or family.
        Do you seriously think that Teresa would sell a story to a magazine that makes her or her family look bad? Do any of those articles “quote” Teresa? NO. For the past year there has been at least one story every week bashing Teresa in either Lookers favorite rag US Weekly or Jac favorite Radar Online written by none other than Jac friend Tom Murro.
        Please tell me ONE thing that Teresa has done to hurt the rest of them that came directly from Teresa. All I ever hear is that Teresa did this and Teresa did that but each time it is coming from Jac, Lookers, Joey, Kathy or the red queen. All have been caught on film this year lying. Recently the red queen lied about hearing Teresa talk bad about her brother while she was on the phone with her mother. Sorry but Teresa mother only speaks to her kids in Italian. Caro does speak or understand Italian Lookers lied about babysitting Teresa kids while she went to her October launch party when the she actually took the girls on July 11 for mani and pedis. Her biggest lie will be revealed this week when she claims she never worked as a dancer. Too many people from her past are ready to show proof that she did.
        I suggest that you spend a few hours on http://www.famewhorgas getting a education before you start name calling again.
        The only person I see drinking any kool-aid around here is you. The kool-aid of the bully’s.

      • jeanie says:

        Kathy, shut up with the stupid kool-aid comment. It WAS Melissa and Joe who decided to air this dirty laundry.

        • Prettypinkie says:

          I KNOW SHE SHOULD SHUT UP AND IT WAS MELISSA, SHE DID PUT THE FAMILY OUT THERE FOR EVERYONE TO SEE AND READ. CUZ MELISSA CAN’T STAND TERESA AND SHE WANTED TO HURT HER IN A BAD WAY.

      • Annie says:

        Uh no. They’re ALL money and fame hungry! Stop being a rude bitch and stop with with the name-calling you retard. It’s childish.

      • rukidding? says:

        i’ll drink kool aid anyday. it’s decilious. way better than jac’s cheap box of wine.

        you really want to talk about money/fame hungry? i’ve seen caro, jac, melissa and kathy do so many interviews with radaronline, reality tea and lynhudson blogs, radio interviews, talk shows, E entertainment and don’t forget the countless twitter comments they make talking about teresa. so do not even act like those people are innocent. everything they accuse teresa of doing. they’re doing it themselves!!

  4. Lillibelle says:

    I personally believe she should just write him off. He and his wife so not deserve to have a relationship with Teresa. As far as the as the children are concerned, Teresa’s brother and wife are damaging any future relationship between the cousins with their quest for fame.

  5. michers says:

    The reasons why they even argued in the first place were very small and petty, worthless reasons to cut family off. If family can do that to family and have no remorse, what is the point of having them as family? Its very sad, especially because most of this was because of fame chasing and jealousy.

    • socalsoccer says:

      My brother’s daughter in law had an argument with one of my sister’s on xmas eve 2009, and we have not seen his family since that day. After one year, he finally came over to my mom’s house and talked with her. My brother choose his immediate family of the rest of us. I don’t think it will ever be healed.

      • michers says:

        Very sad, thats all I can say.. We had something similar in our fam.. One member, for years , as far back as I remember as a kid. Anyway, I will try and keep short, lol, no one in the entire family has ever known or had any clue as to what would set her off. Needless to say no one has heard from her in tears and its horrible feeling. We all love her, we all tried getting answers.. I hate seeing this happen to people especially when it seems so petty. You should accept each other as you are, you cannot change others just love them as your family. Breaks my heart when I see this with others because life can be short, you only live once!

    • nannynonna says:

      I do not agree. Might seem petty on the outside, but underneath there is a lot going on.

      • michers says:

        Maybe nannynona? seems that way , but I guess there must be more for it to turn into what it has on tv. One would think they would fix things so they did not embarrass themselves the way they have or cause more hurt the way they have.

    • Someone Who is Watching says:

      Sometimes situations just plain suck. I am sorry for you both and hope healing begins soon!

    • Glasshalffull says:

      Yes, the first time Mel and Joe was on rhnj, the Marco sisters already had a fan page on FB and made themselves public figures was a huge turn off for me. They are so embarrassing, I cringe for them.

  6. hoolie says:

    Even if Teresa and SloJo resume some sort of a sibling relationship again, it will never be the same.
    Ever.

    I hate to say this, and not wishing it, but until something very tragic happens that would bring them together as a family, I don’t think any real repair is going to happen.
    Teresa and Juicy would also be wise in the future (should there be a mending) to not tell anything to SloJo/Meho regarding their business opportunities- no matter how big or small.
    Keep it on a family level only- can’t mix business w/family with SloJo/Meho…..as proven from the beginning with the recanting of Juicy and Slojo stories (Chris’s pre Napa meeting), all the way through to RHONJ.

    • socalsoccer says:

      Hoolie, you are so right. Things will never be the same after so much time has gone by.

      • Lee says:

        Teresa and Joe will always love each other, but the trust is gone forever. Teresa and Joe will most likely keep their personnal business away from the Gorga’s ears.

    • Maru the Cat fka Sharon Lea says:

      But if something tragic happens, sometimes it makes things worse because so much time has passed. It can make the former ‘where have you been?’ Into ‘and now you show up?!’ Let’s hope it doesn’t come to that.

