Evelyn Lozada Ran To Neighbors To Get Away From Chad Johnson After He Attacked Her!

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Earlier today, we found out Chad Johnson butt headed his wife Evelyn Lozada after the two got into an argument when Evelyn found some condoms in his car. Evelyn was so scared that she ran to her neighbors house for some safety.

According to the Police report obtained by TMZ, Chad head-butted Evelyn and started screaming, “I don’t give a fu*k. I don’t give a fu*k about my career!” Evelyn then “Fled on foot to a neighbor’s house to get away form Chad.” That’s when Chad took his car and drove around to look for her. Evelyn called 911 at the neighbors home.

From TMZ:
The officer who responded says in the report he observed a 3″ laceration on her forehead. The officer said when he spoke to Johnson, he admitted the two argued, but said she yelled “F**k it!” at him and then she head-butted him.

Chad was released earlier today. Check him leaving with his lawyer and meeting with his brother below answering no questions.


Do you think Evelyn will give Chad another chance?

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  1. Daisy says:

    I’ve never heard of him but he sounds like a jerk.

    • MT says:

      Chad is a washed up Wide Receiver with no break away speed, and Evelyn is a fame whore who has lived off pro athletes for 15 years. This is merely her realization that his paycheck is about to dry up. 80%+ of Pro Athletes spouses dump them within the first year after they retire (look it up), it wasn’t like they even had a chance.

      I’m not even talking about her entitlement issues, or the fact that she’s straight-up crazy, with a temper that’s off the charts.

      Run Chad, don’t walk away from this train wreck.
      Maybe you’ll got lucky and be able to keep some of your earnings. She drained her ex like he was on tap, and you were next. Be happy!

  2. Susan says:

    Yea, any man that head butts a women, isn’t a man at all!! & than gonna lie & say she’s the one butt headed him!! SMDH

    • Bionic says:

      Have you ever watched her show? She has really bad anger issues and is quick with the hands. No excuse for him to touch her but I can believe him. The chick is like a dude on steroids with a can of ephedra. NUTS

  3. Keysha says:

    Knowing the attitude Evelyn displays on Basketball wives, I would say that I believe Ocho! I don’t know him very well, but from what I have seen and heard from him on the show he seems very respectful and low key! I could be wrong, but Miss Evelyn is very hot headed, and likes to pounce whenever she deems necessary!

    • Andrea from alabama says:

      So true. This is the same woman who boasted about not calling the police during altercation threw a bottle at someones head and climbed on s table a flying monkey trying to fight, and hit a former friend twice. Not to mention the throwing of glass at Royce and verbal abuse of Suzie. I dont an ounce of sympathy for her, if you ask me she’s getting up what she put out. Now that shes had her ass beaten and had to call the police for assistance with a manic I wonder if all the things said about Jen are for her.

    • Lori-Anne says:

      YES SHE DOSE ONE WAY OR A OTHER, I’M TELLING YOU THAT BITCH IS CRAZY!! WHEN IT COMES TO THAT MAN OF HER’S SHE GETS EVEN “MORE NUTS”! THAT’S THE TRUTH! LOL I MEAN IT’S NOT FUNNY AT ALL, I’M JUST SAYING……..

    • Erin says:

      That B is crazy but were you watching the same show I was? Everytime he was on that show he was an arrogant jerk who treated her with complete disrespect. I believe he did it and I hope Evelyn drops his ass just like the Dolphins did! Here’s the site with the police report.

      http://globalgrind.com/news/chad-johnson-police-
      report-domestic-violence-released-evelyn-fled-her-neighbors-photos?gpage=1&#gtop

  4. teresa says:

    This is awful, domestic violence and violence in general is just wrong. She as been a serious ‘hot tempered woman on her show but she is know match for him, thank goodness she didn’t try to defend herself and ran away for help.

  5. DebV says:

    So much for Ev jumping on tabletops, throwing things and threatening other females …. she was quick to run her ass away from the same type of behavior we know her for on BBWives. Not so funny when she became the recipient of the violence.

    • michers says:

      As much as I am saddened by any abuse, I hear you! It bothers much more how quick she was to get all nasty and shady to jennifer, physical threats and all, but Jennifer was RIGHT. Realistically, did anyone really ever think this union was going to make it … and without infidelities or drama like this? I did not.

      • Maru the Cat fka Sharon Lea says:

        This doesn’t surprise me with the way she was acting when she got mad on BBW and yet it does. This is horrible. Chad had a mean streak, the way he would ‘jokingly’ verbally run her down at times, I could tell that was real in him. But then didn’t Ev say something like Chad would be the one to calm her down if she got too angry (anyone know the exact quote)? I don’t know who did what, but this relationship/couple needs major counseling at the very least.

        I don’t want to watch their show at all – no way.

        Will Jenn reach out to Ev? Maybe they can forget the past and come back together now. If there was ever a time Evelyn needed a friend, it is now.

        • missE says:

          sorry but two grown women fighting eachother is NOT the same thing as a huge NFL football player trying to fight a woman. Maybe if this report was about Jennifer beating Ev up, I could see where you all think this is some kind of karma, but to suggest that she got what she deserved, and to go so far as to say “oh big bad Ev ran away from her husband” is sick. He’s a man, a professional athlete in peak physical condition and he’s much much bigger than her. Anybody on here saying that she deserves this because of her own displays of aggression toward women on her show is a lowlife. NO woman deserves to be intimidated and hit by a man, let alone their husband. I hope none of you judgemental morons ever gets beat up by your husband, but if it does happen I wonder how you would feel if other women turned around and said “good, you got what you deserve”? Or maybe your daughter got into a lot of fights in highschool and then goes on to get beaten by her boyfriend, I wonder if you would say the same to your daughter? Think before you judge, people.

          • Tina says:

            Totally agree! Well written! Unbelievable that anyone would even attempt to compare situations. Sad and ignorant!

