Jacqueline Laurita Says Teresa Forgiving Her Family Is All An Act!

August 6, 2012 | By | 68 Replies Continue Reading

Oh that Jacqueline Laurita! She just never knows when to zip it! The RHONJ star took to her blog to discuss the Napa trip and talks..Teresa! Jacqueline believes that forgiving her family was all just an act!

“Wasn’t this episode so funny? I thought it was. It was like watching the Griswold’s family vacation, wasn’t it? I bet most other families are just as dysfunctional if you break it down for TV time. Define “normal” anyway. LOL!

When Teresa confided in Melissa that she was still upset with Kathy (even though she already talked to Kathy and said she never holds grudges), Melissa tried to reason with her to get her to understand a different view, while still staying neutral. Teresa interprets this as Melissa taking Kathy’s side and wonders if they are really OK. Truthfully, if I were Kathy and Melissa, I’d be wondering the same thing.

My personal opinion is that this is all an act. This is the quickest I have ever seen Teresa forgive anybody. I tried to get her to do that for two seasons with no luck. I used to have the same issue with Teresa. I would give her my honest opinion, which didn’t always match hers, or I would point out a different view on a situation, and she would get mad at me for not sharing the same view as her and then would talk behind my back about how I wasn’t a great friend. It was very frustrating and exhausting, because although we didn’t share the same opinions or views at times, it didn’t mean that I was “picking a side” or that I loved Teresa any less. In Teresa’s eyes however, she wondered whose side I was on. I was actually always on the side of a better outcome for all involved. That’s all! I don’t like the feeling of someone trying to manipulate me into choosing a side. Mature grownups just don’t do that. I’m not a groupie, I’m a real friend. I tried to help her fight for peace, for herself and everyone involved.

Just for the record, I’ve kept all my friends since grade school and from every place I have ever lived. They live all across the U.S. and we still keep in touch. I think that says something. There is mutual appreciation and respect there.

Besides that little bit of drama, we were off to a great start. Everyone seemed to be playing nice in the sandbox together. How long do you think that will last?

I don’t care what any of them say, they loved the RV and camping as much as we did! It was the first time, in a long time, that I saw everyone pitching in to help each other. It was the first time that I saw everyone laughing and hugging and being silly. There were a lot of laughs on that trip. They can’t deny that. I thought that this is what they needed the whole time. A few good memories together and they might forget the negative feelings from the past. So far, so good. Let’s just watch what happens…

Do you agree that Teresa forgiving her family was just an act?!

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  1. Chicago E says:

    This lady is crazy. Teresa is truly damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t. If she would have been negative on that trip they would have bashed her. And her being positive they bash her. Sounds like Jacqueline is sad that T getting along with her family had nothing to do with Drunkaline.

    • Jennifer says:

      I agree! Teresa admitted to Melissa on the beach she spoke to Kathy the night before and the reason for the talk was because Kathy made a very blatant statement that those were her Mother’s recipes. Melissa went further and totally contradicted Kathy and said Kathy said Teresa’s mom called Kathy’s mom for the recipes, which was never mentioned by Kathy. Melissa, Jac and Kathy are crap stirrers like the Moirai (fates) in Greek myth. They were ugly old crones, just spinning their web of deceit.

    • Erin says:

      You’re right, and the bottom line is that Jackie is OBSESSED with Teresa. That’s all she can freakin talk about.

    • southernbell317 says:

      So sick of Jac… she’s truly obsessed with T… she reminds of me LeAnn Rimes stalking and obsessively talking about B… they both need help!

    • BravNo says:

      Come on Jacqueline, you said episodes ago you were going to distance yourself, for the love of baileys Irish cream just do it and shut up already. No one is interested in your pie eyed view of the world or Teresa. Regarding the snaps you give yourself about being friends with your school chums….Errr okay, of course the fact that you shamed, and tossed away your own kid on national tv repeatedly does nothing except make me think everything would be a ok with Ashley if she had only been in first grade with you…

  2. holy cannoli says:

    OMG Jack You Whack shut the f up already I ‘m so over you trying to convince everyone what a good friend you were and how you loved Teresa..You didn’t period. You believed tabloid stories, you humiliated her on national tv, you humiliated her in yor blogs and on twitter. A good friend would never ever do that!

    Shame on You Jacqueline!!

    • JanieG says:

      does anyone REALLY keep in touch with every friend they ever had?? if they are watching this show, wonder if they are curious as to what in the hell happened to their good old friend Jacqueline? Was she a friend then who repeated your personal confidences and refused to believe you when you didn’t answer her questions they way she wanted? She’s a mess that one.

