Producers Commentary: Producers Comment On Fight With Joe Gorga And Kim D; Says Cops Were Called

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On season 4 of The Real Housewives of New Jersey, Kim D and Joe Gorga get into a face off where Joe Gorga accuses Kim D of many horrible things. Producers of the show are now commenting on the fight and reveal that cops were called that night!

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  1. Lily says:

    I just find it weird that producers are only commenting on rhonj probably bc they know its the show ppl are most interested in

  2. Joanna says:

    I don’t think these producer comments shed much new info.

    • mzjulesaz says:

      I think they are stupid personally and provide no value.

      • RahRah says:

        Not only that if we believe everything they said about the producers they’re the ones that screwed the show with their favoritism and fraternization with the Manzos and Gorgas. Melissa licking Kat’s cat, for air time and favorable treatment literally makes me want to barf.

      • Lauri says:

        you think that because they said teresa licked her lips when she got nervous. cue – “OMG SHE WASN’T LYING TERESA IS THE BEST PERSON ON THIS EARTH OMG I LOVE HERR!!!!!!!”

    • Cathy says:

      You aren’t kidding! I just lost 1 1/2 mins of my life I can’t get back. What the heck was the point of that. She said not one thing we didn’t know.

  3. holy cannoli says:

    I’m not suprised the cops were called.. Joey once again made an ASS out of himself

    • michers says:

      He really has issues with women. Keep seeing and hearing this! I bet he is disrespectful to his Mother, not just his sister. Even though I do not care for Messy, he has talked to her questionably as well. Anyone close to him that has a vajayjay, he has Napolean syndrome with. JMO, but of the alleged rape thing is definitely true and he got away with no consequences because the girl was paid off/charges dropped\, that is why he is the way he is!!! When you continue to get away with things without punishment, it shows in your adult life ;)

      • holy cannoli says:

        I agree @ michers

      • JPG says:

        I still find it strange that the woman was willing to be paid off. I’m not saying that he didn’t push boundaries, but I’m sorry, you rape me and all the money in the world is not going to stop me from pressing charges on your ass to at least stop you from doing it to someone else. I think to some degree the chick in that situation was lying.

        • LOLA says:

          I don’t know…sometimes victims of rape would rather just “sweep it under the rug” to avoid thinking about it or dealing with it. Rape is a whole different type of crime, it isn’t like being mugged, it is the worst type of personal violation and a lot of rape victims would rather not have to face their attackers ever again, let alone talk about it in court. There’s a weird type of guilt that the victims get.
          And no JPG I’m not picking on you, just offering a different way to look at it.

          • JPG says:

            No LOLA, I don’t think you’re picking on me. I get what you’re saying, but I personally find the circumstances fishy. I just don’t think the whole story is being told there. Doesn’t make me right by any means, but I think most women would feel doubly raped to actually be raped and then have the mothef*cker pay you for it?

            I know. Everyone’s different.

          • michers says:

            @ Sam- blah blah blah. Never heard Teresa say anything about it and UNTIL someone with authority to do so denies and disproves it, guess what? Its out there!!!!!!!!

          • ozzie says:

            I never heard Teresa say anything about Joe and the alleged rape. I read about it somewhere else and Teresa’s name was never mentioned.

            I didn’t think the video gave us much we didn’t know. We all know these women are LOUD!! Not surprised the neighbors called and told them to shut up.

          • holy cannoli says:

            @ Samantha

            Where the f did you get that Teresa started this rumor about her brother? That isn’t even cool to say that!!

            You are so full of shit it isn’t even funny!!

        • hoolie says:

          That’s you….it’s been proven for years that women do drop rape charges for various reasons, one of them being society viewing them as ‘they asked for it’ or being labeled/ostricized by their peer group/clan after the incident becoming known to those.

          This rape allegation is not one to be thrown around lightly, and if true, shows SloJo’s to have some severe mental/emotional issues….. For the sake of his family and children, I hope it’s not true, but….