          • DebV says:

            Lowlife and morons …. really? Same behavior pattern as Ev. Can’t make a point without trying to belittle someone. I have no problem with people having a different opinion from mine but at least have the ability to correctly determine what my opinion is. I certainly did not say that Ev deserved to be abused by her husband …. my point is that now maybe she knows what it feels like to be on the other end of violent and unacceptable behavior.

          • thefam3132 says:

            I agree 2 women fighting is not the same thing as a man doing it to a woman. However Evelyn was the one laughing and talking ish when it happened to Gloria on Basketball Wives. It was funny to her that Matt was arrested for beating Gloria.

          • MotherSlain says:

            Thank you..
            Im currently in a very emotionally/verbally abusive relationship (Im leaving, got an exit plan)…

            But until youve been there, pls dont muddy up a great blog with horrific judgements. Its a lot harder than you think. If you want to help Eve, then help. Otherwise pls think of a female you love in this type of situation.

            Btw-im no fan of Eve’s behavior and attitude towards others…just trying to be positive

          • michers says:

            Thank you Deb V. and to missE.- what is moronic is you trash talking people’s comments. Most of the comments people put are based somewhat on judgments based on what we read and see on these shows. I never said anything about Karma- I do not wish abuse on anyone but in regards to Evelyn, give me a friggin break!!!!! If you have watched her in action you would understand what is moronic and ignorant. Sorry her husband head butted her, sorry for her if she was hurt that does not equate my thoughts to directly saying she deserved it. Its ironic that the one who was all about that life of beating down others feelings, thoughts, and well- being and was physical multiple times was in the situation she was just in.. AFTER she stated publicly she basically knew he would be cheating and to use condoms. BTW- NO ONE deserves to be threatened and intimidated BY ANYONE.. ya know kind of like how Evelyn did everyone on the show when they did not agree with her? How she did her best friend for 10 years? How she did Royce for no reason. Gloria? Suzy? Girl she threw a drink in face at?

      • Nellz says:

        Couldn’t hv said it better myself!!!

      • U can't hide stupid says:

        ITA… I mean, is anyone really surprised that this woman’s marriage includes police involvement and dv. I mean..,u look up hood skank in the dictionary her picture is there.

    • Debster says:

      This is a NFL football player. Not another woman. It’s not the same. The man head butted her and drew blood on a woman. No respect for him. None. Evelyn may be a hot head but there is no excuse for this. Especially since he shouldn’t be having condoms in the first place.

      • Bionic says:

        I dont think you ever saw the show. Have you? in one of the last eiposes, this is the same chick that tells Ocho (her soon to be husband) that it’s ok to be with other woman as long as she knows about it and she can participate. Was she mad that she didn’t get some?

        No excuse for the DV but then again, this is the type of men she likes. It’s not the first time this happens to her either. She’s been dragged before… I wonder why is this such a scandal when her daughters dad used to knock the lights out of her.

    • Lori-Anne says:

      SWEETS GIRL YOU ARE SO SO “RIGHT”…………. (: MY MOM SAID, ALWAYS WATCH FOR THE OTHER SHOE, CUZ IT WILL KICK YA RIGHT BACK, AND YOU MAY NOT LIKE IT… BUT HE IS A MAN SO WE ALL NEED TO KEEP THAT IN MINED.

  6. Maria says:

    No matter what she had done in the past or on Basketball wives, she is no match for Chad. He is football player and she is about 5’3 125 lbs give or take. A man that hits a woman is SCUM! I have been a victim of domestic violence, had my wrist broken and needed surgery to get it back in place, metal plates and screws. I feel bad for her, no matter what happened in that car, and we will never know the real story, violence is not OK. For a man or woman to hit each other.

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Maria. I’m sorry anyone ever raised their hands to u. Really. And I hope the rest of your life Willie peaceful and full of people deserving of your love. But, I’m still not surprised this marriage has devolved into 911 calls and do charges. Do I feel bad for her, yes. Ive felt bad for her for a long time. But I’m not surprised. U marry trash…. Ur gnna be picking up. A lot of it. If everyone else knows this man is imbalanced – I’m also sorry none of her friends were ble to convince her not to marry him.

      Shame…I hope she comes out stronger, but wiser. Still. I’m not surprised. U know why….. Cos u can’t hide stupid.l.. Lol

      • Maria says:

        I agree 100%. She knew his past. But you know that some women are blinded by love (like I was) I got out of it and I am happier than ever now. I just hope that she comes out of it ok. She is a hot headed Latina like me, but at the end we are woman and very venerable. Lol, you are right you can’t hide stupid!! :)

    • Lori-Anne says:

      AMAN !!!!!

  7. Nellz says:

    Hmmmm I am totally against a man abusing a woman. This chick has basically based her image on being a hot headed bad ass… She was so desperate to hv Mrs. In front of her name, that she was willing to put up with anything from this man. Am I not the only one who saw all his disrespectful remarks towards her (that all these flamingos running around here thinking it was cool), she was already enduring mentally and emotional abuse. He cheated on her the night b4 her b-day party (yea, the Maserati, guilt “present”!!) … The universe certainly has a way of flinging shit right back at you, when u fling it out there. #IJS

    • MotherSlain says:

      So true…i caught his disrespectful comments towards her. Ugh!!!! To close to home..
      I thought maybe i was being too sensitive…

      Well sd Nellz

      • Lori-Anne says:

        NO! SWEETS YOU WERE NOT,.HE HAD A LOOSE MOUTH TO HER, CUZ AT FIRST I THOUGHT THE SAME THING INTILL I HEAR IT AS WELL. I FEEL FOR HER…

    • Andrea from alabama says:

      She has said in several interviews that she prefer that he uses condom than bring her home a disease. He was even filmed last season telling her she could basically participate. So I agree with you, she knew what she was getting. This idiot bitch ended a 12 year friendship with Jennifer because she questioned Chad. Not only did she end the friendship but went on a witch hunt trying to make Jennifer look like a fool. On the “vacation” how she dogged Jen, threw bottles and glasses and water, and verbally abused other women. It’s the life shes bragged about having, so whose looking like a fool now.

