Heather Dubrow Slams Alexis And Sarah! Says She Wasn’t Overreacting About Eaten Cake!
Heather Dubrow took to her blog to recap this past weeks episode of Real Housewives of Orange County. Heather slams both Alexis and Sarah and believes she did not overreact about Sarah eating a piece of her cake!
“I was so excited to finally see Tamra and give her a proper congratulations on her engagement! Tammy Sue is getting married! I couldn’t be more thrilled. The pictures of Bora Bora were spectacular! I would love to go there someday! (Hint, hint Terry!!!) I know that Gretchen was really excited for Tamra, too. We were all sad that Vicki was not there to join the celebration. Tamra and Vicki have been friends for so long, Tamra’s relationship with Gretchen shouldn’t preclude them from continuing their friendship.
Dinner with Alexis and Sarah: For the record, no one is mistaking kindness for being phony. That’s ridiculous. Contrary to Sarah’s opinion (for whatever that is worth) I’m not jealous of Alexis.
Although I do get Botox, my face is not frozen. I happen to like my children to know when I am angry.
Is it not comical that Sarah is saying this while sitting across from her girlfriend who has had more procedures at age 35 than anyone I know? I have never discussed Alexis’ appearance or procedures. Its her body and her business.
Interesting that Alexis sits there at dinner, so righteously indignant about her treatment in Costa Rica, but she is perfectly comfortable having a Heather bashing session. Apparently, behind the back is acceptable. BTW, Alexis I’ve always admitted to having Botox and fillers. There is nothing about me that is “top secret.” So, you are slamming me behind my back AGAIN. Also, we worked things out in Costa Rica and agreed to make a fresh start, however Alexis is perpetuating it by riling up Sarah. Alexis could have told her that I went to her room the next day to check on her and make sure she was OK. I didn’t see anyone else in the group doing that. There was A LOT more to the dinner discussion than just being phony.
Notice it was Alexis that invited Sarah to my party. Drunk, rude, uninvited, fraudulent, itching for attention, Sarah.
Finally, Alexis, lambasted me for changing my name at this late juncture. I was a working actress when Terry and I married. I had a company, and my name was part of my brand. We both understood the significance of this. This year was the right time to do it legally (for many reasons). If it doesn’t fit into the correct set of rules and regulations you live by — too bad. Then don’t come to my party to celebrate.
PARTY!?The flowers were amazing. I LOVE The Square Root! Thanks David — brilliant as always! My wonderful caterer Brian Dobbin designed the whole look of the furniture outside. It was so sexy and cool.
As Brian can attest there was LOTS of food and it was served from the first moment. I also encouraged people to stop by the kitchen for a heartier plate of food if they wanted more than just heavy appetizers. The diamonds in the champagne were fun! You will have to wait until next week to see who gets the diamond! Sadly, the lipsologist I hired wasn’t shown (Editor’s note: watch the clip below).
The CAKE. . .Well, usually they do such amazing cakes. I have to say, I was a little disappointed. I expected the cake to be bigger. The monogram was a little Sweet Sixteen for my taste. We all know I am little particular. However, it’s still a lovely cake and it’s what the cake represents that is important to me. (BTW, it was delicious!)
Alexis and Sarah in the car: Sarah is clearly already itching for a fight. She wants to get involved (read: attention). She is starting trouble already. Also, no one is hating. I’m so sick of people who think they are perfect, and can’t admit their own faults and issues. If they are called out on anything it’s all wrapped up in “people are jealous.” Yes, that’s it. Everyone is jealous.
Back to the party. . .
Tamra and Eddie arrived first! So glad! They were ready to party! Tamra, Gretchen, and Vicki all brought the loveliest hostess gifts. Not necessary, but truly appreciated!
I was excited to have so many of my close friends that night! Lisa, Donya, Jaye, Sarah C., Dina, Ann, and so many more! This was a special night for Terry and myself.
Listen, you may think it’s silly that I am celebrating this event. For me, I am aware that life is short, it’s important to appreciate and enjoy every little moment. Terry and I are blessed with an amazing, healthy, fantastic family, and a beautiful life. My kids make fun of me because I cry at every event. So, to me, this a moment I wanted to experience.
Anyway. . .
Alexis walks in with Sarah who already looks impaired. Sarah is EATING the whole time, and she is drinking. Hypoglycemia?!? Oh please. She should do a little more research before diagnosing herself at a doctor’s house on national television.
