Alexis Bellino’s Hubby Jim Says He’s Speechless After Ladies Ganged Up On Alexis
On Tuesdays episode of RHOC, we see Alexis Bellino get ganged up by everyone leading her to feel uncomfortable and cry. I don’t know how you felt about the episode but I felt a bit sad for Alexis. I think throughout the trip, she’s trying to have a good time with everyone and every last thing she does, Tamra and Heather are calling her out on it. It’s like they examined every thing she says or every way she moves so they could talk about it later with each other. My question is: Why are they so bothered by Alexis? Why do they allow Alexis to affect them so much. It doesn’t add up nor does it make any sense.
About the jewelry comment, I think it’s smart of Alexis to wear costume jewelry instead of wearing her real diamonds. No one cares if any of that will get stolen because it means nothing yet still looks real. Shouldn’t they be happy that Alexis is being honest? Things happen and jewelry could be stolen but regardless why are the other ladies so bothered by it?
I do think Alexis is over does it at times with saying what she has but who doesn’t? Heather Dubrow-I’m looking at YOU! Heather has mentioned several times that she has a mansion, only eats certain things, has an elevator, complains about her mansion being too small yet is annoyed with Alexis?
My whole thing with Gretchen is that Gretchen is Alexis friend. Gretchen had already spoken to Alexis on the plane like she mentioned so why would she have to chime in with the ladies and add more drama so the girls feel it’s even more okay to gang up on Alexis. I also see Heather Dubrow constantly tweeting and making rude comments regarding Alexis and all I can think is “grow up.” She isn’t doing it back and enough is enough.
So how did Alexis hubby feel about the situation? Jim took to his blog to simply say, “The network and these women must be so proud of what they tried to accomplish. I have no words.”
Do you think the ladies were ganging up on Alexis? Could they have handled it better? Who’s in the wrong?
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Tamra is a nasty trash!!
The rest are just idiots for going along with it!
I agree, but not in those words lol. I used to really like Tamara, but at 40+ years old, her comments are ignorant and vile. She should find a better way to articulate her thoughts.
her comments are VILE…uh…are you sure that’s the right word you wanted to use?
opps sorry, read your post wrong…thought you were talking about Alexis.
Ya know what they say…the ones who BRAG THE MOST….have the LEAST. I think this is what pisses everyone off about Alexis. Her and Jim are posers who think everyone around them is dumb enough to believe their crap.
I feel like Heather brags the most though
I agree – she is looking for her next sugar daddy. She is going to have a busload full of kids with twelve different fathers. She is gross.
Hey, guess what I just heard. Some genius has invented this thing called insurance. It’s new. You purchase what is called a “policy” from one of the many companies to choose from and you tell them things about your item, including how much it’s worth. They then insure it for you for a fee. If it gets lost or stolen, you can get a new one. Isn’t that awesome! I’m gonna tweet Alexis and tell her so she can start wearing her real wedding ring. The one Jim put on her finger in a church before God. It’s an unbreakable circle that represents their love and her subordination.
I preface my comment by saying Alexis is my least favorite. That being said, the ladies were wrong to gang up on her. I felt bad for her……which is almost as uncomfortable as watching the scene. My problem is while Alexis is judgmental, self-righteous, annoying, dumb at times, and a one-upper, SO IS EVERYBODY ELSE!!!!! But of course, no one sees that.
I haven’t ever really liked her. She rubs me the wrong way, but I am so against the ganging-up mentality that seems to have overtaken the HW franchise. Why can’t they be a normal woman and just talk behind her back????:)
Totally agree ! I felt bad for her.Women can be so mean to each other. I can’t imagine a bunch of men sitting around doing that. My bf is pretty oblivious to stuff like that,he tells me I think about “stuff” too much (says the man that doesn’t think at all,lol).
I remember last season after Tamra’s split from Simon she was having dinner with Alexis and we found out that Alexis and Jim were always hanging with Simon and his girlfriend. I feel like Tamra has had beef with her ever since. The fact that everyone is going along with her is just sad.
I forgot….you might have hit the nail on the head.
Good memory!
srh605 – thanks for mentioning that point because I didn’t know about Simon’s friendship with Jim & Alexis. Now this season is making more sense! I like Tamra when she doesn’t have a story line with Alexis (or the old seasons with Simon).
I just said to a friend today that women tear each other apart rather than lift each other up. Ther is enough success for everyone.