    • michers says:

      Hoolie, so right! But Im wondering if tragedy would even remotely begin uniting them :( That is not always the case, happened in our family. I think that either they all fix things or none, one person surely will not be able to. Joe has issues regarding his sister, Mel is a hot mess because JoeGo has allowed her to be.. I really really believe based on what we know, that JoeGo has issues with women in general! He is very disrespectful to all of them, to include his sex object wife! Look at his past- 3 ex fiancés in short time, alleged rape that was paid off, talks to Teresa disgusting..That little boy needs some fixing! Teresa was defensive and hurt , which I would be too, but you cannot really heal and mend fences with how they all are now.

    • Prettypinkie says:

      YOU KNOW THAT’S HOW IT DOSE HAPPENS,IT’S VERY SAD THAT SOMETHING HAS TO HAPPEN FOR THE BOTH SIDES TO OPEN THEIR EYES .

  7. Rach says:

    I honestly think RHONJ has done irreparable damage to the Gorga family and I don’t think they will ever recover and they may never be on speaking terms, again.

    • nannynonna says:

      YOU ARE SO RIGHT.

    • AsianPosh1 says:

      Bingo! This statement is true and unfortunate but its reality. :(

    • Divorce says:

      Sad but true. It’s best for Tre to just walk away now. Maybe in the future they could repair what was lost. Not sure. Looks like the parents don’t want to be involved. I hate to say this considering they have children, but Melissa ruined the Gorga’s.

      • cammierari says:

        I think it’s time tre’s parents got involved. They need to tell Joe AND Melissa to grow up

        • michers says:

          I think the Mom has , or tried, but I bet the dad may not really know due to his health issues. At their ages though Camm, their parents should not have to worry about saying something. The immaturities and stubbornness and fame chasing need to stop so they can really work it out.

      • Samantha says:

        I think the Gorgas have known for quite some time what a lying sack of shit their daughter is.

        • Anonymousey says:

          Samantha,
          You mean their daughter-in-law Melissa? Oh I’m sure they KNOW what a lying sack of shit fame chasing ex-stripper old whore Melissa is, just like they know their son is nothing but a whiny ass ugly uni-browed gargamel-from-the-smurfs looking wimpy crybaby. I feel bad for the elder Gorga’s, their son is a failure at life, well at least they have Teresa to take care of them, like she does. :)

          • Samantha says:

            No, I meant exactly what I said.

          • Prettypinkie says:

            SEE!!!! THE TRUTH REALLY HURTS ! SAM WHO EVER YOU ARE, REALLY GO FIND YOURSELF AND STOP GETTING ALL OVER TERESA, YOU HAVE TO BE PART OF MELISSA FAMILY SOME HOW. DON’T WORRY WE WILL FIND OUT CUZ IT ALL COMES OUT AT THE END . WE ALL HAVE FRIENDS AS WELL TO FIND THINGS OUT. GO DRINK YOUR KOOL-AID, HAY YOU MIGHT GET A BUZZ.

        • U can't hide stupid says:

          Samantha: I truly hope you get help someday. Your anger and rage at a person u don’t know is disturbing . It may be a so called “reality” show but it is a show. It’s not your real life. Gain some perspective and some clarity. Otherwise that hate is going to eat you up from the inside.

          • Samantha says:

            You’re overestimating the amount of time I spend actually thinking about this nonsense. Unlike some people, I don’t live here. (I don’t work here, either.)

            I’m also not a good candidate as a target for bullying. Take my advice and save your patronizing lecture for some of your fellow cult members.

          • Keppler says:

            Yeah, it’s unfair. I can’t understand why you camping out here 24 hours a day like you think you’re fighting a war would lead anyone to overestimate the amount of time you spend obsessing over this nonsense. It’s like Lynn. I mean, she hardly cared at all.

            Technically you don’t live here, but I bet if you could be digitized and it were possible for you to live on a website, you would. More comfortable than camping over the keyboard and setting up and elaborate systems of flashing lights and alarms so you can get alerted if something happens when you step out to the bathroom. ;)

    • disgusted says:

      the only way they could ever repair is to forget the past … Leave it where it belongs Dont look back unless youre going that way….

  8. strevino78741 says:

    The fact that The Gorga’s went on this show to destroy thier family is disgusting. I don’t know how you get past that but for the childrens sake I hope they do. The children love each other so much and are so innocent in all this.

    • Samantha says:

      Melissa and Joe should keep their children as far away from Teresa as possible. Given the depth of her hatred and jealousy of Melissa, God knows what she’s capable of. I think what we’ve seen so far is only the tip of the iceberg.

  9. julie says:

    I would not want a relationship with him or Meho after the way they went about getting on the show only to bash her. I had a sister similiar (minus tv) and I had to let her go couldn’t deal with hr drama.

    • Bionic says:

      you didn’t “had”, you still have a sister. There is nothing you can do to change that. The both of you shared your first condo- your moms womb.

  10. LoLo says:

    You cannot put the full blame on Joe Gorga. As much as I love Teresa, I don’t think she’s always done right by the Gorgas. She has said things like her husband putting birthday presents they bought the Giudice children in the garbage. With siblings, especially competitive ones like these, there’s always a scorecard. While I think Joe is mostly in the wrong, surely Teresa has done things to put him in that place.

    It’s really ashame. T and Joe’s parents suffer, their children suffer. All over what? The worst part is, I can’t tell what’s “real” or for the cameras anymore. If you ask me, as much as we love reality TV and the housewives, it has destroyed a family and blurred the lines of reality so much that I’m sure they are all confused where the problem even lies.