      • Shipp says:

        Hmmmm….. “all” her friends? Excuse me, wasn’t Danielle her besty?

        Jack-ass, you bloated booze bag, YOUR NUTS!

        • LJ says:

          Exactly what I was gonna say Shipp! Its like she’s again trying to rewrite the reality we all have personally witnessed! She’s in dire need of mental help!

  3. Margie says:

    Frankly, I gave up caring about Jacqueline’s opinion a long time ago. I believe she’s spiteful and not very bright. Glad you recap here Roxy because I don’t even go to Bravo to see her blogs anymore.

  4. NYGirl says:

    Jac is appearing at an Uncle G’s near my area on Wednesday. I posted this yesterday on the recap thread, but it looks like Rox deleted it. A poster who’s also in my area sent me a message on the Bravo boards, but I can’t get on there to reply to her. I know that a lot of posters here also post over there. Does anyone know if the message boards at Bravo are down? I don’t want her to think that I’m pulling a Caroline and ignoring her. LOL! Rox, sorry to post this here. I just can’t remember the poster’s screen name. I will report back on how bloated Jac looks.

    • holy cannoli says:

      No NYGirl

      The message boards are at the bottom of the page, just scroll down they are there.

      • NYGirl says:

        Thanks for replying. It looks like they changed their website. I scrolled down, but didn’t see it. When I go into RHONJ it brings me to a page listing all of the shows and when I go into the message boards it says page has expired. Thanks again. Hopefully she postes here and reads this.

        • holy cannoli says:

          NYGirl

          I was just there. Bravo did change their website. When you click on the message boards9 for say Jersey) it does bring up all shows / sched. but scroll down the message bords are there, I promise.

  5. Debbie says:

    DAMN- this episode was about a road trip not about only Teresa but after your first sentence you made it all about her. That just goes to show that if you are not talking about Teresa you have absolutely nothing of importance to say. Says a lot about you. You need to go and FAST

  6. RHOAmbler says:

    She’s kept all her friends? Should we get Danielle’s opinion on that? And speaking of her, didn’t Alchy McDrunkerson throw a fit over Tre tweeting her? Wasn’t she expecting Tre to take her side? All the boozing must be clouding her memory.

  7. candida says:

    Well look at her it is all about her again; and once again I got into the first paragraph and got sick of reading Jac’s words and thoughts; can’t read her blog sorry; but what I read to me is such BS

  8. holy cannoli says:

    Who freakin cares about Jacquelines opinion about Teresa and if she is sincer in forgiving her family LOL..This coming from a woman that had her husband throw her daughter out on national tv, shows bascailly no remorse over that. Does not go to Cali, see if her child is living in a safe area, help her set up, none of that..Bascially could care less.

    But But But breaks down over a friendship that she herself wanted to end, wanted no part of for her health( lol) but has whined and cried about it since she broke up with Teresa

    Jacqueline is freakin NUTS!!!

    • disgusted says:

      Why can’t everybody see this?????? are they so blind to the rest of the cast ? and their contradictions ???????

  9. Stacey says:

    Wacqueline is just a rambling lunatic. She is so delutional and sad. Sorry Wacqueline, you should have just remained Teresa’s friend, kept your opinions to yourself, and made her feel secure that you were always on her side. That is just what a best friend does. Period. Yes, pick a side.

  10. Sarah says:

    I stopped reading after “I’ve kept all my friends from grade school, from all over the country”. COME ON! Who is she kidding? She is a delusional crackpot! She’s 40 something years old and grew up a military brat, am I right? I find it extremely hard to believe she has kept in contact w people from effing first grade on up from all the diff states she’s lived in. She needs to lay off the wine, twitter, blogging and she most def needs a damn hobby. She rambles on and on, trying to convince herself that what she speaks is the truth. I think the majority of the viewers see past her bullshit and the other mean girls’ lies. RHONJ has gone to shit once Andy added Melissa & Kathy. And once Jac and Caroline turned green w envy against Tre. I want the light hearted, fun, silly, obnoxious RHONJ back!!

  11. donnalee says:

    *LOL* Jacqueline is right! I looked up *dysfunctional* and her family is there at the TOP!!! And since when is it a CRIME to wonder??? Teresa is allowed to wonder about anything she wants!! You know sorta like I wonder why Jacqueline is still on RHONJ!! Ohhh please..Remember Jacqueline when Bravo texted you to fight with Teresa..I am sure that Teresa got the Text along with the rest of the family to make up!!! The point is when Jacqueline chose Bravo over a friendship, the friend walked away..Get over it and stop talking about her!