Srt_: I agree with your opinion! I never much cared for her, but I do not like anyone to be cornered by anyone/group. I feel like she did it to herself because she was never really genuine, sincere or authentic. If she is trying to be the nice girl for this season, its only because she knew prior to this season Gretchen and Tamra were on the road to making up.She should have been more interested in trying to get to know everyone else prior season before something like this happened! I can see what you mean about the others and thats not the reasoning why I don’t care for her.. She just came out the gate like an a$$ to me from the beginning. She always tried to talk smack but to me it seemed like she could never back it up in the right way.
I agree with how you see Alexis. Completely. The problem is now…..even though I really don’t care for her I find myself being more empathetic to her. Crap!!! I can’t start liking her……no, no……….NO!!!!
I also liked her more when Roxy posted the clip when the press asked Vicki & Tamra if they’d have Theresa’s wine in their club. Vicki seemed to poo poo the idea, Tamra was open, but Alexis was really gracious and said she would try it and it was good to support all of the ladies endeavors.
Well thaat was nice!
Ha! You can like her if u wish ! She is not horrible, she just doesn’t appeal to me because of how she was from her beginning of the show.
That’s right-when they all band together to bully one-it just ends up making HER look better!
Why is Jim still writing on the Bravo website? I’m sorry, but Jim needs to shut up. He makes comments all the time, and talks about them quite often too. He doesn’t want to be a part of the show, yet he’s still writing as if we care.
I felt bad for Alexis because she was getting ganged up on, and no one should get ganged up on like that except for Traylor, MeHo, and CaroClown. The women are just fed up with her fake BS, and I can see why they’re reacting and calling her out on it. Alexis is TOO MUCH all the time. Competing constantly. Brags about stuff no one cares about. She brags about this and that when she has the least money. Alexis about herself all the time, and how she’s a great mom and wife, and does it all and yada yada! I’m sorry, but if you’re a great mom and you’re wealthy and wonderful… DON’T BRAG or COMPETE because people will have less respect for you, I guarantee it! From what I see… She isn’t even that hands on with her kids, and she’s not all there which is okay, but at the same time Alexis continues to be fake. I think I would like her if I hung out with her, but all her phony BS and bragging would bug me. The other women shouldn’t have called her out all at once, but each should say it privately to her. Can you imagine all these women having to deal with her competing and talking all this nonsense all the time? And no, they aren’t jealous. Alexis isn’t that attractive without her big hair, tons of makeup, jewelry, house that’s for rent, cars they lease yearly, etc.
I meant to say Alexis IS about herself
I completely agree..she is all about Alexis.
I can see Tamra being jealous. Alexis has beautiful skin and Tamra has that old rawhide skin from overtanning.
The thing Is, alexis has always been like that. Tamra’s life changed and now she’s seeing all the “flaws” in Alexis. I want to see who they plan to gang up on next season?
Tamra may be a little jealous, but I think she’s just fed up with Alexis and her phoniness. Alexis is only, what, 34-35? She looks like she’s in her 40′s! Lets see how she looks when she’s Tamra’s age without all that money and makeup… She just looks very average to me.
I have to say… I like Tamra, she is my have on this show. I liked her from day one. None of them are perfect but I think at least Tamra throws us some humor sometimes! I think they are all fed up with the phoniness! It seems as if she has been trying to find herself since coming on the show!(Alexis)
i have never found Tamara funny. She just reminds me of a snarling dog
Lauren: I think I found her funny at times because everyone else seemed like they had sticks up their butts! She can be snarky at times. But when she think she is right or someone else is wrong, she stays true to her word until its resolved.( Just my opinion, nor arguing!)
I did not like how she treated Penny last season either!!!! That girl was her real friend and Alexis was very biatchy and immature to her. That whole thing with Jim from long ago was bs. She was mad at Penny but I feel strongly that it was JIM”S place to tell his wife! Instead he lied to make himself look better and Alexis was mad at Penny! How awkward for Penny ..trying to do the right thing! I don’t like people getting ganged up on, but Alexis is no saint either.
peggy*
Thank you ! Errors all over this place! Thx Ethan!!
I know….the way she got mad at Peggy and not her husband over the dating thing. GMAFB….she really thought the friend should say something, not her husband. Bull.
Anyone notice Peggy was at Alexis childrens birthday party?? So that fued is probably waaayyy over.
She was???? I didn’t notice!!
Really? No, I missed that! Well good, I hope they can be cordial/friendly with each other.
I thought I saw her bending down, but thought .. no way!
I did see that!
Jim’s blog is not on Bravo’s website but is on his own site. He uses the site to basically combat Tamra’s (well, and everyone’s) accusations and posts documents that support his version. Once the season began he started to post every week after the show. Bravo approves everything the HWs blog on the site. I’d crack up if Bravo posted an anti-Bravo blog!