          • JPG says:

            If the lady did lie, she deserves to be shot. I think that’s one of the worst things you can do to somebody.

            If she didn’t lie, he should be shot in the face.

          • holy cannoli says:

            I hope it’s not true either @ hoolie.

          • michers says:

            Hoolie, I agree for the sake of his kids especially. But judging his character traits so far, it would not shock me.

          • Annie says:

            I agree with JPG. Gorga should be shot in the face.

          • JanShe says:

            @JPG – We agreed not to respond to each other’s posts. BUT, in this instance I agree with your post 100%. :-)

            If she lied, she should be shot, and if he did it, he should be shot.

            Okay, back to ignoring each others posts. lolol!

          • JPG says:

            We may not agree on housewives, JanShe, but I’m glad we’re on common ground for this one :)

        • Someone Who Is Watching says:

          JPG this is not suprising and happens all the time as the victim usually feels this is the safest route to take because then she won’t have to suffer through reliving it at trial. Sad but it happens everyday in every city. As a matter of fact very few cases go to trial most are settled out of court for a monetary fine that the victim receives

          • JPG says:

            I get it. I do. I just would fight that shit to the death. I know not everyone would.

          • Someone Who Is Watching says:

            LOL not me I’d settle out of court and hire a hitman…. so much easier that way, and a better public service. LOL

        • southernbell317 says:

          I’m not shocked at all she let him “pay her off” the majority of rape victims don’t even report the crimes because they feel dirty, embarrassed, ashamed, and violated… they last thing they want to do is go in to a police station or hospital and have to go through the process that is required to report a rape, much less go to court and have to face their attacker again… most just want it to go away…

          • etta says:

            I never heard she was bought off.I did hear she was convinced to drop charges.There is a big difference.

          • michers says:

            @ etta, heard it happened when in College ( 2 stories: one it was just him, 2- gang of he and his friends). Heard that his Father convinced and paid. Not sure if true. This has been going around for quiet some time. Every now and then I bring it up because he sickens me, along with his wife who is shady as well. With ALLEGED things like that attached to your name, you would think one might be more careful, and loving/loyal to family! Numerous outlets online have heard this as well. Only prob is that since convincing of charges to disappear and $$, it is becoming hard to bring up and view documentation now. Giuseppe Gorga, aka Joey Gorga with this “rumor” is ALL over many sites. Something like that, Im pretty sure that many strangers would not make up, as it is serious. Thats why I can’t stand his midget ass :)

        • Karen smith says:

          Whoa,whoa, Whoa, JPG, I very seldom take anyone’s here comments seriously, but this comment about a rape victim I can’t ignore. I personally have never seen the evidence of who was raped, or even if a rape occurred, BUT don’t ever think you know how you would react UNLESS you have been a rape victim.

          There doesn’t seem to be any more evidence that anyone was paid off or intimidated into dropping charges, but if this young woman or anyone who has been raped is “paid off” or “scared off”, I personally totally understand. Unless you have been there you truly can’t judge.

          I have worked with rape victims for a long time now (payback for the help I received, as well as getting my “power” to do something back) and no one reacts the same way. The fear, shame, anger, rage ,etc. effect everyone differently.

          I was young, strong and had a black belt in judo, and the only thing that saved me was begging and doing everything I was told. Beyond degrading, but it took me a long time to appreciate the fact that I was ALIVE, and that meant I won. I did follow thru with everything I was asked to by the police and the DA, and, guess what? Nothing. He walked, the next woman he almost killed.

          So please, don’t make the assumption that if she took money or didn’t pursue charges that she was a LIAR.

          Thanks for listening to my rant, but so many people make assumptions about rape victims, that only makes life so much worse for the victims.

          • michers says:

            :)
            I agree- if there were a rape that occurred, you never know hoy you will handle it.
            I have seen this story around for over a year now! And its frustrating that its out with no more info that what we have seen :(
            I wonder if it was easy to intimidate the girl because they were in College? If they made her feel it was not rape because they were drunk? Who knows.. I hope one day to to know either way the truth, because that is a big deal!!!

