Jacqueline Questions Whether She Ever Really Knew Teresa

Just like all of her blogs, RHONJ star Jacqueline Laurita dedicated it to none other then Teresa Giudice! Jacqueline questions whether she ever really knew who Teresa plus says Teresa bashed her family to Jacqueline.

“I know sometimes that some of you wonder why my blogs seem to center around Teresa. I think it’s pretty obvious that most of our episodes do, in fact, center around Teresa. Maybe that’s why. LOL! So here I go again…??It’s no secret that I had a meltdown at the end this season, which was finished filming the night before the Season 3 reunion.

What I am trying to give you are my honest thoughts about what was going on in my mind through the series of events throughout the season that lead to that. What isn’t revealed during the season may be revealed in our reunion show. I will say that there is no one episode that led to my meltdown. It was a series of events, pressures, and circumstances that just happened to come to a head right before the reunion. I was overwhelmed by many things. Petty things just didn’t seem very important to me, and I was growing tired of having to constantly be brought into these repetitive conversations that I was having with Teresa.

What you need to understand is that I care for my friends very deeply, and when I see them hurting, I want to help them to get in a better place. Up until this point, I listened to and watched Teresa say and do things to her family that were hard for me to respect. Things I won’t get into right now. Although I was just getting to know Teresa’s family, they never bashed Teresa to me the way Teresa would bash them to me. Her family only mentioned their concerns or said how they were trying to blow off certain behaviors of hers to keep the peace. I watched them at times trying to mend things with Teresa, but Teresa was never sincerely giving them an honest effort to resolve their differences. She was holding onto a lot of resentment towards her family and I would hear about it every morning and every evening. It consumed her so much that she became obsessed with talking about them and the conversations became redundant and mean spirited. ??Trying to help Teresa became overwhelming, because I was also dealing with my own family concerns. It became difficult hearing the same complaints and her irrational thoughts about her family over and over again, when she wasn’t willing to take any accountability for her own wrong doings or give an honest effort to fix things. CLEARLY her brother was and I respect him for that. He was man enough to want to go to therapy to mend things. He was man enough to be willing to accept some of the blame. He loves his sister and I could feel that. Teresa was more concerned about the way they would make her look than fixing the problem. She wanted to stay above them. ??Daily Teresa would put me in the middle of her issues, whether it was to complain, gossip, ask me for advice, or to tell me what I should be doing and saying to her family (if I was her “real” friend). Very rarely would Teresa actually listen to what I was going through. I had things going on in my own life that also needed my focus and attention. As a mother, I was hurting very badly and I needed a friend to lean on. It got harder and harder to respect Teresa and her pettiness. During all of this, I was hearing through mutual friends what Teresa really thought about me. I was getting confused on whether or not I really ever knew the real Teresa, and if I had at one point in time, I wondered if she would ever be real with me again.

I have been asked to be on the cover of magazines. I said no because they were articles that would have been negative about me and my daughter or about why I didn’t attend the reunion. I also turned down talk shows for the same reasons. I also shot a magazine cover with Teresa where we got paid pretty well. We controlled what went inside. If more than one person is on the cover, at least one of those people is controlling the article. I know how the magazines work. Teresa told me about her cover deals. She went and strategically posed for these covers. They asked her questions and she answered them, just like she said. They wrote the articles based on her interviews. Whatever she wanted quoted they put in quotes. When she wanted to say something sneaky and untraceable, they put it in the article as a “source.” The sun shines on everyone, not just Teresa. I know Teresa is under the assumption that everyone is jealous of her, but I can’t blame her, that is how all narcissists think. The reality is I’d choose my life and who I am as a person over her life and who she is any day.??The article with the dog seemed a little obvious that she had a lot to do with what was written inside. These were all things that Teresa complained to me about, so that is why it was so obvious to me. Teresa said, “This is business.” (“Business” = Money Earned) The article coincidently listed all the people she disliked the most. Just like she did with her book, she used her family and friends to make money doing her “business.” She didn’t want the viewers to like her family. It drove her crazy when they did. ??If I looked perplexed when Teresa told me about her “renewal of vows” cover to put to rest all of the rumors she started about herself in her previous covers, it’s because I was. She knew I was asked to do the same thing, and I was told it would be made into a big deal by the tabloids. I turned it down. It’s just not me. I’m a simple girl. However, I was surprised that Teresa waited until we were on camera to tell me that SHE was going to do it. I think she wanted to hurry up and do a cover before I changed my mind and out shined her or something. I think that is why she went so over the top with her renewal picture. Her cover would come out before mine because they wanted mine to come during Season 4. It was just bizarre to me and the whole concept was so fake. (Just like the prop dog idea in the last article.)

Teresa clearly knew what these articles were going to be about, because she told me about her “vow renewal” cover and what the topics were going to be in there which she said was clearing up all of the other rumors she put out there about herself. What did she think the “friends and family bullying” article would be about? I couldn’t figure out why she would want to do that. I will say it again, it’s one thing to put out articles about yourself, but when she would slip things in about her friends and family, that was crossing the line. I was thinking to myself, “I wish she would just tell them once and for all how she really felt instead of sending messages in magazines. Maybe then the healing could begin and she could let go of all of her resentment, forgive, and move forward.” Talk about passive aggressive!??I guess I would have respected her more if instead of disregarding these articles and pretending they didn’t exist, that she addressed her friends and family with some respect and apologized for the things printed and explain how they ended up in there. Why would she continue to do these covers knowing that they were mostly negative about her and her family? She allowed it.??Every other week I was reading new sob stories put out by Teresa that didn’t seem to mesh with her lifestyle. I never saw her struggling and afraid of being poor. Everything was FINE! Her lifestyle never really changed. It actually got more extravagant. I was so confused as to what was really going on with her. Did she need help and was hurting or not? I couldn’t tell, but when I read bad things about her, it would upset me. If you read those things about your best friend, wouldn’t you be compelled to ask her how she is doing or wonder why she hasn’t mentioned anything to you AT ALL about it? That is the kind of thing that me and my other best friends talk to each other about. Call me crazy, but I think anyone with a heart would be worried about their friend, if, in fact, they were a true friend.

Another thing that bothered me was during the reception; Teresa announced that her book made the best sellers list. As happy as I was for her, and I always supported her on all of her accomplishments, it kind of pissed me off that she would mention that to Caroline and the family knowing full well that it was a sensitive subject between them. I just found it insensitive and not necessary. She knew exactly what she was doing. ??I started seeing a different side to Teresa that I didn’t respect. She was doing and saying some pretty ugly things. I really wanted my friend back. I missed her. I needed her. I wanted the fun loving Teresa that wasn’t self-absorbed or consumed with “keeping up with the Gorgas” and trying to surpass them at all costs. I wanted her to understand how her words and actions were affecting the people and relationships in her life that should matter the most to her. I wanted her to learn how to view things from another person’s perspective. I wanted her to know that I would still love with all of her faults, but I just wanted her to be real with me.??I knew at this point she was pulling away from me more and more. I understood the things that she was saying behind my back and where it was coming from, so I was trying not to get mad at her for that, even though it did upset me. She didn’t understand that I was trying to help her. In her eyes, I was not supporting her (which was “agreeing” with her in her book). What she will never understand is that because I loved her, I was trying to help her make choices that would help her. It was never to hurt her. What kind of friend would I be if I agreed with her even if I thought she was in the wrong and encouraged her to hate her family because they all suck? That is her FAMILY! Did she really expect me to fight with them for her? That would not be right or fair. I wanted her to make peace with them for HER own peace. It would also bring peace to me and would have made filming more enjoyable. Instead every day was a struggle for all of us.

Next week’s episode was the turning point in my friendship with Teresa. It was something that I hurt over for a long time. While it may be entertaining for you, it is heartbreaking for me. Fortunately life goes on and I have plenty of things to focus on. I am in a good place now. Thank you all for your support always. I truly appreciate it.”

Here’s my thing. I have a best friend. Sometimes when I get upset with my family, I vent to my best friend about it. If me and my best friend get into an argument, she respects me enough not to go around telling everyone every last thing I’ve ever said to her just because we’re in an argument. That’s a true friend. Jacqueline questions Teresa but Teresa should question Jacqueline’s loyalty and Melissa better watch what she says around Jac since Jac is known for calling out people who have told her things in confidence! Jac believes Teresa isn’t a good friend but I think Jac is horrible friend. Do you agree with what Jacqueline had to say?!

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Category: Caroline Manzo, Jacqueline Laurita, Kathy Wakile, Melissa Gorga, RHONJ, Teresa Giudice

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  1. Isabella Patricia says:

    I barely read anything, but I will say that Jacko needs to SHUT UP! All she does is bitch and complain about every little thing Tre says! Jealousy is a horrible thing! Grow some confidence, and leave Tre the hell alone! SHUT UP, SHUT UP, SHUT UP!

    • Wise Owl says:

      “I barely ready anything”

      You need to shut up. You don’t even know what it says. Idiot.

      • Isabella Patricia says:

        You shut the hell up!!!!! She writes the same BS all the time. That’s why I said that so SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        • Tiffany says:

          Isabella i agree with you. I think Jacqueline is jealous cause Teresa is building an empire. Lets not forget that the Laurita’s have a huge lawsuit against them. Im sure Jaculine’s husband (Chris) wishes Jac’s was making some money, and not just mindlessly tweeting. You know she isnt getting paid for magizines coves like Teresa. I hope Bravo cleans house soon, and just gets some new women

          • Isabella Patricia says:

            I agree, Tiffany! Remember when Chris told Jacqueline that Teresa’s a hustler, and she works hard for her family to get what she wants? Did you see when Jacqueline looked down and said, ”yeah.” She looked disappointed and annoyed that her husband even said that. She had the look of FAILURE in her eyes! I actually felt bad for her, but then again, her face and reactions show nothing but jealousy and hate.

      • Tiffany says:

        Your aren’t very wise if you actually read Jacko rambling BS…Only a crazy person could make sense of that mess. Jac’s need to get a therapist, and a ghost writer.

      • U can't hide stupid says:

        Shame… One of the things I like about this site is that is generally void of name calling amongst the commenters. Isabella Patricia is a regular poster and I enjoy reading what she posts. While I’ve never seen you post before I’m sure you wouldn’t come to a site and speak like that on ur first visit. Or maybe you would.

        I think Roxy would support me pointing out that we respect others commenters and stay away from the name calling.

        . Just In case u didn’t know…

        • U can't hide stupid says:

          “you” meaning wise owl… Not you Tiffany. In case there was confusion.

        • Isabella Patricia says:

          Thanks for your kind words! =) Wise Owl comes here often to bash people who have their opinions about MeHo. She even made fun of Tre’s children, calling them brats, calling people stupid left and right, she makes fun of Roxy, tries to say good things only about MeHo. I think she is one of the Marco Sisters… Maybe even MeHo herself, or could be Jacqueline. Who knows?

