Kathy Wakile Says Everyone Is Talking But No One Is Listening

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In Kathy Wakiles final blog for this season of RHONJ, she says that too many things have happened and the problem is that everyone is talking but no one is listening. Kathy talks about what she’s learned from being on the reality TV after the jump!

“Too many hurtful things have been said and too many feelings have been trampled on. Everyone is talking and no one is listening; I wonder, where do we go from here?

In life there isn’t a rewind button, but unfortunately in reality TV there is. It is always difficult to have to deal with issues you thought were already put to rest. I guess in some ways though, it can be beneficial. It has shown me a way to learn from mistakes and try to make the future better. I have always believed that life is about growth and change, and I’d like to share some of the things that I have learned and some things that have helped me grow.

I have learned that most people are good-natured and supportive. I have learned that the viewers are caring people whose interest in me is very heartwarming, and I want you to know you have my sincere thanks. I have learned to listen to critique and criticism and understand the difference between helpful constructive criticism and just plain meanness. I have come to understand who I can count on and has my best interest at heart and who does not. But most of all I have reaffirmed that my family — and by that I mean my husband, my children, my mother, my sister, and brothers — are the ones who have never wavered in their love, support, and kindness. They are the true meaning of family.

I have grown so much as a person, and the RHONJ experience has enabled me to become involved in many charitable organizations that are now so close to my heart. As you know, I have become very involved with The National Brain Tumor Society. Just this week I was invited to be the keynote speaker for a program held by The Children’s Brain Tumor Foundation in NYC. These experiences and the giving and sharing that accompany working for a cause are life-changing and positive. I urge all of you to get involved in helping out in any way that you like. It will change you in the most wonderful way!

I encourage you to all to stay positive. I have learned that is the key to healthy growth and a fulfilling lifestyle. And I wish you all the best until next time.”

Yawn.

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Category: Caroline Manzo, Jacqueline Laurita, Kathy Wakile, Melissa Gorga, RHONJ, Teresa Giudice

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  1. Rach says:

    Got as far as the intro to this post before I fell asleep. The mere mention of this woman’s name is enough to knock me out for the rest of the night.

  2. MaryEllen says:

    Bore off Kathy. The most boring housewife EVER. Her and her pig husband are off my screen finaly! Bravo if you read this blog please, please don’t renew either of there contracts this season!

  3. strevino78741 says:

    this sounds like her farwell blog. Hopefully it is.

  4. Joanna says:

    That woman is full of hate and envy.

    • reddvette says:

      That shows thru no matter what she does, its alll in her eyes. Katfish Cooch and Sleazie Rich have shown that their old school respect is none.

      • Isabella Patricia says:

        I don’t think they had old school respect to begin with. Even before the show… Teresa would always say how rude they were, and they would always backstabbing Tre, and complain to her all the time. They never gave her respect. Thy probably didn’t do that because Tre is much younger tha them so they don’t care to respect her. I don’t believe they ever had respect or morals. The way they talk and act… Nope. I talk rough sometimes, but that’s only when I’m upset or mad as hell. They are like this 24-7. Richie acts like he’s from the streets. LOL. He didn’t even aay anything to Juicy at the reunion, right? Man, I still didn’t see the 3rd part of the reunion. Anyways, Richie should just be quiet. He wouldn’t say crap if he ever cross paths with my uncle. Man, oh man….. My uncle not only looks huge and scary, but is actually a scary man if you cross him. He will always be my sweet uncle though! :)

    • Babs says:

      Get her off the show!! REMOVE KATHY NOW! REMOVE KATHY NOW!!

  5. DebV says:

    yawn ….

    Why did it take her being on RHONJ to get involved with the National Brain Tumor Society? Seems as if she would have been highly involved with some type of charity involving brain tumors due to Victoria’s health history. There is nothing real about any of the people on this show. When is the last time we have seen any of these women involved in a charitable event as part of the show?