          • etta says:

            I don`t call that a rant Karen,just some hard earned facts.You are right about not knowing a damn thing til you have been their yourself.There are so many times in life where someone should just shut up and listen instead of opening their mouths.I am so glad you came out of that empowered many never do come away at all.

          • JPG says:

            How do you know I have not? Food for though Karen.

      • Someone Who Is Watching says:

        IMO all of the men on this show have problems looking at women as an eqal partner except Juicy. If you notice the men on this show all control the finanaces in their households with the exception of Juicy. Tre is the only one with free rein when it comes to money. Yes, I include Caroline and whatever his name is in this category also, she has made remarks about whats his name (I trully cannot for the life of me remember his name) giving her money and having to ask permission on gifts etc. Shes not as strong as she likes to portray.

        • etta says:

          I can not for the life of me imagine asking my husband if I could have a few bucks.His paycheck always went into the bank and I did what was needed.He could not have cared less so long as he food,shelter,and his cigars.

          • elemcee says:

            I am guessing the husbands figure they had better control the wives spending in case one of the children needs a medical diagnosis and the money gets spent on botox… Can you imagine?

        • rhfan says:

          I agree that the men on this show have problems looking at their partners as equals. Joe Giudice may appear to treat Tre as an equal now, but I think he doesn’t have a choice since she has an income now. If you recall season 1 & 2 his attitude was different; he was always saying how he gave her money, implying he was the man. If Tre is to be believed, she didn’t know anything about their financial problems until the BK.

          So no, I really don’t think the RHONJ men see their partners as equals, at least when it comes to finances.

          • etta says:

            I agree with that but you got to admit the man gave her all the money she wanted.Teresa said Jac had to beg for 100 bucks.If Teresa had ask for 100 bucks Juicy would of carried her to the ER just to find out what was wrong.I love Juicy.

        • Juicy??????? He’s the fattest pig on the show – just b/c he knows how to use the camera and editing, does NOT make him a gentleman – just the words he uses in front of his daughters make me ill, and now we hear that Tre talks the same way around the house….Believe me, him saying that her money is hers is believable, b/c now he doesn’t have to support any females. Ya don’t think he make enuf $ to support that house or even pay for groceries or certainly not to dress the girls, do you? Tre may be a dumb ho, bue he is smart in a lot of ways.

      • Marqueii says:

        So who says he’s an adult?

    • Annie says:

      As usual.

  4. CryingWolf says:

    Producers are commenting because they know that RHNJ has been outed as the Fakest of the reality shows with its contrived dramas and phony set ups. Instead of owning up they want to bury Teresa Guidice because its easier than cleaning up their act. I will only watch clips of the show on non Bravo affiliated websites and I will only read the blogs through this site, SH’s, Famewhorgas or FauxReality. Screw you Bravo.

    • michers says:

      Totally agree! Bravo can go scratch!!!

    • Maru the Cat fka Sharon Lea says:

      I totally get your boycott CryingWolf, but Bravo will most likely still be able to count each viewer of their clips since they are linked/posted on their server.

      • CryingWolf says:

        My aim isnt to deprive them on ratings though. Its advertising dollars. I am avoiding their major advertisers. The only way to impact a beast like Bravo is to hit them where it hurts. Their pockets.

        • pinkie says:

          Writing to major advertisers, might be another way.

          I wonder how many advertisers or organizations were aware of the JacAss Chuckie vs Gia episode. I found it wrong and am sorry I didn’t write to anyone at network or major advertisers at the time.

    • mzjulesaz says:

      Even Denise Richards, another Andy’s buddies is now Team Gorga.

      • pinkie says:

        Well hell to her then.

        • etta says:

          Isn`t she the one who married Charlie Sheen?I can sure see where her judgement makes a person take pause.Funny how this whole country is lining up on teams.I vote for Teresa.

