Heather Dubrow Says She Is Done With Alexis Bellino!

July 15, 2012 | By | 63 Replies Continue Reading

RHOC star Heather Dubrow has made it clear she isn’t very fond of Alexis Bellino but personally, I’m still confused as to what the problem is. Maybe Heather wants to make sure she has a spot next season and is stirring up drama to keep her on the show? Whatever reason, Heather says she is done with Alexis!

She tells US weekly, “For me, I’ve really tried to restart with Alexis a few times, and right after the reunion I thought we were on the road to recovery. And then she turned around and trashed me in an interview. And I thought, ‘you know what? At some point you have to know when to shut the door,’ so I think I’ve shut the door.”

Alexis reveals after everything she’s unsure about returning next season saying, “I don’t know at this point.. Honestly, I think I’ve taken a pretty good beating and I don’t know.”

Both ladies have trashed one another on interviews. They need to move forward, set an example for there children and let them know that it’s okay to move forward! Why do all the housewives have a problem doing this?!

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  1. Sarah says:

    I agree, I fully believe Heather laid it on thick in order to secure her spot next season. But with Alexis most likely not returning, who will be the one to endure Heather’s wrath if she is asked back? I personally do not like Heather or her housewife of a husband. I’d rather see Alexis back then Heather.

    • cherrylipgloss says:

      A-a-amen…amen….amen!

    • Say What?? says:

      I cant stand heather. Tamra use to be my favorite housewife but she really showed her true colors this year and i cant stand her anymore. Also, Slade blogging that Alexis should be fired is RIDICULOUS! Gretchen should be fired for promoting fake CRAP. I’m reallly o ver OC this year and doubt ill watch next season if Tamaras and Slade are on again.

      • EJJ says:

        YES! Gretch lied about her lip implants when Tamra had screamed you got your lips done. “No, I didn’t it’s my lip plumper”. YOU LIAR!!!! You just wanted to plump your pockets and make everyone think they could get those lips with your lip plumper.

    • Atlgirl says:

      I’m with you. Heather came off bipolar or wanting attention. Her attacking Alexis the entire season made no sense!

  2. maribel brown says:

    Happy for Alexis..I thought Heather was ten times worst than Alexis..She is just like Tamra..a mean girl..except Tamra is a leader and Heather a follower, she doesn’t have mind of her own…she should go bac k to Middle School

    • cherrylipgloss says:

      @maribel…I agree with you…it’s all a matter of degree….Alexis has a level of pretentiousness but Heather outdoes her in that arena

  3. cherrylipgloss says:

    I’m siding with Alexis on this one. Yes, she flaunts her lifestyle, possibly embellishes at times, but let’s just look at who has the most austentacious home on the show. Who emblazens their foyer with their own initials/LOGO??!! I canNOT for the life of me come up with anything more pretentious than that!

    Heather believes that if she digs at someone while remaining “prim and proper” that it makes it okay. Well, it doesn’t. Saying someone isn’t “cerebral” is exactly the same as calling them stupid. Questioning everything Alexis does comes across as blatant bitchiness.

    I completely understand wearing a faux ring. I’ve always done exactly the same thing, especially when I travel. It makes for a much more relaxing time. I bring out the good stuff for special occasions. My original diamond is irreplaceable, thus making the insurance argument moot. It’s the sentimental value that counts and clearly Mizz Dumbrow doesn’t grasp the concept of sentiment.

    Asking anyone about renting/owning their home is in extreme bad taste…that just isn’t done. Heather can call it “having a conversation” but the fact is that she was trying to make Lex look bad…fortunately it only served to make Heather herself look like a total jackhole.

    And as far as Lex supposedly talking down to others, the one person whom I saw speak condescendingly to staff, caterers, and the help was Heather herself. And then there’s the “velvet rope”….puhleeze.

    Having said all that, with the reviews I’ve read about Terry Dubrow’s practice I predict he will be losing patients in the near future. Their help is sure to be switching foie gras and shamps for huge helpings of crow!

    • Sarah says:

      Agree 1000% You didn’t miss a thing!

