Kathy Says Teresa Went Too Far By Bringing Up Her Marriage At The Reunion!

RHONJ star Kathy Wakile took to her blog to talk about Sunday’s reunion. Kathy believes Teresa went too far by bringing up her marriage and her father. I’m a bit confused because Jacqueline constantly brings up Teresa and Joe’s marriage and has told random viewers how Joe cheats on her yet Kathy has never thought anything was wrong with it? Check out what Kathy had to say after the jump
“Some big secrets were revealed on Sunday evening. Obviously this was a very tense situation as we haven’t been all together for a year. It was bound to be intense, emotional, and passionate. I didn’t even get a chance to settle in when Andy Cohen called me out on my nose job right at the start! You can’t believe how many tweets I’ve received over having my nose fixed. Interestingly, it’s really no big deal for me. I never tried to hide it, but quite frankly it wasn’t something I chose to do while we were filming. I know some ladies choose to have procedures as part of their story line, and I commend them for it. However it just wasn’t what I wanted at this time. Andy has asked me numerous times on camera, and I’ve told him I did it for cosmetic reasons, which I’ve never denied. I just wanted the youthful look I once had, and I did not blame it on any medical issues.
The funny thing about plastic surgery though is that some people openly admit it like I did and others claim they’ve have nothing done when it is so obvious that they have. I say what’s the big deal? If you’re really curious about what I mean, you can check out my high school photos on Bravotv.com.
The decision to plump up my lips was so last minute. I was having a facial and decided to give it a shot. It was only 10 days prior to the reunion, so it was fresh but they’re not permanent. In fact they are already back to the way they were before. I think the big reaction from everyone was caused by a combination of the nose, lips, the extra glam makeup, and the lighter hair. Oh and I can’t forget the extra-long hair extensions. That’s one of the great things about being a girl, one day I can do a little more primping and prepping for an event and the next day go back to my apron and ponytail. That was my favorite part of working in the beauty business, the endless possibilities.
Another big dark secret — you all found out that I’m such a bad person, because I didn’t have my first designer handbag until I was 40 years old! Guilty! It wasn’t something that I really wanted. (If it was, don’t you think that Richie would have gotten them for me?) I guess my priorities are little different than some. For me, having our family’s future secured and investing in my children’s college education was just more important.
I heard what Teresa had said about me behind my back from several different people, and I never wanted to believe it. She told people that I lived in a “sh—- little house,” and I could not believe it until I actually saw it in print from an interview that she gave, that makes a similar reference. She didn’t even deny that she said these things at the reunion, when she had denied it numerous other accusations. For the record, I’ve always been thrilled with my home. Love lives here. However, everyone has a right to their own opinion.
Now on to much more serious things. First of all, I want to go on record that I’m not proud of the dark place that I went to when I lashed out at Teresa. It’s not in my nature to allow myself to react so harshly, and I feel bad about my behavior. I will always be accountable for my wrong-doings, as I have in the past, and I will continue to do so. Unfortunately, this time I reacted after Teresa had pushed me to my limit. How many more chances and benefits of the doubts am I going to give her? There are a few things that I hold sacred in my life: my children, my family, and most of all my marriage. You have all seen that of these things, my marriage is the basis of my life. How dare she try to pick away at my marriage and then throw her mother under the bus and say that she is the one who told her this? Why would she betray her mother’s confidence and get her involved in this? A lie is a lie. Trust me, if the Pope himself was spreading lies about my marriage, I would still do anything to stop it.
I sat back for two seasons straight and did not allow Teresa’s jabs and insults about my character to get to me, because I knew what she was trying to do. It’s called deflection. She has attacked the most important relationships in my life — my sister Rosie, made comments about my kids, and now my marriage and my deceased father. The ironic thing is, the week this episode aired Richie and I had just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary. So viewers, how is what she is saying relevant now after 21 years of a solid marriage? Why would she even bring that up at this time?
It’s unfortunate that once again Teresa automatically went to that place and thought I would reveal the nature of our past conversations we had years ago about marriage. I would never reveal any “girl talk” that we had in the past and betray her confidentiality. What made her think I would so quickly divulge that private information when I never did before and have no intention of doing now? She went for my jugular and she pushed me over the edge!
I said before that I wasn’t proud of my behavior, and I stand by that. I’ve always had respect for my aunt and uncle. As you can see from Season 3, after the fashion show my aunt attacked me after I had a private conversation with Teresa. I understood where she was coming from, and I didn’t even say a word to her in my defense. I allowed this to happen because she thought she was protecting her daughter. When I was first interviewed for RHONJ, I went to discuss the possibilities and my intentions with my aunt and uncle. I had a very long, nice talk with my aunt and she agreed with me. We came to an amiable understanding. I had also hoped to speak to my uncle that day but he just walked out. While I admit that “coward” was a very mean thing to say, I was so disappointed in how he acted towards me. I would never raise my voice to either of them, and I never have. My uncle and I had always had a respectful relationship, but make no mistake, the relationship of an uncle and a niece is nothing like that of a father and daughter. How dare Teresa speculate on the relationship I had with my father, and the type of father he was to me and my siblings. That statement really sent me over the edge, as it did for Rosie.
I’m going to give you a little background. My father was the first man that both Rosie and I had ever loved. My father came to this country partially handicapped at a young age, not knowing the language. He worked incredibly hard in spite of his disability to make a life for himself. After he married my mom, they both worked selflessly to make a life and provide for their five children. They learned the language, they kept to themselves and were honorable, hardworking people who were respected by everyone. My father lived and died for his family, as well as his extended family. He never cheated anyone or hurt anyone. Anyone who knew him would say the same. He was an honorable man, and I will not let anyone disrespect his reputation or his memory.
When my father got sick with leukemia, our family watched him suffer for over seven years until he came down with lung cancer. At this point, we really watched him deteriorate. I was there with my mom as much as I could be during the day, but Rosie lived with them and watched day in and day out as my father slipped further and further away. Until you live with the pain of watching a loved one, especially a powerhouse like your father, suffer so severely, you can’t know what the pain feels like. Even though it has been almost ten years, the wound will never heal. There’s not a day that goes by that we don’t think of him and miss him. When Teresa’s insinuations about my father’s love for us, his own children, came out, that’s when she hurt Rosie and me the most. This brought both of us to a very bad place. It does not excuse or justify our actions, but we are all human, and everyone has their breaking point. I hope that watching the next parts of the reunion will shed a little bit more light. That’s all for now.”
I do think the ladies should never involve parents and they did. I think parents and children should be off topic but with the RHONJ ladies, they aren’t. Thoughts on what Kathy had to say?
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Oh thats funny Katfish i believe you started off with “Joes a great guy” rolling eyes. I don’t understand the mentality of her. She plays dirty but then cries when she gets mud on her dress.
I am done with Katfish. That fish should be sleeping with the fishes.
LOL
I used to like commenting on here but all the fake people that are really being paid by the Gorgas to bash Teresa have ruined this blog and made it no fun. It’s probably one person pretending to be a bunch of different people and being paid. I miss how much fun this blog used to be before the trolls.
LMAO ! Way to funny I love it .