      • Chelly says:

        mzjulesaz – I saw that episode also. It’s like Andy gets this “thrill” like a little boy asking each guest if their on “Team Teresa” or “Team Melissa”.

        He’s also so degrading to women. Again, he asked Denise Richards to do something sexual, licking the caramel off an apple (last time she was on he had her suck on a lollipop) & see if she could turn him straight. I was dissapointed in Denise for indulging him. She should have said NO WAY!!!

  5. Heidi says:

    Old news…..

  6. etta says:

    I`m no fan of Kim D but they really should have let her beat Joey`s attitude alittle.

    • Someone Who Is Watching says:

      Not a fan of physical violence on any level as I’m sure you aren’t either but, I am surprised she held back and didn’t pop him one cuz I know I would have under these circumstances then I would have turned on Melissa.

    • michers says:

      Now that would have been a better finale :)

      • etta says:

        Except it would of been poor Teresa that would of been trashed for starting the violence.Truth is I think that was what Mel wanted the whole time.

        • michers says:

          Good point Etta

        • pinkie says:

          oh yeah thats what she wanted.

          She kept baiting Stumpy while they were driving away. “Telling him to yell “Shame on you.” at Tre. She is one dirt stirring little biotch. Mehor is as greasy in her essence as the back room of Lookers.

          • Puhleeze – You believed the Kim and Ken thing. Lord, if Bravo thought Ken could draw viewers, they must be a very unhip network….Kyle baited K/K for days on the island, and the editors finally mae it look like it MIGHT be real….for another season, they tried to make some sense of Lisa’s restaurant scenes, and they were laughable….on the OC, some of he women practically run the scenes. I cannot see that NJ is the only phony show.

  7. Melissa says:

    They have to keep the Gorgas relevant…they are coming back for season 5 for another round of attacks on Midget’s Joe’s sister.

    • JanShe says:

      If Mel and Kathy are back for season 5, Bravo will not get any ratings from me.

      I stopped giving them ratings halfway through season 3.
      A friend of mine tapes it and sends it to me, so I can watch without giving Bravo the ratings.

      This family storyline IMO is played out.

  8. Someone Who Is Watching says:

    This is yet another sad attempt on BRAVO’s part to try and show themselves in good light. They so F’d up this show they will try anything to get out of the hole they dug for themselves.
    The producers commentary on certain scenes is a pathetic attempt to try and get us to believe they have no responsibility on the destruction of a family on national TV.
    Sad Sad Sad.

    • AnnieB says:

      I agree and very well said!

      • pinkie says:

        yes, it is. they completely screwed this show. It was the best, but no more.

        I still watch NY, Miami, ATL, OC but used to love BH, wont watch, dont miss.

        Figure NJ will end up the same. WaaaWaaa. Oh well nothing lasts forever.

    • JanShe says:

      All of these released comments/stories, from the producers is a little suspect, IMO.

      Bravo has not done this with any other franchise,
      why this one??? Perhaps GUILT, or maybe something a little more, is at work here.

      Bravo seems to be trying to negate their actions/responsibility in a public forum. They must have a reason for doing so. Wonder what it is???

      • JanShe says:

        Are they trying to justify firing cast members?
        Are they trying to avoid a lawsuit?
        Are they putting all this out to keep us interested during the off season?

        What are your thought folks?

        • JanShe says:

          thoughts

          • etta says:

            I can not imagine why they are doing this.Damage control is no longer an option.They have laid out their cards and lost.You would think Bravo would have some guts and just admit they are anti-Teresa.There is not a damn thing they can say or do that will convince me otherwise.

        • michers says:

          IDK but it is strange Jan!!! Something is fishy and its not just Kathy!

          • To me, I didn’t watch season one, and when I saw dumb bunny Tre flip the table, I thought they’d fire her stupid ass. I think Bravo felt if fatJoe was sent up, they could add to the plot. Maybe this can still happen. I hope he does do time, then he won’t have to phone his lovers, they’ll be right there, jumping him, 10 at a time..Can Bravo film in the big house????? No, I guess not!!!