    Years and years after all of this is over…no more housewives, magazine covers, songs on iTunes and special appearances and they are just alone, they will regret all of this. Nothing matters if the people who mean the most to you aren’t there to reminisce about what you did in life.

    Just my 2cents.

    • hoolie says:

      No one can push your buttons like your blood family.
      You know, those special buttons that no one else knows about; that makes you do things, that makes you say and do things you never have nor ever will do again?
      Yes, I think that has happened with Teresa and her brother- like i’m sure it’s happened in most families.
      This is why family squabbles should remain within the family, with no one else’s involvement and especially not put ‘on display on display on display’ in a tv show.

      I think the line was crossed big time, when Jo and Meho came on Season 2 slamming Teresa from Ep. 1.
      Until then, I don’t recall Teresa’s family issues ever being on TV…. That is why IMO Joe Gorga/Meho are more to blame….

      But you are correct, when all the dust settles years from now…. I don’t think this family will ever really be the same. Ever.

    • RahRah says:

      Wait, wait about the gifts..I always tap into my family and friends interests when selecting a gift. Nor am I cheap but I can’t tell you how many times I have received some skimpy gift that was picked out at the gas station or drug store on the way to see me, like a last minute thought. After I weed out the cheapskates, they’re no longer on my gift list.

      When cuz started her crap with me last year..she began poisoning other cousins and family members against me. However, after awhile they began to think about what a great cousin I had been and the things I would do for them. Like my youngest male cousin, he likes this particular designer and he can’t afford to pay $75 for a t-shirt. Everytime I get a good deal on one of these shirts I send it to him, he’s in college. He is so cute he didn’t want me to think he was against me so he started coming to spend the weekends to hang out with me and my daughter.

  11. Andrea from alabama says:

    I feel awful for these people. Especially their parents. It’s shameful people fame more than family, but I guess that’s the time we’re living in. Melissa and Joe should’ve just stayed on the sidelines. This is sick, and I’m sick for watching it. I hope this never happens to me and my siblings: or my kids. #theloveofmoney.

    • michers says:

      True that Andrea! If they stayed on the side, they probably would be at least talking and letting the kids play today! LOL, “this is sick and Im sick for watching it”.. Umm, me too :) I think I loved when NeNe said in her interview “trash tv”- so true!!! Im addicted to trash tv and trash talking now because of this hot mess!

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Andrea – I was thinking the same thing. My family is small and we’re not ‘tick as teeves’. Rather we love and respect each other. Our squabbles take place in private with only family even knowing any particulars. And heaven help the person who says anything bad about my brother or sister. We know we’re not perfect, but we’re a united front to the outside world. We got it from our parents and I see my kids are the same. I’m sure your children will follow your lead as well Andrea.

  12. Bionic says:

    I have to say, I give it to this lady. She has kept it together. I would love to see Jac deal with 6 bad situations at once without Xanax & Wine. Well, she now has about 3 situations…

    I want to see what is Joe going to do when one of his parents passes away.

  13. holy cannoli says:

    Joey Gorga should be ashamed of himself! This man has not only called his sister awful disgusting names on national tv, he has allowed those magpies to degrade her in front of him every step of the way. He and his wife have ruined the family when they came on that show, they have no one to blame but themselves. I hope they are very proud of themselves, they freakin disgust me!!!

    • Bionic says:

      Funny thing is that MOST only point out the name calling that Joe Giu did but they fail to mention the way her brother has bashed her and called her mean names. BIASED IDIOTS!

      Her brother has no limits and obviously is stopping at nothing to take his non-talented wife to JLO status. (well, in that case it may happen cause JLO can’t sing either).

      Have you guys seen the cover of Melissa’s single “I Wanna”? Not only is she copying almost the same tittle of Jlo’s “I wanna dance”, the cover is a very LA LOPEZ style. What a loser!

      • Lillibelle says:

        Maybe she hope people will be looking for JLo’s single in iTunes and download he’s instead. Very deceiving.

        • Bionic says:

          I don’t think she can make it more obvious. Her greeting to her fans “Hey Lovers”. Jlo calls her fans “Lovers”.

          I’d tell you when they will no longer have “long money”, when JLO’s legal team comes up with some absurd suit saying she is impersonating. That JLO has a very powerful legal team, they can shut even Marc’s ex-wif and kids into limbo. AS we can see, there will be a judge in Cali that will go along, look how Kim K won her suit against Old Navy for using a look-a-like. Mel is biting Jlo’s style to push her “singing” career.

      • hoolie says:

        She had to stop copying Teresa because everyone called her on it….. so now it’s JLo…. very imaginative

        • michers says:

          Right? She is one of those people that keep copying and thinks the world does not notice I guess.

          • hoolie says:

            Copy-catting and SWL female behavior makes the whole story of her being obsessive with “The Greek” and stalking him a whole lot more plausible, doesn’t it Michers……
            Am beginning to think there is something more to the ‘set up’ with the PFS…and who exactly WAS behind it..especially after re-reading Rox’s break out interview with Angelo…
            Rox should repost that interview, for anyone who hasn’t read it…..

        • BravoFireManzos says:

          Melissa is such a “single white female” lol. Next she will be copying Jac and drunk tweeting and demanding Teresa call her up and tell her everytime she sneezes, coughs, or gets a magazine cover!!

