Caroline Manzo Talks New Book; Says It Has A Positive Attitude and Will Go Inside Her Feuds with Teresa and Danielle!

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As we all know, Caroline Manzo will be releasing her own book, Let Me Tell You Something, in March of 2013. The book will delve into Caroline’s journey as a mother, wife, and how she feels she has achieved success in being those things. In her interview with Celebuzz, Caroline says that it is not an advice book, nor does she call it a memoir. Read the interview ahead!

Celebuzz: Why did you decide to write it at this time?
Caroline Manzo: Thankfully enough, it wasn’t really my decision. It was my PR people and my management people saying to me, “Now is the time. You’ve been on the show for a while and you’ve had the radio show and the columns that do well.” For me I just didn’t want to do anything without having my “peeps” so to speak. So they just kind of pushed me saying, “Now is the time to do it. What are you waiting for?” So, I did.

How did you decide what you would and wouldn’t include?
It pretty much was born from questions that I have gotten over the years from viewers. Primarily my relationship with my kids, the kids relationship with each other, my relationship with my husband and our marriage, and being entrepreneurs, sticking up for the rough times kind of thing and it kind of speaks to all that. And my attitude is always a positive one. It’s never a negative one. So it has a comfortable, no nonsense, and do-what-you-have-to-do in this life vibe.

Would you consider it a memoir or an advice book – a little bit of both?
I don’t think it’s a memoir. I don’t think it’s an advice book. I don’t feel I have the right to write a memoir. I just feel like I’m on a reality television show. At this point in the game, that’s called a mom of three kids that did a great job. I could pat myself on the back and my husband for that accomplishment. I have a great marriage. We’ve managed to carve out a very nice life for ourselves, but at the same time I don’t feel like I should speak to anyone. I don’t know, a memoir to me is something that’s very presidential. Presidents do that, people that really accomplish something in history in life. That’s not me, but at the same time I’m speaking to all the viewers that have asked me these questions.

Caroline adds she’ll be putting recipes into her book saying, “I talk about Lauren’s weight and what’s really cool is each of my kids when I tell a story about them, I include one of their favorite recipes. So, it’s not a cookbook. It’s just like here’s Albie’s story and here’s Albie’s favorite recipe. And there’ll be photos and things like that. What I love about it is when I speak about Albie’s learning disability and Lauren’s weight and Christopher growing up, there’s also a little sidebar from each of my kids saying how they were affected by it and how they saw it through their eyes coming from me which is pretty interesting.”

Do you address things in the book that have been questioned over the years like rumors and misconceptions about your family, such as the mafia connection?
Yes. I’ve never hidden from anything that has been presented to me. I’m a very proud person, proud of my family, proud of my life that I’ve built with Al. And at the same time, I don’t skirt around anything. We are an American family that has the same issues as everyone else. If something comes to me, I will always tell the truth because I’m not ashamed of it. I think there are things that you learn from every aspect of life: The good and the bad. So in this book, I talk about a lot of things in my life that have never been on the show that made me the person I am today for better or worse.

Do you address how being on the show may have contributed to your feuds with Danielle Staub and Teresa Giudice and the way you handled them?
Without a doubt. I talk about that too and how that affected me. Because in my reality, that would have never happened. I would’ve chosen to walk away and just stay out of that person’s life but because you do the show you’re around them. You don’t have the option. And at the same time not having the option, you have to make a decision: Do I worry about losing fans or do I worry about being true to myself? And it’s that struggle, as well, that I talk about.

I am curious as to how this book is going to work out if Caroline maintains a positive attitude throughout. This is the woman who seems to have a permanent frown on her face, talks about herself in the third person and is always so preachy. In my opinion, this whole book seems like a published brag about how amazing the Manzos are (or Caroline thinks they are). This is just my opinion, however, and I will judge if I read the book when it comes out! I am curious as to what she will say regarding being on the show and her feuds with Teresa and Danielle. Are you looking forward to Caroline’s book release?

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  1. Rebecca says:

    I don’t understand why Melissa said to Teresa “if you need to make a sig at us to sell a few more books, go for it,” when the only selling point of this book (to me at least) is the mentioning of Teresa and Danielle. Caroline stood there and agreed, but now is going to use Teresa to sell books? She also was “furious” over being mentioned in the cookbook in a joking manner, so how she could mention Teresa in her book and not expect backlash is beyond me. I highly doubt there won’t be at least ONE mean thing about Teresa in her book, and when that is published, it’ll be in print forever of how much of a hypocrite Caroline Manzo is. Also, I could care less about Albie’s favorite dish, i’m sure he’s tweeted and instagrammed it many times. This book is all about damage control, like Caroline’s new found “positive” attitude after season 4 has shown her to be not so positive, more like miserable.

    • Cara says:

      Good point, Rebecca! She spat on the idea of Teresa printing a beautiful picture of them together in the cookbook and told her to take it out. She didn’t even want to be mentioned it it. Though I’m sure she has some way of twisting this to justify mentioning Teresa in her book, whereas Teresa was crucified for mentioning ANY Manzo in hers. The hypocrisy never stops.

