RHOC: New Housewife Sarah Winchester Explains Bowling Night And Calls Heather Dubrow Out!

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Last night’s episode of Real Housewives of Orange County showed an interesting side to the newest friend of the housewives Sarah Winchester. Sarah took to her Bravo blog to share her point of view on went went down and says it was an embarrassing night! Sarah also calls out the newest official housewife Heather Dubrow!


Sarah Winchester:
Bowling + Champagne + Drama = Last call for Alcohol

I am just going to start off by saying that truth be told there always comes a point in everyone’s life after a long night that you really have to take a moment to stop and ask yourself… “What the F–k!?!” LOL. .As much as I would love to laugh about this whole bowling extravaganza, I want to be completely honest here by saying that embarrassed wouldn’t even be the right word to describe the outcome of this evening. I’m sure that chances are either you, or someone you know, may have had an “outer space moment” at some point, and sometimes you really just have to own it and move on. There are always two sides to every story. I know it sounds so cliche, but seriously I had just about the worst day possible before I even got to the bowling alley. I was in the middle of a rough relationship period and was pretty much in tears by the time I got to the bowling alley. So logically thinking I shoulda/woulda/coulda have just called it a night and went home. But I thought that maybe spending some quality time with the girls would cheer me up a bit. Unfortunately that wasn’t the case. Looking back, yes, that was a rookie move on my part to try to approach Vicki knowing she and Gretchen had just had a big blow out at the bunco party, but I had met Vicki before. She never seemed to have a problem with me, so I figured it was safe to have a seat next to her for a bit while we all ate. I was completely caught off-guard when I asked Vicki if I could talk to her for a minute just to be snapped at in return. In all fairness I could see where she might think that Gretchen sent me over to talk to her about their fight, but Gretchen knew nothing about why I went over to talk to Vicki nor did she even want me talking to her. Funny, but true, if Gretchen had it her way I’m sure she would have wanted to knock me out if she thought I was trying to start any trouble. That’s when you know you have a good friend. LOL. now it’s their usual routine but It really didn’t help matters much either when Heather and her wife Terry and their four faces were instigating with the whole “we are back in high school again” childish act that they like to put on by making their usual behind the back jabs at whoever is “it” for the night. Beside having to deal with the Adams Family putting their two cents in all evening, my whole thing was, why have a bowling party if everyone is going to be segregated and uncomfortable the entire time? So I made the effort to be nice to Vicki. I wanted to go over to at least acknowledge what she was going through, sincerely offer my support regarding her daughter, and see how she was doing after her recent surgery. As a mother myself, I know how heart-wrenching something like that would to go through, and I thought it would be a nice gesture to reach out to her — even if it probably wasn’t the perfect time. When it comes to a serious issue like this — is there ever really a good time? We are all adults here. Lets keep it real: a fight is a fight. It comes as fast as it goes, then you get over it. But when you are possibly dealing with something as serious a cancer, everything else seems so small in comparison. I would say that it’s safe to assume that miscommunication had a huge part to play in all of the chaos that night. I guess that sometimes trying to be the nice guy can turn around a bite you in the butt if you aren’t careful. But, to be honest, if I had it to do all over again I wouldn’t change a thing but my champagne intake. I will always be the person that wears my heart on my sleeve. That’s just who I am. I do have one quick question for Heather: will your new restaurant offer valet parking for spaceships or just broomsticks?

Sarah is clearly very outspoken. Tell me your thoughts on her. I think Sarah will make the show a lot more interesting then it has been. That’s for sure!

Heather Dubrow responded to Sarah’s blog and tells AllAboutTRH, “Another delusional rant. I tried to HELP her that night!” Team Heather or team Sarah?

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Category: Alexis Bellino, Gretchen Rossi, Heather Dubrow, RHOC, Tamra Barney, Vicki Gunvalson

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  1. sharon says:

    OMG..blah..blah..blah..
    You were a drunk bitch and approached her not as though you wanted to say HI and talk…but telling her WE need to talk. I mean WTF? Did Heather even invite this chick? I don’t think so. Gretchen did. I would be mad if I personally invited people to an outing and they took it upon themselves to invite others? She acted like she was in high school, grow up and quit drinking if you can’t handle it. I don’t care for Vicki, but she sure acted like the adult here.