  14. RahRah says:

    If one of my three brothers treated me the way Teresa’s brother has treated his sister, I could never trust him again. One way for her brother to get back to his family is to dump is wife (which I would never advocate and never have until now) and marry a woman with a sweet heart and sweet disposition.

    Sometimes I think Li’l Joe Gorga is mad at himself because he went out of his family’s value system and married a dancing hoochie. My Dad is old school, I was never allowed to bring a man with a piercing or tat. Reminds me of when a classmate came to my house one Saturday morning to pick up a book. We were having breakfast and if the phone or doorbell rang my Dad who did not allow us to answer anything during meal times answered the door, my classmate, a male spoke briefly, then my Dad slammed the door and said to me, “RahRah there is a boy at the door with an earring in his ear.” Well everyone knew my Dad was crazy but he really had very high standards which for his children became a problem as it was modern times.

  15. michers says:

    Speaking of family, Dina this morning put out tweets that to me suggest she is speaking of Jax and Caro- one family member told her to take of her rose colored glasses, and the other told her to get out of lala land. They told her this when she suggest to them to be nice!!

  16. bhurst girl says:

    I am in the same boat as T and some of you, minus the pseudo reality fame whore thing. It took me a long time to learn that the family tug of war never ends with a clear winner. What T needs to do is drop the rope and let them hang themselves with it.

    • Bionic says:

      I think she already did that and we have watched them hang themselves…

    • Andrea from Alabama says:

      I agree. I said something about this from life’s experience I had to learn that everyone that I share a bloodline with is not my family. Everyone has a war within their family. My mother and her siblings do not talk to one of their brothers to be honest I don’t even remember why. My mom has tried to mend fences, but too much time and pride has gotten in the way. I see first hand how this affects my grandmother, and as I said before, I hope this never happens to me and my sisters; and as a mother I hope it never happens with my kids. This is sad because I do think that Teresa loves her brother and his kids; and Melissa is really good with Teresa’s kids and she seems to love them. Unfortunately, sometimes people have to feel like there is a wrong side and a right side, instead of both being wrong and right on different issues, and respect that there is some gray areas. Their parents are loosing and so are their children, and when something happens should’ve would’ve could’ve leaves a very bitter taste in your mouth and you’re stuck with a lot of regret and anger within yourself, which restarts the cycle.

      • hoolie says:

        perfectly said bama

        • cammierari says:

          Sadly, these family fights always seems to go back to issues of jealousy, fairness and MONEY in my experience. Everybody says they wont argue over it and everybody does.
          I think T is realizing that there is nothing she can do to help Joe move on because she has already apologized to him for what HE SAYS it’s about. As much as he says he wants to start fresh, he is still acting pissy til he gets his ass kissed.
          He is a baby-and because of that, his wife controls him. I’m sure Teresa knows that convincing Joe of that is bound to make HER the villain anyway so she is gonna let them take the lead. That’s what I would do anyway. I’d invite them to everything and act as if we were one big family. Let them pout and piss…I’m gonna be dammed if my life is gonna be full of score keeping and sparring. Eff that lol

  17. jerseygirl says:

    Joe Gorga is the spoiled brat of the family. Teresa seems to have doted on her “baby” brother his whole life and I think so have her parents. What was Joe Gorga doing before Juicy started him in the contracting business? Before his parents helped him? He was a landscaper…an honest living but not “housewives” money.

    And who can forget his temper tantrum at the christening? Reminded me of a three year old freaking out because mommy didn’t take his side. Not to mention the whining. Oh my god, that’s all he does. Whine whine whine!! Well that and constantly seek attention like a little child. Rediculous.

    If Teresa can be more objective about her brother’s behavior, she won’t internalize the hurt so much.

    • cammierari says:

      Perfectly said jerseygirl! I’m late to this thread but just said something similar above. Joey really is the baby of the family

    • jeanbean says:

      At the Christening Megos idiot brother-in-law said we are your real family. This has gone on longer than we were led to believe. If Joe Gorga has any balls he would attend family events and if Mego doesn’t want to go, so be it. He doesn’t appear to have two brain cells to rub together and allows Megos family to bash his and I don’t know why.

  18. Lapband Lauren says:

    Joey gorga is too far in the “fame” with his wife to realize how much pain his sister is really in. And do they care?? Probably not. Like the comments above it seems like its going to take something bad for them to come together. I’m sorry, but when I see melissa trying to do something “good” it comes off as fake to me. I can feel peoples vibes easily. And i’m sure the next episode wont be easy since strippergate will be shown and they will continue to bash tre. Joey has been shown time and time again calling his sister “garbage” and “bitch” its total disrespect, especially the way they were brought up. I only wonder what their father thinks or WOULD think since he isnt aware of the situation.

    • Bionic says:

      I am sure that the father can’t be this alienated from society. One thing is not tuning in to the show but another one is not hearing the buzz. The poor old man must visit the supermarket and see his kids on the cover of mags.

      • Lapband Lauren says:

        Bionic- true..but i think I read somewhere that mama gorga watches the episodes but not papa. And i dont blame them, he is getting old. And instead of them coming together and taking care of him plus bringing ALL the children to him, they chose ro fight. I know tre has made a step to bring them back together but joey is not down for it. And unfortunatly the one person who can make him change his mind is MELISSA! they are so hell bent on blaming the stripper rumors on tre when clearly kim D told them it wasnt tre spreading the rumors. Its such a shame bionic. To see a family like that..