Exactly! Funny how she does not tell people why Teresa said the handbag comment!!! There are reasons T said what she said, but of course, her and Melissa do not disclose them. When finding out about joining the show the way they had, and because of petty family issues, Teresa said things to prove why they should not be on acting like they are RICH and PERFECT because people will find out the TRUTH. Kathy has had no problems , along with Richie and countless others, throwing T under the bus, put on a stake, thrown in the trash, etc… Mocking her, making fun of her, all for fame and camera time. I think Teresa is the one who finally had enough after years of humiliation and betrayal, and is starting to show them in the light they deserve to be in- the shady/lying light! I did not hear Teresa say anything negative about her uncle or aunt. Kathy tries to find ways to excuse her real personality, which is gross. Everyone has rough spots, and Im sure after trying to show the world what a great couple they pretend to be now, Kathy and Bucky had issues. Hello, look at the way they act? There is no way they had perfect marriage all of these years!! And I highly doubt that Teresa’s mom or anyone in the family would make that up.
Whats even crazier is she had a chance at last years reunion and she said she would not discuss her uncle because he was diseased. This was when andy wanted to her reveal why Tres father and Kathys father didn’t speak for years.
Kathy said it was over $5……sad clearly this family has a history or being petty
It’s not made up. They’ve been married for a long time and I’m sure there have been issues. If it weren’t true she wouldn’t have been so upset. Truth hurts.
So do disgusting lies spewed by a mental midget like Tre.
The only midget is Stumpy who spews things..
Does anyone remember when dog face katfish started with Teresa and revealed that Teresa said that she hated her in-laws. Teresa cut her off and said we’ve had problems like even u n Ritchie. She said even my mon knows. I dont think that’s throwing her mom under the bus nor do I consider Teresa starting I think she was defending herself. And to answer stupid Karhy’s question about revealing secrets why would Teresa think she’d do it’s because Jacqueline has been doing all year maybe Teresa thought Kathy would do the same.
Let’s see–so far Kathy tried to say the recipes in the cookbook were hers to hurt her financially. Now that they are attacking Teresa endlessly and she finds love and support from her husband’s family, Kathy tries to to destroy that.
That is one mean woman. I get mad at someone I keep away from them. I don’t try to ruin her life and means of making a living. Especially when there are 4 young children around.
It’s really quite simple to see how Kathy exaggerates EVERYTHING and how we know everything she says should be taken with a grain of salt. Nothing that comes out of her mouth is the straight-up truth.
She says in her blog Teresa’s mother “attacked” her at the event when what Mrs. Giudice did was “reprimand” her. Remember Mama’s observation, “…that’s your cousin. You should be ashamed of yourself.” (Even though the idiot Bravo “translators” wrote “supposed” to be ashamed in the sub-title).
Please. Let it be true that she is gone from the show.
Hi Helen!!! Hope you are doing well! Nice to see you commenting- woohoo!!
I was going to say the same thing. Kathy’s reaction said it all. Just like Melissa’s holy terror freak out parade at the fashion show. The best defensive is offense. Their over-reactions make them appear guilty, at least to me.
I agree with Mare and BM Barbie! They are trashing T, in a gangup. Strength in numbers. They are all money hungry, fame addicted, selfish, uneducated, pampered, princesses.
I agree.. NO ONE has EVER had a perfect marriage for 21+ years… hell even 5 years! Everyone I know has hit a rough spot where one or the other was ready to say to hell with it… just because you feel that way at one time or another means nothing more than you’re human!
That’s right Michers! And you know what Kathy says about family and business? “If that’s what it takes to get ahead in business!”
Meaning, she would throw her entire family under a train if it meant getting her hands on a few bucks.
And Teresa knows this and has known this for years. I totally believe Teresa, because for one Richie wants to get into Teresa pants and may have even hit on her once years ago and that is why she has his number. Kathy kaka Katfish nows this and that is the reason for the animosity between her and Teresa. Imagine that she has to live with a man that is drooling over your cousin day and night. She got truly pissed because she said something and may have continued to say something about why their marriage was on the rocks. Was Richie Cheating (bet anything that is one issue and true)? Was Richie not bringing in enough “Bacon” at the time and she wanted to leave him for another money guy. Who knows, but she went nuts.
Does Kathy think we all forgot how Richie couldn’t wait to share his morning wood with Melissa (or the cameras for that matter). And that was IN FRONT of his wife!
That was so gross! And Bravo had to make sure they caught it on camera for us- yuck
Buck Henry, once again you’re right. Notice how Kathy yelled to Teresa that Teresa thinks Richie is obsessed with her, and wants to sleep with her? Yes, that explains why Kathy doesn’t like Teresa. Maybe Teresa wasn’t bullshiting when she said Richie had a crush on her? It certainly explains Kathy’s motive.
Glass of Jealous Anyone?
Whats funny about that is, last season Melissa was the one who said he was sexy for her, not Teresa. Teresa was grossed out. It was in Mel’s kitchen . Then Mel ran back to Kathy saying T said it, LOL. It was on camera for Christ’s sakes!!!
You are so right. No one said anything about her dad until she called Tre’s dad a “COWARD”. Now, who slaps someone in the face and does not expect to be slaped back in the face? If my family came on the show to bash my child, I would not only walk away…. I would curse, tell them to get the freak out of my house, kick them in the behind as they walk out, run outside and throw a rock at their back window as they drive off, and then disown them. He did the right thing by walking away. This man is old and sick he does not have time for this drama.
I do like Kathy, and she you are right about bringing parents up. Even if my best friend talked about my parents or grandparents I would still go all out and go after her, so I know where Kathy is coming from, but on the other hand she should have never said those things about Tre’s parents either. But I glad she recognizes her faults, and I hope that she learns her lessons and just stay out of feuds. I am tired of seeing family and other women trying to bring each other down. First Danielle, and then Tre. Whose going to be next?
i really don’t like kathy but i’m glad she explained why she turned into the she devil. the outburst and attacking teresa’s parents made sense but it still doesn’t make it right. if she truly respects her aunt and uncle then she should’ve have crossed a line with them. she made a fool out of herself. she says her, family, kids, and marriage are important to her. well, they’re important to everyone and especially to teresa. so why on earth is it okay to attack teresa’s marriage, kids, parents, intelligence but all hell breaks loose if she does the same back to them?? everyone should really practice what they preach. want to keep your family and everyone you love out of it then shut your mouth.
I dont like that Teresa made a comment regaurding Kathy’s “shitty” house. Thats so materialistic and ignorant. Material possesions dont mean a thing. However I still love Teresa. Like I’ve said before, she’s human not God and has flaws. Just like I do. I also dont like what T said about Kathy’s Dad but what Kathy said was so incredibly wrong!!! Theres absolutely no justication to it. Rosie said on Twitter that her Dad was her life and she looked at him like Superman. Im the same way w/ my Dad. And I’ll bet you anything T is also and when Kathy said that T was trying to defend her Dad. Which came out as her bashing K’s Dad. BUT T never said anything malicious towards KatFish’s parents. KatFish did about T’s!!! Idk. Im just really over the petty feuding and behavior of these women. I feel bad for T cause I cant imagine being in her position!
LJ- while I understand how you feel about that comment, I don’t think Kathy, nor Melissa will divulge the reason T made any comments relative to that. I think it had to do with Kathy putting on act just to do the show,like pretending to be more then what herself and Richie really lived like, which does not fit into this show. I also feel that Teresa made many comments to them and gave them examples of what will happen , what rumors or truths can come out by them being on the show. Maybe I am wrong?
Did T say it was shirt or imply it was small and cramped? I think it was more about the size of the house not it’s condition. Wakiles live in a much smaller home then any of the rest of these people,probably half the size.But they are dealing with the future expenses of putting their kids through college.The others have very young kids, college is a long ways off for their kids. This tends to skew your financial planning and your attitude towards what you deem a reasonable expense ( like designer handbags that can cost a semesters tuition)
if she is sorry she should call ok magazine and apologize on the cover… who cares if she says she made a mistake , she did not say sorry to Teresa. lets be honest here.