PURE JEALOUSY! I know they will say they have nothing to be jealous about. She not perfect, none of them are, I think putting her down also makes them feel better about themselves.
Maybe Jim needs to “pray” about it. Sorry couldn’t resist.
I kind of agree with everything they say about Alexis. I will give my reasons why so I don’t seem like the ladies on the show.
1. It is pretty clear if you are a logical human being watching the show that it doesn’t make sense that they go from house to house renting. Unless they are trying to portray something they are not.
2. It does not make sense that she is always talking about how many expensive cars they have, but they sell them because they get more money when they sell them?! EVERYONE knows that you could never sell a car for more money then you bought it unless you put so much work into the car it was fabulous and you never drove it off the lot and just owned it while it sat at the car dealership. And from the cars we have seen that Alexis drives it doesn’t look like they are any different from the Bentley, Merecedes, etc. Joe Schmoe is driving around Orange County.
3. Alexis does and says things that are just so ridiculous. Her daughters birthday party talking about how her daughters almost never had a mommy and how tough her whole delivery was. One we as viewers have NEVER heard that story. Two it looked as though none of those people were there to feel sorry for her daughters, they were there to celebrate them. And three it shows Alexis has to make everything about herself.
The Bellino family to me is trying to be something they are not. Alexis is beautiful. Alexis has beautiful children. Alexis doesn’t seem like she could hurt a fly. But also I feel like that is exactly why Jim married her. She isn’t smart enough to see that he is a phony. And most other people see it. In his blog he talks about the other guys on the show and how they do interviews and talk about his wife. Well.. you’ve dedicated a WHOLE BLOG to talking about the show. It is the same thing. Which again shows what idiots they both truly are.
With that in mind— I enjoy watching them more than the RHONJ. At least it is petty drama. Not people breaking up a family.
I agree. I have empathy for Alexis it’s never fun to feel like you’re being ganged up on. At the same time, she brought some of it on herself by bringing the white elephant up at dinner, by pushing Tamra at lunch, if you truly want to know what the problem is, fix things and discuss, you can’t play victim when they don’t say what you want to hear. It takes a strong person to address situations and it takes an even stronger person to reflect and listen to what everyone is saying. It’s not always easy to take a look at yourself. It’s even harder take a step back and not get defensive and listen. They all said the same thing. I feel like the ladies were concerned about Alexis’ authenticity and that’s all they were saying, just wanted her to be real and not turn it on/off for whatever reason. I feel like they are right on the money with their feelings. I have a friend who acts very similar to Alexis – always stating how much she has, what she owns, how much it costs and so on and I have a hard time knowing who she really is which leads me to really question her and she’s been in my life for 30 years. Gretchen was being a true friend to Alexis i.e. she spoke calmly, true and like an adult and even tried to speak with her one on one on the plane regarding the same thing. IMO true friends aren’t there to sugar coat things, they are there to be honest with you even when it’s not something they want to hear it. Heather and Vicki also spoke calmly and without malice. Tamra did to for that matter until Alexis became defensive and tried to turn the tables. I feel bad that it happened, but they weren’t false in what they were saying. Rox, love ya, but didn’t you rag on Dana for flaunting her $25k sunglasses…this is the same thing.
She is very pretty, but I can’t say much else! Who talks about drugs, death and surgery at a 4 year olds party????
That was crazy!!!!
The only possible way you can make more money selling a car after driving it, is it is a stolen car! Yes I said it! Heather was very polite and was telling her in a very good way, the other ladies were the ones ganging up on her.
Heather made a good point, a robber does not know if it is fake or not, if they see you with that big ass ring they will take it. It is not the point that they will take it, the point Heather was making was that why do you want to be put in a dangerous situation?
As Heather is wearing her 10kt diamond lol
I think it’s none of anyone’s business as to why Alexis wears fake jewelry and leaves the good stuff at home. It makes sense to me.
You are right db, no one’s business, but she probably should not have said all that on tv! She put it out there, everyone will talk about it( and know where she hides the good stuff!)
I really feel like Tamara is the bad apple of the bunch and is the one stirring the pot. Like her or not, Gretchen did not seem to be too catty and nasty before she and Tamara became friends, and now that Vicki has distanced herself I feel like she is a lot nicer. Even if she is a bit kooky, she handled the situation far better than the other women. I am not an Alexis fan, but when she called the girls out for carrying LV bags in the jungle while judging her materialism I was so pleased. All of them are shallow and materialistic, so maybe these pots and kettles should just simmer down…
I think the whole lot of them are miserable… They may not want to admit it…but Tamra is a force to be reckoned with…I think they would rather be her friends than against her.
That is so true, I wouldn’t want that nasty piece of work as an enemy!