    • april showers says:

      It is so sad how little Joe and Melissa think of his parents. They may not watch the show, but their lives are now spent seeing one child at a time and knowing that Teresa and Joey won’t be in the same room together. Just such a shame. Joey and Melissa disgust me.

    • jeanbean says:

      Sometimes the hurt is not forgivable. Look at Caroline being asked not to attend the funeral of a nephew. I can’t imagine what she did to deserve that. Well if she was her usual self then..I speak to all my family,thank god, rhnj seems to breed these family feuds that are just crazy!

    • disgusted says:

      i bet his father is very ashamed of little joey

  19. Calling _all_angels says:

    I know how sad it is when you have 3 brother and one of them will not speak to one. Is down right rude to that one even when Our father passed away young. (agent orange) And then when my mother passed away a few years ago The outed brother tried to talk to the younger brother and tell him it was time to put away the jealousness of the past. And the younger brother just walked away from him like he did not hear him. It was sad.
    Now my middle brother is waiting on a liver. I am going to see him in Oct. But my younger brother is not going to go because he does not want to be there in case my older brother comes. I can not believe that seeing our middle brother while he is still alive is not more important who has “more” then the other.
    So see sometimes even death will not even will make a difference. And even though I have tried over the last years to get them together, I too have given up.
    (hope I have not messed this up too much I am typing with one hand)

    • Bionic says:

      Joe Gor has “SISTERS” ok… ones that he probably plugs too.

    • bigmommabitch says:

      Calling all angels, I’m sorry you and your family are hurting even more than necessary through this sad experience. I will say a prayer for you.

    • NonnaGabi says:

      I’m so sorry for all you’ve been through and continue to go through. I’ll be praying for you.

    • michers says:

      AWw, so sorry for your family! I hope and pray all goes well with your brother! I agree, that sadness and tragedy don’t even fix things anymore, as I stated above, it did not work in mine either. Such a shame that it happens in families, depending on situation. But its even worse when you look at life and how precious it is and fragile it can be, that people walk away from loved ones over things that seem small in the grand scheme of things.

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Calling_all_angels: I will remember u in my prayers and hope ur brother gets his liver soon.

  20. WCW says:

    It disgusts me that Bravo allowed Joey to tear into his sister yet again at the reunion. She loves him but he hates her and enjoys making her cry. That may never change as long as Melissa is calling the shots in that relationship.

  21. Maria Angela Gallina says:

    REALLY! Most of u self centered bubbled air heads stuck up your rear ends just like that poor pathetic excuse of a human being called “THERESA!” that’s also so freakin clueless or in denial of the fact that her hubby is cheating and probably continues to cheat on her because that’s how dumb she is!! She is the one who is the one is been ruining every relationship that she had with her friends and family cause she has been the fame whore! Poor thing thinks that she’s better than everybody! Wake up and smell the espresso “THERESA” COME BACK TO REALITY PLEASE! U AIN’T NO BETTER THAN ANYBODY! BURST OUT OF THAT FABULICIOUS BUBBLE DO US NORMAL PEOPLE A FAVOR!!!

    • Lapband Lauren says:

      I love that name, Gallina! Very beautiful!

    • rukidding? says:

      got news for you maria . everyone’s husbands on that show has cheated on them. albert has a mistress, joey gorga is a horndog and flirts and fondles anyone with a pulse. jac is chris lauritas mistress while he was already in a relationship with dina’s friend. everyone has skeletons in their closet. nobody is a freakin saint in that show. regardless how much of an ass joe guidice is. it’s not okay how her own brother and sister in law are treating her. it’s not okay they planned, plotted and schemed their way onto the show to purposedly start drama with teresa. all because they wanted their own 15 mins of fame. melissa and joey gorga and the wakiles are true famewhores.

    • holy cannoli says:

      Now is that nice @ Maria Angela Gallina?

      There is no need to be nasty. You do not have to put down people that like Teresa.

  22. DidiPie says:

    Bottom line….. If Joe Gorga really had loved Teresa like he lied on the show ,he would never have started the show off with what he did at the christening. BAM!!! Him and Melissa had this whole thing planned and with season 4 with Caroline keeping the fighting going, well Caroline really thought she could take Teresa down and it has back fired in her face and now the only thing that needs to be done is for shit Bravo is to cancel the Jersey series. Can any of you honestly watch this series anymore? where can it possible go> with Jac now telling the talk shows that she wants to stay on for the autism platform? crazy.Noooo aww heck Bravo needs to shut down….Just saying…

    • michers says:

      Good point! Some people, esp Tre haters laugh at the thought of jealousy! Jealousy effects some people to the point of horrendous crimes! Anyway- He and Melissa were hell bent on getting on that show once they saw Teresa doing well and getting famous. They did not want to be in the Bravo background anymore when she filmed things at her home. Then the downward spinal began!

    • old NJ girl says:

      Caro may keep the drama and hate towards Teresa going on the show but in REAL life it is Lookers sisters and make up dude that never stop with the Teresa bashing.