THEY ARE ALWAYS SORRY WHEN THEY GET PUT DOWN FOR THEIR ACTIONS. Don’t you see that? It’s like, “I am so sorry you made me smash pie in your face.”
That is such a perfect way to put it.
Excuse me, but Kathy went to the deep, dark place BEFORE Tre said one word about her father. She was the one bring the parents into the conversation first. She can try to lie her way out of it by pulling a pity party – but it does not change who brought up what first.
And sorry, but lots of people have immigrant parents who had to learn the language. Most don’t call that being disabled. Disadvantaged, maybe, disabled – that’s overkill. Many of us have watched mothers and fathers die lingering deaths, it does not excuse our bad behavior. My dad took years to die, but you know, if I slander someone or abuse someone, I don’t get a pass because my dad died.
No. Tre did. By saying her parents did this and that. If it’s a lie, just because you’re a mother, you don’t get a free pass. Bullshit.
Katfiish and Richie have been saying vile things about Teresa for two years. Rich said let’s burn her at the stake, threw her cookbook in the trash, etc.Abd Teresa’s mother did not “attack” her at the fashion show. All she said is “that’s your cousin.”
Katfish just made more excuses for her behavior in this blog. She had no right to talk about her aunt and uncle that way, and Rosie’s had no excuse for her violent threats. Katfish is the trashiest of the whole franchise. Who would bash elderly relatives on the air? Sickening. She should have just apologized and not made excuses.
To be fair her mother also said “you should be ashamed of yourself”. I get the whole mama bear thing. Trust me. But her mother had NO idea what they discussed and who was in the wrong. Your daughter is 40 years old for godsakes. I think she can handle a verbal disagreement (well that’s what is was until Tre went apeshit beserk) with her cousin.
Her mother did know what they were talking about. Teresa came down the steps and said ma, Kathy said I left Adriana unattended.
The impression I got was that Joey’s mother flew off the handle based solely on the fact that her spoiled brat of a daughter was moaning and whining again.
I doubt very much that Mrs. Gorga is some kind of saint, and she probably DID lie about Kathy and Richie.
Kathy called Tre’s mom a liar and her father a coward. Teresa had not said one word about Kathy’s parents by then.
If they lied/acted cowardly then it is what it is.
Not if you consider yourself an “old-school Italian.” Old school Italians would never say a word against their elders. Trashy people would.
I find that bullshit and offensive to “Old School Italians”. If an elder is in the wrong, they are in the wrong. I think more people are offended by outright lies and disrespect than an ADULT telling another ADULT, the “elder” is in the wrong.
They weren’t even there. If anything is cowardly, it’s attacking people who aren’t there to defend themselves and who don’t want their private business aired on tv. Kathy looks like she’s ready to collect social security, I think she could have the maturity to let it pass and confront them in private about it if she felt the need. Or, at least to behave like an adult and not a
little bitch who needed to have her face punched, there was
no need for that. The only
reason she said what she said was because she knows how sick the hatred are and attacking old people would send them into orgasm, as witnessed by Jac’s thrilled reaction.
“outward lies and disrespect”
Umm…what’s respectful or ADULT about calling someone, especially an elder “a fucking liar” and not even to their face? Being old school is about respect, there are other ways to deal with misunderstandings and yes even lies and tell someone you think they’re wrong than to take it to Mach 4 and act like a disrespectful animal.
Once you scream at someone that they’re a fucking liar in a public place or on TV, you’ve kind of lost that teachable moment.
JPG: That’s not really how it went, but that’s ok. You should probably find Teresa’s house and egg it or something. You seem really invested and like you should maybe get some of that anger out. If you can’t afford a flight to Jersey, maybe a stress ball??
I’m stating my opinion just like everyone else on here. I enjoy the show and take it for what it is – entertainment. If you are emotionally invested yourself enough into this to dream up flying to Jersey to “egg” people’s houses, by all means, do so. I on the other hand have better things to do
Clearly.
You should spend more of your time looking up “sarcasm” rather than answering practically every comment posted on here with your “opinions.”
That’s what a blog is there Bowel Movement Barbie. Opinions flying everywhere. Don’t like what I have to say? Don’t read it and quit commenting.
But what we’re you saying about you having better things to do???…
Bowel Movement Barbie- LOL.
I enjoy commenting on here. I don’t enjoy it enough to go egg someone’s house
Also, I appreciate your sense of humor on the “Bowel Movement Barbie” – Honestly, shows you’re a good sport.
exactly, i have watched people in my family suffer and die from different cancers i would never threaten anyone with physical violence and then use the memory of my lost loved ones as an excuse that is far more vile then anything they have accused Tre of doing.
Tre brought her parents into the conversation, first her mom, then her dad. If she doesn’t want them involved , she shouldn’t bring them up.
I think she brought them up to prove Kathy was a liar! Why would she expect her own cousin to call her parents those names? Its sad because she resorted to calling her Aunt and Uncle nasty names. Could have been handled differently.
I hope the rumors that Kathy is not a main housewife next season on season 5 are true. She brings nothing!!!
Katfish should never be able to grace television again.
I cannot even look at a catfish now!!! And i really love fried catfish…
“I would never reveal any girl talk we had in the past, and betray her confidentiality,… etc. ” Umm, kinda a slam to Jacqueline, if you think about it.
Sorry Kathy , you showed your true character to Teresas face this time.The other times it’s been in your talking heads or comments to Richie, so save the BS.!
Who calls an elderly man with a heart condition a coward! STFU kafish. close your legs!
My question is why is it cowardly to walk away when he did not to hear what she had to say. And the fact that he did not want to hear it is very telling. Just because she wants to convince Teresa’s parents that she is not trying to hurt Teresa by being on the show does not make it true. Seems to me T’s father did the right thing, and he obviously correctly predicted the outcome of Kathy being on the show. He did not disrespect her by telling her what he thought of the situation, and she should give him the same respect. Cuz, you know, that is what she is all about.
That speaks volmes.. So she knew she was up to no good, and to make it appear as she wasn’t, she went and blew smoke up their asses anyway? She does not even respect her own mother! How many times did Nonni ask them all to stop all of this bullshit? Last season and this one? On camera? Can you imagine how many times she asked them in private? And no one listened. Thats a shame especially when you claim to be old school and about respect!!!!!
the thing that really bothers me is that when Kathy’s mother spoke about not speaking to Tre’s father, you could see how much it hurt her. She hated the fact that money caused a family feud and now her daughter is making her relive the whole thing again. I really feel bad for her and Teresa’s parents.
You took the words right out of my head. That man walked away from her because she came on a show to take his daughter down with absolutely no reason to do so except to make MONEY! Hope she enjoys what little she did make because her 15 minutes is done now and she can crawl right back to where she came. All her fake friendships that she thinks she has within the industry will be done as soon as she goes BYE_BYE…hope it was worth that fake nose and lips.
close your legs?
are you STUPID? what does that even mean?
and many people in the US suffer from “heart conditions” T’s father is still here, Kathy’s is not (and he had to suffer a slow death). First, get an education. Second get a life.
what does it mean? I don’t know, but I thought it was funny!
Lauren- You must be stupid to be falling for Koma Katfish’s Act? That bitch is transparent and we collectively know it. She is a non factor and without T, she is irrelevant. No one wants that stupid ass and who the hell sells out their family for fuckin’ cannolis kits?! She is the epitome of stupid. She thought she was being clever by not insulting T to her face, but instead chose the COWARDLY route of insulting T in her talking heads–but fortunately for the thinking adults on this site, they see right through her BS act.