    • holy cannoli says:

      I thought that was odd also @ DebV.

    • reddvette says:

      Pretty funny that she couldn’t and didn’t do it years ago. Why wait until she gets on tv for she to join a charity?

    • michers says:

      Exactly Deb!! I just said below it bothers me for that reason but mostly because on reunion last year she downplayed it when T was teary eyed about Victoria! Now, she is all about it? Thank God Victoria survived, etc.. but it was not that serious when Teresa brought it up? I think she is fraud..

  6. Koopla says:

    Kathy says “I have come to understand who I can count on and has my best interest at heart and who does not. But most of all I have reaffirmed that my family — and by that I mean my husband, my children, my mother, my sister, and brothers — are the ones who have never wavered in their love, support, and kindness. They are the true meaning of family.”

    What happened to Joe/Melissa Gorga?

    • Charay says:

      Yea because if she said Joe&mel then it would look as if she publicly saying fuck Tre and you know Kathy will never say such a thing lol. So she simply said her family… But truth be told no one cares about her ass… Lol

      • Stephanie says:

        What about Richie’s family? They don’t matter either?

      • reddvette says:

        Slowjoe and Mehoe didn’t include Katfish when they were talking family duringduring the reuion. Katfish was left out of everything.

        • pinkie says:

          calling Tre’s mother a f*cking liar ROLLED of her tongue like butter.

          she’s backpeddling and forgiveness can start with her. let that roll off your tongue Katfish. your husband is a pig and you tried to defend him to the viewing audience.

    • Jarlath says:

      What about Rosie or her mom. Why is she deliberately leaving them out!

    • disgusted says:

      Yea wht Joe and Mel??? lmao

    • CryingWolf says:

      Maybe this is to prepare fans for a possible fallout between she and Mel/Joe. Her new friend is joining the cast and the friend doesnt get along with Melissa. This sounds like a recipe for trouble;o)

  7. Melody says:

    Sounds like she knows she’s either not coming back or will only be on part time

  8. holy cannoli says:

    It does sound like kinda a farewell blog.

    Anyway, I do like that Caroline Teresa and Kathy didn’t really slam anyone, Enough was Enough. We all saw what that they all acted the fools at times during the reunion, and that nothing was accomplished. Just hurt, all around hurt for Joey and Teresa.

    All I know is that Melissa and Jacqueline can keep going at this forever and a day. I will never ever believe a word of of their mouths, period!!

    • CryingWolf says:

      I think Caroline and Kathy are on the same page and are noticing they are closest to getting the boot. They are not finished pitching their products so they need another season. Bravo is encouraging reconciliation but Melissa and Jac are being stubborn. Something will go down between Kathy and Melissa next season. Just watch;o)

      • pinkie says:

        Ill be reading about it in the blogs, because I cannot bear to watch another season of manzo’s and lauritas. Without Chuckie and JacAss, the boring beyond belief wakiles will be Fish out of cesspool water.

      • jeanbean says:

        I don’t see how they can reconcile. Picture a vacation with all of them pretending to enjoy each other. Bravo let the hate go too far,enjoyed the ratings and ruined a good show. They need to replace many of these people for it to have a chance.

      • Just sayin says:

        I was thinking the same thing, didn’t it say somewhere that Kathy and Tre had started talking via text again. Kathy is gravitating towards the shining start, she is not stupid she knows who is the bread and butter on that show and it isn’t Meho. She came in as Melissa’s friend who just happened to be Tre’s cousin but she is probably looking for another season and knows Melissa is going down eventually.

  9. Kylie says:

    This blog is about as boring as she is. Two minutes of my life I will never get back.

  10. hoolie says:

    Yep, you’re right….no one’s listening…now let me go back to sleep….

  11. Charay says:

    Yawn.. Bye Kathy. (Truth be told they should have downgraded her ass to the friend this season)

  12. September24 says:

    No-one is listening cause you keep interrupting! You and your sister are a disappointment. Especially at the reunion! You are not full time material. Maybe part time will suit you better.