  23. kate says:

    OHHHH of course – Teresa has done NOTHING wrong at all. Everyone around her cannot stand her – BUT she is INNOCENT in all of it!! The world is out to get her POOR POOR THING!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  24. jerseygirl says:

    I just want to take a minute to thank our host for allowing all comments to post without censoring us. I’ve been trying to post on Kathy’s latest blog several, but it goes into moderation and then disappears. All of the posts carry on about how wonderful she is. Ah freedom of speech. Thanks Roxy!

  25. Cajsa says:

    I think a family rupture that lasts this long can only be sustained because all four, Teresa & Joe and Melissa & Joe contribute to it. However, it seems pretty clear to me that neither Teresa nor Melissa are the core antagonists in this fight. That role belongs to Joe Gorga alone.

    Let’s look at the others first. Teresa has sought rapprochement several times with invites, apologies and the letter she drafted with Jac’s assistance last season. She contributes to the continued rupture by glossing over the grievances that she and the others have. By repeatedly insisting on putting it all behind without discussing what, specifically, was hurtful there is no learning and no resolution.

    Melissa has done her part with invites and activities. She has, on occasion, refused to go along with Caroline’s efforts to heat up the conflicts. She has, on occasion, encouraged her husband to meet with Teresa. She contributes to the conflict, though, by encouraging anti-Teresa gossip with the Wakiles and her sisters in front of her husband.

    Joe Giudice does his part in trying to keep the peace by avoiding the constant temptation to rehash slights and fights and saying, fugheddaboutit when the topic comes up. He contributes quite a lot to the conflict with his obvious disrespect for Joe Gorga and Melissa and his text message war with Joe – though both are guilty there.

    Joe Gorga, though, is truly the fulcrum of this conflict. Whenever I think about Teresa’s love for her brother, I think back to that book signing where he asked her to sign his books and bullied her mercilessly for an apology. Meanwhile, in two years we have never heard a single apology for her outburst at the christening. In fact, he continues to blame Teresa for his unconscionable behavior. But, back to the book signing. You could see his face there and all there was in his face was contempt and hatred. Whatever love he feels for his sister is overruled by jealousy and hatred.

    Is there a single episode of RHONJ that does not have Joe Gorga bitching to any ear he can find about his sister? He complains to all the men in the cast, all the women in the cast, but also to the contractor, the decorator, the kids. There’s no one who misses out on his diatribes against his sister. He has no discretion and no boundaries.

    While he is jealous of her celebrity, I don’t think that is the extendt of it. That he suffers from immense jealousy is shown by his clownish attempts to be the life of every party, the center of all attention and his vainglorious braggadocio. He craves celebrity in a way no other person in any of the Housewives franchise craves it. Yes, they all want celebrity, but he needs it like junkie needs a fix. He will do anything for it – from abusing his sister, to embarrassing his parents to treating his wife like a blow-up doll instead of human being.

    I think, though, that he is also deeply jealous of Teresa’s relationship with their parents. We have seen Teresa with her parents many times, but less so with Joe. I think of the christening and his anguished “You’re my father!” and his resentment that Joe Giudice garners more respect from his parents than he does. Other evidence for this is his unsubtle disrespect for his parents from claiming that he supports them and they are ungrateful to complaining that they do too much for Teresa to his “My parents!, Let me tell you about my parents..”

    Frankly, there is something deeply wring with Joe Gorga. You see it in his misogynist failure to respect his wife’s agency as a human being separate from himself, you see it in his rages, his compulsive gossiping and his satyriasis. There are moments when he seems developmentally and emotionally stunted. He is not a well man in any sense of the word. It’s a pity that Bravo continues to involve themselves with this attention junkie – because it cannot end well.

    • renee says:

      Ok, I just read your post and you are soooo dead on with these people. Good analysis and observation.

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Very good points. He definitely suffers from short man complex. A due has zero ability to self analyze and see his own behavior has effected his dads opinion of him. “Giudice poisons my dads head with lies”. If they were lies and joeys actions were completely different from what is said about him, his father wouldn’t believe anyone, PEOPLE BELEIVE ACTIONS….. IF THE ACTIONS CONFIRM THE GOSSIP, THE GOSSIP IS ACCEPTED MORE EASILY.

  26. bellabc says:

    there were so many comments, i forgot what i was gonna say! Oh well, maybe next time!

  27. renee says:

    Sorry but the bottom line is her brother is being an asshole!Who care what the drama is over they all need to drop the shit and knock it off. Talk about behaving worse than children. They need to get over themselves and start looking at what it’s doing to their parents. Melissa needs to knock her little shit off to! At this point it doesn’t matter who likes her and who doesn’t. She has just as much of a responsibility to bite her tongue be cordial not biting or stabbing when her sister in laws back is turned. That go’s for Teresa to however we see a lot of it from melissa’s end. I could be wrong here however this crap needs to stop! I feel sorry for the children because look at the example that is being set for them. Unwillingness to forgive and let go. There is snide remarks, back biting comments, alliances with enemies, nasty attitudes, and being vengeful

  28. E19 says:

    I really really miss season 1 and 2….. where it was fun between Jac, Caroline and Teresa and Dina !! And the only one people had to worry about was Danielle !!
    So it saddens me to see where they all are today!

    I can see some of Melissa’s and Kathys points about Teresa… I can see where they are coming from and their frustration. I can see how having Joe Giudice in the family can really be a stress and a worry.