      • cherrylipgloss says:

        awe thanks…that rarely happens…lol

        • OCjudge says:

          I dis-agree, Alexis has to go out of her way to make her feel worth (from money). Heather might be a bitch but please tell me one woman who does not have that in her blood.

          Heather has class going about how she feels about Alexis. Clearly we are watching the same episodes and think different. WOW!

          • cherrylipgloss says:

            clearly…starting with every woman being a biotch… most sexist thing I may have read to date on the hw sites

          • Denver says:

            What show are you people watching? Alexis is Bat Sh*t C R A Z Y. She is horrible to staff (which is totally unforgivable). They have a website about how awful she is! You have to be pretty bad to have retail associates writing about you because they see all the horrible people out there.

    • pita0013 says:

      I love the “the help” comment, too funny!

    • EJJ says:

      I agree as well. I’m not married and not engaged so I’m talking wedding rings here. But, the bulk of my real and expensive jewelry is passed down through my mother. I’ve had two experiences in which I was wearing my jewelry and looked down and it was gone… probably just slid off my finger. Now for daily wear, I just wear sterling silver jewelry no more than 50 bucks. If I lose it, it’s okay. My good stuff is only for special occasions. Why deal with the stress? I saw nothing wrong with Alexis doing the same, and can’t figure out why the other women thought this was so insane. I know plenty of other women who do the same.

  4. jen says:

    I think they are are full of sh*t on this show! However if Alexis does come back for another season she must know not one of them can stand her and she better suck it up it was her choice!

    • Atlgirl says:

      She and Vicki seem to get along now. That seems genuine. In fact it’s Vicki I’m worried about. If Alexis doesn’t come back who is she going tospeak to?

  5. T says:

    I’m not really sure how I feel about heather but I think Alexis is fake. I feel like she is always playing some time of game with the ladies. Her & Jim plan out what they are going to do. Like now I feel like she’s playing the victim. In the beginning of the season Alexis was not nice to Heather but when Heather finally gave it back to her we are supposed to feel bad for Alexis???
    Alexis & Jim were ridiculous to Peggy last season & both of them sided with Simon. Simon is a controlling ass. She was also the one that wanted to attack or “bully” Vicki at lunch a couple seasons ago.
    So no I don’t feel bad for Alexis b.c I think she is totally phony.
    She also threw her friend Gretchen under the bus as soon as she was caught in a lie at the reunion. You could totally tell Alexis was caught lying by how she was reacting to what Gretchen was saying. Alexis knew they were going to confront her. It wasn’t bullying. Tamra was the only one that was out of line.

    • michers says:

      T- excellent! I share some of those thoughts. It kinda bugs me that people are believing the poor Alexis crap ! She was hated until recently apparently, by many many people! I think Tamra was a little harsh( but she is my fave, lol). I cannot stand how people like Alexis’s act’ and I do not know how much of it I could personally stand of it before blowing my top. I thought it was highly juvenile how Alexis treated Peggy, who was supposed to be a friend of hers for several years. Its funny how Lexi-poo does not ever bring up things like that, or apologize for them??? But Tamra doesn’t take responsibility? To me, if you dissect what one does, you need to look at the rest because none of them are legendary!

      • T says:

        @Michers
        I just checked out Alexis’ TL for the heck of it. She is RT & responding to every bad tweet about Tamra, Gretchen & Heather. What is so ironic & hypocritical & fake is that Alexis is also promoting an anti-bullying campaign. Give me a break! So it’s not O.K. for them to say anything bad about Alexis but its just fine for her too??? Gimme a break! She is fake fake & more fake.

        • MissVigyal says:

          Exactly the whole cast admits they say things that r wrong it’s just that this season Alexis isn’t the one in charge she had no problem calling Vicki out last season.

        • michers says:

          Of course she is, ye the first one to have her hubby blog about it all, or cry about how only SHE was a victim, target, whatever! She has always been the same girl who started the show- fake! I wonder why she lets her hubby bully her? If she thinks she was bullied by these women, then Im saying her hubby bullies her!!! And, she bullied others herself.