      • Lola Falana says:

        Evelyn (a big-a*s fool too. She might as well grow ears and a tail the next time I see her on my television screen because her behavior on BBW and this recent event makes her look like a straight JACKASS).

        I feel for her like I feel for any woman in this situation. Nobody deserves to be abused. But Evelyn needs to learn to stop abusing people also.

      • MsMaria says:

        Andrea you are wrong. Do you watch the show, do you read her interviews? She clearly stated she wants a monogomous relationship. But, god forbid (yeah right too late) he cheated, she would want him to cover it up and not let the bitches get pregnant. Men are pigs regardless who thsy are or what profession they are. I am 25 and its only getting worse the way men behave. I have told one of my exs if you ever cheat, use protection and TELL ME so i know what it really is. Even if you still give a pig this option they will still lie. Do i think it was ever dumb of evelyn to say that? No cause i have to. Men will do what they want regardless. As far as jennifer, jennifer was the one talking shit about ev’s fiance. I’m sorry, but would you go on a radio station and talk shit about your best friends man to the public? Evelyn was her BEST FRIEND. Say what you want about people but why would you go and put it all out there that hes a famewhore? JEN was the one that sold out her friend for some gossip. Its not the other way around. If my best friend did the same thing I wouldve kicked her ass and kicked her out of my life too. Friends are supposed to be there for you, not make you look stupid in public.

        • Lola Falana says:

          Evelyn made HERSELF look stupid in public. Jenn simply told Evelyn the truth, which is what I want my friends to do for me. I’ve learned the hard way that people that always tell me just what I want to hear are not necessarily my friends.

          Jenn apologized for giving an interview season before last. Jenn also said that this blog that Evelyn was allegedly so offended by was written before that particular reunion. She said she saw Evelyn at the reunion, and she and Evelyn were cool. No problems.

          Then, lo and behold, the cameras start rolling for the next season, and Evelyn all of a sudden has a problem with her over a blog that was written before that last season’s reunion. That timing is just suspect.

          I think then and there, Jenn decided that she and Evelyn came from two different worlds and thought very differently about friendship. So, she decided it would be best to move on from the friendship. Not everybody is meant to stay in everybody’s life forever.

          Evelyn thought Jenn was going to come running and begging for Evelyn’s friendshp back. When she did not, Evelyn acted like she lost her damned mind!! Evelyn was too old for all of that crazy behavior. I’m sorry.

          Jenn was not the one who revealed all kinds of confidences shared by Evelyn during their friendship. Evelyn did that. So, if Jenn made a mistake by sharing her honest feelings about Chad in an interview (which she APOLOGIZED directly to Evelyn for when Evelyn let her know it hurt her feelings), then Evelyn made a mistake by hitting below the belt and revealing personal things about Jenn on national television.

          So, I’d say they are even in the “My Friend Done Me Wrong” Department.

        • Andrea from Alabama says:

          MsMarai, tell me, how in all that humanly possible does Jen’s talking justify Eve’s touching? If you can justify that to me, you will render me speechless, and sweetheart, thats’s impossible. And I understand the single life of a 25 year old. Im married now, but when I was in undergrad, I lived the single life of college student, and let me tell you I had a good many “boyfriends” and whatever else you want to call it, and no I’ve never told a MAN to wear a condom, that’s a conversation that he should’ve had with his daddy when he decided to start having sex. I know plenty of men out there, that are dogs, and they use condoms, not for their girlfriends, but for themselves, I know plenty of upstanding men that are good with one woman, so don’t generalize me, it makes you sound ignorant. Maybe it’s not the men that are the problem, but the women that they’re dealing with. After all , everyone wipes their feet on the doormat. And I can’t speak about Jennifer and Evelyn’s friendship, but it seem highly inauthentic to me, loooong long, long before the trip this past season. I’ve watched past seasons where Evelyn has called Jennifer bougie, because she was from a two parent home, she was a world traveler, and she was college educated. Come on now, isn’t that the kind of life Evelyn is trying to provide for her daughter, better than what she had. The term bougie, is very offensive to me, probably because I was called that, or maybe it’s because the same thing my parents were doing the 70s, 80s and 90s, and was causing their kids to be bullied and deemed “not black enough” are the same things that people are trying to do today. I could go on and on about Evelyn’s hypocrisy, but I gotta go get ready for RHONJ.

        • U can't hide stupid says:

          Men only treat u as bad as you will allow them.

        • Bionic says:

          What show where you watching? She clearly said they can both swing it with other woman in one of the episodes.

        • Bionic says:

          I seriously think you are watching some other show. Jen sold her out how????????

          She said EXACTLY what has been proven this weekend. EVELYN likes men like Chad. The proof is in the pudding. That’s what Jen said and that she (Jen) doesn’t want a man in that lifestyle. That’s what the article was about. So how did she sell her out?

          Evelyn had no story line and likes drama. She made the issue bigger than what it was to create friction.

      • michers says:

        Andrea, I saw that also and wondered if they would question her more about it on the Reunion show. I thought that seen was a joke..who talks like that about getting married on tv and cheating?????

        • Andrea from Alabama says:

          Michers, I know I read the interview in Vibe Magazine, she also said the same thing in Sister 2 Sister, so to answer your question Maria, no I no longer watch the fuckery known as Basketball Wives. And while youre discussing the hypocrisy this bitch is sprewing, she is the one calling other women “bum bitches” because they’re not using their money for hair, nails, clothes, shoes, cars, and lifestyle they can’t really afford. She’s the one bragging about being about a life of ghetto thuggish behavior, she is the one saying to her further husband, “just tell me if you’re fucking around” (duh bitch if he ain’t using the condom on you then he’s using it someone else), she is the one “blasting” Jennifer for no loyalty. And then she has stupid ass Shaunie and Tami on the reunion talking about not wanting someone to go to jail for one mistake. I wonder, does that bullshit applies to Chad for beating Evelyn’s ass, or just when Jennifer is slapped in the mouth. And for the record, my mama told me, that I had a right to hit NO ONE, and NO One has a right to hit me. It sickens me when SOME women hit, and then expect w man to sit there like a knot on a log. That is not right, you keep your hands to your self, and discuss what is going on like a reasonable adult. If that is impossible after being married for a little over 30 days, then you’re stupid. I also stand behind my assertion, that this ignorant, ghetto, hood rat has built an imagine of being so “passionate” about being ignorant that she she hits, throws, curses, and makes a baffoon out of herself, and I’m supposed to be sorry. What for? There are women are there being the shit kicked out of them, and do not deserve it, there are men and women out there being victimized in all kinds of circumstances, and they do not deserve it, I am against hitting. But I’m also against hypocrisy. What’s good the goose is good for the gander. You cannot throw bottles at someone’s head, a glass at someone’s head, sneak and hit someone in the head, push someone’s head, laugh about all of it, and expect me to feel any sympathy because someone head butted you. I know there are some people who will not agree with me, but I’m telling you from working in the CJ system, my first jib out of undergrad was as a victim’s advocate, and I’ve seen just as many men beaten the hell up too. So don’t give me the “she’s a woman bullshit.”

          • U can't hide stupid says:

            Preach, sister preach. And ltns missy. Hope your summers been going along well. On Evelyn well u and I are right here (eye to eye) on her. She is sadly a victim of her own self centeredness. Shame. But like I said above… I’m not surprised… Nt even a single bit that the marriage has devolved into 911 calls and do charges.

          • Andrea from Alabama says:

            Hey U Can’t Hide. The sum met is going swimmingly, we just found out that we’re expecting in March. But yes boo, we are in total agreement. One of my co workers who watches BBW swore that these two would never under any circumstances make it to the alter. After wer returned to work after the wedding she gave it less than Kim K.’s marriage, no joke. I know people think Im being very self righteous, and lacking to this woman’s situation, and I’ll admit, I probably am, but so what. It’s the imagine that SHE put forward for us to draw upon. You know I work at a youth facility, and my consumers (teenage girls) were obsessed with this foolish bitch, who has no talent, no education, and no accomplishment of her own to brag about (except for being engaged to a man for 10 years who had several kids on her, and didn’t marry her, and filed for bankruptcy). I see the dangers of women like Evelyn Lozanda, not just to other women who are around her, but also for the your girls that look up to her and walk around talking about someone being a “bum bitch” or “not about this life.” and telling the wife of the man she was fucking that she was a “non mutha fucking factor.” No, I dont have compassion for her, and I don’t ever plan on doing so either.

          • Bionic says:

            #THIS!

            I have to agree with you. It was ok when she went around doing it to everyone else. Now it is done to her by the closest person to her and she’s “victim”. She is, dont get me wrong but she had no remorse or took any responsibility for like 3 seasons of all the abuse she did to others. Baffles me how all these ghetto chicks, who DO NOTHING for society but expose a BS LIFESTYLE are laughing to the bank with this.

            America runs on Bullshyte…

      • Lori-Anne says:

        You go girlfriend you are a 100+1% “RIGHT”! SHE IS THE BIGGEST “FOOL GOING” AMAN!

  8. MsMaria says:

    I’m sorry. I commented on the post earlier and someone shut me down by saying basically what goes around comes around. It actually irritates me that people are saying this. No its not what comes around goes around. And she does NOT deserve it. If she head butted him why the hell would she have run from the car and knocked on someone elses door and called the police? IF eve DID head butt him, would she really have a 3 inch laceration on her forehead? What kind of a woman has that much force to hurt herself like that. Maybe a freaking sumo wrestler, yes. Evelyn is strong but not that strong! For people to say she deserved this, you really do disgust me. All jokes aside, call her a gold-digger, bitch, whore, whatever the hell you want, i dont care. But for you all to say she DESERVED THIS, WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND? REALLY? As a woman who has been violated by my ex, this is disgusting to see women put down another woman when she is at her lowest point. SICK! a woman fighting with another woman is one thing. We can handle each other fighting. But for a man that is made of all muscle and strength you guys think its OKAY? this is the problem with women these days. We cant help a female out when she is down on the ground. We just walk right by her?? Having someone put their hands on you changes your life and its something you will never forget. You are not only hurt pysically but emotionally. I went back to my ex for over a year and guess what? He still pulled my hair, choked me, slapped me around. Domestic violence is not a joke and it should NEVER be tolerated by anyone! Put yourself in a womans shoes who has been beaten, and some women even KILLED because of sick pigs! Say what you want, but saying she deserved it is disgusting, please pray for yourselves that you never cross paths with someone that lifts their hand on you or your children. I suffered for a year and couldnt even tell my family. I’m happy atleast she has support. God give her strength during this hard time, and strength for the women that are too afraid to leave!!!

    • Lola Falana says:

      With all due respect, Ms. Maria, I feel your pain. I honestly do. Many years ago, I was also in an abusive relationship (physically, verbally and mentally). Thank God I got out.

      People can still have compassion for Evelyn but ALSO point out Evelyn’s own abusive behavior. No, Evelyn did not deserve what Chad did to her.

      But Evelyn’s castmates, including her former friend, Jenn, did not deserve Evelyn’s physical and verbal abuse either. The only person Evelyn can control is HERSELF. I think she needs to focus on getting help to try to figure out why she allowed herself to be abused AND why she also abuses others.

      Just because a person has a different opinion on this subject does not make them a “bad” or “evil” person that wants to see Evelyn suffer. They are just pointing out that Evelyn has a pattern of provoking and also causing abuse to others.

      Also, just because I was formerly in an abusive relationship does NOT mean that I cannot call it like I see it when it comes to Evelyn’s behavior.

      Again, I say this with all due respect. Sincerely.