          I never even noticed STUPID OWL until she left that comment to me, so I looked her up, and it sucks how she only speaks vile to everyone that is Pro Tre.

      • Vintagehippie says:

        The only one that reads her blogs is her psycho mother. She’s probably her “ghost writer” lol

      • AnnE says:

        ~ This is an “only Teresa” site … they will never see her faults & – like Teresa – they always blame someone else.
        ~ I used to like Teresa, too … NOT anymore!

        • rukidding? says:

          just like melissa, jac and caro blame teresa for everything, right? the hypocrisy in that group is disgusting. i used to like jac but not anymore. she is showing her true colors.

        • Cara says:

          AnnE, I used to enjoy Caroline and Jacqueline in previous seasons. But the hypocrisy, bitterness, backstabbing, jealousy, and hatred they have shown both on camera and off in the past two seasons have made me change my mind. I do not think Teresa is without faults. But I also do not think any of the poor treatment toward her that started in S3 ep1 is warranted.

  2. Lysel says:

    Honestly I think Jac thinks she’s a good friend. I don’t think that she is. I don’t think she wanted to hear all that Teresa had to say about her family (and I’m sure Teresa did say a lot about her family, but then again she was hurting and venting to a friend is normal) She should have told Teresa that she was dealing with her own problems and could not be the shoulder Teresa needed right then. Instead she betrayed her time and again by sticking her nose in Teresa’s business by intimately befriending Melissa and Kathy and discussing Teresa with them and with Caroline who she KNEW had a problem with Teresa.

    I feel sorry for her because she was used time and time again by Melissa and Caroline and doesn’t seem to understand that the things she did would constitute betrayal in a friend’s eyes.

    Her constant verbal outpouring on Twitter did not help her case she kept all she was feeling public. Has she not heard of a journal (if she really needed to vent.

    Jac is immature but we all know that and see it repeated in her daughter and see where she got it from in her mother’s actions. She’s a product of her environment. Caroline is her sister-in-law. She can’t help it…but it’s going to bite her in the bum.

    • Andrea from Alabama says:

      I agree with you. She was a pawn in Caroline’s game and she’s too dumb or in debt to Caroline to realize it. Im gonna say something that my grandma used to say about all this talking behind people’s backs: ‘a dog that will bring a bone will take a bone.’ I say that to say this, if teresa is talking with
      Mutual friends behind your back, there is no way she can have those conversations alone and it get back to you. The person that’s telling you what Teresa is saying is always conviently leaving out what they’re saying. As a 40+ year old woman, Jacqueline should know that by now. She is jealous of Teresa and if she’s in a better place than I lost the extra 25 pounds this morning just sitting in the suna. That whole blog was a load of BS by an idiot that’s too stuck on stupid to do anything about it.

      • pinkie says:

        Andrea you hit the nail on the head. She should know better. I read every word of this blog, and it is ridiculous. If she is in a better place, why is spewing hate everytime she types. That escort was afraid to show her ass on the reunion.

        She doesn’t really make sense, and she isn’t a good friend, never was. I do think she was funny and I liked Jac, but this last year has shown me a side of her I do not like and cannot watch. This is the ONE and ONLY time I read her whole blog, and I will not make that mistake again. As I expected, it was delusional and obsessive. Why waste time on a show that causes this kind of aggravation?

        Tre’s brother WAS a great guy, before he and his ex stripper wife wanted some of Tre’s pie. He’s an asshole now, and if he is such a sympathetic brother,, why hasn’t he gotten on the phone to tell Tre, I love you. Period, no conditions, no camera, no spouses. Those three words between brother and sister can heal many wounds. I would not want my brother married to her, just from what I’ve seen and in fact that is all I want to see. What a trashy person, and cousin Kathy is a crap stirrer who is married to a jerk.

        If Andy screws this reunion again, Im done with this franchise. Someone needs to spit in his cocktail glass.

        • Andrea from Alabama says:

          I don’t believe Joe Gorga was ever even a decent guy, after all this is the person who is accused of a gang rape, and the person who stand by him, he’s gives them his ass to kiss. Thanks, but no thanks, he has gotten 5 minutes of “fame” and now he thinks he’s somebody, can we say NOT. As far as stupid Jacqueline is concerned I’m convinced something set on the road to a civil commitment so fast. There is something that she is dead set against Teresa revealing, that’s why she’s trying to take Teresa’s credibility away with the public. Bravo is saying that there was a big “reveal about Melissa,” but call me crazy there is actually going to be more of a reveal about Jacqueline and/or Caroline. I believe in being fair, this, that, the other, but there’s is no freaking way Jacqueline went from being “super save a hoe ” where Teresa was concerned to “fuck that bitch” all with the spand of a few weeks, because Teresa wouldn’t move forward with her own family. Heeeell to nawl, I dont believe that so she should stop trying to sell us on it. The more she tries to discredit Teresa, the more discredit herself.

  3. SA says:

    does anyone really care what this stripper has to say? go back to Vegas trick-a-tramp!! Jac just bullies children and acts like a fake friend so who gives a crap what her twisted little mind thinks?! Peace out holla-for-a-dolla!!

  4. Terry says:

    I question Jacs Sanity!!! That woman is what we (Latinas) call “Metiches” It’s not your problem to solve or judge. How can she put Joe Gorga on a pedestal?! He called his Sister GARBAGE in front of his own Niece! And whatever any of these women say it is soooo obvious they are jealous since it IS the Real Housewives of Teresa (there is no keeping up with the “Gorgas” Teresa doesnt have all of her properties up for sale)

    • Andrea from Alabama says:

      You are right. And that dig about keeping with the Gorgas is she kidding. Isn’t Teresa really a Gorga anyway?And why she’s concerned about making Teresa face her feelings about her family, doesn’t she have her own clan o bat shit crazy weirdos to Br addressing, I.e. Her mother and daughter.

      • pinkie says:

        yeah she does, and she is spewing crap about her SIL Dina. I would love to see her face to face with Dina.

        And let’s talk about ChuckieDoll, she slammed her sister Dina on national TV, what kind of sister does that? The kind that only talks to a few of her siblings. What a crusty old boiled Owl.

        Yeah Jac, you sure do have other things to keep yourself busy, but like a flipping idiot you are talking about Teresa instead of taking care of YOUR business.

        • JanShe says:

          LMAO, at crusty old boiled Owl.

        • Andrea from Alabama says:

          Face to face with Dina Manzo, that could be dangerous. Jacqueline’s bleeping weave would be pulled out and there would be no need for her to go blow up her lips for weeks because her SIL would do it with those two blind boys she calls fists. I told y’all Dina has that bitches bitch swagger that I love about her. Remember when Dina told Danielle in season one, during the table flip, that she’d known Teresa all those years and had never seen her go crazy like that? Well what she forgot to mention is that Teresa never snapped because Dina was always beating her to the punch. Those two are wild ones, with solid left hooks.

        • U can't hide stupid says:

          Pinkie, ITA. I gotta ask, why did u say “boiled owl” in reference to Jac. I’m asking cos someone w the name wise owl commented to isabella Patricia calling her an idiot. And the reaction seemed so over the top I wondered if it was Jac, so that’s why I’m asking,

          • JanShe says:

            The reason I laughed at the “boiled owl” comment was because I think it is Caroline.

            I do not know if Pinkie shares that sentiment.

  5. stay says:

    How about when Jaqueline and Caroline posed for Melissa’s birthday and reality tea had the pics!!!!Please that wasnt to hurt Theresa.

  6. justme says:

    Jac, stop concentrating on yourself and think about what Teresa is going thru. She is paying off a bankruptcy by herself. You filed bankruptcy and will let the system pay it off. She has a family to support and needs to make all the money she can, while she can. After all, her husband might “go away” and not be able to support his family. Stop thinking about yourself and put yourself in Teresa’s shoes for a day.

    • old NJ girl says:

      Her bankruptcy was not discharged. She and Chris are being charged with multiple counts of fraud and diverted money. Charges are MUCH worse that any charges that Teresa and Juicy were facing.

      • Jennifer says:

        It is a corporate bankruptcy and you are right it is just getting started. Also the debt holders are trying to ” pierce the corporate veil” to say the entity status should be extinguished and Chris, his brother and Jac should be personally liable. No discharge as of yet.

      • pinkie says:

        why don’t we hear more about that Old NJ girl? I wish I knew more about that set of circumstances?

        • Andrea from Alabama says:

          Pinkie, keep waiting and we’ll hear about it. Of course, your girl Jacqueline is going to swear that Teresa leaked the story. LOL. While she’s worried about Teresa’s house (Teresa’s family, Teresa’s finances, Teresa’s kids and husband, Teresa’s lifestyle), her damn house is burning to the damn ground. She made a comment that had me ready to return my tv, because I knew there was a disfunction with it. That stupid bitch said, that she and Chris were broke, but they didn’t sell that story to magazines because that’s not her style. Ain’t this the same bitch that is selling her entire life to Bravo? No bitch, you’re not giving up those magazine interviews because they don’t want them (like Teresa said). Do you honestly think that a magazine would’ve paid for Jacqueline’s vow renewal.; I mean who actually believes that Chris would show up again? Jacqueline is busy digging a ditch for Teresa, but dumb ass is about to fall in it

  7. SGee says:

    I have a question:
    Jac and Teresa had been friends for many years right? Had Melissa never been around them previous to her joining the show? If that’s the case then were Melissa and Teresa ever close? I would think that there had to be a point at a party or family gathering that Jac would have been around Teresa and Melissa. Or if this had been going on for some time that Teresa would have confided this to Jac and she would be more sympathetic towards the situation.

    • Shayna says:

      I was thinking the same thing, I doubt they just met because of her joining the show.

      • reddvette says:

        Jacq was around melissa because the gorga’s were present for everything teresa did. They just were never friends. Like caroline and the wakiles, she knew they were brownstone customers but never spoke to them.

    • Ferra says:

      They were at her party on season 2, from wat I remember, Teresa made a speech & called him up next 2 her. Am I right???

  8. JK says:

    I agree with some, few, points she makes…but in the case of what the Gorgas did…I would have my BFFs back if she decided to run them over with a truck. Just sayin’

  9. DJ says:

    Jac drank the Manzo Kool-Aid. I talk to my friends about my family, but they NEVER go back and tell them! Jac never a friend. She is so 2-faced. I hope Bravo does not review her contract!!!

    • Andrea from Alabama says:

      She did break the friendship code. Can you imagine if Teresa talked about Chris laurita not living Jacqueline, or Ashlee being a bag of shit, or if Gia was mean tweeting Jacqueline the way Ashlee is doing to Teresa. All hell would break loose. Teresa should count her lucky stars that this crazy bitch is out of her life, and she should never let her back in. Jacqueline owes Teresa, and her family, a huge apology.