    • Ash Jones says:

      So true! My head was spinning when she wouldn’t shut up. And I can’t believe she is still claiming she came at her like a little innocent lamb saying “can I talk to you?” After the episode has aired. We all saw that her and Gretchen were talking about Vicki RIGHT before and that Sarah was expressing to Gretchen that she wanted to involve herself in the issue. I’m seriously supposed to believe that after they sat their talking about the fight at the Bunco party, Sarah suddenly felt the need to offer Vicki emotional support regarding Briana? This drunkard needs to shut up. And obviously she is so jealous of Heather. Sorry Honey she is relevant and you are not deal with it. But thanks any ways for writing your blogs every single week even though you aren’t on most of the episodes. We know you’re desperate.

      • MissVIgyal says:

        That girl is clearly jealous of heather. Who wouldn’t be, beautiful family, smart/rich husband and looks to boot.

        • rachael says:

          This girl Sarah is a nut job. She was trying to cause problems all night making Gretchen confront vicki. Then took matters into het own hands. Weirdo

  2. MissVIgyal says:

    I feel bad becuase we all have had a bad first impression but i mean that night was wierd…..like i also feel embaressed for her becuase she was clearly drunk and her friend Gretchen should have pulled her behind out of there.

    Its hard being on TV but if you are a train wreck in real life of course you are going to come across that was in real life.

    I kinda don’t know i find myself defending the other housewives against this girl she was being one sidded too because she doesn’t know Vick personally but yet was all about backing up Gretchen.

    Heather was right maybe she was picking a fight…..

    • judy says:

      Gretchen has become an idiot this season so no wonder she hangs out with sarah. sarah was playing to vicki the role deedee the friend of camille on rhobh with taylor. The same exact thing. I am leery of that brooks character. He is a sleeze to the nth degree. Really vicki look out. why is he asking you about your finances? Especially after he said out right that they are not going anywhere near marriage.

  3. Leg Before Wicket says:

    The most appropriate comment of the evening was made by Heathers husband, “where did this broad leave her spaceship?”. If you can’t handle your alcohol, I think it would be in your best intereast NOT to appear on camera period! And if someone turns their back and walks away from you, TAKE THE HINT. Your debut last night was less than stellar!

  4. California says:

    Sarah is full of crap! She approached Vicki in a “confrontational” manner and then acted like a kid throwing a fit when she was told no! Even Gretchen was annoyed by her behavior.

  5. L says:

    The woman acted like an idiot. And blaming Heather & Terry for embarrassing herself further proves the point that she IS an idiot. Seems to me she was just looking to be a part of the drama & get the attention. Reminiscent of Dana from RHOBH. If you’re not in the opening credits, you’re not an integral part of the show, lady. Get over it!

  6. Donna says:

    She did in fact say “can I talk to you for a min”. I DVR’d it and that’s exactly what was said. She didn’t sound confrontational at all, Vicki is just a bitch.

    • MissVIgyal says:

      What show were you watching. She totally said that in a confrentational way and another thing vick was in the middle of a intimate conversation and her drunk ass she woddled right in front of her and said slurring “can i talk to you for a minute” i mean normally if your going to introduce yourself that isn’t how your start off the convo. Justy saying

  7. Brenda says:

    Sarah, you would’ve endeared yourself a little more had you just owned up to being drunk & stupid and then apologizing. Everyone knows your explanation is utter B.S.!

  8. Dan says:

    Team heather all the way! This chick Sarah is a nutbag, and most likely a drug addict as well. I don’t think she was just drunk at bowling, and for the rest of the season we’ll probably see her fall off the deep end.

  9. julie says:

    Did anyone notice the ONLY time Vicki acts like a “normal” non screaming human being is when Brooks is around???

  10. Laurie says:

    I don’t even know why this girl is on the show. She was just thrown in as another ‘friend’ of a HW. There’s no backstory to her. No relevancy about her and I seriously doubt she has the bank to hang with this clique. Seems very low-brow and should stick to her middle income kind.

    We have enough drama with the airheads (Alexis!) on this show. No need to throw in someone else that doesn’t belong.

    Personally, my head was spinning at watching Alexis last night. She was a freakin’ train wreck! Why Fox 5 would put her on the air is beyond me!

    • lovehousewives says:

      Agree 100% on everything!