        • socalsoccer says:

          All of the about JanShe. They are “back pedaling” probably from all of the backlash from this terrible season.

  9. smallfries says:

    Bravo are coming for the Gorgas next season. Messy and Joey better watch there ass. They build those fools up and it back fired. Tre fans base is just to big, and bravo knows they have some making up to do.

  10. Deb says:

    anyone else notice how calm Jac looked, doesn’t she go to sleep under stressful moments? …

    • etta says:

      Enough drinks will do that to you but that look on her face is kind of strange.She was in her own little world that night.

      • michers says:

        Oh plea! She was in Franzia’s world, lol!! ( Is that the name of the boxed wine???? )

        • michers says:

          -se… please :)

        • etta says:

          Back when I was very young we would snag this stuff called Mad Dog wine.It was just the thing for all parties that would end is much illness and groundings.I can not stand the smell of any wine now and the name Mad Dog is perfect for Jackass.Ahh the good old days.

          • Shipp says:

            Etta, there is a wine out called Mad Housewife. I have 2 bottles in my fridg.

            For what it cost I’m thinking it needs to be completely chilled and poured over ice, or mixed in a spritzer. I haven’t tried it yet. I afraid, lol.

          • michers says:

            MadDog!! UGH bad memories.. I fell for the ” grape” flavor..worst ever!!!!!!! What about Boone’s Strawberry?? God, I cannot believe I drank that crap, lol!!! I think thats why I never drink !

          • socalsoccer says:

            OMG Etta, I tried Mad Dog in high school, that is nasty shit! Boone’s Farm was a close second.

      • pinkie says:

        well she shared with the web world, that the producers gave her a Xanax but it wasn’t enough.
        So it took her into her own little world, but evidently not far enough. Jacs face IMO is a combo of food,drugs,booze and botox. Give her another 10yrs shes going to look like a Halloween mask.

  11. RahRah says:

    what I noticed that during this exchange Li’l Joe was vitriolic towards Kim D but during the reunion he softened and me thinks he was sent a very clear message, apologize, and be nice to Kim D because we’ll serve your Li’l ass up on platter. A very different Joe Gorga from the one at the fashion show. I mean he went from calling her a coke whore to a shrinking apologizing violet, funny, funny.

    • michers says:

      Oh yes, that was funny! Before she could talk, he was all on the Im sorry bus,LOL!!! So obvious.. trying to keep her from spilling more beans about his wifey. One night, Kim D is gonna get chocolate wasted, and some of those peeps are in trouble!!!!!

      • etta says:

        Makes you wonder doesn’t michers?What do you think he found out during that time?Is Kim D really the badass that plays with the big boys?Did he take a good look at himself in that picture on his phone and see she was right about him being a little boy?Or maybe he just wants to keep his options open for when Mel skips out with the paperboy who earns more money then he does?

  12. RahRah says:

    Dear Samantha, I just learned there is a gorgafan website and you should be able to find it by searching under gorgafans. That is where you really belong, please go in peace and with my best wishes. You belong with your own kind. Have a great day and bye, bye!!

  13. singer030587 says:

    I want to see Joey and Melissa taken down so hard they will not be able to dig there way out of trouble that would make me happy. To bad none of the mob wife’s live in that area I would love to see Melissa and joey try to act all tough with one of those woman on the show talk about drama to the next level

  14. Jarlath says:

    Why didn’t they include this on the episode … it’s a reality tv after all … oh wait … it’s SCRIPTED. I get it.

  15. jewishevileye says:

    Michers, I adore your posts but Joe Gorga in college? LOL I know that ‘s the latest rumor from the Gorga Spin art machine but the man can’t even read a text without assistance. Bull. He committed a crime and everyone covered up for him as usual. Samantha, that is a lie, nobody has ever suggested that Teresa started that rumor. We all know who you are……go shine the wheels of Melissa’s rental Bentley with your toothbrush.