        • cammierari says:

          I’m not a big Tamra fan (yet) but Alexis is just a big, phony crybaby. If you dish it, you HAVE to be ready to take it when it’s aimed your way. Alexis TRASHED Peggy, who was HER FRIEND. She completely stressed Peggy ( a former post-partum sufferer) out to the point that Peggy left the show! All because she dated Alexis’ husband at one time and HE didn’t tell his wife. I mean come on-that’s pretty mean! And she RT’d people who trashed Peggy on twitter too back then if I recall correctly. I’m glad someone besides Tamra is willing to call Alexis out on her bullshit, because many times, Tamra goes TOO far and therefore, doesn’t really get her point across. I’m hoping Heather will remain cool in explaining to Alexis the shocking extent of her phoniness.
          As far as Heather being pretentious, I think the ladies of OC (and BH) are ALL pretentious, but some of them aren’t quite as bad as others. I put Heather in that category lol. I would literally laugh in Alexis’ face if I had to listen to her for more than an hour-not because I was trying to be rude, but because I wouldn’t be able to contain myself!

      • OCjudge says:

        I agree! Poor Alexis has to go out of her way to look important.

      • Say What?? says:

        I wouldnt say ‘hated’ but i did not like Alexis beofre this season. I dont really ‘like’ her now. I dont see her playing the victim role either. But i do see Tamra, Gretchen and Heather playing the mean girl role and trying to take her down. Its so obvious to me. Its exactly what they are doing on RHONJ with Teresa. Only its worse because Teresas family is involved.

        I think Tamra was told by producers to be-friend Gretchen so that it would leave Alexis isolated with no friends on the show. They calculated this, planned it, manipulated the situation and executed it! It is EXACTLY the same as Teresa on RHONJ and should show the viewers how production most deffinetly plays a part in everything that happens.

        • michers says:

          Say what- you could very well be on to something there!!! In my opinion then, Bravo is the mean girl, lol !!! They are getting greedy- I saw that with RHONJ. If they could watch and allow real people to destroy family, they can and will do anything for a dollar and ratings. But we continue to support- vicious cycle.

          • EJJ says:

            I get where you are coming from…
            But if these people really care about preserving their families, then why not leave the show?

      • can'tstandnastypeople says:

        Tamra is the worst telling Alexis to change… Why does Alexis have to change and Tamra can still stay the same mean “honest” bitch. Tamra hides behind saying she is just honest but she is just not nice and cold hearted. That type of person is the same person that bullied people around as kids. How is it ever ok to treat people the way she does and be cruel and still have admirers? That is why there are so many incidents with bullies because people feel entitled to say what they want and manipulate weak people to follow their shitty behavior. Gretchen used to be my favorite but she so desperately wants Tamra’s approval and friendship that she is becoming plain nasty! Alexis was so great to her defending Gretchen last reunion regardless of her flaws and Gretchen just dumped a good friend for a complete lost soul (Tamra).

        Alexis has her flaws but who doesn’t? They all do! They need to learn to accept people for who they are and if they were trying to help they approached it all wrong. I highly doubt they tried helping because all 3 of them are probably jealous of Alexis specially nasty Tamra…. Tamra is aging horribly and it is probably her rotten soul that is coming out! I really hope she learns her lesson in life.

        Alexis I hope you find strong women who are not threatened by you and accept you good or bad. It is hard to find as much women have superficial friendships and none that are really true. Let these girls have each other because they deserve trash and that’s what they have. Good luck and don’t let them bring you down.

    • Order says:

      As a point of order, Peggy had all the signs of a stalker which is what Jim alleged about their prior relationship.

      What are the odds Peggy ended up exactly across the street from Jim out of Millions of Orange Co. Homes?

      It appears, Peggy was still obsessed with Jim and befriended Alexis to have contact with Jim and his life. Peggy was acting strangely towards Alexis before the Jim connection was revealed. Peggy is another of those persons who snuck behind someone’s back to get on the show. Lots of deceit there.

      • sammy says:

        Peggy has mental problems, that was very apparent when she was on the show. Go figure alexis didn’t like her, I wouldn’t either.