The reference of her legs…Wacko told her to close her legs because she didn’t want to smell that fish. Also her douce bag bag husband said she smells/taste like fish. She must be an angel of Katfish hygiene to smell like a rotten fish all the while getting the privilege of being loved by a man with deeply yellow teeth who probably jerks off to T. You get a life and seriously, STFU.
I would like to quote NENE, “[close yo-ur legs...]”
Just because T’s father is here does not excuse what she said so venomously.
I take it as meaning close your legs so you don’t smell like catfish lol
Me too
I loved how everyone theatrically gasped when Teresa mentioned Kathy’s marriage problems. These nasty pieces of work can dish it out but can’t take it. Hypocrites.
Thats always the way Capile, always…
Maybe they gasped because everyone knew it was an outright lie.
if it was an outright lie the response would be similar to what Teresa says “bring it baby”. If there’s no truth it’s usually just shrugged off. The volatile reactions show she hit a nerve. Kind of like Melissa saying Teresa set her up; if she did nothing wrong, what would she be worried about being set up about?
If Teresa had no part it in, then why the hell is she freaking out about it?
the only reason Teresa freaked out was because of her brother. It doesn’t take rocket science to know that if a man is told another man called his wife a stripper, things are not going to go well when he shows up. She was worried about what would happen, then realized she was being set up to take the blame. Is it that far fetched that she would be worried her brother would blame her too? Or that her parents would be hurt to hear their kids fighting over this? Is that not something to freak out about?
So Teresa can freak out and she’s not guilty, she’s “worried” or “upset”. But if anyone else freaks out, they’re guilty?? Way too many holes in that logic.
Yeah, that must be it. Most of the people on that stage have known Katfish for between 21 seconds and 21 hours, they must be hands down the experts on every aspect of her 21 year marriage.
EXACTLY! Don’t you just love Melissa FAKE gasps?!! Kathy must be FURIOUS with Jacko then for bringing up Joe allegedly cheating on Tre. Hypocrite Much???
yes kathy for two years now we watch you say every thing about teresa that she scum and you and your husband and rosies just kept it coming. And then we got to see you tears Teresa parent apart, and disrespect them two. I quess what all these ladies say about you is correct you are the lowest scum of people in this world. There will be no respect for you in this corner.
But she has…I think the first season Kathy was on she mentioned a conversation where allegedly Teresa said family sucks…Kathy is just as scummy and hypocritical as the others liars
I agree that they both got down and dirty when they involved the parents. BUT Kathy being insulted because Teresa brought out personal issues? Really? For the past two years we’ve seen every personal issue except how Teresa wipes her ass splayed across the show, the tabloids, twitter and facebook. Secondly, Katfish honey, you put yourself out there by signing on. Your life is just as much fair game as Tre’s, good, bad, or indifferent.
My advice to all of them, Katfish, Rosie, the Shore whore and Wacko Jacko is if you wanna play the game, you better know all the rules.
Word!
Katfish is now trying to get back to the “old school” routine she claims to have. I am not buying it.
Too little too late!
Got that right and I will never be buying a thing from QVC either.
I can’t believe that QVC would have her on. She has no record of business success, and she isn’t the most popular one on the show. I bet she’s lying.
Hypocritical is all I have to say..again and again double standard that is exactly what they have all been doing to T all season long revealing private conversations to one another and now T is coming donw and hard and they dont like it.
Kathy should STFU. She’s been dogging Teresa and her family since the day she appeared on the show. Just how long does she think TERESA should take her BS before she reacts?? It’s been TWO seasons of treachery from St. Kathy of Wayne so it’s time for her to reap what she sows.
I would like to know WHO decided on “deflection” as the explanation for everything Teresa does! Four women in lock step with one another, all using the same BS excuses for their behavior and the same BS diagnosis for Teresa’s is so transparent that it’s LAUGHABLE.
Kathy you decided to come on a reality show to “OUT” Teresa and now some of your dirt is being outed. That’s YOUR doing. YOU wanted to shine the light on your family-so much so that you had to get plastic surgery to make the pictures prettier. Too bad you can’t hide a black and ugly inside
Well put!
OHH Camms, revved up today? Like it!! Very well put and true! If Kathy can’t stand the heat, she should not bake
lol michers I have had it with these posers! All riled up because they’ve been taking a shit on Teresa for two years now and she’s STILL more popular than they are!! They are all just selfish, jealous, petty boobs!!
Maybe after Caroline gets sick of seeing that awful picture of herself on US magazine with her big ole white bra showing thru that thin red dress, she’ll understand WHY Teresa used to pose for pics. You might as well have a GOOD picture of yourself on the cover!
I know how you feel Camm, and I agree. Its not right that they have been able to be so down right nasty and horrid and the minute T says anything or tries to come back, they all chime in and behave worse..
Camm, They started using “deflection” after “planting seeds” didn’t fly.
Someone please tell me where they see the time in T’s schedule for all of the planting, deflecting, and planning setups?
I agree that Katfish needs to STFU. She needs to get busy figuring out how to make a cannoli with a hacksaw in it for Meho. Did you read that she has an outstanding warrant in FL for shoplifting back in the day?? I am thinking about freeing up some $$ to hire Dog the Bounty Hunter to get her.
Go away Kathy. I really don’t even read your blog – I really don’t care what you have to say.
Sorry… reread this and see if you agree with me….
How dare she try to pick away at my marriage and then throw her mother under the bus and say that she is the one who told her this? Why would she betray her mother’s confidence and get her involved in this? A lie is a lie.
betray a mothers confidence… ie T told the truth….. but then its a lie…..
that woman cant even blog straight.
I took away with that statement, that it was true the comment that was made about her marriage. If confidence was betrayed, then there was something divulged to begin with
And really, after watching years of this, I don’t think T’s mom cared that Teresa had something to say about her and humiliate her(Kathy) , shut her ass down. Family that loves and respects would NEVER do what Kathy has done. NEVER.
that jumped out at me too; which is it, a confidence or a lie? How could Teresa be breaking a confidence if it’s just a lie?
Considering the amount of drama that this show has, her part or character is obviously the most boring and insignificant.
Teresa only said what she did in response to Kathy calling her mother a f*#king liar and her father a F*#king coward.
All I remember Teresa saying was something like Wow really, my father was there for you more than you dad.
OK so Teresa maybe should of left off the “more than your dad” part. Especially if the reason Kathy and Rosie’s dad wasn’t as active with them is because he was so sick.
But while Kathy wants us to understand why she spoke as she did, she didn’t offer the same understanding for Teresa.
Why is it OK for Kathy to lose it and go too far, but not for Teresa to?
Teresa didn’t say anything bad about Kathy and Rosie’s father. She didn’t call him a f#$king coward, or deadbeat dad.
I think the reaction of Kathy and Rosie was completely out of line and Rosie’s death threats were criminal.
Kathy is as fake as her face.
BRAVO is a joke!! Think about were else in this country would an employer allow for another employee to threaten the life of someone and nothing be done???
I think T was not low blowing, just didn’t get to finish saying that her dad was there for them when their dad could not be, and was close to Kathy and her siblings, and she should have shown more respect for T’s dad by stepping up when he did. Not calling him names. Kathy and Rosie took it wrong, because it came out of T’s mouth.
Yep and Teresa only said that AFTER kathy called him a *coward*..I am sure that what Teresa meant that her Dad helped them out when their Dad was so sick. Of course, Kathy and Rosie would try to make it to be something else. Typical, but costly for the both of them. 15 minutes..done!!!
And why did Andy see fit to allow Rosie to sit within 50 feet of T after that rampage? Rosie is a gross POS like her brother-in-law.
