Ever since Chad AKA Ochocinco and Evelyn Lozada made their relationship official, everyone has doubted the couple. Evelyn’s costar Tami Roman spoke to MTV’s RapFix about the relationship.
Tami says, “well you know Evelyn and Chad are falling in love and you can’t tell a person who to fall in love with. I guess she’s just going to take her chances and hope that this one will stand the test of time.”
Tami was then asked, “You say these things [relationships] don’t last forever…?” Tami responded, “I..she will probably say that too. Evelyn will probably say ‘you know, he’s not going to be banging me at 80 years old.’ I just think that in that particular arena that there’s so many opportunities and women don’t respect each other enough that when a man is in a relationship, you make him accountable to that. A lot of women make themselves accessible because they are driven by money. They want cars and houses and all that stuff and for me. It wasn’t important to me and I decided to leave that lifestyle.”
When asked if being with an athlete is ‘toxic,’ Tami says that you have to really understand what you’re getting into and that it’s a certain type of lifestyle and you need to have thick skin and a strong mind. Tami continued, “It’s not toxic but you have to be aware of what you’re coming into. Don’t think being in a relationship with an athlete that it’s going to last forever. These athletes have so many women who are throwing themselves at these guys and you either chose to stay or hit the road like I did.”
I don’t want to be negative on Evelyn’s relationship but it’s clear when she speaks to Chad that he is going to cheat on her. I get millions of girls throw themselves at athletes but when a man is married he should respect his wife enough not to mess with other girls. Chad is probably in his mid thirties early forties. Not really sure but he’s already done all that fun stuff, been with tons of girls. He need’s to grow up and get over it! Evelyn is beautiful and if he’s going to marry her he should honor there vows. Do you think Chad and Evelyn are going to last?