I think Tamra is just a VERY insecure girl,and just needs to be put in here place. Girls like that just need someone to stand up to them. She knows Eddie is going to leave her in a couple of years for someone who isn’t a senior citizen. He is young and hot, and she is old and crabby.
Ha! I like Tamra but your comment is funny!! Senior citizen, lol
I don’t think she’s insecure. No blond girl from BH would get their implants removed if they were THAT insecure.
Alexis is harmless, but Tamra is a bully. Every season she picks on someone else. I cannot believe Gretchen is friends with her after the way Tamra tortured her. I guess Tamra wants to have some tv time and I think Eddie is there for the tv exposure
yup, I don’t think she will ever be happy. Eddie seems like a really nice, normal guy. I do not understand that pairing..
Tamra is mean I am still mad at her for throwing a drink at Jeana:)
Pattigirl: don’t you think Gretchen gave it right back to her though? I thought that it was pretty equal bitchiness, lol! Only because back at the reunion when Tamra first stopped liking her, I agreed with Tamra! Gretchen was being shady with some other dude and never answered the same/honestly about it while crying about Jeff. I thought they were both ugly to each other. Just my opinion.
I AGREE TAMARA IS A BULLY. SHE IS ALSO MEAN SPIRITED. SHE MUST BE MISERABLE WITH HER OWN LIFE AND ALWAYS HAS TO BE A MEAN GIRL EVERY SEASON.I DON’T UNDERSTAND GRETCHEN AT ALL,TAMARA GOT HER DRUNK AND TRIED TO SIC HER SON ON HER.ALEXIS HAS ALWAYS BEEN HER FRIEND.WITH FRIENDS LIKE GRETCHEN WHO NEEDS ENEMIES???
Alexis’ biggest problem is her HUSBAND!!! She is harmless you can tell she would never hurt anyones feeling on purpose and would feel horiable if she even did on accident. Jim is the fake POS trying to make it seem like they are living the good life and has his wife trained to act the same way. i don’t think she does it to feel superior to anyone she does it because that is what her husnband tells her to do. and tamara is a POS too cause she claims how her ex controlled her and she sees thats what jim does to alexis then why are you giving her a hard time. and btw tamara your husband needed to control you cause you are WT and he was trying to keep you some what dignified alexis is not WT and knows how to act like a lady
Jen, u took the words out of my mouth
i actually use to like tamra too, she would say random stuff but it was funny, now she is out right nasty and a bit bitchie to put it mildly.
Maybe you are right! Honestly I have not watched every episode this season( woopsies). That stinks if that is true about Tamra, I did like her the best.
I have to give Bellino credit: He actually called out the network. It’s about time .
Alexis has NOT changed from Day 1, she has ALWAYS been like that! Why is it such a problem now? I think Tamra just needed a new victim this season since she is friends with Gretchen now (and she knew Gretchen would never back down to her so she had no choice but to become friends with her) Tamra is so far Up Heather’s ass it’s not even funny. Plus Heather is just as bad if not worse than Alexis, she ALWAYS looks down at these other women! I felt awful for Alexis she didn’t deserve that
I have barely watched this season but from the little bit I have seen, I am not impressed with Heather. From her having a party somewhere else because she didn’t want the women in her house to sending things back at the restaurant, she gives me the impression that no one or nothing is ever up to her standards.
I wont watch the show anymore because of Tamara. A lot of people I know wont watch because of her
I agree, i cant stand her…and her snotty face
Why do these women feel like it’s their responsibility to tell someone else how to behave? Worry about yourself, period. And ganging up on one person is bullying. Plain and simple. Don’t someone else’s behaviour affect how you conduct yourself. So what, Alexis does things you don’t like? Boo hoo, there always at least one person doing something I don’t like, I don’t jump down their throat about it. And I don’t think Tamra has changed at all, she may be skinnier, but that’s about it. She is a mean girl, always will be. Gretchen reminds of the girls in high school that ditch their friends to join the popular girls’ clique and then do the exact same mean things to their former friends. It’s too bad that it’s grown women acting like they are still in high school. Pathetic.
*let*
I don’t think they were trying to gang up on Alexis. I think they were trying to tell her that she doesn’t have to brag to them. I saw it as the women trying to explain why they give her the ‘side eye’ sometimes. Gretchen, as her ‘best’ friend in the group chimed in to let her know that it wasn’t just the opinion of the ‘haters’, but hers as well. Maybe dinner wasn’t the time to go at it, but Alexis brought it up (the white elephant in the room) and asked to discuss it.