Thank You, She should have been kicked off the set. I got a private from Andy I sent him a tweet saying you had Manzo fans on WWHL Sunday now you need Teresa fans. He said Wendy Williams is going to be his guest. I haven’t sent a response back. Thought I could get some help from AATRH first. I kind of liked Rosie at first. I thought she seems sweet. But now all I can say is stay away from me. I am not a fighter and those words would never come out of my mouth no matter how angry I was.
Gimme a F-ing break !!! Kathy brought up the bullsh*t about Tre’s parents first. I don’t condone bringing parents into an argument unless you’re in grade school, however Kathy can dish it out right? Also, Rosie the drunk, is a misfit !!!!! She acted like an untamed animal. How old are you Rosie??? grow up. It’s Kathy’s fault that parents were even part of the convo. Get over it Kathy, and Rosie !
Smelly KAT-FISH unless BRAVO did some sneaky editing I believe you were the first one to bring up problems, you said Teresa you use to call me all the time and complain about your in-laws. So just because Teresa came back at you with maybe something you didn’t want to hear OH F”N WELL! Then maybe you should have kept your mouth shut. I also love how you and your animal sister went on attack mode when something negative was said about your parents but it was OK for you to call Teresa’s parents names I guess because her parents didn’ pass away of a horriable illness? I don’t know anyone that hasn;t had to deal with someone they love passing away that does not give you a free pass to say whatever you want and not expect the same behavior in return.
In response to Teresa saying that Kathy was not supportive of Rosie’s sexual orientation, when Teresa said that to Rosie directly, Rosie did not argue, AT ALL. Absolutely no denial about that on the show. Hmmmm.
Totally right, all the women went nts when tre said this on their blogs etc but Rosie didn’t even flinch when tre said this to her face, so there is obviously truth in it!
I doubt Kathy will be back next season. Her comment about Andy Cohen shows a lack of respect to her boss.
Kathy you look completely different than when you first appeared on the show. If Andy didn’t bring it up, he’d be amiss. Frankly he was kind and offered you some good advice with the yellow light to stop the procedures.
A new nose and mouth hasn’t done much to improve your personality. Might I suggest a long period of stuffing your mouth with canoli’s and being silent in future.
SMH, just like they say about Lauren also, you can improve on your looks all you want but if you have an ugly spirit, you will always appear ugly to everyone. Get a clue!!!
Ugly, like truth, will always out.
I think this is the biggest clue that Katy is the only 1 who has not been asked back, her comments about any were passive aggressive as per usual with Kathy and a big hint she will not be back, I’m glad
How many times has Kathy-got-a-new-nose made sarcastic/nasty remarks about Joe Giudice….countless would be the answer.
I so cannot stand her and it’s not because she Anti-Tre, it’s because she’s an irrelevant snoozefest. Her and her Jerry Lewis hubby have no clue how icky they are.
Everything Kathy has said about Joe Giudice are true. With film of him to back it up. Big difference.
Oh so you are saying BRAVO doesn’t do any tricky editing on their part? So I guess Richie was telling the truth when he said his wife tastes like fish?
I don’t think Bravo edited Joe calling Teresa a bitch and a cunt. To who he was actually speaking with, none of us know.
I don’t think Bravo edited Joe telling a dinner party of people that he left Teresa (his then girlfriend) and he “wasn’t coming back, she came crawling back to me, begging”
I don’t think Bravo edited the countless times he’s told his wife to “Shut up” or called her “Stupid”
I don’t think Bravo edited Joe out on a date with another woman.
And maybe Richie did say that. I don’t know why everyone is freaking the hell out on that. I myself have never tasted the nether regions of a lady so I have no idea, but it’s not like he said she tasted like shit.
So you just proved to us, with this statement that its only editing involved when its bad for the others, not Teresa and Joe, LOL….Everyone freaked out on that because of what I just said- its only editing’s fault when its anyone besides the Giudices.. get real..
Michers – that made little to no sense to me. And I’m not being hateful. It really didn’t.
I “proved” that Joe obviously treats his wife poorly and openly.
Maybe the other husbands do too, but at least they have the decency not to do it on national tv. The other husbands regardless of RUMORS (cause that’s all you have) appear to have much respect and love for their wives. Joe evidently does not.
Stop, really. You claim to not be so invested, but your comments say otherwise.
I am not psychotic about this as many of you choose to be. I follow the show and am discussing the show. However I am aware that it is a TV SHOW. Made for….wait for it….ENTERTAINMENT! I do not like Teresa at all; been very clear on that.
JPG, I’m not talking about what’s on film that the got of Juicy.
I’m talking about the downright nasty comments that both Kathy & Jerry Lewis have been doing to Teresa and her family since the day the snuck onto the show.
In other words, if ur gonna cry like a baby, then u gotta learn to keep ur trap shout cos ur getting what u’ve been serving…Kathy & Jerry Lewis are a prime example of “HYPOCRITES.”
edit: I apologize for my typos..there’s a lot of them in my post…so sorry!
To be fair, Teresa and Joe Giudice have said horrible things about them as well. How is one better than the other in this situation???
Kathy your a bore go away you stupid ASS!!!!!!!!!!! How come you can say or roll your eyes but when Teresa does it she is starting trouble!!!! YOU SUCK YOU FISH TASTING IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry but, there is NO explanation that she can give that makes her or Rosie look any better… we saw the REAL Kathy at the reunion… and Rosie’s behavior was flat out disgusting!
My sentiments exactly . They proved all along what some already knew. It sickens me that people get off on Rosie behaving that way, congratulating her for threatening to make her cousin. Shit Bravo even gets off on it.
Threatening to *mame* her cousin…
Teresa called it early on. She SAID this was what Kat was really like, guess we finally see what she was talking about!
Rosie’s guttural screaming was very scary.
Kathy its too late. You played yourself AND everyone saw it. Your goody goody persona went out the window just like that (although I never believed it)
Now you’re irrelevant and you made yourself a justified enemy to the star of the show. Peace out Kathy!
When was it that Teresa talked bad about Kathy’s kids?
I tried to post the same thing on Bravo but of course they would not post it. When you tell a lie like that it makes us question what else you have been lying about. Just saying
She is just pathetic already with her BS!!! Since last season she has been talking shit about Teresa and Joe and now that Teresa is finally firing back at her she wants to get sympathy,Teresa talks about my marriage,Teresa talks about my father who passed away,Teresa talks about my kids! PLEASE her and her kids so unimportant to this show Teresa wouldn’t even waste her time and BRAVO wouldn’t wast air time
I don’t get that about Bravo. WHen I first started looking at blogs, Bravo was the first one I went to check. There were links posted there constantly. The links brought me to this site and a couple of others I check. And that brought me to many people saying they can’t post on Bravo or get a vote in on the stupid after show polls. So I now know damn well to not trust anything Bravo says.
I don’t know if they think they are slick or we are stupid. Probably both.
I don’t ever remember her talking badly about anyone’s kids. Even through all the problems with Ashley whose own family was bashing her, Teresa never said a bad thing about her.
The only kids she ever mentioned were Danielle’s. when Caroline said they had no light in their eyes Teresa responded they’ve been exposed to too much. That was more a dig to Danielle than the kids though. Idk I like Teresa but I’m starting to catch her in lies so i don’t know what to believe at this point. Teresa claims the ending of the finale with her talking to everyone was actually at the beginning and bravo moved it. But in that scene a woman came forward and let Teresa know Melissa really was a dancer. If that happened in the beginning that means Teresa talked about her being a stripper to others before Angelo came. I guess they are all liars
Or, since Kim was with the woman it could mean that Kim was telling everyone around her and wanted those others to corroborate her story. Again Teresa didn’t wanna have anything to do with it and walked away. But the way bravo edits you’d never know…
BAM..Fact of the matter is.. The Gorga’s and Wakile’s came on the show to bring Teresa DOWN!!! we see it and so does Teresa. This whole series needs to be shut down and Teresa gets her own show. We need the fun back..Go away Manzo’s…Gorga’s and Wakile’s..BYE BYE mean Bullies!!!!