  10. Fernfieldflower says:

    I just can’t with her anymore! Mel says it isn’t the Teresa show then jac says her blog revolves around Teresa because Teresa is the focus of the show. Jac is worth than any enemy I could imagine. This show is trying to destroy a woman who is trying to help and support her family it’s a disgrace I so admire how Teresa holds her head high and goes about her life ignoring the mean girls hate club. It’s like the burn book come to life (my daughter loved that movie) I just can’t imagine the horror show we are going to see on the reunion. You can bet they are going to do there best to tag team Teresa to provoke her I hope they don’t succeed. She is so much better than them and works so hard to build her business they will do whatever to destroy her I hope it backfires.

    • Amy says:

      Thats exactly what I thought when i read that.First Melissa says it’s not the Teresa show now Jac is saying it is so which one is it?

    • jen says:

      LARGE MARGE, JAC-ASS and the 2 GORHO’s are complete idiots!!! They want to whine everything is about T its not her show, then stop F*cking talking about her!!! BRAVO threw LARGE MARGE a bone, they taped her brothers wedding so LARGE MARGE would ahve a positive story and what did the moron do??? You guessed talked about T the whole time!!! T was very excited about the epsiode when LARGE MARGE was rehersing her speech T sat there and listened even metioned that it was sweat and made her cry, T was excited over the house saying how beautiful it was, she was truely happy and excited to be there. What did LARGE MARGE & JAC-ASS do the whole time? They were growling and foaming out the mouth at T. THEY MAKE THIS SHOW THE TERESA SHOW!!!

      • pinkie says:

        Those wacky broads MADE this the Teresa Show. Period, Whore agreed to make it all about Tre. Jac and Chuckie allowed their lack of control to make Tre the star.

        • U can't hide stupid says:

          Thank you, pinkie. They gave enough sound bites (damn near monologues) to Bravo. If Jac or melissa want to complain to anyone they should complain to bravo. Listening to them u would think teresa controlled everything, damn, she is one powerful woman. Maybe we should see if she can make it rain, haha

        • Andrea from Alabama says:

          Teresa needs to be like this girls on bad girls club. Just sit there and laugh in Caroline’s face, and flaught her relationship with Dina, and ask when was the last time they spoke, engage Kathy for a few sentences and then pretend that she’s not there, threaten to kick Miss Horsey Face in the flat screen she calls a forehead, and make jokes about Jacqueline and Xanax, alcohol, Lexapro, Prozac, and other anti depressants, and throw in a few jabs about her mentally unstabled mother and daughter. Then say things like: welcome back to the Teresa show, when they say that it’s not the Teresa show should say: “Name three things you guys were involved in that didn’t involve me!” and only address them as Wacko Jacko, Chuckie, Lookers, and Frog Face. That’ll have all four their panties in a total bunch.

  11. Helen Wheels says:

    Roxy,

    You took the thoughts right out of my head. You said it. We vent to our friends and loved ones. That doesn’t mean we so much as want their advice as we do someone to listen. If Jacqueline didn’t like what she was hearing or just plain didn’t want to hear it anymore she should have just told Teresa that or not made herself available for listening. She calls on the phone and you don’t want to hear it, get off the phone. Jax has two young children at home. How hard would it have been to say, I’m busy with the kids, I can’t talk now. If that kept happening, eventually, Teresa would have found someone else to talk to. And that, boys and girls, is what Jax DIDN’t want. She lives for the drama just as Ashley said. She is jealous and scared because she knows we now know who SHE is. She is meddling, jealous and two-faced and we now all know it. The cat’s out of the bag and Jax knows it. She has been exposed and her clumsy attempts at damage-control are making it worse. I could feel sorry for Chris Laurita if he hadn’t shown himself to be small and petty as well. What a woeful place his home must be these days. You really do reap what you sow.

    • Kate (not the ignorant, Tre-hating "kate") says:

      I agree Helen. I thought Roxy’s thoughts were right on point. Teresa has her faults as a friend but Jac doesn’t even have the right to claim past friendship status at this point; she’s the worst “friend” I’ve ever seen. I hope people start to mourn the loss of the Tre & Jac duo of earlier seasons and realize that Jac flipped the switch and there is NO going back now.

      I did think that this blog of Jac’s sounded less hysterical and psychotic than the last one. She’s trying soooo hard to get people onto her side and invested in her businesses, but it’s not working. Too bad, so sad.

    • donnalee says:

      Apparently Jac did alot of that during the second season with Danielle..when Danielle would call she would not answer the phone. Jac did finally tell Danielle that Chris did not want her hanging with her anymore. Seems funny that Chris did not tell her to do the same with Tre well atleast not yet anyway. Jac never seemed to want to talk about Ashley to anyone..as her daugher always said Jac was more into having her nose in everyone else’s business.

      Along with everyone else, I have gotten plenty of *Jacqueline* advice from my BFF’s and still do to this day! *LOL* They do know that I always listen to what they say and apply when needed but they know I almost never do EXACTLY what I am told. They don’t act like Jaqueline. AND, I don’t either. I give my thoughts and if they don’t listen, I am still there for them no matter what.

      I believe that Jacqueline’s real problem is that she knew she was *supposed* to be a friend to Teresa for Bravo and a SIL to Caroline for Bravo and get along with Tre’s family for Bravo. It became too much. She surely knows that everything that went down was not just all Teresa. Everyone on that show is about equal in the blame department including Andy and Bravo. Jacqueline knows she has made a mistake..lost a friend…and wants everyone to believe that she has moved on but she has not..clearly!

  12. cammierari says:

    For about a split second I saw jac’s point about wanting filming to be easier for all of them. Then I stopped to remember that every single talking head of Jac’s, Caroline’s, Kathy’s and Melissa’s BASHED Teresa. Jac, you think Teresa should have discussed the things that were bothering HER privately with her family? Maybe Jacqueline you should have sat down with your best friend Teresa and had a nice chat with her instead of calling her out on television.
    Apparently Jacqueline is pissed that she didn’t have Teresa to moan and groan to about her problems anymore because Teresa had a few of her own. Tit for tat Jac-you had been leaning on Tre while you went thru your troubles with Ashley, now it was YOUR turn to be there for Teresa-too bad you’re too selfish to do that.
    It just shocks me that Teresa’s “friends” and family believe the TABLOID articles instead of Teresa herself. Do any of them know what the phrase “it’s just business” means?? NONE of those tabloid articles were ever favorable to Joe Giudice yet he and Teresa are still together and going strong. If HE knows those articles are all bullshit, shouldn’t the rest of the cast? Cuz we all know that the rest of the cast think Juicy is dumb and they’re much smarter…right?
    If my best friend was going thru as much crap as Teresa is, I would be there for her no matter what. Jac’s issue is that she thinks Teresa is lying and causing her own problems. As Teresa’s best friend, she should have told her that to her face, instead of implying it all over the internet. She’s hoping to get the word out so other people will call out Tre and Jac can still look “supportive”. SNEAKY. And a huge miscalculation on Jac’s part. Bu-bye Jac. Time to get a real job

  13. Someone Who Is Watching says:

    Jaquline,
    I am Quoting you on this:
    “That is her FAMILY! Did she really expect me to fight with them for her?”

    Now you listen up!

    She surely didn’t expect you to repeat things told in confidence nor for you to constantly bash her behind her back either.

    The door swings both ways Jaqueline and you cannot see that!

    • FIERY SICILIAN says:

      And it just hit her in the a$$ as she walked right out of Teresa’s life, Good riddance to smelly trash!!! She has some nerve forget about what alcohol will do to your liver, it has scarred her mind. Man if this is how someone sounds when they are in a “good place” she has a really low threshold/value for what “good” is.

    • angela says:

      also jac wouldn’t fight teresas family for teresa but she sure is going full swing for the whorgas…interesting.

      • Indigo says:

        Exactly! Teresa was SUCH a good friend she wouldn’t fight Teresa’s family (sarcasm) but she’ll fight Teresa for Melissa and Joe?

  14. Jenni says:

    I actually feel bad for her. She does vent publicly. But she’s bashed as well. She makes a good point. We see roughly 40 minutes of everything that’s going on. 40 minutes that are edited. I feel for all of them. Caroline, Jacqueline and teresa and her family. While Teresa may play herself off as classy and above it all, her comments are snarky and her blogs are obviously written as damage control by Team Teresa.
    I think what makes me saddest about this show is that they all really were friends and are family. They’re judged more harshly for their missteps, but think about it. We all say or do things we wish we could take back or need to apologize for. But we aren’t filmed.
    Jac is trying to defend herself and while she is wordy, she’s trying to tell us how she was feeling at the time. And including background. Teresa already says they’re “divorced”. What does it matter? Everything she’s saying in this blog about T is simply the other side of the coin T sold to tabloids.

    • Jennifer says:

      Jenni,

      The divorced statement was the one Bethenny used with Jill Zarin,where sometimes the ending of a friendship is so painful it is like a divorce.

      Personally, I do not see Jac’s side. I think she is jealous of Teresa which she has explained on DIrect Measage to numerous people. She hates that Teresa has garnered so much success. I think Jac’s feelings are fraudulent. IMO.

      • Matilda Brown says:

        Jac turns on everyone. She took Danielle’s side over her own SIL Dina, then took Caroline’s side over Danielle, now she is taking Melissa’s side over Teresa. Plus all the Kim G stuff she was involved in, and having Tom Murro put out that picture of Juicy with another woman at TGIF. Yeah, she’s friend of the fucking year.

        • jen says:

          Don’t forget about Ashlee. She let the Manzo clan rip her to shreds every chance they got. IMO i think LAren and C were jealous of Ashlee because she is not over weight.

        • Andrea from Alabama says:

          I agree Jennifer, although Jenni has a valid point that they’re all wrong to some degree, I can’t see Jacqueline side, because all the things that she accuses Teresa of doing are the very things she does with her blogs. She claims that Teresa should just forgive, forget and move forward, well should she. I understand that she’s reliving it, but tell me, where is the harm in saying, the wedding was good, we had fun on the trip, and I was upset that Teresa mentioned the book in front of Caroline. Did she even mention the wedding in her blog? Jacqueline is someone that is very concerned about public opinion, and on upping Teresa. Instead of her saying I’m pissed and I want my friend back, shes giving a bleeping dissertation on she’s in a better place with not having Teresa physically in her life but there emotionally and spiritually. Let her go, let the situation go, and most importantly, let go of the alcohol, once and for all. The end of their friendship was a road that ran both north and south- Jacqueline was on the wrong side of the road, as was Teresa. Teresa has apologized. But when she did they made a big thing about her getting paid when she apologized in a magazine- here’s a hint, if she apologies at the reunion, she’s getting paid there also, so once again let it go.