      • cammierari says:

        wow that is a totally different picture than I got from Peggy. I don’t know any of them, so I’m willing to admit you could be right, but…Jim is the creepy one to me. IF Peggy moved to his street purposely, shouldn’t JimBob have told Alexis about their prior relationship, considering the family MIGHT be in danger..? If Peggy was that mentally ill, all the MORE reason for Jim to tell Alexis what he didn’t-and since he didn’t, I can’t see Peggy as a stalker

      • michers says:

        WOW, I could not disagree more!!! How can you say that? She was embarrassed to admit she was ever remotely close to him! That is in no way her issue that he is such a sicko that he could not and would not tell his wife anything… And the fact the Alexis backed that BS up makes her even more of an idiot, on national television. If Peggy wanted him, she would have had him- he was miffed she did not want a real relationship with his controlling arse. Hello, have you seen her hubby? There is no way she would stalk Jim Bellino. She was acting out of her feeling bad that poor Little lexi did not know what a jerk Jim really was. She felt horrible, as she said on reunion that she did not know he never told her, and did not think it was HER place to do so, Jim should have. That would have opened the door for the girls to talk about it if need be. OMG…

  6. Grammy8 says:

    Pot calling the kettle black.

  7. MissVigyal says:

    I respect everyone’s opinion but I just don’t see y side with Alexis who is a superficial, delusional, controlled persona. She uses religion when it suites her like when she is explaining why her husband controls her. She lies about everything, for example first time meeting heather she says o I’m a news anchor! Lol then she says she says the wrong thing but she knows exactly what she is saying. She is a lying sad girl who can’t stand how unhappy she is with her disgusting husband and tries to put others down by proving how much money she doesn’t have. Trash if u ask me.

    • michers says:

      I agree with you! I respect other’s thoughts as well, but never did I really like Alexis from day one! She was the same as she is now- thats what I don’t get! She has not changed, she never became a better person! Because more than one person had the same problem with her, and wanted to address it, its a problem? and bullying? Ugh whatevs! I also love how she tells people on twitter who call her out for her looks that she is the “same girl” HA. No she is not, lol google her old pics, especially from when she was in school.. and even from her first marriage( o yeah, her ex has called her out also for her gold digging ways, google that too)

    • cammierari says:

      completely agree MissVigyal! Well said!

    • T says:

      @Miss Vigyal…completely agree!!

  8. Sherice says:

    I didn’t always like Alexis, but I think that what makes me side with her is the absolute nastiness that came from Heather and Tamra. Seriously wasn’t even worth it. And I agree with cherrylipgloss..being prim and proper while smacking someone with nasty comments is not cool.

    And the apology from Tamra was a little too little too late as well. Especially since it wasn’t done on camera.

    • michers says:

      Hmm, I respect your thoughts, but the thing I disagree with a little bit is the not apologizing on camera! I thought that was better because maybe after the reunion she may have felt bad! Either way, people would have a problem with it! If she did on camera, they would say she only did it on camera to be fake!

    • sammy says:

      And it kille me that gretchen, tamra, and heather try to act like they are not fake. Gretchen is the worst for lying about her plastic surgery, just to sell her products.

  9. I knew it! says:

    Terry & Heather only asked Tamara if they wanted to use their house so they could secure a spot. Heather did say that Terry begged her to apply on the show in her first blog or so.

  10. pita0013 says:

    I really don’t have a dog in this fight. But if I had to sum it up, I don’t think Alexis will be back. I’m still reeling from Gretchen & Tamra being BFFs. Who would have thought? However, I did notice last year on WWHL, both Gretchen and Slade said they were fond of Eddy (so I think it may have been in the works for a while). Having said that, I wouldn’t be surprised if Vicki was “let go” also.

    • cammierari says:

      hope you’re right on both counts pita

    • cherrylipgloss says:

      I’m thinking there is still unfinished business with Vick. I think Bravo sees a storyline in the vick/brooks/brianna/ryan saga….(annnnd, I kinda wannna see the outcome….crazy vick doesn’t acutally produce anything visceral in me the way shana did so I don’t really mind her version of cray…she’s just a screamin’ banshee)

      • michers says:

        Ugh they will try to show her as the sweet little Grandma next season as she will also still be a sugar mama to Brooks!