Correct me if am wrong but was it not KAthy who first mentioned Teresa’s marriage when she said ad i quote “remember when u used to call me to bitch about your inlaws” and then Teresa retaliated and said “and you used to call me about your inlaws too, when you almost got a divorce from Richy”.
The Problem is I think kathy protests too much abt her family issues yet is ok when they publicly discuss Teresa’s. Also remember how she went crazy when Teresa said something about her not accepting Rosie’s sexuality in the past. She’s really trying too hard to make viewers believe everything about her life and family is been all perfect. But she needs to understand that every life and every family has problems. She needs to stop protesting too much and stop herself and her husband from talking about someone else’s life if they truly know how bad it hurts.
Totally agree. That was the first thing I thought of. Its so sad that these women want to hurt every single one of Teresa’s relationships. Remember when Melissa said Teresa told her that she hated Dina in last year’s reunion? Even if that were the case which obviously it isn’t, supposedly Teresa and Melissa had a horrible relationship so why would Teresa confide in her? These idiots can’t get their lies straight.
I love Kathy.. Finally a real heartfelt explanion
I’m sure it was heartfelt to her; just seen as BS to everyone else. If she so hurt to hear people talk about HER marriage, HER kids and HER parents doesn’t she think it hurts Teresa when she talks about her family? Did she think it made Teresa feel good to hear her mother being called a liar and her father a coward? She didn’t care how that made Teresa feel, but then acts all hurt when she gets a dose of it back. Totally self-serving hypocrite.
Sorry I just couldn’t read the whole blog.. It stink like Chicken of the sea…
Its pretty much pointless to comment on these stupid women anymore, they just keep contradicting themselves in the same way over and over and over, its tiring. If I hadn’t already invested 7 months or however the hell long this seemingly endless season has been going I would just stop following these things. So annoyed at myself for even caring this much about a stupid show
I know. I can stop watching the show but can’t stop reading the blogs. Well at least there are a lot of smart funny people here.
Katfish can’t handle the fact that after the stuff she has talked about Teresa’s marriage, Teresa mentioned that Katfish’s own marriage had issues. Sorry Katfish no relationship is perfect, not even yours. Katfish has spent 2 yrs dishing on Teresa’s relationship, but hers is off limit. Sorry Katfish, that’s how it works.
When Teresa’s mom spoke to Katfish that night they all heard her and Teresa talking. It was not a private cconversation. Katfish likes throwing rocks but she can’t catch.
Rosie and Katfish were out of order. We all have lost someone, even watched some die. It was over the top “talk about my father” really? Really? If ther reaction something wasn’t right.
I cannot believe the hypocrisy flowing out of your mouth like sewage. It’s okay for your husband to bad mouth Tre and Joe every chance he gets, even threatening to burn her house down at Melissa’s Christmas party because you couldn’t handle the fact that Tre didn’t want to talk to you about a private matter right then and there. Did you buy that designer handbag with the Judas money Bravo paid you to be on the show???? You won’t betray a confidence – well then how about being proactive and call out Jacqueline and Caroline for all their smack talk about Tre??? Give Tre a reason to trust you and maybe your friendship will be repaired. Until then if you can’t handle comments about your family get off the show and take your cannoli’s with you!
It appears that Kathy is doing damage control-so people want to buy her cannoli kits. She commited a PR nitemare at a really bad time-she came off mean and spiteful against her oh so beloved Italian family-you know with all the baking traditions and generational respect in the kitchen and her heart.She cannot unring the bell of her guttersnipe behavior-and horrible things she said about her elders. Plus she overplayed her hand of how she important she is in the show-by trivializing Teresa.
All I got from that was blah, blah, blah…how dare Teresa! Blah, blah…but she has a right to her opinion…blah, blah, blah..how dare Teresa! Blah, blah, blah…
I’m about respect! Blah, blah, blah…my aunt is a liar! Blah, blah, blah…my uncle is a coward! Blah, blah, blah…I’m about respect!
Girl talk…blah, blah, blah…my 21 year marriage is solid! Blah, blah, blah…
Footnote from twitter: You have no right! Blah, blah, blah…to talk about my dead father! Blah, blah, blah…you haven’t lost* a parent! (Uh..yeah because none of us twitter fans have ever lost a parent)
*Edited to use the correct past tense spelling of “lose.” It’s not “loose” ya dumbass!
“but we are all human, and everyone has their breaking point.”
Odd that after 2 seasons of bashing in every media possible that Teresa isn’t permitted to have reached HER breaking point
I never chimpanzees had breaking points. Until Tre. You learn something new everyday
Rubbish. All everyone does is talk about TG’s marriage.
That’s because it’s been shown on FILM how badly Joe Giudice treats her.
SO?? That makes it OK?? If it’s OK to discuss Tre’s marriage on TV then it’s open season and OK to talk about ALL their marriages… can’t have it both ways!
I have never seen any of the other husbands treat their wives that way. Have you?
I mean, Richie said Kathy “tastes like fish”…BTW Hi Jacqueline, are you drinking red or white today??
BM Barbie – I have stated this SEVERAL times. I am so sick of the people on here who accuse those with a different opinion as being someone else. Get a decent argument. I am from Colorado. I know none of these people. I just happen to own a tv and have cable.
I have also stated that what is so wrong with what Richie said? Apparently you have performed oral on a woman and you think they taste differently (I have not so I have no reference point)or you are terrified your boyfriend thinks that you do. He did not state she tasted bad in anyway. Like fish. What’s the big deal with that?
First of all JPG in Colorado, do they teach you how to take a joke out there? Because I’m sensing a theme with you…
Second of all, I’m actually married, and if my husband said on national TV what he thinks my vagina smells/tastes like and he didn’t say “roses” or “sunshine” but rather “fish” or “HPV” I would be kind of pissed. But that’s just me. If you’re ok with your significant other revealing extremely intimate facts about you on TV then I think that’s just fine. For the record my husband LOVES my smell/taste, whatever it is, which I would not know because he has the couth to not affiliate it with a food.
Third of all, here’s my “decent” argument. These women are all horrible. They are deplorable. I’m not defending one of them, nor am I defending any of their husbands. I guess I can’t quite understand, what with your just taking this all as entertainment and whatnot, your seemingly passionate hatred toward Teresa. But you are absolutely entitled to your opinion which you state on here every chance you get.
Fourth, I’m pretty sure if you were Jacqueline, you wouldn’t respond with, “Ok, you got me. I’m crazy.” You would probably say something more like, “I’m from [insert random-ass state] and don’t know any of these people.”
Fifth, I hope you have a splendid day, and don’t stress out about Teresa too much.
“I have stated this SEVERAL times. I am so sick of the people on here who…”
LMAO. Awesome.
BM Barbie – Too much time on your hands, doll. Since you felt the need to respond to me with numbered paragraphs I suppose I can do the same.
1)My sense of humor is very well intact. I do however wonder about yours.
2)Who cares? I mean really. He said she tasted like fish. I’ll agree maybe a little TMI, but he didn’t say it was bad.