    • Say What?? says:

      I think thats Jacs biggest problem. She expected Teresa to cry and beg for her friendship. Teresa kept her head up and walked away from all of them. As she should have.

      • donnalee says:

        And as anyone with true class would do…she is way better off without any of them!

      • michers says:

        Agree- how can someone who is trying to live life and make things better supposed to still want to be around any of them? I would think T lost her marbles as well if she kept trying to hold on to that group after all of this. I like the idea of forgiving, then washing hands of them!

    • disgusted says:

      diidnt think of it like that but makes perfect sense

  12. NA says:

    How was Teresa suppose to agree with Melissa. Mel told Teresa that Kathy said the cookie recipes were her mothers not Teresa’s mom. Why does jax expect Teresa not defend herself or her mom? These ladies are hypcrites. Kathy should have been called out for what she said in front of the camera at Teresa’s book signing.

    • Say What?? says:

      And she says this is the quickest Teresa has ever forgave someone… yet she forgave melissa for talking to danielle.. Jac insisted she forgive her right away and used Dina as an excuse for her to be friends with Melissa. She is a hypocrite and a liar.

      • JoJoLaMa says:

        Not to mention she forgave Wac and Chuck for SIDING with her disgusting relatives who came on the show to ” take her down.”

      • michers says:

        And she said that was the quickest she ever saw T forgive.. who is she? Is she T’s maker? She is a sick f___! I have never seen someone obsess sooooo much for over a year about another person!!! She is friggin insane! ( Im referring to forgiving about Danielle)… Also, correct me if need be, but a person who is actually trying to move forward, make things better and change is what T is doing right? So why is she getting knocked for that? If she did not, then what Jac? She is still horrible and wrong?

  13. Andrea from alabama says:

    This stupid bitch waited a week after the episode to post this BS, and why? O, Jacqueline still willfully stupid I cant until they fire her ass.

    • hoolie says:

      still think it’s odd that she didn’t post on bravo blog for all of this past week….. only after the blogs starting lighting up about wondering ‘where she is’, is she in rehab, not posting on twitter- suddenly she submits her post….

  14. Someone Who is Watching says:

    One has to wonder if its really the booze on Jaqs part and Meanopause on the clowns part or… IS IT ALL THAT BLK CRAP they are drinking…. Hummmmm seems to me it all went to shit when they started drinking that foul looking concoction they call water… Just another reason not to buy it!

    Wacky GET A LIFE! you gave up your friendship with Tre now you are IRRELEVANT. How the hell would you know anything about her or any of your “friends” lives anymore you have proven time and time again that you cannot be trusted!

  15. HAILIESMAMA says:

    Jaco really is wacko.

    Obsessed w/ Teresa.

    BFF don’t always try to disagree w/ you and get you to understand other peoples points of views. They’re as outraged as you for you, b/c that is what bff’s are.

    Your a jealous drunken whore, please go away go away go away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  16. jen says:

    IMO JAc-ASS should just STFU!!! No more blogs.tweets,interviews involving anything with the show or anyone on the show!!! You didn’t have the balls to show up to the reunion so STFU!! Anything you have to say now is not important STFU!!!

  17. SandraDee says:

    I’m lmao here, loveeeeee the comments. She’s NUTS!!!!!!! I can absolutely say I’m a military brat and was in many places and had manyyyyyy schools and guess what, I couldn’t tell you how many friends I had that once we moved that, unfortunately was the end of the friendship, because most of the time the kids DON’T have an addy to give to one another! She’s totally and EXTREMELY, out in space. I mean I’m starting to wonder now myself if the person who mentioned the BLK water isn’t correct! Seems like someone drank the koolade of hate! She’s out there and i hate what they’ve all become and how that are ALL now attempting at every oppurtunity to attack Tre. Enough is enough already. Ive refused to watch the show due to whats happened to Tre. But on twitter or Facebook or here seems as though she and her other little minions from la la land, are constantly obsessed with Tre! Seriously its so high school and no fun and until the NUTS and CLOWNS are gone, oh and the hobag and the creepies, I will still will not be able to watch it. I’ve tried once this season but when the show hobag and caroclown, I become physically sick to my stomach. As for wacko Jacko, she’s like the animal that pisses and craps on your floor cause they are to dumb to know better!

  18. mari says:

    I remember in one of jac’s blogs before she went off the deep end, where she complemented teresa for being a good friend and just would sit and listen when jac was having a fight with dina and how she respected that teresa didn’t take sides. Hmmm. Maybe, someone should read this back to jac and remind her that this is how a mature adult acts, not run to twitter and bad-mouth a person you are having issues with and reveal all their deep, personal secrets along with their mother and daughter.