    • Andrea from Alabama says:

      Maria, I’ve never been violated nor hit, but then again I don’t go around violating and hitting others. And I worked as an advocate, I know that abuse can cut both ways, this is the same idiot who has blasted others for calling the police for being hit, so why did she do so when she was hit. I’m not saying that he should’ve been hit, however, don’t be so quick to believe that she’s a victim. And while she doesn’t deserve to be hit, neither does the people that she has hit. You are correct there are women out there that are being beaten (much worse than a three in cut), I mean teeth knocked out, broken limbs, sexually abused, and their kids to, so I take violence in all forms very seriously. As I said, I’ve worked as an advocate and I’ve seen women be very vicious also. As a matter of fact, I was only able to work as advocate for five months before quitting without notice, it cam be a very gruesome job yo witness. All I’m saying, she cannot claim to be the battered victim, she has put bad karma out there. She has been a proud abuser of WOMEN. All I know, she better not do the talk show circuit of being for women after four seasons of the abuse she shelled out to other women. It’s not comparing apples to oranges. Wrong is wrong. I DO NOT HAVE A RIGHT TO HIT YOU BECAUSE I DON’T LIKE WHAT YOU SAY. That LAW applies to both male to male, female to female, male to female. Keep your hands to yourself.

    • Lori-Anne says:

      WAIT IT WASN’T THE MAN IS WAS HER FRIEND OF 12 YEAR’S GIRL, DAM MAMA TAKE IT DOWN, WE ALL WERE “TALKING” ABOUT THE “FRIENDSHIP THAT SHE HAD. DAAAM. RELAX, I’M ALL FOR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING, SHIT I BEEN THEIR AND DONE THAT FROM A MAN SO YA I KNOW WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT, OK. just saying.

    • Bionic says:

      Stop mixing your personal emotions into this situation. You sound too attached to give an unbiased opinion.

      If you went around hitting other woman, throwing bottles at your “peers”, slapping your “friends”, punching people on the head, throwing a glass to someone’s face, walked on top and across a table and jump like an uncivilized heffer, then yeah what goes around comes back around. ALSO, it is very well known the type of relationships she gets involved in. Chad was actually one of the “better” ones. This is not the first time a man beats her. It’s a cycle for her. Maybe it was not for you. It wasn’t for me. It happened once and you best believe it wont ever happen again.

      Besides, what makes you think she is leaving him anyway?

    • Lashonda says:

      I don’t think that she deserved to be headbutted by Chad if in fact he intentially did it. He says they were in a heated arguement and they butted heads. Is this possible?…. Yes……and yes, because his head is harder she could have sustained the injury.

      I don’t beleive in violence wether it’s a man violating a woman or a woman violating another woman. It’s wrong. And yes, I do beleive you reap what you sow. You sow good seeds, you reap good seeds, you sow bad seeds, you reap bad seeds. All of you that are victims of domestic violence…..trust me your attackers will have to pay for what they’ve done.

      However, I do see Evelyn as a hypocrite. On the union of BBW Tamie,Evelyn said where they’re you don’t call the police and get lawyers involved in these matters they just scrap it out. Shaunie says Jennifer should have never pressed charges on Nia because no one died.

      Do we live a double standard? Press charges if a man hit a woman, but it’s ok for a woman to violate another woman. Violence is wrong.

      Chad told Evelyn he could not live his life in a box, he didn’t know if he could be with one person for the rest of his life and he was marrying her for her money. Chad never hid who he was.

      A smart woman knowing her man has issues wouldn’t get directly in a man’s face knowing he could go off.

      Honestly with Evelyn’s mouth she probably pushed him to a point he couldn’t take her anymore. Yes, he should have gotten out the car and walked. but they are too hot headed people. Let’s just see how it plays out and now I want to know what is her, Tamie and Shaunie’s take on violence and now is it ok too get the police and lawyers involved.

  9. reddvette says:

    Ev is the same woman who said you don’t call the police. She is about that life, the thug life, the gang banger life. This shows she is only “about that life” when she is causeing the violence not when it is directed toward her. But, come on why headbutting? That could have been an accident. They both may have been in each others faces yelling, accidently butted heads. Just saying. Why fight about condomes when she said as llong as he used condomes he could f*ck other woman.

    • MsMaria says:

      So are you saying she shouldve taken it and not called the police? Come on..get real for a second

      • Bionic says:

        Well it was a “PUNKB*TCH” move when other people called the cops because she hit them or her friend hit them.

        Why does it apply to one situation and not to others? She was “abused” and what was she doing to everyone else?

        I hope this is a wake up call for her and she changes her ways… besides, she has an adult daughter that she has set a horrible example for.

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Redvette She’s only “about this life” when her adversary is smaller than her.

      Maria. I totally relate to where you’ve been, but u know if I were gay – I would t want my woman hitting on me either. So when is it alright? When is it wrong? Is it only wrong if my man (woman) is bigger than me? If they’re smaller,l the. Its ok?

      I think we just need to obey that law of “keep ur hands to urself”.

  10. kimme33 says:

    Evelyn made a recent statement that she realizes just how much she is looked up to by young girls now more than ever as a role model. i hope she takes this very unfortunate time to show young men/women that any abuse is unacceptable. If she has actually grown as she sated, she will let the world see her as a strong woman that does not need this man that caused her physical abuse.

    • Bionic says:

      When the show was almost not renewed and boycotted. Shauney had to tone it down or else she was fired too. Only when it got close to home that she said her stepdaughters were watching and laughing she realized that it was not “funny”. She was making people have nervous breakdowns with her abuse. How was that a joke?

      She’s terrorized and bullied at least 4 women on a show that had 6… Nice!

  11. Sammy says:

    Jeez….if they break up I guess there will only be 1 season of their new VH1 show…

  12. DebV says:

    Fox Sports is now reporting that the Miami Dolphins have now released Chad from the team. So … I guess the Dolphins made him cry!

  13. Tenisha says:

    I just have to reply to the people saying she deserved this: NO women deserves to have her husband or boyfriend abuse her. NO women deserves to live in fear of someone who has vowed to love and cherish her. If you had ever dealt with domestic violence personally or through a close friend and family member you would NEVER fix you mouth to say something like that. I pray to God you never experience that moment when you are looking your husband or boyfriend in the eye as he is hurting you.