    HOWEVER no matter how good a point, Melissa and Kathy make about Teresa… how good of an argument they have – at the end of the day they have made an “own goal” – “Shot themselves in the foot” as the saying goes. This is because by joining the show with no positive story line including Teresa and only to raise these negative comments – they have made it seem like they are the jealous sour and vindictive and only came on the show for one thing – to trash Teresa.

    Any comments they make now will always be overshadowed with the fact they joined a very popular national show (And international – as I don’t live in America!) where EVERYONE will just see that yes they may have a really good point/case to make, but why why if you are all about family – join a show and speak negatively about your family for the whole world to know and hear ?!

    And that is coming from someone who in between season 3 and 4 became a Team Melissa and kathy and Jac and Caroline fan….
    However I changed my mind when I watched season 4 because then I saw how horrible they were treating Teresa and how she was being bullied. Though I will say I do see how Teresa comes across to the other side of the fence ! But that doesn’t excuse some of the behaviour – especially Carolines behaviour on the Napa trip.

  29. IRiSHMaFIA says:

    Teresa will get no where with her brother or Melissa. Not for a very long time anyway. It’s hard to believe they were ever very close after he married. One thing that is obvious is that Melissa saw the celebrity Teresa gained by being on the Real Housewives and she wanted a slice of that pie. And anything Melissa wants, Joe gets her.

    They sold their soul to the devil to get on that show with promises to take Teresa down. Now they’ve had their say, done their dirty work and what have they gained?

    So Joe finances Melissa’s singing career. She makes a few songs, all paid for by him. She’s now appearing at supermarkets, cheap bars and Six Flaggs. This wannbe JLo doesn’t even come close.

    Meanwhile the family is in tatters and Teresa and Joe’s parents must be heartbroken.

    What a difference it would of been if family and not fame were the bottom line. And that goes for all this bloody lot.

    • Obvious says:

      It would’ve been different if Joey didn’t marry Mel, period, and married a more wholesome family oriented woman instead of a famewhore.

  30. IRiSHMaFIA says:

    Teresa will get no where with her brother or Melissa. Not for a very long time anyway. It’s hard to believe they were ever very close after he married. One thing that is obvious is that Melissa saw the celebrity Teresa gained by being on the Real Housewives and she wanted a slice of that pie. And anything Melissa wants, Joe gets her.

    They sold their soul to the devil to get on that show with promises to take Teresa down. Now they’ve had their say, done their dirty work and what have they gained?

    So Joe finances Melissa’s singing career. She makes a few songs, all paid for by him. She’s now appearing at supermarkets, cheap bars and Six Flaggs. This wannbe JLo doesn’t even come close.

    Meanwhile the family is in tatters and Teresa and Joe’s parents must be heartbroken.

    What a difference it would of been if family and not fame were the bottom line. And that goes for all this bloody lot.

  31. WCW says:

    What I find the saddest is that Joey Gorga knows how to make his sister cry and loves to do it any chance he gets! What kind of sick twist is this guy?

  32. singer030587 says:

    Tresa needs to cut ties with her brother he is piece of crap, and he wonders why his parents are upset with him not because of what Teresa says but because of how he treats teresa on TV calling her names and insulting her

    Piece of garbage and a worthless

  33. Dubbalicious says:

    How can Teresa move past this? I think it’s safe to say that we as viewers feel betrayed by the Gorgas, I can’t imagine how deep the hurt would be for Teresa. I know that from watching the last 2 seasons, there’s nothing Melissa, Joey and all the others can do to restore my trust in them. The have destroyed every ounce of credibility they might have. I will never support any of their current or future endeavors. They’ve all spoken loud and clear. If this were my family, it would take an act of god for me to be able to forgive them. (I’m not a grudge holder) I’d want public apologies, groveling, resignation from the show, admission of all wrong doings. The list goes on and on. It’s so sad that their need for fame and riches destroyed a family.

  34. Ms. Torres says:

    Melissa may have accomplish what she always wanted. Things may be going great for her right now. It might even go her way for a very long time. But I bet you my life that everything she has done to the Gorgas and Tereasa will happen to her. Even worse. Remember she has two sons. I have seen happen couple of times. It never works out good. You get what you give out. I try really hard to live by that. I’m human so there’s times Im going to make mistakes but nothing what Melissa has done.

    In the end Tereasa will end up happy with her 4 girls and their future husbands. While Melissa is suffering with another version of herself.

    I don’t wish this upon Melissa but thats just the law of Karma. Wishing her plenty of luck in the future

  35. Kelly says:

    I don’t know what he is saying but John Karagiorgos@Johnny The Grk is saying criptic messages on Twitter. He said he is going to tell everything. I wanted my Tre Fans to check it out.

    • hoolie says:

      Angelo has also opened up a twitter account…things are starting to heat up

      • holy cannoli says:

        @ hoolie

        What’s he saying?

        • hoolie says:

          angelo, not much really- looks like he opened his twitter literally days ago…. johnny is eluding to being prepared for people to be ‘knocking on his door’ (I think he means questions/interviews) and is saying he has ALLL HIS documentation… I would say Angelo is also getting ready for interviews. Johnnythegrk said w/angelo in copy that the two of them are boyhood friends, grew up together. If you read Roxy’s interview from last year with Angelo- he says he was just there (PFS) for support for PDK hair, but then over at Famewhorgas, they talk about how MEHO was obsessed and stalking this guy, “The Greek” who wouldn’t marry her, thus she chose SloJo, but when she was on the prowl for “The Greek” she pal’ed up w/Johnny and Penny. Then it went sour with “the Greek”, and somewhere in the whole mix of things, looks like Meho made an enemy of those two (Johnny n Penny)….