  19. disgusted says:

    Oh Please you didn’t want them to come at all no two friends ever share the same view on EVERYTHING but if its real the friendship lasts and you always have your friends back no matter what how is this the quickest she has ever forgiven anyone if you say it took twoo years??? how can you imply Teresa doesn’t still keep in touch with her childhood friends??????? and it seams to me you have had your share of fighting with ppl on the show … your daughter , dina , caroline, Danielle , kim g , and now Teresa am i leaving anyone out? you really are one to talk Wake the f up and come out of your drunken stupor … Caroline is manipulating you like a puppet….. And for the record Kathy was implying that the pics of desserts in the book WERE HER MOTHERS the recipes were not even included… she was just talking about how to put those desserts together if she wasn’t implying they were her mothers recipes she would have said “my mother used to make that too Not oh my mothers pizzle or what ever She didn’t see a recipe but they were her mothers how funny… i know it seams like i think I’m talking to jacko but thats because i hope she reads this Iol

    • donnalee says:

      HA!!! I am sure that only the truly stupid would ever fall for Kathy’s lame excuse. I’ll go with 99.9% knowing EXactly what she meant!

  20. jk says:

    So glad you kept your friends from Vegas Jac…(your fellow hookers). But you obviously didn’t keep your sister in law as a friend, huh? But then again Dina always disliked you from the time you took Chris away from her best friend while sleeping with him while he was practically engaged.

  21. ChaRay says:

    she not a mature grown up her damn self. mature grown ups dont go on twitter rants & put “ex” best friend business out for the world to see. mature grown ups dont have a drinking habit. mature grownups dont get mad at their friend for reaching out to someone about their own family. mature grown ups dont keep asking their friend to talk about legal issues on tv. mature grownups dont tell their friend they need space and then gets mad once that friend gives them space. mature grown ups dont let their daughter act the way ashley acts. mature grownups dont act like theyre still in high school.

    tre just cant win; if she dont forgive thn she is holding a grudge. if she forgives quickly is fake! Jac is just a drunk old bitter lady you needs a therapist and a rehab session! &why is 3/4 of her blog still about tre!?

  22. Lucy2 says:

    Whackadoodle doooooooooooo…..She’s Baaack!

  23. reddvette says:

    Chris really needs to shut her up. Jacq must have forgotten she has lost 3 friends on the show Dina, Danielle and Teresa. As a military brat, no way she has every friend from childhood. Lier telling lies. The woman need prayer.

  24. bbc says:

    Jacqueline is dead on! All the while Kathy is defending Teresa, she’s being trashed BY Teresa. All the while Teresa is smiling in Melissa’s face, you just know she has plans to go after her. Whichever wife said that Teresa can’t befriend more than one person at a time is dead on.

    Deciding to make Melissa think they were getting along, Teresa just couldn’t move on and make a true peace with Kathy – who is trying to tell everyone why they should forgive the ever decreasing hairline. That made me sad for Kathy because it’s clear she can’t accept what Teresa really is.

    • Hailiesmama says:

      BBC: All the while Kathy is defending Teresa, she’s being trashed BY Teresa.

      lol. ALL KATHY DOES IS TALK SHIT ABOUT TERESA. SHE NEVER EVER DEFENDS HER! IDIOT!

      BBC: All the while Teresa is smiling in Melissa’s face, you just know she has plans to go after her.

      LOL

      TERESA HAS HER KIDS DANCING TO MELISSAS SONG. WHICH SUCKS. SHOWED UP TO ALL HER THINGS TO SUPPORT HER, AND MELISSA DID NOT DO THAT. WENT TO COUNSELING W/ JOE, & HAS KEPT IT CLASSY W/ MELISSA.

      BBC: Deciding to make Melissa think they were getting along, Teresa just couldn’t move on and make a true peace with Kathy – who is trying to tell everyone why they should forgive the ever decreasing hairline.
      LOL
      KATHY HAS MADE NO ATTEMPT TO MAKE ANYONE MAKE UP W/ TERESA, JUST THE OPPOSITE. SHE TALKS ABOUT HER ALWAYS TO HER ENEMIES, & LISTENS AND AGREES WHEN THEY TALK ABOUT HER. SHE MOVED ON W/ MELISSA BY LETTING GO THE FACT THAT MELISSA HAD CONTACT W/ DANIELLE, AND TELLING HER BUSINESS TO DANIELLE TO BE USED AGAINST HER. REMEMBER BBC?