    • RahRah says:

      I do not feel bad for her because she could just shut her face. Just because she said it it still doesn’t mean she is right, that is her opinion and her opinion only. It doesn’t pass the smell test for me. Someone needs to tell Jac to get a life before they have to cart her off to the crazy house.

    • Indigo says:

      She said she’s divorced because it was Jac that did the divorcing a few weeks ago on Twitter. If Jac is so over her friend, she should stop making her the center of her world

  15. Boxie says:

    Teresa is the one who has lost it, Jac has tried to reason with her but Teresa only wants to hear what she wants to hear!!

    • Lauren T says:

      You must be watching a different show. Or be a terrible friend/family member if you think any Jac says or does is okay…I would NEVER repeat what my friends have said about their family , even if we are not friends anymore. Jac needs to get help and get on some medications cause clearly she isnt right in the head….Teresa shouldn’t go to therapy with her brother, Joe is only using her for a story line. This is the Teresa show. Its obviously in both Jac’s and Melissa’s blogs….They made it her show

      • renee83 says:

        Wow…That is a pretty harsh thing to say to someone just because they don’t agree with you. Isn’t it? I personally understand where Jacqueline is coming from. Say what you want, but Jacqueline was a awesome friend to Teresa. I’m starting to see a different side to Teresa that isn’t so pretty. And yes, I do understand that there are three sides to every story. But Teresa, She never takes any repsonsibility for her own action, which is very sad and dissappointing. Jacqueline didn’t go into to details about what Teresa said. Jacqueline just stated that Teresa bashed her family. And as a friend, why would you want to her your friend talk about their family in a negative. My best friend’s family is my family too. Friendship is a two ways street. Both parties should reap the benefits. #Just saying

        • Indigo says:

          But what responsibility has Jacqueline taken? Let’s not be hypocritical here. Jacqueline isn’t giving all the details – just enough so people want more. A good friend would have stayed out of it.

        • michers says:

          Renee, just as you think Jac was an awesome friend, Teresa was to her as well, if not better because she did not insert herself constantly in Jac’s family affairs. Not with Ashlee when everyone else was rude to her, not in between her and Dina, and Teresa still stayed a loyal friend to Jac, Caro and Dina when they all stopped to talking to each other. Jaime still invited Teresa to his wedding!

          • renee83 says:

            Jacqueline was helping Teresa. Jacqueline got tired because of what she heard come out of Teresa’s mouth and what She saw Teresa doing was totally opposite. But the bottom line is that Teresa doesn’t want to fix anything. If she did, her actions would prove so. Like in the last episode she said that she hasn’t done anything wrong. Everyone knows that, that is complete bs.There are definitely three sides to every story. I understand that old school Italians don’t believe in therapy but I would put tradition aside for my family.
            Jacqueline wanted Teresa to be there for her like Jacqueline was always there for Teresa. Jacqueline always listened to Teresa to point that it became overwhelming to her because she couldn’t get help that she had always given to Teresa. A friendship to me is a two way street both parties should be able to reap the benefits. By saying that, I mean that if I call you in the middle of the night I expect you to answer being my best friend and vice versa. I want a friend to tell me when I’m out of line. I don’t want someone who is just going to agree with everything I say. #just sayin

          • michers says:

            Renee I think we are going to keep disagreeing here , lol ! Jac has meddled way too much into a territory she didn’t belong. Teresa has never done anything horrific to Jac. Teresa did not want them to keep butting in, she does not have to take Jac’s advice- her word is not law. Jac has her own ruined relationship with her own sister in law that she should work on! They were friends for a decade. They never had issues until Teresa’s family joined the show. from what we see on the show, jealousy and spitefulness have taken over and ruined life long relationships. Teresa did her best to assist and be there for Jac when Ashlee became a hot mess, she supported her, within limits, like a normal respectful adult. Jac however, did not. She is a busybody who loves drama and stirring the pot way too much. Teresa owed her nothing but friendship and loyalty , and she was until Jac became too overwhelmingly involved and spiteful because of T’s fam and T’s business opportunities!

          • Happy day says:

            Also, Jac defends Joe Gorga’s horrible behavior…calling Tre Garbage, bad mouthing her each and every episode, telling her to F off, and Joe blew off with nor response an invitation to go to Gia’s birthday party in Februray because Bravo wasn’t filming then. Teresa did reach outwith this invitation, but Jacqueline ignores that, lies to twist the truth and praises Joe. Is that a friend looking at the situation objectively or a jealous friend that chooses to side with her friends adversary and reveal confidential friendship discussions? Jac is the opposite of a good friend.

    • donnalee says:

      Sometimes…when one is totally betrayed by another who they love..a person will only hear what they want to hear..so what? Would I hate and bash my good friend if they were so betrayed and would not take my advice. No, I would listen, be there..that’s what real friends do. Not the fake kind on Bravo TV.

  16. michers says:

    Really Jac? After being her friend for what , at least 10years, now you question it? You do not even know yourself to want to question others. Stop trying to reinforce it that you are your own person because you are so far away from being an individual its almost scary. Jac her family didn’t bash her to you because you still needed to be won over honey- clearly you are smarter than that!! T bashed them to yo because they were screwing with her before they even SNUCK onto the show! When the dust settled, all of you started bashing her together! You never were around her brother, her cousin, or her sis in law until they begged for their spots. Don’t you think there are reasons you weren’t ever around her family? Maybe because they are a holes? Buts its all good now because you all dissect the lady constantly. Grow up, please use your own brain, please fins something else to write and talk about. This is making you look crazy , for real.

  17. SCNoleGirl says:

    I couldn’t even stomach to read all of this jibber jabber!
    She really said that Tre’s family did not bash Tre, & that Tre bashed them constantly?! Does she not know that we have watched from the time they were brought onto the show them do nothing but dog Tre?! Seriously?! I just don’t have words! When you’re someone’s “friend” you listen to their issues. I’m sure Tre confided in her some things about them that we dont see on camera! I never even knew who they were until they were brought on the show! Jac has seriously lost her mind!

  18. Valerie says:

    Jac mentions that mutual friends of her and Teresa were telling her how Teresa really felt about her. I just wonder if those same friends were feeding Teresa what Jacc was saying about her, cause you know very damn well she would discuss Teresa to other people. I also am seeing how Jac “tries” to help but it just comes of as instigating like the Solstice Party. I still have a problem with how she reacted.

  19. Jada says:

    I think Jac is a good friend and she has the best intentions and sometimes her words get turned around!!! I feel sorry for Tre now she is shining now but for how long???? We only see a small piece of their lives so really all we can do is assume!! All of them knew what they were signing on for and thats what they wanted!!!! It is all for entertainment purposes!!! Everyone have a blessed day! LOVE LOVE LOVE

    • old NJ girl says:

      Since filming of the show ended at the end of September or the beginning of October Teresa has been “shining” with CA, QVC, her latest book on the NY Times best seller list, her new make up line, multiple book signings, appearances on prime time shows. Let see what Jac and Caro have been up to: a few BLK water signings with the rest of the clan and bashing Teresa on twitter.
      Keep on “shining” Teresa!

    • JD says:

      “I feel sorry for Tre now she is shining now but for how long?” SHE KNOWS THAT AND THAT IS WHY SHE IS TAKING ADVANTAGE OF IT ALL….Anyone would do it. I think the reason Jac can’t do it is because it would bring too much attention to her, which means also her finances.

      • Helen Wheels says:

        JD,

        You make an excellent point! It would certainly explain why Chris didn’t want any more focus than is necessary on his personal doings. I am, of course, referring to Jax and Chris renewing their vows on camera. Every cent they would have spent on such a frivolity would no doubt find its way into court depositions. Chris was astute enough to realize that when you are being sued for fraud the last thing you want is for a spotlight to shine directly on you and ALL that you are doing – especially as it pertains to your money; where it came from and how it was spent. Obviously, Jax wanted that spotlight and she is livid that it will instead shine on Teresa. More positive attention for Teresa. Less for Jax. It has obviously made Jax unravel.

  20. Andrea from Alabama says:

    I don’t think that he brother is trying to fix their relationship anymore than she is. I think that it’s important for all to remember is that they are teresa’s family and she knows them all very well. I have a theory about Jacqueline and why she really became upset with Teresa. I think that when she was telling Teresa not to go talk to daniellle she was upset that Teresa was ignoring her and was giving serious thought to going. I think that Jacqueline was afraid of what Danielle would reveal she said. I think that loose lips Jacq’s was telling Danielle things about teresa as well as things about Dina. Thinks like whatever it was that Caroline so upset at the filming of the reunion for season 1. I think that Jacq knew as soon as Teresa found out not only would she snap but she’d also tell Dina. I think that all this talk of Teresa having a ghost writer, Joe being homophobic, an them both being bad parents are just things to used as a smoke screen. For Jacqueline to call Teresa fake makes about much sense as the rest of her logic. It makes no sense. She is as fake as a three dollar bill. Jacqueline not only read the blogs but also every single comment, and that’s why she bores us all with her 10 page bullshit blogs. She thinks that’s she’s explaining, but to me she’s leaving proof of why she should be committed to the half way house.

    • Matilda Brown says:

      Plus I think Jacs is having a hard time distinguishing reality from the “Reality Show”. Teresa said those covers and articles were just business. Jac should have taken her friend at her word and not paid attention to those stories. She seems to not be able to keep fact from fiction and she began believing the tabloids instead of trusting in her friend. So sad that she let a 10 year friendship fall apart over a TV show.

      • Andrea from Alabama says:

        I don’t think that Teresa is so self absorb with herself that she’s u able to read the body language of those around her. I think that for all the BS that she sprouts about getting to know the ‘real’ Teresa, it was likely the other way around. I dont that the friendship ending is as much Jacqueline’s desire as it was outside sources and factors, in fact I think that she would give her eye teeth for Teresa to be friends with her again. There is no doubt she took an exit from reality akng time ago. And a side note: what’s with all those damn question marks for statements in her blog? This bitch is ignorant. She needs the damn ghost writer.

    • RahRah says:

      yeah because her blogs are getting crazier and crazier too. I call it the Teresa Obsession.

  21. JD says:

    Jac said she has been asked to do MANY covers. A vow renewal, WOW, she basically mean that Teresa stole ALL of her ideas. She is also saying that the Giudice are keeping up with the Gorgas which i don’t believe, Teresa is older than her brother and was married before them, i think she had money before her brother.