To Alexis’ credit she is trying to watch Sarah’s alcohol intake during the party and encouraging her to drink water. Good luck with that.
Side note: Sarah walked past the ropes in my house, which I find unspeakably rude. I roped the house off so people would stay out of our bedrooms and the kids playroom. This was for the protection of my children. However, no matter what my reasons are, it’s my home. You are a guest (albeit uninvited) I would think you would try and be respectful. . .but. . .
BOW NO SHE DIDN’T!
So, here we go. . .
Sarah ate the bow off the cake?!? Is she insane? A four year old wouldn’t do that! It’s tantamount to being at a wedding and defiling the cake before the bride and groom cut the cake!
To add insult to injury, she was completely unapologetic. (A forced apology from Alexis doesn’t count.)
There was LOTS of food. Sarah was SHOWN eating. This whole thing is nonsense. I don’t believe I am overreacting. Drunk, sloppy, crazy, uninvited Sarah was arguing over something she did on purpose in a cry for attention. When I realized how far gone she was — I tried to give her an out. I encouraged her to take a break and come back. A time out. I have four children. I know how to handle irrational behavior. That’s why it seemed appropriate to offer her an Oreo. It was even a Double Stuff. Should have handled the issue.
Funny how Alexis wants me to let the whole thing go after 90 seconds, but we need to talk about cost rica for the next 5 years.
You would think it would end there and Sarah would slink into the corner, embarrassed over the incident. Well, not exactly. . .”
I don’t agree with Sarah’s actions. To be perfectly honest, I think she has made herself look like quite the fool this past season. However, I do think Heather overreacted and tends to put down Alexis in any way she can on her blogs. Do you think Heather overreacted? How would you handle the situation?!
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I don’t think the reaction was too much from Heather only because Sarah was so flippantly rude about it. She was obviously going into the party looking to start trouble. I want to know what Heather thought about her bodyguards who watched Alexis and Sarah walk over/around the roped area…LOL
Heather is hit or miss for me but I think she is very genuine. She does look down on Alexis frequently which is bothersome. It reminds me of the whole Bethenny/Kelly you’re here and I’m here argument.
I believe that Heather is pretentious to an extremely annoying fault. I am surrounded by women like that in my family, and having to deal with it in real life is more than enough for me. I don’t need it on my TV screen, also.
Heather, do yourself a favor, come back to earth with the rest of us humans, dabble in our idiosyncrasies, and leave the Martha Stewart/Leona Helmsley borgs behind… You will find it most refreshing.
Heather tries WAY to hard to make herself look better than everyone else. Tamara worshiping the ground Heather walks on isnt helpful.
They are both bullys, even four year olds know to be kind to people.
Terry is funny, but should stay OUT of the drama if he wants yo be respected as a professional
First off Sarah is clearly an alcoholic or a drug abuser and its amazing to me that bravo allows your behavior to continue. Does this girl not have family to save her from herself. She was very rude and inebriated and to honest i would have told her to leave also. Shame on bravo for exploiting someone with a drug problem for more drama.
Team Heather all the way! She did not over react to the situation at all. If anything, I think she kept her cool. I would have kicked Sarah and her bad energy to the curb…like the trash that she is. ((evil laugh))
I don’t think Heather overreacted either. However, I think involving Tamra, Gretchen, and Vicky was unnecessary. I wouldn’t have had the back and forth with Sarah in front of all my guests. But, hey that’s just my opinion and we all handle things differently.
Money can’t buy you class… my friends. *COuntess voice*
I am totally team Heather on this.
Ewwww…don’t care for Heather. it is clear she thought her husband’s name was yuckky. She changed it so she could have some sort of story, otherwise she is just trying to convince us that she has been well brought up. Well…no one well bought up would have confronted a tipsy guest about swiping icing from a nouveau riche cake meant to celebrate a change from a maiden name to a married one. If I were Heather and this happened i would check to make sure that the swipe didn’t leave the cake too germy to serve to guests, and maybe have removed it to the kitchen where it could be watched. I would not have ever mentioned the incident to anyone. As for Heather’s husband involving himself in this ridiculous situation, I dislike bitchy men. Men should behave like men and not involve themselves in female drama. Terry is an ick, not manly or attractive because of his behavior.
I totally agree. She did overreact and she still is overreacting and acting like a child on Twitter.