      BBC: …Decreasing hairline (Referring to T),
      lol
      NICE DIG COMING FROM A HORSE FACE W/ 500 TONS OF MAKEUP JUST TO MAKE HER LOOK PRESENTABLE, AND KATHY SQUEEZING IN HER SPANX LIKE A SAUSAGE! LOL

      NICE TRY

      • michers says:

        Umm, melissa has a forehead you can land a plane on, said it before! I love your assessment by the way Hailiesmama!!

  25. NonnaGabi says:

    When will Jac write about something other than her conjecture about Teresa? I’m am so sick and tired reading about her assumptions on what Teresa is saying or doing, assigning ulterior motives to her every move. Tell me, who could ever look good when someone is hell bent on making you look bad. So Jac, how about talking about yourself for a change, like how you could treat your daughter like you did on national tv. Was it because she isn’t a Laurita? How about the alleged embezzlement from Signature apparel? Your alleged stripper past and what Danielle Staub knows about it.? It’s obvious why you didn’t want Teresa to talk to her. Those skeletons would come tumbling out of your closet. How about how your mom thinks its okay to verbally abuse ppl on twitter who, like you, are only expressing their point of view. Honey, if your going to dish it out, you got to be willing to take it. So please, enough with the Teresa talk. Oh, that’s right, if you don’t talk about Teresa you fade back into obscurity. Well, then I can only say, arrivederci!

  26. HWAddict says:

    MEMO TO JACQUELINE: A good friend doesn’t use social media to betray their friend or former friends confidence. What you did to Teresa shows your lack of moral character.

  27. JoJoLaMa says:

    So Kathy comes to TERESA’S book signing – a place where she’s trying to make MONEY to support her family and makes nasty, passive-aggressive comments ON CAMERA and in front of a whole crowd of ppl that strongly imply Teresa and her recipes are fraudulent and stolen like what – DAYS before she goes on this hell trip to Napa and Jac complains that Teresa is ” holding a grudge ” and should just get past it??? She says this in a Bravo blog SHE writes in Aug 2012 about something that happened OVER a year ago??? Did I get that right? Teresa is the one ” holding grudges” and needs to get over it???

  28. JoJoLaMa says:

    I still say CAROLINE even more than alcohol is Jac’s biggest problem. I think Jac is and always has been a person prone to addiction and mental illness, but Caroline pushed her over the edge. It was very obvious even in early season THREE, even before Punta Cana that Caroline had decided Teresa had to go. She was positively NASTY to her and so were her “kids” – again all before Punta Cana and the infamous ” COOKBOOK !!!” incident. CAROLINE due to simple jealousy and a need to bully someone and exercise her dominance at all times singled out Teresa. I think that much is obvious. I also think Jac was NOT exactly on board back then. So the logical conclusion is CAROLINE pulled her over to the dark side. Plus, can anyone imagine a scenario where Caroline hated and wanted to take Teresa down ( get her off the show a la Danielle ) and Jac DIDN’T agree and/or go along? Caroline just wouldn’t have that. She couldn’t have a family member AND fellow cast member on her ” enemy’s” side .

    I swear, Caroline is a TRULY evil woman. Not even because of all the sh*t she’s done or said about Teresa, because as Teresa has PROVEN over and over again, she’s a tough nut and she can take it. It’s always wrong to bully, but to bully someone who can’t fight back, is just unconscionable, and as we know, Teresa sure as heck CAN fight back. But JAC can’t. She’s no match for Caroline. Jac is a substance-addicted, mentally unstable woman and Caroline no doubt berated, manipulated, prodded, insulted and broke her down until she relented and went after Teresa. Now little Nick and CJ have a broken down, drunk woman for a mother. Good job, Caroline.

    • NonnaGabi says:

      You make an excellent point. It may have started at the S2 reunion. Remember when Danielle hugged and apologized to Jac AND Teresa? Caroline had that cold, ugly expression on her face. She was most likely so upset that they went against her ” wishes” and like you said, could not be enemies on camera with Jac, so her target became Teresa.

  29. Debbie says:

    I think all of Jacq fans should donate money so that she could get some help.
    Thankfully I am not a fan.

  30. michers says:

    Jac, you are an act and a bad one at that!!! The way you judge anything about Teresa and comment on her, her life or her family is just ridiculous and exhausting. I cannot believe you are not even sick of yourself yet. You are pathetic. You are a joke. Your words are a waste. Why don’t you save it for your family, your issues, or your own marriage? Enough already. You suck. And if I were you, I would get a refund from all of your doctors! Botox, fillers, shrink, family life coach- ugh- they all did a bad job on you.BTW- the Kim G. thing just proved again just how looney and shady you really are.

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