Jim on the other hand is a total slimeball and should keep his chin implant off my tv screen
Alexis is annoying and fake, but I felt sorry for her. I don’t like seeing anyone ganged up on that way. And it seems to be a growing trend with this network and I am really over it. I think Alexis is harmless and deep down insecure which is why she needs constant attention. But I don’t think she deserves this constant bullying.. I really think Tamra is the biggest trouble maker on this show. All she does is talk about other people and stir up drama. I think deep down, she’s the jealous one!
All that being said. I’d take this petty drama any day over the drama on RHONJ where families are being broken up.
Dena- I agree!! Bullying/ganging up on one person is becoming an ugly trend . We see it more and more with each reality show. Quite saddening. But if everyone keeps watching, they will continue to air it!
Tamra and Heather are like two peas in a rotten, nasty pod.
That is all.
I don’t feel bad for Alexis because she led the gang-up on Vicki (in front of her daughter) her first season on the show. What comes around goes around.
You took the words right out of my mouth! Alexis was the ring-leader in the Vicki gang up – her reasoning at the time was that if they were all in agreement, they must be right, and that they were just telling her these things because they care about her. So I have to admit it is freaking hilarious to see the tables turned on her!
the difference is, vicki asked alexis to stop so they could have a nice lunch, but alexis wouldn’t.
true
I forgot about that not so nice girls get away.
Did they ‘gang up on Alexis’? Yep, to some degree. However, if they hadn’t done so thus creating some drama on the vaca’ it would have just been fun filled days & like skipping through Disneyland…. There’s absolutely no way that Bravo is going to have a drama FREE show on the air & this time it was Alexis’ turn to take the hit……:)
Alexis is not my favorite; however, Tamara always needs someone to target. She is such a nasty person. I cannot see WTH Eddie sees in that mean, nasty bitch. I used to like Heather, but her continued comments about Alexis are getting old. Gretchen is just a bitch to not defend Alexis at this point.
I agree with you completely, but do you notice the expressions on Eddie’s face when Tamra is bad mouthing someone? It’s a very telling sign, maybe she should start paying attention to it. Most men get tired of women bitching about other women. It’s really old, really fast.
I can only wonder what Tamra’s REAL home life with her kids is like, with the way she speaks and conducts herself on that show.
I agree with your comment about Eddie. He’s portrayed as such a nice guy, yet sits back and watches his GF attack people over and over again. Most couples look out for each other. Why is it he never confronts Tamra on her ugly behavior? Not sure if I mentioned this..I was reading about this at lynnchicago and it seems Eddie posted a vile comment to someone and Lynn deleted it, yet confirmed it was him. Perhaps he’s not what he appears to be.
Not a fan of either him or Tamra.
I thought it was horrible for the girls to gang up on Alexis like that. It was unnecessary. What was the garbage about an “intervention”? Sorry, but ppl shouting at you all at once is not going to HELP. Alexis was right about wanting to address Heather one on one. She shows maturity with the way she tries to confront ppl. I wish the rest of girls showed some maturity.
I normally like heather but she was a mess for organizing that gang up and Gretchen is two -faced claiming Alexis is her friend, but felt the need to chime in during the dinner when they already spoke about it on the plane. Poor Alexis’ instincts were money bc she told Gretchen she felt something was wrong with her and the ladies….
So why was it ok when Alexis ganged up on Vicki? And Alexis did it in front of Vickis daughter which is 10x worse
That’s exactly what I thought. Jim B speechless… never.
Im not watching this season. But i always felt bad for Alexis. She cant do anything right and this season her only friend on the cast switched teams, thats when i quit watching. Its BRAVOS style to pull this and i think its bullying and dangerous.
None of these moronic women had a real valid observation, point or anything, at least not anything they themselves are guilty of doing or have done.
One thing is certain–they’re all threatened by Alexis.
Yes, threatened and jealous.
Heather has to be one of the ugliest women on these shows and I used to think Taylor was ugly. I think she is bothered by the fact that Alexis is so much prettier and even though most people think he’s an @ss, is married to a man who acts like a man and not a snotty, gossiping, giggling teenage girl. I also think that of all these women, Heather brags the MOST by far. She’s an actress, singer, comedienne, dancer, etc. She shows off that ugly, Mcmansion she lives in at every opportunity and what was with pulling out her Jimmy Choo shoes while packing for the Costa Rica trip?
I also found her comment about seeing the Bellinos in Nordstrom’s fascinating because according to Heather, she NEVER watched the show. How do you recognize someone from a TV show that you claim to know nothing about?
and you all know this is mostly scripted, right?
IF things were all unicorns and rainbows, we wouldn’t watch.