    • cammierari says:

      I don’t understand her being mad at Teresa for doing the vow renewal that JAC turned down. Obviously Bravo wanted a member of the cast to do it-they asked Jac and she said no. Why be pissed that Tre said yes?
      And P.S. Jac-Teresa waited til she was on camera to tell you because that is when YOU ASKED her about her covers. I’m sure she knew that you had been asked first, but CHRIS vetoed it. I bet Teresa knew that Jac wanted to do it. Being a good friend, she didn’t grab the phone and call Jac and make her feel bad that Teresa was getting to do something that Jac wanted for herself. That’s called being a FRIEND. Tre knew Jac would eventually see it, and Jac knew someone else would be renewing their vows. I wonder if she would have been so mad if it was Caroline who said yes instead of Teresa?

      • Calzoned says:

        I don’t know why Jac would be upset that Teresa accepted an offer that she (Jacqueline) PASSED UP! She didn’t want it ‘cos she’s “simple” — in more ways than one. So, if she doesn’t want to do something, her friends shouldn’t do it, either? Is that how things work in Jac’s World? She’s beyond irrational.

        • JD says:

          Teresa said that The Manzos and Lauritas don’t get covers because they take the high road or don’t want drama, they can’t get a cover, because they NEVER asked them to.

          • cammierari says:

            if what I’ve been watching on my tv for the past two seasons is the Manzos and Lauritas taking the high road, GOD HELP US ALL when they decide to hit below the belt

      • RahRah says:

        Especially since it was her choice but why would she knock Teresa for doing it. Teresa needs the money and if that is what she wants to do that is her business.

    • donnalee says:

      Jacqueline did not reread what she wrote..at first she says SHE turned down the renewal idea..so I guess Teresa figured she would do it then..big deal? NOW Jacqueline is trying to say Teresa took it from her?? Which is it???

      • Calzoned says:

        donnalee, months ago, Bonnie and Jac were on a Twitter rampage about Teresa selling stories to the tabs and taking opportunities away from Jacqueline. If they’re mad about T doing the vow renewal, they’re bigger idiots than I’ve always thought they were. As a mom, though, maybe Bonnie was disappointed that she couldn’t attend one of Jac’s weddings in which the bride wasn’t preggers? ;/ Teresa ruins everything, doesn’t she?

        • Kate (not the ignorant, Tre-hating "kate") says:

          “As a mom, though, maybe Bonnie was disappointed that she couldn’t attend one of Jac’s weddings in which the bride wasn’t preggers?”
          Ahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!

        • jen says:

          Maybe if T took all these “opportunities” way from J so fast and easy they were never for her or are we suppose to believe T has the power to control producers,publishers,and the President to rule in her favor?

    • RahRah says:

      That was funny!!

  22. holy cannoli says:

    ” I am in a good place now”

    LOL. No you aren’t you whack! Get help Jacqueline you are obsessed!!

    • Isabella Patricia says:

      Your name Holy Cannoli makes me want some cannolis! Omg, I am craving it now! Lol

      • Helen Wheels says:

        Isabella,

        I thought it was just me. I’ve actually had to eat a calzone and a cannoli since first coming to this site (not EVERY time) just to satisfy the craving each name gave me the first time I read them.

        • Isabella Patricia says:

          Hahaha! Glad I’m not alone on this! I read about how someone ate doughnuts last time, and I started craving it like crazy! Once I got out of work, I went to Yum Yum Donuts and ordered a box of doughnuts. So bad, huh? =P Lol.

  23. Danille says:

    What kind of “mutual friends” tell their friends when others talk about them? Obviously, these “friends” aren’t truly Teresa’s friends if they try to create drama between her and Jacqueline.

    All of the issues that Jacqueline has with Teresa take place off camera. We never see Teresa going on and on about Joe or Melissa. In fact, she tries to avoid the subject. Are there two Teresas? One for TV and one for real life? If so, Teresa pulls that off extremely well, especially for someone who they all think is so dumb.

    Melissa, Joe and Richie are clearly pandering to the audience with their actions. And their acting isn’t even that good. I saw Teresa act on Celebrity Apprentice. There’s no way that she’s acting on RHONJ.

    So, anyway, Jacqueline needs to cough up one of these mutual friends for us doubters. Frankly I don’t believe her. She has no good reason to hate Teresa, so she invents lies to explain it away.

    • angela says:

      oh good one! yes! cough up one of the names jac n prove it!!! but she won’t n claim that “a good friend wouldnt reveil their source” even though we know she has done that to her supposed best friend teresa, jac is so wishy washy she makes my brain hurt!

    • AuntJulie says:

      Jac is being so insincere. She has admitted that she talks to a “friend” of Teresa’s to find out Teresa’s business.

      If she was in a better place, she wouldn’t engage in this nonsense.

      • angela says:

        she is so all over the place with her thoughts anymore i am starting to think maybe some “wet brain” from alcohol has taken place? idk just a thought. i would be sad for her though if that was the case. she is clearly going through some issues right now and crying out about it herself, not to pick but ashlee has extreme anxiety issues maybe Jac has that as well….sad just sad.

        • angela says:

          so sad because for the longest time jac was my fave along w teresa, now not so much. but i have to say, if she admits she has a drinking problem n mental issues i will leave her name out of my mouth in any negative light.

      • jen says:

        Thats what she did to Danielle too. remember she would invite Kim G to her house and talk shit about Danielle. She was really the only one talking shit about D season 2. Why does she do that if your not friends w/ someone anymore why still find out all their gosspi? She is very immature. Then she invited Kim G in even after she sees her at court w/ Dainelle to file charges against Ashlee. WTF is wrong with her? I really don’t know why T is so surprised loook what J did to Ashlee, and thats her own daughter.

    • jerseygirl says:

      Oh my god, you hit the nail on the head. These idiots are pandering, and very badly.

      I really think Teresa’s the only one on the show that looked at her table flipping self on TV and decided, whoah, that is not who I am or want to be. Even though that’s what the producers probably wanted. The others (husbands included) completely bought into their Bravo edited persona without realizing it was ultimately not very flattering.

  24. Maribel says:

    There are people in my life that I no lounger speak to and can’t stand anymore. But I have never revealed what they have told me in confidence. Jac is the worst cause she does that. All of them bash Tre and they are mad cause quotes that they have said were printed. How stupid is she? I couldn’t even finish her blog. I rolled my eyes so much that now they are hurting!

    • angela says:

      ditto! and i have enemies that used to be my friends, they spilled crap about me n i still have never done it back to them n never will! integredy…

    • Danielle says:

      I have a couple of former friends who know stuff that I would never want anyone else to hear about. It would be crushing to me to have a friend like Jacqueline who so disrespected my friendship that she would reveal things that we discussed when we were friends. I hope Jacqueline’s current friends take note of this. She is definitely not someone who can be trusted.

      • jen says:

        I just love how they are all in shock over the magazine. Each and every one of them has talked shit about T and her money issues on the show this season and last season.

  25. pennsylvania boy says:

    Screw jaq..Who want donuts?

    • michers says:

      LOL!!! I love when we talk donut! I have to admit I strayed form my usual Sunday donut this week and ventured to Panera bread! ( sorry). I had the most amazing bagel, so good it should not even be called a bagel. It was some kind of cinnamon and sugar, can’t remember the name but it = delish!

  26. Calzoned says:

    I read a few paragraphs before I glazed over. This is tiresome. Jacqueline’s blog shows how delusional she truly is. Good luck to the two little boys in her care.

    Bravo took The Mother Lode and turned it into Fools Gold.

  27. CeeGee says:

    Jac, you ignorant slut. What the hell is wrong with you? Do you REALLY not understand the way the casting of Mel came about? She became friends with Danielle. Remember her? She’s the one who had your daughter arrested.

    I only hope that Danielle and Meho also discussed YOU and that perhaps Danielle will get chance to out you and Meho!

  28. Katheirne says:

    Teresa is crazy and evenutally everyone will see it too!

    • Lauren T says:

      Maybe its you Katherine that is crazy. Cause every message board and blog is supportive of Teresa. Jacko is a drunk fool.

    • AuntJulie says:

      Nope, she isn’t crazy. None of them are.

      I’ll never see it any differently either.

    • Nonna Gabi says:

      Katherine, Teresa isn’t crazy, she is a woman trying to help her family. The other ladies are malignant wannabes who would eat their own young to make themselves look good. Shame on them.

    • Indigo says:

      Is that like Caroline and Jacqueline saying “as the season progresses, the truth will come out?”

      Because they’ve been saying that for 2 seasons now, and I’m still waiting.

    • rukidding? says:

      are u watching the same show we’re watching? because i see grown as women with children bullying another grown woman with kids. hopefully the “audtion” tape will come out or danielle reveals the many messages between her and melissa and then you’ll see the real lying, conniving, sneaky, backstabbing, troll we see.

  29. Maru the Cat fka Sharon Lea says:

    One credit to Jac’s blogs over Meho’s is Jacqueline is emotional, and she is trying to tell us her thoughts from her perspective. Whereas I feel Meho thinks out her comments and how she hopes they will be perceived. The problem is that Jac has gone off on Twitter too many times and those moments have discredited her.

    I wish Jacqueline would consider that if say, her ex-husband and his wife came on the show, and brought up negative stuff about their past and they befriended the rest of the cast, I don’t think she would like it and would not sit quietly by. Theresa is a in a situation that none of the others are in.

    • michers says:

      You are right and it sad that they are so selfish and self absorbed to see that she is the only one in that situation( Jac, Caro, and even Kathy I would expect to see some understanding but I was wrong about her too)

      • jen says:

        i don’t understand how M can say over and over again she didn’t come on the show to hurt T. The first episode Joe called her garbage, M gave her some remark about why are you here, M’s sisters started a drunken fight w/ all of them. M said in one of her interviews “they pay their bills” They were shit stirrers from theword go.

  30. CatCan says:

    Jac is so delusional.

  31. Serjen says:

    The woman is 11 million in debt! If she. needs to sell a few fake stories to the rag mags to make some money, let her! They all suck

  32. charay says:

    I smell bullshit!!! The thing is she was never a real friend! If I was Tre friend I would jut listen without giving my two cents only because you could tell how she was about her family being on the show. I don’t believe Tre bashed her family but I believe it came from a place of hurt and not hate. The thing is Jac should have just took a step back and not judged. No one said she had to hate Melissa. That relationship she had with them was her business and she should have kept it to herself. Even of she didn’t like the thongs Tre was saying she should have understand why and let her know it’s not right. She could have even distanced herself from Tre and give her time to calm Down and come to terms their on the show

    To be hoesnt everybody should have just left Tre alone (not get mad at her and bash her) because she was hurt and lashing out (not saying that’s right) but she needed time to cool off and get used to it. She even told them that she didn’t want their advice and I don’t know why they kept wanting their two cents to be heard.

    At the end of the Jac was never a friend to Tre! Point blank!

  33. CatCan says:

    Jac says that the Gorga’s never bashed Tre to her. Well, HELLO! that is because you were supposed to be Tre’s friend in their eyes. I bet that since the friendship ended, they have done nothing but bash Teresa to you. I can’t see you talking about anything else. Now that you are on their side, how do they talk about her?