    • Andrea from Alabama says:

      Tenisha,

      Are you asserting that it is okay for women to abuse other women? I’m confused. Right is right and wrong is wrong no matter if it’s my husband beating my ass, or my former BEST FRIEND who is a woman, I do not liked to be hit. I’m not stupid enough to say what I will never do, or what my husband will never do, I agree, I never want my husband to kick my ass, but can you see why some many people feel nothing for this woman. This is the life that she glorified on National TV for many years now. This is not a woman who has walked meekly around, and never been a terror to others, she at damn near 40, has revealed in making other WOMEN’S lives a living hell. I don’t want anyone to get my message confused. I do not believe in hitting-period. I don’t think that parents should hit their kids, I damn sure don’t think men should hit women, and I 100% don’t think that women should hit women, or women hit men. Like I said upstream, we’ve seen Evelyn instigate a heated conversation to the level of physical violence MANY TIMES before, I wouldnt be surprised if she “playful” pushed him or hit him first. You cannot hit a man and expect him to sit there and maintain his “cool,” you don’t expect him to do it when you drop your panties, you dont expect him to do it when he’s defending you to another, so don’t expect him to do so when he’s defending himself against you. All I’m saying is, as a woman, I cannot truthfully say that I am in support of equal rights for men and women and a supporter of Title IX, and not make ignorant comments like, “a man is not supposed go hit a woman no matter what.” As a woman that supports equal rights, I support equal accountability. All I’m saying is, Evelyn “man hands” Lozanda had a role in all of this, she needs to recognize it, and own it.

      • Tenisha says:

        I am in no way condoning hitting whether it be your spouse, your child, some chick on the street, a close friend or an acquaintance. Evelyn has instigated many altercations, she was wrong and I hope she gets help for her anger issues.. No one deserves to be violently assaulted. No one deserves to be assaulted by their spouse for any reason. To equate her being assaulted by her husband with the attempted assaults on the show is faulty logic. We have all done things we are not proud that may have caused harm to someone emotionally or physically. Do we deserve to have our husbands or significant others treat us the same? I see the word Karma thrown around a lot. Wishing someone harm or ridiculing and belittling the hurt of others is no better. Those who say you reap what you sow need to really think about the hurtful comments they are throwing out there and what kind “Karma” they have left themselves open for. At the end of the day, Evelyn is a woman who was physically assaulted by her husband. That is enough for me to feel compassion for her.

        • Andrea from Alabama says:

          “We’ve all done things that we’re ashamed of.” That is very true, but it usually applies to ONCE, maybe twice. When you know better, you do better. I think if. You keep doing it, then you’re usually proud of the behavior. But Evelyn was proud of her ignorance. Dancing and laughing with Tami after hitting Jennifer. “Does she deserved to be hit because of things she’s done to others?” Perhaps, she is also the person who yelled that Jennifer getting hit was her “karma.” But if you read my post I said, I wouldn’t be surprised if she struck her husband first. And for the record, Mrs. Johnson released a statement claiming she did not know if the head butt was “intentional or not.” She further stated she wasnt sure what happened at all. That probably means she hit him, and he hit her ass back. Oh, and she won’t be divorcing her “abuser” because she doesn’t want to return to her occupation of smelling feet at the shoe store. Excuse me, but I do not have any sympathy, empathy, or any other fuzzy feelings for a mean spirited bully, who has hit several different people, and found humor in it. But you’re welcome to feel all the warm and fuzzy feelings you want for her. It’s your opinion, but no fears, unlike Mrs. Johnson, I don’t hit people who have different views than me.

          • Tenisha says:

            Wow! You are so self righteous! You ever think maybe she can’t remember all the details because she was head butted hard enough to need stitches? You might want to lower your nose out if the clouds or else you’ll wont see the pitfalls and ditches that you’re bound to fall into with that attitude. Compassion is not a warm and fluffy feeling…just a human one. You may want to try it sometime…if you can ever step down off the soapbox you’re perched on.

          • Andrea from Alabama says:

            No I’ll keep my nose in the air, while my hands are at my side.

        • Andrea from Alabama says:

          I almost forgot, “we’ve all done something to someone that may have caused harm to someone emotionally or physically.” Does that mean we should not be held accountable for our actions. I personally feel that intent is not as important as the action. It’s like the person who drives home drunk and kills the single mom on her way home from work. While it was his INTENTION to go home, it was his ACTIONS that caused someone else their life. Intention is just another term for not taking responsibility for your actions. Does that mean that Evelyn should be forgiven and not punished for her CRIME against Jennifer? If the answer to that question is yes, then shouldn’t that same kindness be afforded to Chad Johnson? Please elaborate.

          • Tenisha says:

            Absolutely Evelyn need to be held responsible for her actions…however Jen forgave her and dropped the charges. Trust and believe that anyone who puts their hands on me will pay for it. There’s no reason that grown adults can not settle their differences with words. There are a couple of versions of what happened between Evelyn and Chad. If he head butted her…he needs to Go to jail. If she hit him and then he head butted her they both need to go jail. Either way…keep your hands to yourself.

          • Andrea from Alabama says:

            Exactly my point. It’s not that I have a “lack of compassion” for Evelyn, it’s just that we ALL have to be held responsible for our actions. If she wasn’t on tv, I wonder how big her beer muscles could get? I wonder how many times the other cheek would be turned? Her ass would be in jail. I am the intake coordinator at a juvenile facility for teen girls, tomorrow, I’ll be sure to blog about how the girls who idolize her feel about her being victimized. Last season I didn’t watch the show, but I knew everything that happened and that was said, because these girls were emulating her. That is all my argument is about. Taking responsibility for YOUR actions. Evelyn for four seasons bullied, fought, and cursed on national tv, it never once occurred to her that girls were watching her every move until she started to receive backlash for how she treated Jen. I know she’s not a role model, but unfortunately, she is to alot of the girls in my facility. And acting like her (and other ghetto fabulous, uneducated, talentless, reality “stars”) is the reason why they’re with me.Tomorrow when I have talk down a heated discussion between the girls about this fool, I’ll remind them, that you can not represent yourself to the baddest bitch around, when you’re really just a cotton ball; people will not have any sympathy for you. Its the same with the male consumers, obsessed with pretending to be gang bangers and then complaining when they’re profiled and stereotyped. You cannot be mad about that. I could go on and on, but I need to get some shut eye. Tomorrow, I will be sure to blog about this though.