On the car ride over, you can see Alexis trying to prevent Sarah from calling out Heather and trying to head off the drama. She really has no call to blame Alexis for Sarah being there – that’s clearly Bravo induced as is Gretchen’s invite to Jeana. Those were people brought in by Bravo.
Though agree Heather can be uptight if Sarah did not like her she had no business going to her house uninvited period. She also had no right to eat a cake that she did not pay for. I don’t care how much money heather has and how she can replace it it was petty rude. Alexis then had to jump in with her non-logic this girl sarah was clearly on some sort of medication and wasn’t acting normal. It makes me sad to see people with addiction on TV with nobody to stop them.
Heather did not overreact whatsoever. She told her friends about it, but she didn’t approach Sarah and wasn’t going to confront her about it until Tamra did. Notice that Heather only said something AFTER Sarah was completely rude and unapologetic about breaking the bow off a cake that was the centerpiece of the whole party.
If Sarah had just apologized and genuinely meant it, everything would have been fine. But she was not only drunk, she was down-right rude when she was an UNINVITED guest in someone’s house. If I were Heather and someone called me fake and pretentious in my own home (when, once again, they were uninvited) I would’ve picked Sarah up and tossed her out of my house. At least Heather gave Sarah a chance to simmer down, but drunk-ass Sarah couldn’t get the hint.
BTW, this is the SECOND event/party that Heather put together where Sarah showed up uninvited, drunk and causing drama.
I totally agree with Heather. How can you say someone is overreacting to an uninvited, drunk, rude person that shows no respect in your home? Alexis should not have agreed to take Sarah with her.
I think Heather overreacted and was NOT a gracious hostess. I agree that Sarah was a drunk mess, but after she apologized Heather should have moved on and let it go. She gets mad at Sarah later in the episode for bringing the incident up, yet Heather didn’t mind gathering her friends and recounting the incident before confronting Sarah.
Was what Sarah did classless? YES. But IMO this is a case where two wrongs don’t make a right.
How you handle a bad situation, ie Sarah and the cake eating incident, says just as much about the person you are publically stoning. What Sarah did was tasteless; however, The Joker proved to me that she has no more class than Sarah by the ridiculous way she handled it. It was like a 10 year old that someone touched her birthday cake.
With the way Heather reacted I assumed Sarah ate the whole top layer of the cake off or something , I mean come on. Was Sarah wrong by breaking off the HALF INCH she did? Of course, but Heather should have said her peace and walked off , but before you know it all the housewives were there and everyone was continuing on. Talk about adding fuel to the fire! Plus You cant argue with a drunk, so why bother and For Pete’s sake it’s a cake , they acted like someone punched a baby. If this is a showcase of their so called real life problems someone please sign me up, they can have my bills and actual problems! Lol. I honestly just can not believe how she acted over cake!
i agree totally. they acted like something horrendous happend and it was over a small piece of the fondant. not even the cake but the decoration which nobody noticed until one of heathers weird friends snitched. it is heathers cake and she has the right to be annoyed but to be so dramatic and angry about it is ridiculous. heather made a huge unnecessary scene along with vikci, tamra and her annoying husband terry. alexis was the only one trying to calm the situation down.
as for sarah, what a nutjob. i think she knew exactly what she was doing when she ate the bow. it was her little way of getting revenge on heather and getting on her nerves and it worked.
Apparently Heather didn’t get the memo that Bravo doesn’t care about her fancy parties. They will bring the drama in the shape of uninvited guests. So really she should be pissed at Bravo.
She says she doesn’t talk about Alexis’ procedures yet she just did.
She’s way too pretentious for my taste.
Sarah eating a portion of the bow was most likely put into her head by Bravo for turning a classy party into a trashy one….
Heather has class, shows class & the party was one of class. So, ‘no’ I absolutely do not agree that Heather overreacted in any way whatsoever. I would have had her removed for much less as it was an upscale event with meaning to Heather & by invite only.. Sarah appeared to be attending/crashing the wrong event, as the ‘picnic at the park’ & a casual bbq definately wasn’t at this location…
Regardless, it was a set up for ratings…
Bottom line: you do something inappropriate in someone’s house and they don’t like it; you don’t argue with them about it you give a true apology. Heather became increasingly miffed as Sarah attempted to argue her way out of it. And to start pulling her credit card out and offer to pay?? rude!