  34. Mktgdrivethru says:

    I think the audience is questioning whether we ever really knew Jacqueline. There are some serious blanks that need to be filled in — the level of virtol being aimed at Teresa via Jac and Caroline does not match what we have seen and heard. What Danielle did to Jac and the Manzo family was far worse and Jac publicly forgave Danielle at the season 2 reunion. Although I think that was an act of self preservation more than anything.

    • Matilda Brown says:

      Remember when Jac went to the psychic and the psychic pulled Teresa’s name out and said that Teresa had “Daggers pointing at her from all directions”. She sure was right! I’m pretty sure that was Season 3 – don’t remember which episode.

      • Maru the Cat fka Sharon Lea says:

        Yes Matilda! I remember when the psychic said that about Theresa, I thought they were going to touch on that again, maybe have Theresa visit her to find out more.

        Mktgdrivethru – totally agree that the anger from Caroline towards Theresa just isn’t adding up. The cameras have not shown us enough. Caro even admitted the cook book wasn’t the reason, so what is it? Some have guessed the trip last season to Punta Cana and her sons getting into a brawl and a lawsuit.

        • jen says:

          But C,her kids and of course Greggy boy were talking shit about T before that trip. Thats why i think they are JEALOUS !!

  35. Jennifer says:

    Jac,

    That is not how the magazine business works. Prior to working In my current field of law I was GC for a major magazine publisher. I know how it works. I drafted the contracts or had my group do it with the talent. If we could not do it with Jennifer Aniston when she did a cover shot for us, then we certainly would not do it for a reality person. No matter how little people think of the tabloid business there is a national standards for editorial. Nothing is made-up. However, interviewees are asked variety of questions. They never get final editorial say and so many so called stars ask for it. We received those calls from the PR and agents afterwards.

    You pay for pictures and shots and NOT for the story u less it is coming from a 3rd party not in the story. That is the way it works. I do not believe it has changed in recent years.

  36. Heidi says:

    Am I the only one who notices that in every episode & in ‘every’ interview Jacqueline, Carolyn, Melissa & Kathy conversations consist of talking about Teresa….. Would any of these women even be relevant if it wern’t for talking/bashing Teresa for it appears to me that Teresa is ‘always’ in their episodes of the show; blogs; interviews; etc……??!!

    http://bravoratings.com/2012/05/31/real-housewives-of-new-jersey-ratings-season-4/

    • Calzoned says:

      Thanks so much for posting this link, Heidi. The bigger picture is that they never sustained viewer numbers after the record setting premier. Each week, they’re fluctuating and still manage only 1/3 of what they started with. Between hard numbers and harsh criticism from viewers, Bravo is getting a message. Hope they’re listening.

  37. charay says:

    I just read her whole effing blog! She’s a fucking idiot!! So Teresa puts out negative stories about herself?? Only her though?? Is she fucking serious!! But what about those Melissa stories; she didn’t do that?? So everybody else that got a cover magazine with a negative headline they put them out themselves. That means hee dumbass do it too. She told everybody that’s was a stripper I guess. STFU I can’t even comment no longer she is a full blown drunk idiot!!

  38. TwitterFiend says:

    The one thing that I have to say after reading this is how/why is it that after being someone’s friend for 10 years you all of a sudden start to question that friendship after this person’s family members, who she/he obliviously has a strained relationship with. After 10 years has this person not shown you who they really were? After 10 years all of a sudden mutual friends are saying that this person is speaking badly about you? Why wasn’t this happening all along, before the addition of one’s family? Something just isn’t right to me. If Teresa was being fake to Jacqueline and/or talking about her behind her back you would think that it would have happened already and not after her family became involved in the show. Whatever the intentions were/are for some members of this cast it, is clear to me that their mission has been accomplished. It’s sad…..

  39. hoolie says:

    Is it me or does it seem that Jac-o-nut and Meho are now the ones who are now employing “GhostWriters” for THEIR Blogs?
    And ‘ghostwriter’ or not, she just stepped the line inferring that Teresa somehow has any responsibility (partial) for her ‘Breakdown’…… dear Geesus this little girl (and I do mean Little Girl- 14 yr olds are more emotionally mature than her) needs to get off TV and go take care of her issues….

  40. jen says:

    Yes JAC-ASS every episode is about T because you and LARGE MARGE can’t stop talking about her, GET IT??? ALso i wasn’t drunk when I watched the episode like i’m sure you probably were when you types this blog, but I didn’t see the BIG annoucment T made at your brother in laws wedding. She was sitting at a table w/ people she thought were her friends and said I just recieved a text about my book beong on the best sellers list as you and LARGE MARGE were foaming at the mouths. I also don’t think that was a dig at LARGE MARGE didn’t she have a talk w/ her at your house and they hugged? She honestly thought everything was fine she only just found out all the shit you fools have been saying about her behind her back since last season.And like LARGE MARGE you too need to pick a story and stick w/ it. First LM is mad about thew book then its about the dog then its about the magazine covers then its because T is breathing. You get bent out of shape when she doesn’t report to you the second after she talks to her brother then you don’t want to hear it which is it moron??

    • cammierari says:

      love this comment. Jen let’s watch the reunion together..I have a feeling we’d feel the same way about everything lol

      • jen says:

        OMG!!!!!!!!!! If T doesn’t open her mouth this time and tell all these B*TCHES to go scratch i’m going to start flipping tables LOL!!!

  41. LindafromNJ says:

    A true friend knows that there are times when advice is not what your friend needs.Sometimes you just need to let them vent and get everything off their chest without judging them and just be there for them to lend an ear and offer them moral support.Also,a cardinal rule is to never ever repeat what a friend tells you in confidence.I feel so sorry for Teresa who not only has to contend with her backstabbing family but also has to deal with the realization that someone she thought was a loving and trustworthy friend was instead a jealous,disloyal and vindictive b*tch!

  42. Flowers says:

    Sorry Jac, if I vented about my family to my best friend, they would just let me vent. If I did not care for my SIL, she would not either. It doesnt mean that she would be mean, she would just stick up for me no matter what. I agree with you Roxy, she would not later blab about everything we spoke about. That is BS and all of waco’s friends better not tell her anything ever again. Jacqueline is still not seeing the initial bad intentions of Melissa and Kathy. That to me is the bottom line. Waco and MANzo have always glossed over that point just like Meho and Kathy have wanted them to. As everyone has pointed out, how would they feel if the familiy members they don’t talk to came onto the show. DUH!!!

  43. JanShe says:

    Here we go AGAIN!!!

    Jacass get a life, Teresa does not want so called friends like you.

    You say next episode was the turning point in your relationship with Teresa, HUH……..

    Teresa had every right in the world to turn on you, after what you did to her MINOR AGED CHILD, did she, NO.
    (she gave you the benefit of the doubt a lot longer than I would have)

    Tell me something Jac, is this the episode where we see Teresa with Dina, and, are you a little afraid of what Bravo will air???

    I APPLAUD TERESA, for finally opening up, about what ALL OF YOU put her through, she does not need a two faced, HYPOCRITE, friend like you.

  44. CatCan says:

    Teresa was in a tremendous amount of pain regarding her family problems. Does anyone really believe that she would choose for things to be this way with her brother, who she was best friends with all of her life? She needed time to come to terms with the Gorga’s behaviour and hate towards her. She needed to vent to her friend Jac, not be judged. All the years that Teresa had to listen to Jac vent about Ashley, she just listened, never judged Jac for the way she handled things, regardless of how she really felt. But could Jac give her the same courtesy? NO. Just grew impatient and hateful towards Teresa when she didn’t handle things the way Jac wanted her to, at the exact time Jac wanted things done. Jac was never a true friend to Teresa. When Teresa needed her, Jac wasn’t there.

  45. angela says:

    Jacklyn is one of those sneaky friends that i am petrified of, she seems like the best best friend anyone could ever want, then out of nowhere BAM HOT DAMN!knife in the back! ouch ouch ouchies!

  46. genednj says:

    I will post the same thing on Jacqueline’s blog…. I can not believe the way that both Melissa and Jacqueline have tried to nonchalently throw in the conspiracy between Melissa and Danielle Staub like it was no big deal in their blogs this week – so we will all already be prepared for it next week and it won’t have the huge impact on opinion that it SHOULD. It’s unreal to me that anyone would expect the Giudice’s to just move on after that and not be resentful and mistrusting of the Gorga’s. This needs to be the Hot Button at the reunion as far as I’m concerned and Melissa can’t be allowed to just gloss over it. I also think Jacqueline and Caroline need to be taken to task for their roles in going along with this so easily – every week more unravels and every week I am more firmly a Teresa fan as opposed to a fan of the “show”. Also understanding more Joe (Giudice’s) attitude in being done with the Gorga family – I wouldn’t be able to stomach looking at them either knowing what they’ve done.

  47. Flowers says:

    I am just realizing the reason for Jacqueline’s breakdown. She was not stressed over Teresa but was stressed out because she has had Caroline blasting into her ear how she should not be friends with Teresa. That is why she had her breakdown. I hope Meho and froggy are proud of what they have caused. Oh yeah, and runty boy too.

  48. MamaC says:

    WACKO, JACKO, JACKO! Now I see why her husband Chris is always concerned with her being calm, relaxed, and in a good mood! She is actually CRAZY! How is it that a woman who claims to want to help a friend always finds herself in the middle of strife and confusion? Jacko is always drawn to other peoples drama like a moth to a flame or a mosquito to some sweet blood (I,m from the south). What ever Jacko was trying to do for her “best friend” Teresa to help, sure as HELL did not work, so she should have taken a step back from T’s family situation. What true friend takes to a public blog to not only bash but to tell and expose everthing in confidence that your “best friend” told you her privately. Let me tell WACKO JACKO what the definition of a true best friend is. “A best friend is the person you usually can be around always and never get sick of. A best friend is someone you don’t envy, and is the person you are grateful to have as a friend. A best friend is the one who will forgive you always, even when you’ve screwed up so bad. And a best friend is the one who even though you may have drifted apart from, when the time comes for them to hug you or congratulate you on an accomplishment or to console you on a loss.. they are the number one person you want to see, always because they are the person you’ve confided the most in”. Envy and jealousy towards Teresa has consumed Jacko like a flesh eating virus. And sadly it has infected Caroline and her family too. But to Jacko, I say she needs some serious help. This woman is obsessed with Teresa and that obsession comes out every week in her blogs. She is doing herself no favors “trying to clarify” things each week. MOVE ON WOMAN! I say her family needs to do an intervention on her. I stopped watching the show last year after the reunion, it was a hot mess and so very tragic to watch. I felt so bad for Teresa. No body deserved to be treated like that by family and so called friends. But as they say, Success and living well is the best revenge. And none of all the NJ housewives put together can equal Teresa’s success. I hope next week Jacko goes down to the Jersey Shore, relax, come back and focus her blog on soaking up the sun and drinking some wine not Teresa bashing, again. She is becoming quite pathetic. So Sad!