  13. Mc Mona says:

    Zzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!!! Take your Stinky Katfish Snatch & go away. Nobody cares bubble eyes!!!!!

  14. sweetie says:

    Teresa has said several times, how meaningful charity work has been for her, etc., a long, long time ago, now we read that Kat. is basically saying the same things. Without Tre, would these women even know what to say???

    • CryingWolf says:

      They steal so much of what Teresa has as an identity. It makes Teresa so angry that it is hard for her to get back to her carefree self that fans adored in S1 and S2. I hope that we can one day soon see that Teresa again.

  15. AmberS says:

    Ha ha…so true Sweetie. All they do is copy T.

    • sweetie says:

      agreed! and now Mel. seems to be copying Juicy. re her appearance on WWHL. I guess they know a good thing when they hear it. :)

  16. greg says:

    will never happen but how funny would it be if Kathy got fired, and Rosie was brought on in her place lol

  17. Crazy J says:

    Who the hell is this Kathy person????

    • reddvette says:

      You know the one who’s husband said she taste like fish. The one that is always rolling her eyes. The one always following Meho around. You konw, the one that is Teresa’s cousin.

      • hannavas says:

        Oh, you mean the cannoli in a box lady?

      • jeanbean says:

        Bravo should put together a video of Kathy shrugging her shoulders, saying I am too nice, all about respect, family,looking at Rosie with love etc. then bam…reunion…your moms a F..ing liar!

  18. Debbie says:

    BLAH-BLAH-BLAH- snooze fest. Just goes to show how unimportant you are

  19. reddvette says:

    Poor Katfish Cooch. After 2years she finally realises that she may have back the wrong cousin in the Gorga saga.. the problem is she and Sleazie may have gone to far in their disgust of Teresa. Katfish showed she is jealous of the success Teresa has from the show. Katfish also proved Teresa right when she said Katfish makes remarks to get in a dig and then acts innocent.

    The issue I thing is that Slezo Ricie has a thing forTeresa and Katfish knows it and blames Teresa

    • Ms. Torres says:

      I was thinking the same exact thing while I was reading your comment. I think Richie really has and always had a crush on Teresa. Kathy feels it and that’s why she lashes out at Teresa

  20. michers says:

    This has always bothered me about Katfish in regards to the Tumor charity: Last year’s reunion Teresa was emotional remembering what Victoria went through and Kathy as her Mother. When Tre talks about it, Kathy ROLLED her eyes, and if Im not mistaken , tried to act like T was being overdramatic and it was not a big deal. Nowadays Katfish is non stop promoting these Tumor organizations and constantly talking about what happened to her daughter, and how they are so lucky to have her still, etc… So what I gather is that when T said it, it was swept under rug, but now she gets “fame” for it and gets to be in their charities, its a different story!! Wow- fraud or just dumb and ignorant?

  21. Lexistential says:

    Zzzzzzz. I’m just going to refer to her as NotTeresa. Zzzzz.

  22. madamedummy says:

    go FU &***#### K YOURSELF HYPOCRITE …
    you’re an idiot …a vicious idiot
    & take that creepy pervert with ya’ !!!
    you’d both sell your soul for 4 bucks ..

  23. saboricua says:

    Somebody, anybody please put a muzzle on this bitch. If she was my cousin I would have yanked her frog eyes out by now. Damn hypocrite.

  24. socalsoccer says:

    That’s right Katfish, no one is listening, no one!

  25. bigmommabitch says:

    In the words of Peter Griffin, “O my God, who the Hell cares??!!”.

  26. Boss640 says:

    Katfish was on the reunion??? Must have missed it!!!! Rolling eyes!!!!! Kathy , you Rosie Jaco and Meho need to go , No class!!!!!You all bring nothing to the show, time to say bye bye!!!!!

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