Anywho! I think the whole ganging up is childish. To each its own! WTF is so hard about that? Why can’t they just let people be and go about their lives. Always trying to change someone. If she is fake then she is fake. She is being her real self at being fake. WHO CARES!
Heather is as fake as they come… you’ll see.
I am starting to get confused between whether I am watching TRH or The Bad Girls Club. Might be a bit of a strong example but I feel like the focus on these shows is now centered around fights and some level of bullying instead of just an insight into a wealthy persons life. I think Bravo has gotten lost along it’s way!
ITA! All the shows are turning into bad girls club! RHW was supposed to be a little classier then BGC and BBW. I have stopped watching most of the shows because of it.
What really bothered me last night was the way Heather threw out the comment about overhearing Alexis’ husband and son’s interaction in a store. That was one nano second of their parenting and yet Heather is using it as a weapon. How come we never heard this before? If Heather knew who they were why didn’t she say hello? How long did she stand there eavesdropping on the Bellino family? Something doesn’t add up!!
All of that aside, her issue was that Jim was loudly flaunting his wealth by offering to buy his son the most expensive sneakers.
Well guess what?! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in the store with my son…in an almost identical situation and reacted louder than I should have at the price of a pair of sneaker only to wind up getting them for him just to get the hell out of the store. And yes! After the fact I remind him OFTEN how fortunate he is! I have absolutely NO DOUBT that Heather does the same! In the scheme of things, is it really any different?? So Jim lets his son know that he is getting expensive sneakers…for whatever reason. To let him know how fortunate he is. Maybe to get a THANK YOU out of him. To see what kind of appreciation his son may show. To brag to the other customers?? I doubt it! If they’re in the store in the O.C. I’m sure they can afford them as well!
Heather’s oldest child is 8! Trust me! They know that they are rich and they know that they are getting the best of everything and anything. Kid’s know! Considering Heather made it clear to us that she knows about everything from expensive wine to real estate to cars to clothing to restaurants to travel, I again have no doubt that she is handing down those lessons to her children and reminding them often that they are PRIVILEGED!!
There is not a single argument that these women can throw at Alexis that they aren’t all guilty of themselves in one way or another. NOTHING Alexis has done should have them as angry as they were at that dinner table! Their arguments and anger doesn’t hold up and especially Tamra, who looks like an angry wild animal!
So true. That whole comment Heather made about seeing them in Nordstrom’s was so strange. I see people in stores, especially when buying stuff with their kids, act loudly all the time. I don’t think anything of it. It’s almost like she was just waiting for the opportunity to throw that out there and make Alexis feel and look bad about her family. What a creep.
AND I don’t for 1 second believe that Heather doesn’t have some type of live-in help. No way does that ugly, entitled b!tch scrub that marble entry with her obnoxious monogram, vacuum, do laundry, cook/feed her family greasy fast food and run her kids all over the place all by herself.
If anyone acts high and mighty..I think Heather COMPLETELY acts like a snob.
And yes…there is no way she scrubs that floor. HAHAHAHA!
In my opinion I feel like Heather treats this as an acting job and she put on this facade of perfection in every scene she is in. She wants to show she has the perfect life, husband, house, friends…everything. Like when she got her name changed and had that whole speech afterward to Terry..it seemed so contrived. Also, that whole episode in the BMV when she was asking for multiple pictures. GOD FORBID that was Alexis doing that!…but when heather does it everyone thinks it is hysterical.
I thought I was all alone in my dislike of Heather- and I have barely watched the show this season. To me she is the most pretentious one of all and that’s saying a lot with this group of women! Sure Alexis is annoying but if I had to pick one of these women to hang out with, she’s probably the least toxic.
Alexis chooses to be on this show and knows what its about, Jimbo. Your family chose this. Don’t play victim. Second, while the timing was not opportune, Alexis is so shallow, image obsessed and materialistic (and yes, ignorant) it would be good if a friend helped her out by letting her know how she is perceived. She also looks like a dumb bimbo. If she wants to be an anchorperson, she needs to lose the showgirl hair, cover up her cartoonish boobs, and stop injecting duck lips. She looked much more sexy in season 1 with non-Bimbo, great hair.
His family chose to be on a reality show and set themselves up to be scrutinized by the public. NOT by Tamra Barney, a fellow cast-mate. Tamra crosses the line! Calling Slade’s ex, questioning the Bellino’s finances, the list goes on and on. And you can’t win with her. If you try to defend yourself as Alexis has she yells at you for “justifying”. Tamra just wants to be MAD!
out of all those horrible, hateful, snarky women, Alexis is absolutely my favorite! i don’t care if someone brags– that’s their business, but i can’t stand the continual trashing of a person for their looks or religion or professional efforts, or pocket-book, etc. and Alexis NEVER answers that ugliness with ugliness. she seems to always want the best for everyone on that show…SO unlike the other hags. she doesn’t deserve the smack-downs she has gotten AT ALL.