  49. CajunHeather says:

    I thought the manzos/lauritas didn’t want anything to do with anyone who accociates with the Danielle. Why haven’t they called Melissa out on it? Hmmm bc they are all jackasses. I don’t even like watching the show bc of how Teresa is shown in such a bad light. Bravo always has someone to gang up on, sadly it’s Teresa. She doesn’t deserve that.

  50. Jelly says:

    The maturity of some of the people on this board amuses me to no end. I have to say that it’s also the intense Teresa fans that are causing me to just not like some of the ladies anymore. Jacqueline makes a lot of great points, and I must be the only one that thinks that Teresa must have done something wrong to have a friendship of 10 years go sour. Sorry, Caroline/Melissa can’ be blamed for everything. I believe both Jacqueline and Teresa played a part in their friendship falling apart, yes, I think Teresa did something wrong and not what everyone here is ‘claiming’ that she did.

    I am so sick of everyone using the “She’s jealous of Teresa!” line. it’s the automatic go to when someone stops liking someone. IT IS POSSIBLE THAT PEOPLE JUST STOPPED LIKING TERESA. But, according to most people here it’s NO SHE IS SO JEALOUS OMG!1!1!one!1! Sorry if I stop liking someone, it’s because I actually don’t like their behavior or they have done something to me. Do I believe that certain people are jealous like Melissa? Yes. Do I believe Jacqueline is jealous? No.

    Everyone on this show is tasteless, these people are having legal issues all of them. None of these people are wealthy they are just wannabes, even Teresa and Joe Giudice. They are living well beyond their means. Jacqueline is. Melissa & Joe Gorga clearly are. Caroline is. Kathy is. Fake. Fake. Fake. I’m sick of it.

    • RahRah says:

      Girl Jac is to dumb and unintelligent to even know what the heck is going on, it surprises me that she even has walking aroud sense. Sometimes we think we are nice because we do not know otherwise and haven’t been taught properly. Jac is not Teresa friend and I think Teresa knows where she stands and what’s up with these losers. Teresa has personality which is something she lacks.

    • cammierari says:

      Jelly when was the last time you just stopped liking someone that you had been friends with for 10 years? And then not because of anything they did to YOU but what they did in response to a bad situation in their family?
      I also hate when people use the excuse of jealousy to explain bad behavior. However, in this case it fits. Why do YOU think Teresa’s family came on the show without telling her if it wasn’t because they were jealous of her fame?
      So far, Jac has said nothing that explains why she isn’t friends with Teresa anymore. I’m watching and waiting for the explanation that will justify her actions. If you’ve seen something, PLEASE clue me in!

      • Jelly says:

        Seeing as how all of the friends I have are more intelligent, less insane than all the RHoNJ ladies I won’t have to worry about that. It’s also hard for me to actually say when, since you know it’s never happened to me because all my friends who have cousins or family members none of them are really around our age :) .

        I never said that Melissa wasn’t jealous, I think she is jealous of Teresa being on the show and being famous but that’s it. Looking at how Joe treats his children and Teresa on the show, I can’t imagine Melissa being jealous of their relationship. I know I wouldn’t be. I don’t like any of the house husbands really.

        Jacqueline hasn’t said anything yet, and quite frankly I think even if she DID say what Teresa did everyone here would justify it and say it was a stupid reason. It may be a great reason, may be a dumb one but I still think something happened.

        • Maru the Cat fka Sharon Lea says:

          Jelly – I appreciate hearing your comments. I too get Jac’s point about having a friend complain about the same problem over and over, it is tiresome! And for the record, I didn’t think Theresa should have ever brought up the rumors about MeGo to Joey, especially since their relationship is strained. So I don’t think Tre is perfect.

          Not sure if most people here think Jac is jealous. I thought the consensus was MeGo is jealous and Jac has been influenced by Caroline.

          You make the point though that we really don’t know why these ladies don’t like each other. Wonder if Bravo will actually show us. Seems like there is stuff either behind the scenes or they aren’t showing us for ‘editing’ reasons.

        • Indigo says:

          Jacqueline has had every opportunity to say what it is what Teresa did if there really was something there. She has no problem saying practically everything else over Twitter or on her blog. I think she’s a fraud, and I’m entitled to feel that way, as she’s been claiming a whole lot of things that have been untrue.

          • Jelly says:

            Of course you are! And I am entitled to think that every single one of those ladies is a fraud! :) Yes, even Teresa.

        • cammierari says:

          I just don’t know what makes you think something happened other than what we’ve seen. There haven’t even been any rumors that something “happened” that we don’t know about. Jacqueline has given us at least a million excuses, but so far none of them add up.
          IF I ever believed that Teresa did something sneaky, underhanded or mean to Jac I would certainly not justify it-but it would be a shock to me because so far, I’ve never seen her do anything that comes close to that

    • Jennifer says:

      Jelly,

      I do not think we are any different than the Beverly Hills housewives. I think there are strong opinions because many of us have actually received numerous direct messages fron Jac saying things totally opposite to what is written above. The messages were from her. She has openly admitted to it because she has been caught. Jac is jealous because her main grievance with Teresa is the loss of the Lip gloss and nail opportunity which she has DMed to many people. Her mother even talked about it.

      Jac was not crying about the lost friendship. Jac was not crying about Dina, but only the loss of a lip gloss and nail line. That to me smells of jealousy.

      Frankly there is no other reason for Jac to be angry. Melissa is not Jac’s friend they do not hang out together and never did.

      Additionally, Joey Gorga is Teresa’s issue not Jac’s. Joey is her brother.

      If Teresa is causing issues of depression, then she should not give advice. I have yet to see Teresa ask for advice. I have seen on the show, FB and Twitter Jac extolling her advice to Teresa which is completely unsolicited. Friends should know when to shut-up. Jac is not Teresa’s priest, counselor, social worker, or psychiatrist. She is Teresa’s friend. When you have a friend you learn how to let things go and do not bash them on every social media outlet and creat passive aggressive messages refuting statements and then saying it is due to lost opportunities.

      Jac actions are patently grounded in jealousy in my opinion.

    • rukidding? says:

      i do believe jac is jealous and just plain mad at teresa. it started out just being mad at her because she was always talking about her family issues and not listening to her advice and the issues between them and dina and blaming teresa. then it turned into jealousy because teresa is getting more camera time, more job offers and just more popular than her. so yes in some instances it comes down to jealousy and being brainwashed by caro and melissa.

      you can just not like someone without being jealous but in this situation the lame excuses, the insults, the backstabbing and lying is pure evidence of jealousy. jealous of dina being friends with teresa, jealous of the cookbook, jealous of her success. it’s plain and simple and insight.

      • Jelly says:

        I don’t know in my opinion, Teresa is not all that popular around here and while there are quite a few Tre supporters here and in a few areas I know more people who can’t stand Teresa and think she is extremely unintelligent and is very self centered. I watch RHoNJ with a lot of people and all of them can’t stand Teresa.

        Before I get accused of being a Tre-Hater, I am not. I don’t really care for any of the ladies anymore, quite an embarrassment all around.

  51. Diva says:

    You know what I find completely ironic about Jac’s statement that Teresa became all about “Keeping Up With The Gorga’s” and how Teresa was doing whatever she could to outdo them? Let’s talk about how Jac (and Caroline, to an extent) have went out of their way to make tweets about the Gorga’s and the Wakile’s and their successes, in such ways that it is BLATANTLY obvious WHY they’re doing it. C’mon, BOTH Caroline AND Jacqueline posted the day “Rock Star” was released. Jac even called it her “favorite song”. Really? REALLY?

    Jac and Caroline act so above what they call Tre out for, but the fact is they act just as childish as the fingers they point at her.

    • RahRah says:

      I do not know why you are surprised as Jac certainly does not have good taste except for wine probably.

    • cammierari says:

      it’s called spite. But be ready for Caro and Jac to say that they’re just supporting a castmate. Sadly, they don’t support Teresa, who is also a castmate

  52. Josh says:

    The Source… WHERE ARE YOU?!

  53. rukidding? says:

    i cannot stand that she keeps saying teresa always put her in the middle between her and the gorgas. nobody put jac in the middle but herself. nobody told her to run back and forth to melissa and gossip. what friend does that? i don’t think teresa wanted jac to just agree with her. i think she just wanted jac to be supportive, have her back and listen. that is what true best friends do. no matter if you agree with them or not you just listen and be there for them and if they ask for advice you give it to them in a reasonable fashion. jac did none of that. she was always defending the gorgas even though she hardly knows them. after 10 years of friendship all of sudden jac doesn’t like how teresa is acting?!! something is fishy about that. she started being a bad friend when melissa came into the picture.

  54. Nonna Gabi says:

    Cares for her friends? I don’t think she knows th meaning of the word!

  55. Cajsa says:

    Jacqueline suffers from confirmation bias. She doesn’t see that conversation over the kitchen island at her home as bashing Teresa even though Caroline said that Teresa would not be satisfied until their was a divorce or that Melissa said Teresa was doing it for the money as negative bashing because she’s on their side now. So no matter how vile Caroline, Kathy and Melissa are, that’s okay. She cannot perceive it because she doesn’t think, she feels. That’s why she is so easily led and swayed into stupidity.

  56. mari says:

    Have we not been listening for weeks that jacqueline is upset with teresa for not opening up with her enough about her family, and she wants to see real anger about the situation come from teresa? Now in her blog she is saying that teresa would talk about it day and night, and that teresa is obsessed, funny she used that term since last week everybody has been calling her out for being obsessed. So which is it?

    • cammierari says:

      haha you’re right mari! Jac is on record as saying that what frustrated her was that Teresa always said everything was ‘fine’ and didn’t want to talk about it. I love it when someone points out yet another example of blatant lying by a member of the Jackhole 4

  57. PixelDust says:

    When will she ever shut up about Teresa!

    whine, whine, whine, whine, whine…enuf already. We all know ur not a good friend…stop proving it over and over and over and over!

    Dang, somebody get the girl some wine!

  58. Michelle says:

    If after 10 years of being someone’s best friend and you start claiming you didn’t really “know” them, you must be the BIGGEST idiot of all time. Yes, I’m looking at you Jacqueline and Caroline.

    It’s funny isn’t it how in the last 10 years Teresa was so great, such a good friend, so kind, so funny, etc… until she started making money and fell off the “follow Caroline’s lead” wagon when her fame hungry family signed on the show.