3)Everyone states their opinion on here, that’s all we have. I’ve always been very clear that I am not a Teresa fan. Her character (as in actor) sucks. I don’t know her as a human being.
4)Colorado isn’t a “random ass state” Especially when you just happen to live here.
5) I don’t stress out on fictional characters on a tv show. I enjoy trashing the ones I don’t like and supporting the ones I do. Just like everyone else.
But have you looked up “sarcasm” yet???
You’re right, I have a lot of time on my hands. It’s awesome. I do lots of fun stuff with it, this taking up just a tiiiiny portion. You’ve been, well, eh to play with but now I’m completely bored with you. On all your numbered points: Fair enough!
I am shocked it has gotten this far. I’ll take famewhore women who barely know each other over this crap. Yeah Kathy started it but while I’m a Teresa fan she’s no angel.
I caught a few minutes of the reunion from Season 2 and Teresa was discussing Danielle having sex with some guy with her kids there at her shore house. Low blow and unnecessary. BUT, I do recall Teresa admitting she was a mean girl to Danielle, not sure if there was an actual apology.
These people are family and the nastiness on both ends really needs to stop. Honestly as nasty and vile as Kathy and Melissa might be none of this would be possible without Bravo leading the charge. I wrote in another thread that Bravo creating this villian of Teresa completely removed from fact is insane.
Without Bravo’s willingness to falsely paint Teresa as a monster the other women would have nothing to go on.
I am so over her whole I am a lamb act. She showed her true colors.
Her ship is sinking fast and what does she do? She whips out her teeny tiny violin.
She uses the illness and death of her dear father…to garner sympathy to stay on a reality TV show? Trash!!
Jac uses her son, Kathy uses her late father. These people stoop to such lows to extend their 15 minutes of fame.
And Teresa is right, Kathy DOESN’T have and never had “real housewives” money. Not being wealthy is fine, the problem is PRETENDING to have money. That’s what I think is vulgar.
Seriously love the teeny tiny violin!!!! LOL!
Exactly what were the Guidices doing, money wise, before RHONJ? Were they wealthy or just living like it? We never saw the house they were living in before their current house was complete. Teresa was spending piles of cash, claiming she didn’t believe in credit cards, when already they were in debt over $100k just on personal cards. Their bankruptcy was already in the works and they were flaunting a rich andfamous lifestyle paid for by the people they owed money to. Sure, they withdrew their Bankruptcy filing , but only because they failed to disclose assets, Teresa’s book advance, and property and were in danger of facing criminal charges for Bankruptcy fraud.
It seems to me that the Wakiles live a upper middle class lifestyle, they don’t seem to say otherwise. People who carry newdesigner bags and shop constantly knowing that it will be seen by all the people you owe money to,are VULGAR?
Oops. Meant to say “they are VULGAR!”
SORRY about the typo
weren’t they already living in their house, just doing renovations? remember, “congrats on your re-done house?” I think they’ve lived there for awhile and just gutted it and spruced it up a bit.
I do remember the redone house thing. I also remember Danielle commenting about the house Tre lived in before. While I don’t believe Danielle about anything, I do remember thinking it was odd that they never showed where she was living for almost 2 seasons. I remember they purchased all new furniture and that they did major construction, I didn’t remember if they had actually lived in it ornot.
Hi Kath. You are a woman who grew up in Paterson with no college education and who’s only employment was as a hair dresser. And your husband owns a gas station. Nothing wrong with making a good honest, comfortable living. But you act as if you have class and refinement when you don’t. That is vulgar. Taking out loans to give the viewers the appearance that you have money is vulgar. And the affection you developed to hide your Jersey accent with your tight jaw? That is also extremely vulgar.
People seething with jealousy of or hate for Teresa always seem to forget is that they withdrew their bankruptcy petition. This often happens when developers who personally guaranteed construction loans find buyers or permanent financing for their property. Kathy, you always leave out the fact that Teresa and Joe are paying back their debts in full without having to go to court. Unlike your husband who had to be dragged to court.
Sure, the way Teresa spent the money was pretty vulgar too. But let’s not forget when she signed onto the show, she did have money and she had lead the “housewives” lifestyle for a number of years. She did not have to pretend to live a fabulous lifestyle, the way you and Richie do for the show. And when she found out all of the trouble Joe was in, she went to work like a champ and is now probably wealthier than she was when the show started.
And Kath? NICE BAG!
Let’s not forget the Guidices were forced to withdraw their Bankruptcy filing because the Bankruptcy Trustee found they did not include all their assets, including Teresa’s book advance payment. Continuing with the Bankruptcy was Fraud and they could have been prosecuted for that. Don’t pretend they suddenly grew a conscience and felt bad about screwing over all those they owed money to, most of whom were individuals and not big corporations.
Regarding Richie and his being taken to small claims court over $2000, I don’t think that is the same as Bankruptcy Fraud. I really don’t know why he didn’t pay it, but he went to court, fought it, and lost and had to pay it.
Teresa’s fabulous lifestyle before RHONJ sponsored by those they owed money to, is and was vulgar. I think her lifestyle was fake andd is now real, they are living within their means. I do agree that Teresa is a hard worker and I admire what she has done to support her ffamily.
Rhfan -
Rich STILL hasn’t paid back that landscaping Guy. Even though the judge ruled in the landscaper’s favor, the landscaper said, to this day, Rich has not paid him a dime of that money.
Kathy is not upper middle class. She is a stay at home mom and does not work. Richie owns ONE gas station and has gotten charged for not paying Exxon. How are they middle class with one income that clearly doesn’t make a lot. They are fakers too.
I don’t know how much they make or where they fall on the income scale.
Based on the look of their home, their swimming pool, nice cars I said they appear to be living an upper middle class lifestyle. If they are living above their means, I’m sure that will come out.
My point was/is that saying someone isn’t wealthy enough to be on HW, while you are not paying your bills, is very hypocritical. I understand Tre was upset by them getting on the show behind her back, but I would think that finances would be a topic she should steer clear of.
By the way, there have been many HWs in many cities that were not wealthy when they were cast on the show:
Nene, Sheree, Laurie(OC), Bethany, a lady who worked for Vicki, and several others. Many of the ladies gained their wealth because of Bravo. If a healthy bank account was a requirement of the HWs, there might be only a few of the current HWs left in each city.
Didn’t Exxon win their court case against Dicky Ricky? IMO, I don’t think that he owns a gas station anymore.
THANK GOODNESS FOR AN INTELLIGENT WELL MANNERED RESPONSE. She OWNED UP to her faults and gave a legitimate reason for her outburst. Unlike the idiot (Teresa) who ACTS LIKE A CHILD and gives the same playground excuse that “she picked on me so I picked on her back”
At least we know Kathy actually wrote this. Get angry about it Teresa creeps. She doesn’t even know who you are, she JUST WANTS YOU TO MAKE HER MONEY AND BUY HER SILLY BOOKS!
Teresa owned up to what she said in her blog
You have a blessed Day
Yelling is childish too, right? You do realize all caps is yelling.
Not one of those ladies really own up to anything that is real. They have all failed each other and themselves. The amount of manipulation that has taken place against Tre has won her a following, it is really hard to feel sorry for the other ladies when Tre has finally bitten back. And yes I say finally, because she knew Chris had an affair a long time ago. She also knows things that could have hurt a lot of people if she really wanted to be malicious. We all have our limits. Tre is childish, just like the rest, but she is not malicious or devious. She lacks response control and has knee jerk reactions. Does not deserve being set up, lies about and deceived for 2 years. If they did not like her, all they had to do was step away 2 years ago and stop being her friend. End of story.