    • sharon says:

      I felt the same way. I was so confused as to why she even had anyone on her panel..she sure as hell wouldn’t let them talk..LOL She won’t be on fox 5 long, did you see Jim telling her at dinner she needed to stop or quit.

      • Laurie says:

        I was especially cringing when Alexis told the PA she thought it was good. She never let them speak but the panel’s faces spoke volumes!

        Another thing? I don’t see ‘anchors’ on set usually in outfits resevered for nightclubs and hookers.

    • Heidi says:

      Spot on!!! I was wondering if it was ‘just me’ that noticed her train wreck of an interview on the Fox station which appeared on the show………. Glad to read that I wasn’t the only one…..:)

    • Storm says:

      Because she’s a blonde?

  11. Jami says:

    Sarah is a nut job and clearly didn’t go up to Vicki to “talk nice.” But then again she’s stupid enough to believe that ppl think she had good intentions. She said it herself that ya just need to own what you did and move on. Well she definitely hasn’t owned anything. She just continues to lie about it. We all saw what happened though so she can pretend in her screwed up little head that she had good intentions.

    • cherrylipgloss says:

      every time she got up to chase Vicki down all I could hear playing in my head was the Jaws theme….dah-dunh! dah-dunh!

  12. Allison Grubbs says:

    She could have stood a chance if she had just owned it, and said, I was way too drunk and was wrong. Still trying to be the sweet innocent lamb is not working for you, Honey. Look up your local A.A. meeting place…..

  13. lovehousewives says:

    OMG can’t believe she even has her own blog!!! Crazy chick and very desperate I would say to be on show….I was hoping that was her last episode :/ Heather made it clear she didn’t invite her so she should be happy she even there…team Heather!!!

    • Heidi says:

      She appears to be somewhat of a nut case…..Either that or actually trying to ‘be seen & heard’ for her debut…..LOL I’m team Heather on this one & loved Heather’s hubby’s one liner about the spaceship…….:)

  14. Allison Grubbs says:

    Oh, and it looked like it was a combination of pills AND alcohol. In my opinion.

  15. huh says:

    Sarah is an idiot, a liar (re: being an heiress) and I have no desire to ever see her on tv again.

  16. Kija says:

    We all know what was going on at the bowling alley. No friend of the housewives can ever become a housewife or even stay a friend without bringing some drama to get some camera time. She was earning her paycheck and making her bid for the next season. Unfortunately, the drama was contrived and one-sided, making it less drama and more space camp.

  17. Nicole says:

    Team Heather. She’s the only one I like on the show so far. I used to love Vicki but she’s just been so incredibly annoying and snotty all season. Tamra is okay and Gretchen whines too much. Alexis is just an idiot. LOL.

    Sarah is a nut job. She seemed somewhat “normal” at Vicki’s party, but sh pretty much just proved what a whack job she is at the bowling alley AND on her blog. Own up to your drunkenness and starting unnecessary drama instead of blaming other people. The whole time she kept saying how she just wanted to introduce herself to Vicki made me laugh considering she had already met Vicki!

    I liked how Heather handled the situation and I liked how Slade defended Heather instead of just siding with Sarah because she and Gretchen are friends.

  18. cammierari says:

    hahaha..yeah she asked Vicki if they could talk and Vicki said NO. Don’t get all pissy about it! I’m no fan of Vicki’s, but really Sarah? It would have been a lot better if you had dropped it instead of bringing it to a whole other level. You owe everyone there an apology

  19. cherrylipgloss says:

    WTF? there was no miscommunication….you were quite simply hammered out of your gourd and full of bad intentions! own it!

  20. Saboricua says:

    Sarah was out of line and should have never been there since she was not invited. I don’t like Heather, I think she is full of shit and just as messy as the others.

    • db says:

      I don’t care for Heather either. Her husband is a jackass and is as much of a fame whore as Slade. He doesn’t seem to be a very good plastic surgeon either, according to some of his former patients on YELP.

      • Sleepy says:

        Oh yeah! I seen all that stuff about him too. He seems to be man-child with am excellent job. Heather is a “secret bitch”. She’s fantasticin front of you but she’s a drill sergeantat home. She may have money but Heather is a phony and she’s not fooling me. PS. I do not like Sarah either.