        • Bionic says:

          The irony in your comment… so biased.

          “Do we deserve to have our husbands or significant others treat us the same?”

          What’s the golden rule, again?

          • Tenisha says:

            I ask you the same. Would you want people saying you deserve to get hurt because of what you had done in the past? I understand how wrong she was because of her actions. But if the people who were her targets forgave her and moved on, why is everyone else still mad about it?

          • MariaJ says:

            Amen Tenisha!

  14. U can't hide stupid says:

    I didn’t read any comment which said she deserved. It. I read some that said they’re not surprised; some that said she’s a bully to others so I surmise that means its about the size of the person. All in all I feel sorry for the lady. But I’m not surprised. Deserve it? Of course not.

    And as for her Thinking she’s a role model to young girls .

  15. Honnie Badger says:

    So, Evelyn, how’s that marriage to a professional athlete going for ya? Still “in love” with your husband?

    Sorry, I cannot stand classless golddiggers. No tolerance.

  16. Andrea from alabama says:

    I’m back as promised. Today the topic of conversation, Evelyn getting in what she put out. I asked my consumers (female juvenile offenders ranging in age from 11 to 16- different groups) still, an overwhelming number of girls believed that Evelyn was the victim and she has not shown any level of hypocrisy because she is a woman and he is her husband. When I asked what they thought her calling the law, they all advised it was they would do. I continue to try to understand this mentality, but I’m coming up empty. I pointed to Eric “lump head” Williams who is going in on Evelyn because of rude and hateful things that she had done to her, still he’s wrong because she is a woman. Gee Bionic, you are so correct, this is the youth of today. Girls are idolizing absolutely nothing. This ghetto hood ray bitch (yes I’m going there because her mere presence sets minority women back. She has glamorized sleeping with men for money, clothes, no education, bullying, and a false hood “rich” lifestyle, meanwhile people ate demonizing poor Gabby Douglas because she didn’t look like a supermodel while winner her gold medal. This morning, I had a moment of truth with my consumers. All they could talk about was evelyn’s car, her clothes and red bottoms: I had to break it down: how does an unemployed single former welfare teenage mother afford a Maserati? The girls, ‘duh a gift from her boyfriend.” yes the same boyfriend that she’s claiming beat her head in, the point work for and buy what you can afford, and don’t put your self worth into things people can take away. Next subject her clothes, what’s so special about all those Maxie dresses she wears. They’re basically house coats that you cab wear out. Then I offered a merit to the first girl who could tell me what the red sole on the bottom of her shoes represented; the correct name and spelling of the designers name. Hadnt gotten the correct pronunciation or spelling yet. Then finally, the ultimate status symbol, THE HERMES bag. Again I ask for the correct name of the bag, if they honestly thought she owned even one: still crickets. This woman is no victim, she’s a victimizer. It was reported that vh1 is moving ahead with the broadcast of the show, in 3 weeks. She has the opportunity to come out swinging; tell these girls that look up to her what’s real, don’t make the focus about being a victim, but how she has victimized others and how she feels to have the tables turn. Yes I’m fired up, yes I’m judging her personally, no I don’t think she deserves the public sympathy. But look at what she’s helping to create. Now I won’t blame it all on her because parents should take responsibility, but she knows that young girls look up to her, and she hasn’t curtailed her behavior.

    • Tenisha says:

      You cannot equate an altercation between two women the same as an altercation between a man and a woman. It’s different because women are no where near as strong as a man. How can you say she’s a bully and not say the same about Chad? As for her being a role model, she shouldn’t be looked at as a role model. She has married for money just like many other women in our society. She has acted wild and ghetto like many women in our society. She shouldn’t be looked up to because she doesnt represent what constitutes a good role model… like the majority of reality stars. There are very few who I would ever want any of my children to emulate. However, she is still a human being. She still deserves the same basic human rights that we all share. She does not have to be a paragon of virtue to receive the same protection from abusers that we all receive. Our whole society ranks people based on the net worth. Kids measures success based on what kind of car we drive, how much are in our bank accounts, what designer we are wearing and so on. It is a screwed up system and yes there needs to be a change. But we can’t blame that all on Evelyn. It started way before her and it will continue after her.

      • michers says:

        Tenisha, let me ask you this why not? Why is ok for Evelyn to have a double standard with this? I have watched her for 3 seasons behave worse than her husband. For me personally, I say this again: NO ONE deserves to be intimidated, bullied, harassed, threatened, or have hands put on them, bottles thrown, drinks and glasses tossed at them, MAN or Woman doing the action does not matter to me at this point with this group or with this show. That is all Evelyn has done since she came on tv!!! Because it is someone like her that this happened to, many people feel the way the do which is opposite of you. In this case, it is not so easy to just outright pity or feel bad of her because her past on tv is what the foundation of her being!!!! What is more disgusting, is that she was raising a female and these were her examples! So while I do not like people to suffer violence, I cannot 100% feel sympathy toward her because she has walked this path for many years. She ridiculed Jennifer for calling police and pressing charges against Nia or whoever she is but she gets head butted and did the same yes? Made fun of Jen because she wanted away from ” that life” but look what she just went through? So to me I hope this may humble her in some way and give her her heart back and get her mind right before she ever bullies or puts her hands or bottles on anyone ever again. Had she had been a respectful decent human being from jump, I would totally sympathize for her right now. And no this by any means does not mean I support abuse of any kind.

        • Tenisha says:

          I understand that she is not a great person. However as someone who has worked in Domestic Violence I will always have compassion for anyone that suffers from it. People who are usually violent as she is has some form of violence in their past. It NEVER excuses it. But for me it shows how difficult it is to get away from that thinking and it speaks to how long those issues stick with you. It’s really easy to sit back and judge someone for their actions and life when you have never dealt walked in their shoes.