  36. DLL says:

    Wow. Just read a great blog on TheFameWhorgas site about Melissa and how she and Joey didn’t acknowledge Joey’s dad’s birthday. Teresa and her husband and kids had a cake for him and T posted a pic.
    There are a bunch of twitters from Melissa posted there about all her appearances and performance dates, but nothing mentioned about Joe’s dad.
    There is only ONE mention of her own son’s birthday.
    The article goes on to show how Melissa is really all about herself and her kids are ignored. It’s a good read.

    • socalsoccer says:

      Every time I see Teresa tweet her schedule, Melissa will usually tweets her schedule soon after. She was to be at Six Flags to tonight. I have said it before, but doesn’t Six Flags usually signal the end of someone’s career? One can only go down from there!

      • Lapband Lauren says:

        LOL SOCAL- i saw that too on fb she was getting ready to put on her clown makeup by her douchelord makeup arist george or whatever his bloody name is. That was the whole reason why they sold out their family-was so melissa could sing at six flags looking like a stripper (no pun intended…cough cough…) for little six year olds..congrats gorgas. Your wife is soooo FAMOUS! NOTTTTTTTTT

    • jen says:

      From watching the show the past 2 season it is quite clear that all she cares about is herself!! I really feel bad for her kids it really reminds me of the movie MOMMY DEAREST.

  37. Kathy Keegan says:

    Theresa’s family ALL has to try a lot harder….They take one step forward on the show and then 10 steps backwards talking about each other on the show. All of them do!

  38. Melody says:

    Eventually Joe and Melissa will end up like Kate Gosselin from that other reality show. People will forget them like they forgot her and thats when they will regret their actions.

  39. DLL says:

    I noticed that Melissa has posted a couple of pix of her kids on her twitter. What a coincidence that the FameWhorgas blog mentions that she hardly mentions them, her tweets are all about her. Tells me she is only doing it because she was called out on it. Oh, and because Teresa always posts her kids and talks about them. Melissa the copycat.

  40. Victoria Veney says:

    This family will never be back togather agin as long as Melissa is married to Joey. The reason I say this is because Melissa has so much hate and jealousy toward T that it will never change. This is why Melissa wants to be T and have what T has she wants the fame she has she wants the friends she has she wants to be the mother T is and the wife T is like I said before Melissa wants to be T!!! Melissa will never be the woman T is she will never have the heart and the drive T has or the morals and values T has. I would be worried if I was T cause Melissa might be wearing T like last yrs Vasachie she that freakin evil and sick!! I would love to see T have the relationship with her brother like she use to have but Melissa will never ever allow that as long as she is in this family. T you just need to step away and just let them have thier space and just pray that the good Lord above will fix this cause T the Lord is the only one who can fix this now T just got to have alot of faith T and if it’s the Lord will you will have your whole family back. God Bless you T and I hope he takes that hurt in your heart away and keep being strong T and I know that this to shall pass. Amen

  41. Shipp says:

    LMAO…..Look at the ad above the headline. The Godfather Five Families….Choose you family.

  42. jar says:

    There are two reasons, IMO, why they will not reconcile. Joe thought that if they made Teresa fall, she would admit all of her wrongs and then they could reconcile. It would an acknowledgement that Teresa was wrong and he was right. But that is not going to happen. Unfortunately for the Gorgas, Teflon Teresa has come out on top after all of the bashing and demonizing. So, that form of reconciliation is not in the cards.

    The only way to reconcile would be for JoeGorga to apologize for his treatment of Teresa on the show. I am certain she would greet him with open arms if he did that. But he can never admit that he was wrong. More importantly, I think his low self-esteem could not take that kind of hit. So he has to continue to delude himself that he is in the right.

    Of course, all of this is exacerbated by the evil stepsisters and their clan (although the mother and aunt seemed quite nice and rational when they were on the show).
    I would bet that he does not spend much time with his family because in that circle he is ashamed of his behavior.

  43. disgusted says:

    I think its possible because Teresa is not above forgiveness …Is it smart for her to allow them back in her life ???? They have proved to have bad intentions where Teresa is concerned …

  44. Bobbi says:

    I think JoGo and MeHo are both POS with no regards for Papa Gorga or Mama Gorga. He’s doing his level best to kill them. Teresa has tried but JoGo is an arse. Grow up tarzen you’re not even a man.

  45. michers says:

    Hmm. Interesting that last night was the Six Flags Lip-synch site ( Meho)..I wonder who watched her kids! Her Mom and her witchy sisters were there along with their so called husbands… T’s haters always call her out for actually working and her kids are cared for by one parent, or family. Then again, Mel and JoeGo are always off doing lame appearances and dives for her to pretend she sings in..

    • cammierari says:

      hey michers..how you doing?
      I am SO ready for the reunion and the END of this horrible season! I can’t understand how Teresa has lived this for two years-I’m totally stressed just watching it

      • michers says:

        I know, I feel bad for her.. Looks like things are going to be getting worse over here also! There is a slew of haters joining the bash fest and its making this no fun . No other points of view, just ugly nasty hate. “larry” brought his friends over to play, so beware!! I cannot wait for this to be over, so we can all comment in fun again.

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