    The fact that Jacqueline started questioning Teresa’s friendship because of what Melissa and Joey, people who she’s only known for a year, say or how Teresa acts toward them just goes to prove that Jacqueline is a crappy friend.

    I like how she’s acting like Teresa was so obsessed with her family and bashing them, but whenever the tapes are rolling, half of the time it’s Jacqueline initiating the conversation. And Jacqueline is the LAST person to be calling anyone obsessed considering how many times she’s mentioned Teresa’s name on the show, in her blogs, and on twitter. Jacqueline’s thoughts are consumed by Teresa.

    • michers says:

      I agree Michelle, I stated almost the same thing above somewhere!! I think its crazy that Jac and T were friends that long and Jac and the Gorga’s were never friends before!!!! Hmm… probably because they were vile to Teresa back then, and no one knew of them or cared to associate with them. Why now that they have been on the show, are they befriended by T’s friends? Oh, because they all want her out of the way so they can have a shot at getting offers! Well, guys I hate to break it to you but um, if you aren’t getting any deals now, you won’t when T is gone either!

  59. mari says:

    One more thing. On the show did you see how important it was for Mel and Jac maybe Caroline to see things in quotes? To me that shows that they do understand how those magazines work. It’s like they were hoping for something in quotes that she said that was bad, because they know if it isn’t in quotes then she isn’t responsible for it (magazines do cover their azzes, not that they don’t lie but if it is in quotes they know they better get it right), unless she is a secret source which Jacqueline keeps trying to insinuate, Jac seems to know a lot about how being a secret source works. Didn’t she get busted for being the secret source feeding bad information about her family to some bloggers including Rox?

  60. pennsylvania boy says:

    Donuts anyone..I got a dozen..So happy that i found some..I thought christopher ate them all..judging by his double chin.

  61. Lee says:

    It was already proven that Danielle Staub was “the source” for the In Touch articles. In addition, Melissa admitted talking to Danielle about her relationship with Teresa, so she is also another “source”. How come Jacqueline does not bash Melissa. She betrayed her husband’s family for a chance at fame. If I was Teresa, I would not speak to my brother.

  62. Indigo says:

    I’m so confused Jac. You’ve been saying forever that Tre never tells you what’s going on and keeps it all to herself (like that’s a bad thing, because why should she tell you and Caroline) and now you’re saying she just talks to you all the time and it’s too much?

    Everyone needs to get their lies straight!

  63. Indigo says:

    I also liked how in Jac’s blog she said that the reason why her breakdown occurred (why she didn’t go to the reunion) wasn’t because of one episode. But for the last year she said it was specifically because of one thing (whatever happened the night of the Posche incident). Now she’s changing her story again. I feel like she’s prepping her cover up story weeks in advance and covering her ass for later on.

    • Kay says:

      I wouldn’t mind if she did any kind of decent job at covering her arse.

      If you’re gonna be a liar, at least have the decency to be adept at it.

  64. Kay says:

    I skim read that, I figure I don’t need to read it properly when every week it’s the same thing.

    I was a MASSIVE Teresa fan in the first 2 seasons but midway through last season I bought into the Gorga’s bullshit – well done, Bravo – about Tre. However this season I’m back on Team Guidice (and it’s
    so refreshing to find a blog that isn’t just full of Teresa bashers!)

    Jac is one of those women who not only wants to convince the world she’s a victim, but truely believes it herself. Tbh it makes me embarrassed for her, grow a backbone and get a grip! I still laugh on last season (I think?) When she says “I’m my own woman, I know my own mind” or whatever it is. What she really means to say is “I am Caroline’s bitch and I know HER mind”

    Tre – at this point – genuinely believed that Jac was still her friend so IF she was moaning about her family to her then I don’t see the problem with that. I fortunately don’t have anything like the jealous, backstabbing, distasteful, disloyal family members as Tre does but everyone falls out sometimes & yeah, I sit and moan to my best friend about them. Isn’t that what best friends do?

    Jac is delusional. It pisses me off that her whole entire life is about Tre. I get that it’s a reality show and their lives are put out there but she should at least have enough respect for the friendship they had to not crucify Tre at every possible opportunity.

    Besides being successful can anyone enlighten me as to what Tre ever did to Jac the fruit loop? The way she carries on you’d think she slept with her husband.

    • mari says:

      It something new every week, or depending on the day. First she was mad at teresa for as she said crappy people setting othets up. Butnow that it hss been shown teresa had nothing to do with it now its the cookbook, but since after awhile they were looking stupid for getting upset over a few jokes, suddenly now its not the cook book. Then it was teresa was leaking stories about jac’s vegas days and attacking her on twitter, then it was revealed of course it was danielle responsible, darn it now jac needs a new excuse, ahhh, she thought, then it was teresa stole our family cookbook idea, when that proved to be ridiculous and not pan out, then it was teresa is causing problems between them and dina messing with their family-ironic i know, then dina came out witha blog completely calling bs on that ohh, foiled again. Now it is teresa stole or tried to steal a business opportunity from jacqueline. She seems to be throwing whatever she can at the wall seeing if she can make people buy what she is selling to take the heat off that she is a crappy, disloyal friend. If she lies this much to strangers just imagine all the whoppers she’s told chris and his family?

  65. Lisa says:

    This lady just needs to shut her moiuth. This lady and daughter plus her mother need twitter rehab. She is not worth any more of my time or stroke of my fingers. Go have a drink you wacko.

  66. pennsylvania boy says:

    Bottom line jac is very bipolar and odd…She is jelly over teresa’s fame that was earned and not out of cheating..She and caroline are receving a big backlash because of their ways..Its gonna play big in the future and teresa is gonna get bigger and bigger in her success.

  67. JoJoLaMa says:

    I’ve run out of ways to say ” this woman is nuts.” So I’ll just say – THIS WOMAN IS NUTS.

  68. Whatever says:

    I wrote this on Jac’s Bravo blog & I’m positive they won’t post it so I’m posting it here 2..someone needs 2 read my rant lol ( Hi Jac I know ur reading this blog..everyone does!)…

    R u 4 real?! Omg did it ever occur 2 u that @ this time Joe/Mel/Kat/Rich had not been on the show very long (back2back filming) & Teresa was still angry & hurt (rightfully so) by her family’s shady behavior 4 getting on the show & she wasn’t ready 2 forgive or see anyone else’s point of view?! There’s no point of going 2 therapy w/ the person u r enraged at..she needed 2 work thru her feelings her own way in her own time..some choose the therapy avenue others turn 2 other trusted family & friends (operative word) 2 vent their anger & frustrations..4 u 2 assume u had the right avenue 2 proceed is very presumptuous of u..Tre didn’t need a friend 2 “help” her see the other side or 2 encourage her 2 therapy w/ a brother who called her garbage & a f**king b**ch in front of her children..Joey G does everything 4 cameras & after him repeating the comment made off camera about Mel 4 the world 2 hear how could u trust that he wouldn’t repeat everything from therapy..I wouldn’t & I doubt u would either..Fact is u didn’t hear negative junk from Teresa’s family because they believed u were her trusted friend so obviously they r not going 2 unload 2 u..that comparison was rather foolish Jac..Tre trusted u & u were not only being a bad friend behind her back 2 Mel & Co. but Caroline 2..& the kicker is u now repeating private confidential conversations u had w/ Tre..My god any1 out there who’s friends w/ Jac in real life take note..this is what she does once u have a falling out..repeats everything u vented 2 her..run people run! U believe every1 else but your good friend of over a decade..u even believe the tabloids..r u 4 real?! Come on..u know they sensationalize everything & as far as u turning down articles/covers child please the media will run the article w/ or w/o your input..IMO u might as well get a bit of your side across & make some $$ in the process..I personally think it was brilliant of Tre 2 find a way 2 capitalize on something that was going 2 print anyway & hey they were gonna pay some1 else 4 pics of her..y not get paid 4 pics of yourself?! I think u found yourself in a situation where it wasn’t easy 2 b Tre’s friend considering your new co-workers & Caroline’s complete & utter overreaction 2 the cookbook & instead of standing alongside your friend & holding her hand thru this complete betrayal of her only brother & extended family u not only bailed Jac u took over as engineer of the Tre Hate Train & have been driving ever since & I’ve got 2 say from a former fan of yours..it’s not a good look on u..it’s ugly mean vindictive cruel nasty cowardly & rude..u can say all u want about me sitting behind my computer judging u..I am..u gave me permission 2 when u signed up 2 have your life filmed 4 money & put onto my TV screen..so see u really aren’t taking the high road by turning down the mags 4 exclusives, considering u r already profiting by letting those cameras (u know..those people that follow u around) film u & your family..uh oh looks like Teresa beat u out of another business opportunity w/ the mags..oh snap! Why don’t u really b honest w/ yourself & instead of blame shifting everything onto Teresa instead of yourself 4 once..FYI u will never convince me u weren’t bullying Gia..your excuse was u were like family & thought it was ok 2 try & deal w/ her but u weren’t acting like a friend (well u were kinda acting like Tre’s jackhole family members) behind Tre’s back (talking trash b4 Tre arrived @ your house)..u were incredibly childish toward Gia & u should b ashamed..So Jac keep writing novels of nonsense week after week trying 2 justify & convince everyone u r in the right..I don’t see it as honest I see it as cowardly & horrendous behavior by a grown adult w/ children..Enjoy these last few weeks w/ a platform..I cannot wait 4 this gang bang season 2 b over & u for sure (crossing my fingers the rest of The Jackhole4) will b off my TV forevermore & I won’t have 2 see u whine anymore..u can complain about your missed business opportunities on your couch while watching Teresa on your TV..Peace Out..u won’t b missed (I doubt any1 will even notice u r gone)!

  69. Fan of Housewives says:

    Some of you people sound just as crazy as Teresa. Think about it she’s fighting with her brother, sister-in-law, cousin, Jac, and Caroline but it’s never her fault. If it walks like a duck then maybe it’s a duck. Teresa is doing whatever she has to to make money right now. That would include throwing friends and family under the bus.

    When her kids are disrespectful her friends can’t say anything to them. A true friend should be allowed to correct your disrespectful child. and we all can agree that Gia has been disrespectful to her even her mother.

    When Teresa bashes her relatives and they bash back they are attacking her. Really!!!!! I am not a Caroline fan but she did have her back all last season. The comments Teresa made in her book were not funny it called jabs but she is a real friend right????

    Some of you seem to miss the underlining message Teresa has continously communitcated she will do what she has to do not to be poor. Clearly she is doing this by selling these stories. Funny how she brings things up and as long as you agree with her she’s ok, but when they try to get her to see another point of view she starts over talking them and these same people she was just insulting become her family and it’s no ones business. How quickly we forget she started the bashing.

    Some of you bloggers are should be ashame of yourselves calling each other names over a tv show it’s all for ratings hello!!!!!

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