    • michers says:

      Hello!! I think he actually did go, not sure if he graduated or finished, lol!! I know- its funny! One of the places I originally saw this ” story” said while in College. And wasn’t he a Stripper in College? LMAO
      BTW- totally agree with your statement of committing crime/cover up. I really feel that says a lot about how we see him talk to and treat women!

      • Fatjoe shd have kept his crimes on the downlow. He really blew it with the story that a ham sandwich can be indicted. I don’t think the prosecutor will like the fact that fatuglyjoe’s lawyer told him that, like fat joe’s crime is a misdemeanor!!!??? Just wondering….

    • etta says:

      It was part of the governments program of No Damn Fool left behind.The have since ended that program.

  16. jewishevileye says:

    P.s. These producers are obnoxious. Like we are going to believe it when they further lie and distort the truth. I can totally see how they got along with the Gorgas….liars

    • etta says:

      I haven`t bothered to listen to them.The lip lickers was more then enough for me.Now if the want to bring in Cat Whatsitname I well gladly listen to the lies and JPG`s take on her lip readings.

  17. Cajsa says:

    There’s a reason women drop charges and don’t report. Of 100 rapes that happen, 46 will get reported. Of those 46 reported rapes, only 11 lead to an arrest. Of the 11, only 3 will get convicted.

    When your home is robbed and the burglar is tried, the thief cannot use in his defense that you had a really great TV that was so hot and so tempting. He can’t say that leaving your windows open was an invitation to be burgled. He can’t say that you invited people into your home before, so really, your home is open to everyone. He cannot say that you gave him a TV last year, so it was understood that you would give him a TV again. He cannot go through your history, pointing out that sometimes you don’t lock your windows, that you occasionally donate household goods to others, that you have a showy home with lots of tempting items. He cannot say you deserved to be robbed, that you consented to be robbed, that you let other rob you.

    But for a woman who is raped, all of those arguments are accepted defenses.

  18. michers says:

    Hey guys! I have to interrupt JoeGo’s story here because I find out that Anderson Cooper’s Talk Show is cancelled!! A third season will not be renewed…Interesting :)

  19. etta says:

    I just want to add that it does seem like going against Teresa is like kicking puppies.Most people hate that kind of thing.It would not be a problem if these folks made their cases in normal healthy ways.Instead they rip into her and attack everything most of us hold dear.

    • michers says:

      Act like savages doing it, then turn around and call Teresa evil, heartless, villain, selfish?? That gets me every time. Never see her do anything but be the most real and down to Earth ( IMO), and they treat her like that, and call her names!

  20. rukidding? says:

    that fight between kim d and little joey marco really enraged me. i understand he was mad at her for the setup but the things that were coming out of his mouth really crossed so many lines. you know damn well if joe guidice talked to teresa like that the teresa haters would’ve attacked him and wanted him to be arrested for verbal abuse,but it’s okay for little joey marco to verbally attack a woman that way?! i don’t think so. if he was talking like that to a man. his ass would’ve been punched and if he can so easily put down another woman like that what makes anyone think he doesn’t talk that way to melissa. i do not respect men that attack women that way.

  21. samp says:

    I want to know why Andy blatantly miss pronounces Joe and Teresas last name every opportunity he has? Has anyone else noticed? At the reunion he would miss pronounce their last nam, then he along with the rest of the hater cast would get smug looks on their faces! To me this just goes to show how much he thinks of Tre. He’s being disrespectful in such a childish way. I wish Andy would lay off her cuz w/o her RHONJ would not be what it is.

  22. Boss640 says:

    Dump these NJ Housewives, Give Teresa her own show, she is the reason viewers watch each week!!!

    • Yes, mostly scripted, so…….I missed the fact (?) that Jac is an alcoholic. They do prescribe, sometimes, Xanax for alcoholism, but I don’t know anybody who knows Jac personally. I do think the person I’ve seen smashed on the show, and it doesn’t make her addicted, is KimD…nicki

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