  21. Doglvr says:

    Team Heather! For Gods sake – where do they find these women? I cannot hardly watch this show anymore. Gretchen and Slimey are sickening to me. He’s made his way thru Jo, Laurie and now Gretchen….fame whore…disgusting! And I honestly think Jim is trying to get Alexis to stay home because he sees what an ass she makes of herself trying to interview people :)

    • julie says:

      I kinda think it is a control thing with Jim, plus he doesn’t want to care for the kids on Fridays. Even though she prepares everything prior to leaving the house.

  22. Dawn Raine says:

    I agree Sarah sounds like she is admitting she was wrong then proceedes to try to justify all her actions along with slamming Heather. Sarah is a wantabe.
    If Vicki is fool enough to fall for Brooks line of BS, she deserves him. He makes Slabe li

  23. Josh says:

    Heather is my new favorite. She had Vicki’s back. Heather looks to be loyal, and she says whatever she wants. I love her and this Sarah is what I like to call a “drunken mess”.

  24. Dawn Raine says:

    I was not done, did something wrong. Brooks is so slimey sounding he makes Slade look like a woman’s ideal man.

  25. Dawn Raine says:

    And I forgot. I wish someone that gets the channel 5 that Alexis is on can tell me if this is just as she appears on TV, stupid, inarticulate and doesn’t let guests speak or is it highly edited by Bravo.

    • db says:

      It’s edited by Bravo. I live in San Diego and watch Fox5 morning show every day. (The pregnant girl Shalli is one of the morning anchors was talking to Alexis after her segment is one of my favorites. She watches the Real Housewives and is on vacation this week, but I know she will be thrilled that she was on the show). I think Andy is pissed off at Alexis for making a comment against gay marriage, so they make her look like an idiot.

    • mm says:

      I just switched over to Fox 5 and didn’t catch Alexis but I did see a commercial that all the RHOC ladies will be on Doctor Oz tomorrow.

  26. mm says:

    It was so obvious that she was trying to create controversy so she could get camera time.
    First she tried pushing Gretchen to confront Vicki (so she could get camera time defending Gretchen) and when Gretchen wouldn’t do it this nut got drunk and made a fool out of herself in her sloppy attempt to insert herself into the storyline.
    Now she’s acting just like Meho, pretending she had good intentions and she was the person that was wronged by Vicki.

  27. db says:

    I wasn’t a fan of Sarah’s at first, but seeing how vindictive and insulting that fugly Heather Dubraggart is, I’m beginning to like her more and more.

  28. db says:

    Am I the only one who has noticed that on the past 2 shows when Tamra’s breast implants removal has been discussed, not ONCE did she mention ANYTHING about having cervical cancer? All she’s done is blame Simon for having them in the first place, although she had the first set when she met him.

    • mm says:

      Breast implants are the 21st century equivalent of chinese foot binding. She should take them out just because they weigh an extra 4 pounds and make it impossible to sleep on your stomach :) . I think Tamra is becoming more self-confident and less worried about what someone else thinks about her body.

    • Nicole says:

      Actually she mentioned her cervical cancer scare in her previous blogs from last season. And she said she wanted to remove them but Simon didn’t want her to because he didn’t want his wife to have “mosquito bites.”

  29. ajaii says:

    The Fact That Sarah referred to Terry as Heather’s Wife has made me a fan! I dig Heather but her “act” is easy to see through, WE GET IT , Your Rich & Sophisticated!!!

    Terry comes off as very catty not just the 80′s party but when Alexis was on WWHL he tweeted in a question about her nose surgery as well trying to provoke her or ” call her out”

    Why would someones husband worry about what another Woman get’s done to her face. The only other husband who seems catty like that is Peter from Atlanta lol.

    • Nicole says:

      Lol. You forgot Joey and Rich from RHONJ. And Paul can be carry too.

    • db says:

      I forgot about Terry doing that. What an idiot. I cannot imagine ANY of my doctors acting like that. No wonder he has so many unhappy patients, he’s too worried about cultivating his “acting career” to concentrate on his real profession. I’ve read elsewhere that he made a “joke” about being addicted to porn. What a creep.

  30. 2lou says:

    Good Lord. She is about as desperate and relevant as Dana was. Wing nut.

  31. lindsey says:

    DRUNK BITCHHHH…. who is she to talk to u like that? she god damn VICKI u stupid bitch….. go cry to someone who cares

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