I felt bad that alexis got ganged up on, but she kind of asked for it by bringing it up in front of everyone. Also, although Tamra can be kind of bitchy, I actually really like her. I don’t think she’s insecure, why the hell would she get her implants taken out if she was insecure. She lives around these women with ginormous boobs. She also adds some humor, and unlike Alexis, I think she’s pretty honest about stuff and she owns what she says. Alexis just seems phony. Always.
First off all the women on OC really bother me. But I don’t know why I don’t feel bad for Alexis??? When Lisa and Teresa get bullied it makes me crazy but as far as Alexis…. Well I guess she tried to do the same to Vicki a few seasons ago in San Francisco. She tried to get the other women to chime in with her about Vicki while they were at lunch in front of Vicki’s daughter. I guess it’s also because I definitely don’t agree with Tamra’s behavior, but I see where it’s coming from. The things Alexis says just don’t add up and in addition I think she single handedly puts women back 50 years. She’s just a hypocrite with all her talk about the Lord but her tatas hanging out for all to see! Any woman that says ‘I wouldn’t be comfortable with a woman being president’ well I guess I just have little sympathy for you.
Whoever Andy doesn’t like becomes a target Andy doesn’t like Alexis after she said on the reunion she believes marriage should be between a man and a woman
I wonder….?
kind of like how he doesn’t like Teresa because Juicy used a gay slur… you’re probably right.
I am going to start by saying I was never a huge Alexis fan, but I do always tend to side with the underdog. I find it grotesque the way BRAVO likes to have these girls all gang up on one of the castmate and then it seems like the whole season is spent on hating that castmate like Teresa, Nene, and Lisa. I used to think that Tamera was funny but now I just find her to be a hateful hideous person. Her comments toward Alexis were terrible and I can’t help but to think that Tamera is always searching for just a little more screen time, so since she has “made up” with Gretchen, her vile attitude must go somewhere else so she has someone to talk about. She is a terrible example of a mother. Quite honestly they all would be wise to listen to that clip of Tami Roman speaking to Wendy Williams. They have a great forum to show how woman can really be great to other women and encourage and be uplifting..and SHOW how you can make it as a single mom. Instead they just personify bullying…and then we wonder why young kids are bullying.
Alexis is wrong for allowing people to call her J—s Barbie. She will always suffer when she accepts that title!
NO ONE, male or female should ever name their child, call themselves, or allow themselves to be called The Name Of J—s!
That is why Alexis and anyone else who calls themselves by His Name, or allows themselves to be called His Name will always suffer!
That is sacrilegious!
There Was, Is, and Always will be Only One Jesus, and that is Jesus Christ, Who Died For Our Sins and Rose Again on the Third Day, and if we confess Jesus Christ As Our Lord And Personal Saviour, we will all be Saved and given Eternal Life in Heaven, there is only One Jesus, and His Name is Jesus Christ, The Son Of The Almighty Living God!
wow, really??
Honey, you better not come to Miami because evfery other guy is named Jesus. Pronounced Hay-zeuss. So get your facts straight. What about Mary and Joseph, would that be o.k.? Why am I arguing with a crazy person.
Shut up, you know it.
The RHOC are my least favorite of the series, I very rarely watch them. Unfortunately, I did see this episode and was reminded of why I don’t watch the series. Alexis was never my fave, but they all treated her pretty badly. Gretchen was the worst. Alexis was very aggressive in her support of Gretch in the past and now Gretch can’t return the favor? Gretch is so disloyal! Slade better not decide to pursue a career of his own; Gretch will throw him out the second he stops being her lapdog.
Who is Heather the Dubrow to talk about being phony? Which is worse, Alexis bragging or Heather the Dubrow constantly reminding us about some show she was on years ago that nobody remembers? Maybe somebody should tell her if you have to tell people you were “a star” maybe you actually weren’t.
Tamara well she’s Tamara. I can’t think why she thinks she has any room to talk. Starting a wine club might make Tam feel superior but putting her friend’s bf’s hand on her breast definitely reminds us all
that Tam is just a few $$’s away from the trailer park.
Then there’s Vicki who used to be fun and now not so much. I wonder if those nasty comments are things she learned reading Brook’s affirmations. Maybe her “love tank” is not so full as she is constantly going after those around her who are in seemingly happy relationships, i.e.Brianna, Alexis, Gretch. Gee, that con man of hers better fill that tank before her head explodes.