Lauren, why so upset that not everyone shares your point of view? But hey, if taking it out on us here keeps you from kicking Santino or Vito, vent away.
“I sat back for two seasons straight and did not allow Teresa’s jabs and insults about my character to get to me”
Ah, whaaaaaaat? This bitch is as spacey as Lynne Curtain. Sure Kathy, we viewers totally forgot about the Great Cookie Debacle: Battle of the Mother’s Recipes, World War V in Punta Whateverthefuck where she lashed out at your “I couldn’t just work and leave my children at home like that” comment and you went ape-shit, or the COUNTLESS other times you ABSOLUTELY let her ridiculous comments get to you. Yeah, you really let everything slide off your back. LOL The fact that these bitches think they’re any different than Teresa is mind-boggling.
right? Not to mention she choose to be Melissa’s friend over her a relationship with Teresa before they ever even came on the show. That relationship was poor to start, so is it really surprising she is not Kathy’s big supporter? There issues run deep, and while I think they always worked them out before Melissa, once Mel came into the picture she just made it worse and got them to hate Tre. I do not think Tre is a saint, but whatever their beef was, they managed to stay a family through it.
*their
“I guess my priorities are little different than some. For me, having our family’s future secured and investing in my children’s college education was just more important.”
Um…but it is okay to get a nose job and lip injections, and facial..but a purse is too much.
LOL
Kathy is a fake she is nothing but a mean girl and a pawn of Satan she needs to be blessed with holy water
And Rosie needs to watch her mouth or she will end up in Prison
Nothing fails like prayer.
And yes, you are correct. The prisons are FULL of people who had the nerve to yell at someone.
After reading these comments I know why the world is so messed up..You people have a mass mental illness. SICK
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I do think that Kathy was wrong about what she said about Teresas parents but what Teresa said about kathys dad was not nice either. its not like teresas parents are passed so i dont think she should of said that
All Teresa said was that her dad was there for Kathy and her family when Kathy’s dad wasn’t around. That wasn’t an insult to Kathy’s dad or an insinuation that Kathy’s dad wasn’t there for her. Like always, Kathy twisted what Teresa said and used it against her making it seem like Teresa was bashing her dad.
Whether Teresa’s parents are alive and Kathy’s dad is deceased or not is irrelevant. Kathy called her uncle a coward and her aunt a “fucking liar” on national TV meanwhile she sits there on her high horse acting like a saint and preaching about being old school and believing in respect. Kathy is anything but respectful and she proved that at the reunion.
Of course it was an insult, and a very calculated one on Teresa’s part — deliberately aimed to hurt where it would hurt most.
What a horrible little bitch.
Yeah, when you’re being tag-teamed by a bunch of harpies is the best time for calculation. This plot has been in motion since 1982, even longer than the Brutal Toast Conspiracy.
You should really calm down, Sugar.
You’re looking a little ragged.
Awww, baby, if you’ve been pasting my pictures all over the walls next to Mel and Joey’s and licking them, they will get a little ragged, but I really don’t need to hear about it.
You really do go a long way for very little, don’t you?
Not at all, I swear I never touched the Stump.
Pretty sure that you always call Teresa dumb, Samantha. Make up your mind. Either Teresa is dumb or she’s smart enough to be a calculating bitch. It’s exhausting reading your posts because you can’t make up your mind on whether Teresa is a dumb ass or not.
Dumb and calculating are not necessarily mutually exclusive. Neither are dumb and devious. Or dumb and cunning. Or dumb and deceitful.
That’s not what TreApe said, she said ‘my dad was there for you more than your own dad. Big diff!
TO ALL/U H8TERS OUT THERE WHO THINK TERESA CAN DO NO WRONG, I HEAR THEY’RE LOOKING 4/MORONS 4/THEIR SPIN-OFF, MAY/B THEY’LL HIRE SOME OF/U.
There are more of us than you haters, hence Teresa’s THREE BEST SELLERS. Too bad, there are not enough of you to support the Jackhole4, cause we all know that ALL of their endeavors have bombed big time.
CHEERS!!!
Kathy who?
Kathy, your husband went too far letting everyone who is anyone, know you smell like FISH. You should be embarrassed knowing your husband thinks your chuckalina smells like fish.
Kathy, I have no doubt, your husband will leave you when you are no longer on this Bravo show.
Oh, and one more thing. I’m glad Kathy got her nose, jaw, lips and botox done on her face.
Her natural, God gifted beauty looked to honest and trusting.
Since she got her new face, now everyone can see how ugly she really is. It Matches Her Heart! Ug-Ah-Lee
Kathy destroyed the loving, beautiful and trusting face her husband came to know and love.
He is not happy waking up to that strange face. He misses her old face. The face he married. No Doubt, when Bravo is over, their marriage is over.
If you haven’t seen this, Watch It!
This women tells it like it is and doesn’t hold back on the RHONJ women!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKA5PKveKzw
Sat back?!? Sat back?!?
You are a SAINT, Kathy! You sat back. And took her jabs. Hard to believe, but that may be the most hypocritical statement yet. I could list all the slams said about Teresa by y
Sat back?!? Sat back?!?
You are a SAINT, Kathy! You sat back. And took her jabs. Hard to believe, but that may be the most hypocritical statement yet. I could list all the slams said about Teresa by you and yours while you sat back but we both know it’d be a waste of my time. You haven’t taken an honest look at yourself in a while.
And one more thing, from a 21 year bride to another. In 21 years? The Divorce word has come up. Been discussed. Thrown around. Considered. Own it.
I have also been married for 21 years, and we have been separated twice, the second time for four years. I do not know why that would be embarrassing.
kathy is a POS end of story….
My question is … If Kathy says she had time to talk to her aunt and uncle about the bravo interview , why didn’t she have time to talk to Teresa?
Kathy, Tre went to far but your sister threatened her life and thats ok???? Please your husband is a loser and he is totally disrespectful to you any chance he gets, he is a perv!!!!!
TreApe did go to far with Kat! The first cheating couple mentioned on rhonj was JoeApe cheating on TreApe! Once that came out TreApe & JoeApe started accusing all the other husbands of cheating on their wives EXCEPT her brother instead of accusing her brother she claimed Melissa would leave her brother for a man with more money! No one has said anything negative about Kathys relationship to Rich in regards to divorcing, except TreApe!
I don’t know if anyone mentioned the real quote out of Katfish mouth. She actually said Tre’s mother was a “fucking liar” followed shortly by calling Tre’s father a coward. That is when Tre made a comment about Katfish father.
Than, the ever classy Rosie the Riveter, decided to go all bat shit crazy and threatening. Lumbering thru the stage like some rabies infected Rhesus monkey.
“I believe Kathy has been jealous of Teresa all of her life most likely because she could never be nor have all that Teresa is. This show was her opportunity to level the playing fireld, or so she thought…lol. Rosie appears to be suffering from lack of respect and love. She appears to be full of anger and disallusionment with the path her life has taken. Both of these women are defending their actions and standing on pride to the public but no doubt are remorseful and feeling like fools in private. Kathy showed herself to be a Skreeching Harpy, Rosie showed herself to be a Rampaging Gorilla, and it will be some time before the viewing public forgets.”
Kathy and Rosie SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
I know this was in Oct. but I have to say if Fish Face Smelly Kathy wrote anymore it would have been all the way in Jan. LOL
Shit that girl loves to write but to be honest she’s a nasty person when the cameras on around and when they do Kathy gets all Fake just like her nose job and to look at that nose job it’s not right at all on her I really could care less of her an what she has to say about anything, That also goes for that so called husband of hers as well. He’s so gross an grossly looking. lol YUCK………