  11. Sofia says:

    Heather was ‘done’ with Alexis before she even met her!
    All thanks to Tamra!

    Really hope Alexis doesn’t come back!
    I can’t wait to see what happens when Tamra and Heather try and tell someone else how to act and what is OK to say and what is not!Alexis wasn’t a match to those two.
    Bring on Heather’s ‘Jet Friends”!!!
    ;o)

    • Sofia says:

      Ohhh and I never liked Alexis UNTIL she became the target this season!Just like I wasn’t crazy about Teresa, until she became the target!
      Happens all the time!lol

      I just hope Caro NEVER becomes the ‘target’ because I would HATE to side with her!

      • cammierari says:

        I thought Teresa was just an over the top, flighty, cheerful, harmless housewife. But after watching the season 3 reunion, and feeling for Teresa, I went back and re-watched the entire season, and found that Teresa had never said one mean thing in her talking heads about any of her cast mates, and never cracked wise about any of them unless they were IN on the joke. Which was the complete opposite of the rest of the cast. I was completely in her corner from then on!
        What’s funny is…I’m pretty sure there is nothing that could be done to Caroline by a cast mate that I wouldn’t think she deserved! She has been so evil the past two years.
        I never liked Alexis (and I still don’t lol) but while I wasn’t a fan of any of the Jersey HW’s really,I would have to say my favorite WAS Caroline. I have NO IDEA why!! Can’t remember a single thing about her that isn’t hateful these days…

  12. ajaii says:

    I dont get Heather , SHE started with Alexis first and NEVER STOPPED along with her catty azz Husband.

    Alexis needs to leave this trainwreck behind and let the others turn on each other.

  13. madamedummy says:

    can’t stand heather ..
    still want to know how ” alexis treated the crew”
    the lie about calling alexis a phoney was it for me ..blatant lie ..
    hubby too ! a real pansy …ewwww
    the women are jealous of alexis …
    (or jealous of her plastic surgery)
    if alexis ‘canned’ the oversize cans she’d look somewhat ‘natch’…
    heather looks hideous and anorexic ….

  14. Daisy says:

    For the most part as this season played out, I had sympathy for Alexis. Who wouldn’t feel empathy for her as she sat around a table of friends and had each one of them come against her or say little to nothing to stand up for her. But there are two sides to every story and in retrospect I do know that Alexis hasn’t always been kind in her comments to the other women as well. In fact she’s been guilty of doing the same thing.

    Her husband is a very selfish male chauvinist pig with a holier-than-thou attitude, very arrogant and condescending. Alexis uses her faith when it suits her but mocks it with her enormous fake boobs that she enjoys telling people she loves, as well as all the other superficial material things she seems to value more than anything else.

    She’s no better or worse than the rest of them. However at least the others don’t really claim to be better and she and Jim do. That to me, makes them hypocrites.

    Having said that, I still enjoy them all in the show. I hope they keep the same cast but I have a feeling Alexis won’t be asked back.

  15. Daisy says:

    I don’t think Heather started anything with Alexis. The first episode we heard Alexis putting down Heather for not being a well known actress and no Angelina Jolie among other digs. So Alexis started it and she really has never explained why, other than to say she was caught up in the moment. What? A moment of jealousy and mean girl talk? I thought she was above that…

  16. maria G says:

    It doesnt matter if alexis started it, im sorry but when heather said she was an “actress” i had to even google her and i still didnt know what the hell she was on. I dont even consider that being an actress lol, but whatever. I’m sorry but the fakest one to me is heather. Did anyone see her pix from the circus? Who the hell wears chanel flats to a circus? Can you not even be casual to a damn circus? Do you take a shit with a damn chanel ball gown too? Last time i checked you guys were the ones bombarding alexis with the “pretentious” questions..can she not give you the answers? Thats what you wanted..correct??? I dont think alexis is being fake or the victim, she got stabbed in the back by her best friend and ganged up on. How would you guys feel in the situation? I’d be hurt too. But i like to always say, “what doesnt kill you makes you stronger.” alexis do your thing. It will be no time before tamra gangs up or pisses her new bff just like she did to vicki….tick tock tick tock…

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