All of these ladies are phony. They should all just accept that and have fun in Costa Rica, Mexico… haha
I felt everyone had valid points, but the way they went about it was a bit much. The whole thing about wearing a fake ring makes NO sense to me. Why not wear a small one, instead of a fake one that looks real?! I agree with Heather, no one is going to ask if it’s real before they rob you. If it looks real, you could still be a target. Yes, they would be taking something of no value but that doesn’t mean they won’t try to take it. She sets herself up for a lot of these things but constantly pointing out what she has, wears & so on. Regardless of her intentions, it’s not necessary!
I am going to chime in on this one, cause it was just flat out wrong. I don’t care what anyone says but when u investigate someone life in such detail you are jealous to some degree. Tamara, u can sit bk and say u don’t like her, but leave the BS out of it is making u look bad. Let’s b honest all these ladies have certain qualities about them we don’t like. But does that give us a right to judge them.
Gretchen was talking to Alexis the same condescending way she spoke to lynn
All of these women have daughters. What exactly are they teaching them? When my daughter was around 10 and had girlfriend issues I’d remind her that you might not like everything about your best friends, as they might not like everything about you. If the good out weighs the bad..deal with it. Accept them for who they are!! Something I wish these women can apply to their own lives. Still having a hard time wrapping my brain around grown women behaving this way..who does this??
Right on…can you imagine acting like these women? You’d get punched in the head!
I think they are picking on a very nice girl for no reason other than jealousy. Heather brags just as much if not more. She does not go out of her way to hurt people like the others, and quite frankly I am shocked that Terry got on board the let’s knock Alexis down a peg or two train. I thought he was too nice for that. Who cares what kind of ring she wears. Grow up!
I tweeted that interventions should only come from a place of love by loved ones not by sanctimonious haters. Heather Dubrow replied with this statement:
@Cajsa I agree with you. I didn’t use the word, incidentally. I intended to speak to her privately.She brought it up at dinner.
This makes her a pretty bald-faced liar as we could see her on the show that very night saying “I think it will be good for her it her if we do it in a very controlled, appropriate intervention sort of way”
And of course, if she didn’t think it was appropriate or proper, why is she continuing to retweet and applaud every mean tweet about Alexis and produce dozens of negative tweets of her own. Someone should take twitter away from her because her facade of calm and reasonableness completely disappears when she’s tweeting.
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I like Alexis. The other cast members are making fools of themselves when they are berating her. Maybe it’s hard for them to accept the fact that Alexis is better looking.
I am not so sure Alexis didn’t deserve some of that happened.
Alexis opened the door with Heather I’m relation to the White Elephant, Terry saying Lexis was fake. But instead of the ladies talking about there perspectives we had an absolutely nonsensical argument.
I think the conversation could have worked with a normal arbiter. Although, Tamra was way too harsh in her assessment. This was Heather’s issue not Tamra’s.
In relation to the white elephant
Ladies talking of their perspectives
I don’t like Alexis, but the way the ganged up on her while they were on vacation was inappropriate and mean. The issues they had with her could have been discussed differently and not when they were all going to be hanging out together for a few days.
What irritates me about Alexis the skank is she talks about wealth yet she gets defensive when asked standard questions about the (fake)”wealth” she flaunts. WTF are you doing on the show???
Alexis reminds me of Wig Kim when she was parading around with her lesbian girlfriend, yet, got defensive when the other women asked standard questions about their dating situation. I can’t stand that f’n skank and I can’t wait for BRAVO to give her the boot. Maybe slimeball jimbo will stop complaining.WTF, why be on the show?!
One last thing. Enough with the fact these or any other woman is jealous of Alexis. Don’t justify, unless it’s a reflection of yourself encouraging Alexis behavior.
She looks like a tranny, cheap extensions, name after a porn star, fake jewelry, renting their “dream house,” IQ of a single digit, insecure, fraudulent husband, money hungry whore, cheated on her 1st husband, fake lips breast butt , should I continue…Everyone must be jealous of these qualities.
Lookin’ like a cheap hooker.
I forgot we must be jealous of the fact her best friend dated her Slimeball Jim and they did not want to tell her. Everyone must be sooo jealous.
I LOVE IT!!!!
What show are you bloggers watching? Alexis did the same thing to Peggy last season that she was trying to do to Heather. She is not a nice person and had no problem making Peggy feel bad. Gretchen was trying to be a friend to Alexis. The real problem is she is controlled by her husband and as long as she has an audience she’s good to stir the pot. I think she is getting some of what she gave last season. What was up with the birthday speech???? all about her did you see the look on everyone’s face? priceless