          • michers says:

            True, I respect that you were respectful to my comment! It is easy to sit back and judge because this is what they put out on tv though, on their own. Then we come here to comment which, most of our comments are based on judging what we see them do. And also, all of us our different in our lives. How we handle stress, drama, etc.. so I cannot say what I would have done, but then again my life is very different :) My Mother was a victim of abuse, severely.I do not take this topic lightheartedly at all. I dare not judge people’s misfortunes in real life- but Ev I am judging based on what I know of her which is what she put out there herself!

          • Andrea from alabama says:

            Michers I’m sorry to hear that about your mom. As I said yesterday I was only about to victim advocacy for about five months. The absolute worse part, for me, was seeing the children being abused. Or having to watch their mothers being abused. One day I had to listen to a client cry about being beaten by her husband, not feeling like she could leave because she didn’t have work experience, money, or high school education. I listens to woman cry because she said she was staying so that he’s children could have. It tore me to shreds when her kids were removed from her care because the state couldn’t allow them to be in the home. When I got home I cried for much my husband told me to quit, I was like na. A week later the woman came in again, and her eye was so swollen and teeth gone and arm broken in two placesWe got her placed in a shelter and I didn’t go back to work there again. Things like that are what I think of as abuse. But it can also be belittling someone and intimidation. All of the things to add to the physical that Evelyn has done.

          • Tenisha says:

            @ Michers- I treat others as I am treated. If you treat me with respect I will do the same. I am sorry about what happened with your mom. I agree with you about Evelyn’s actions…she needs to learn to handle her situations like a rational, mature adult.

          • michers says:

            Andrea- Thank you :) I can only imagine seeing people come in like that woman, and OMG the children.. Horrible, and maybe this sounds ugly and i am not trying to be but maybe thats why I have no sympathy for Ev also? I have seen real people go through serious shyte, I have known of people dying because of domestic violence.. with watching Ev on this show, and jumping into this marriage and relationship with Chad- I feel hardly the same for her as what I have seen and what you dealt with at work! Im sorry if I offend those on Ev’s side, but thats my stance :)

          • michers says:

            Thanks Tenisha, and I feel the same about respect :)

      • Andrea from alabama says:

        Tenisha,

        I don’t know if you’re spot reading my post, or if reading comprehension isn’t your thing, but I know that I said I could not blame evelyn for all of it. But let’s back it up, I was at Essence in 2011, when she Shaunie, Jen, Tami, Nene Leakes, and several other reality stars were getting q bad rap for the bad imagines that they were portraying. They all said, we cannot and are the only imagine of every single woman of color, which I agreed with. My point was after The Essence Festival these same stupid went and presented themselves in the same ignorant manner. I’ll give Nene credit, she called herself calm last season, and Atlanta doesnt normal get physical and all those chicks work. As far as your ignorant comment that you cannot compare fighting of two women to man and woman, I don’t know why the Hell not. If two women are fighting it’s wrong, it’s a crime, it’s ugly, and somebody needs to take their ass to jail. Ditto for man to man and man to woman. And for the record, even though she has flown across a table like a monkey at the zoo, I’ve never said she wasnt human. But I feel that it’s human nature to treat others as you want to be treated. My opinion is nothing to change.

      • Andrea from alabama says:

        I can say that she’s a bully and not chad (which I never said but if you Wang me to okay) she a bully and not him because we never saw him laugh and celebrate for hitting a former friend, calling someone a bum bitch because she’s nor fucking for Rental cars and Hermes bags, we never see him getting liquid courage and throwing a bottle at someones head. that couldve hurt Kenya very badly. And what for? Because said she’s loose, well im saying she a hoe. Close your legs and open a book. On that not, eve an Chad are bout proud whores, ev is just a jump off that landed on her feet.

        • Tenisha says:

          For someone who spouts on and on about womanhood and being a decent female role model you sure do have a lot of ways to insult a woman. Evelyn and Chad are in the same boat here.Anyone who attacks someone they perceive to be weaker than them is a bully. I notice you are all over Evelyn about bullying women and being violent but I notice you have not really said a lot about Chad. He does not get a free pass here. Why is it that women are the first to jump all over to women for their wrong but won’t saying about the man in this situation. She was a bully on her show. He was a bully to his wife. Does it make you feel good to call her every name but the one she was born with? Do you feel all superior to her? I will state my point in my original post- NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ASSAULTED. Kenya could have pressed charges but she didn’t. Jenn could have pressed charges but she didn’t. Should Evelyn keep her hands to herself…DEFINITELY. Does anyone have the right to open a can of whoop as on her for her action on the show….NO.

          • Andrea from alabama says:

            You are right, I’ve not said nothing about Chad that the rest of America isnt saying. But for your clarification, he is stupid, a man whore, a baffoon, and out of line for touching anyone. Now how does that make you feel? I still stand behind my assertion of Evelyn and what she protrays herself to be. No it doesn’t make me feel any better to call her names, doesn’t make me feel anything actually. I guess she could’ve been asked the same question when she did the same to others. But again, I point out, this is a humble meek kind woman that everyone is all up in arms about. This is a gold digging, bitter, loose, uneducated, untalented, insecure bully. I don’t understand why you want to make her martyr. she has gotten in what she has put out. Just the same for her husband.

          • Tenisha says:

            I don’t recall making her a martyr. I’ve stated her faults numerous times. I have pointed out that she has been a bully and violent. Nowhere in my post have I labeled her a saint or meek. I wont comment on her intimate relationships as it is none of my business nor do I know for a fact how many people she’s slept with. As a woman, I have compassion for any woman who has been assaulted by their husbands. Domestic violence is never okay and it is one of the top killers of women today.

          • michers says:

            Andrea.. Sorry. Im LoL-ing with “loose”!! Isn’t that what set her off about Kenya? Kenya called her loose and almost had her face taken out by a bottle..SMH

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