      • Rebecca says:

        I know! and what’s worse is Teresa made comments about the meatball contest (aired on Rachel Ray) and the 1/16 Italian comment that was also aired that same day. The problems never started until the cookbook took off and did really well. Then Caroline was annoyed. She obviously thought “oh well Teresa will never sell any of these, so it’s fine” and then she got on CA, now has 3 cookbooks, magazines week after week (whether she gets paid for them or not, it still helps her other products sell), now her haircare line, the teeth whitening, her drink (i’m sure there will be more to come) and I’m sure Caroline writhes over the fact that Teresa has had all of this post-2nd cookbook success. Caroline probably thinks “if it wasnt for her using my name, she never would be where she is”

        • pattigirl says:

          I think I finally know why Teresa called Caroline “1/16th Italian or Olive Garden Italian. Teeresa speaks Italian to her mother and it is a big part of her life. Caroline is like most of us (including me) with italian heritage. Not a big part of out lives, its where our grandparents lived. So I guess It wasn’t really mean. A little passive agressive but not mean

          • Cara says:

            Pattigirl, you could be right about that. Teresa is a different kind of Italian. Her parents emigrated here while Mrs. Gorga was pregnant with Teresa. She grew up in a very traditional Italian household, not even Italian-American. It wasn’t until she began going to school that she even learned English.
            Caroline, on the other hand, is like most other Italian-Americans where we acknowledge that it is part of our heritage and we celebrate the traditions.
            I don’t know about the rest of the country but in the NY metro area (where I live and where RHONJ are) there is a very dense Italian-American population. Some people seem to take this very seriously, as if the more Italian you are the better. People will go to great lengths to advertise their Italian heritage and will sometimes try to make themselves appear more genuinely (off the boat) Italian than they really are. I always got the impression that Caroline was one of these people. Just by the fact that she brings it up ALL the freakin time (“we’re Italian this, we’re Italian that…”) and the comment she made during the Italy trip about being resentful that she was never taught to speak Italian by her parents (which is BS, she’s 50 years old, could have learned it on her own if she wanted to). So it must make her seethe with jealousy that Teresa is a first generation Italian-American, that Italian is her first language and she is steeped in genuine Italian traditions, rather than diluted Italian-American traditions. None of this is even Teresa’s fault, it’s just a matter of when/where she was born and to whom. But in Caroline’s head it is enough to get the green-eyed-monster going.

    • Rebecca says:

      *dig, not sig.

    • renee says:

      You are exactly right. Do you all want to know whats funny? How much do you want to bet that danielles book will sell more copies? I may not be fond of danielle but at least she isn’t like caroline. I actually see now in these last few seasons why she was so upset over caroline and wacko digging into her past and trying so hard to embarrass and humiliate her. She may have her flaws but I feel bad that in a way because I judged her over what the manzo’s and lauritas did to expose her past I assumed based off of what they did and how bravo presented it. She didn’t get a fair shake and had they given her a chance she would of definitely brought more drama but I believe she would of fit in a little better. Nothing like an entire work environments that is hostile. Now teresa has been experiencing what danielle went through with these spiteful, nasty people.

      • Jerseygirl says:

        Well Renee, at least Tre is laughing all the way to the bank! ;)

        Yeah danielle got bullied. And because she wasn’t a sympathetic character so viewers turned on her and we didn’t catch on to Caroline’s nasty personality or her agenda. I kinda feel bad for danielle too. But after season 4 we know that Caroline is a bitter, proud bully with a fragile ego.

    • Sue says:

      Hypocrite is what caroline is!!!

    • real Real Housewife says:

      The PR person who talked her into this should be fired. First for coming up with the idea now rather than two years ago before Caroline alienated so many fans and secondly for her doing press describing the content like that. Her kids favorite recipes, her marriage? Having to read it sounds like the third ring of hell. Oh and we all know Albies favorite dish, she’s a cheerleader. There I just saved you $21.95

      • Cara says:

        RRH! That was funny!
        I agree with all of you though, that Danielle was bullied by Caroline and now it is happening to Teresa. I never judged Danielle for what happened it her past. I just thought she was a lunatic based on her behavior on the show (doing drive-bys at Caroline’s party, bringing bodyguards everywhere, her nonsensical ramblings, dating a guy 20 years younger than she was, etc). But I can see now that since the focus was on Danielle’s lunacy, Caroline’s antics were overshadowed by it. Now it is hitting closer to home because her vitriol is aimed at Teresa and people love Teresa. So it ain’t flying this time.
        I also never thought I’d ever have sympathy for Danielle Staub but oddly, I do. I wouldn’t be upset to see her back…even if it was just at the reunion.

    • Mel says:

      Why Teresa should do is beat her to the punch and write abt the feud first. She try to wheel ppl in saying she’s going to write abt Teresa..IMO she can write abt Teresa all day I will NEVER buy her book and hope its a flop..bec it’s that jealously that ruined a 10 yr friendship

    • Jennifer says:

      FYI, I think Caroline has been given her walking papers if she is writing a book about her feud with Teresa. LOL! I have a string feeling Caroline Manzo the fat Chuckie doll is gone!

  2. Cara says:

    I don’t think I could stomach an entire book of Caroline discussing how wonderful she is – her kids, her husband, the Brownstone, her cooking, her viewpoints, etc. There was so much just in this interview that made me choke with anger because she is so full of crap, I don’t think I could handle a whole book of it. Positive? Successful radio show? Truthful? Her delusions and her hypocrisy know no bounds and what is worse is that because she is so arrogant, she operates on the assumption that everyone else is dumb; that we don’t remember things that she has said, done or written that PROVE what a liar she is and what her character is really made of.
    I don’t think I have ever in my life witnessed a more self-righteous, judgmental, pompous, arrogant, bitter, hypocritical person than Caroline Manzo. She is unreal. No, I will not read this.

    • Tee says:

      I agree soooo much!!!!

    • Say What?? says:

      She says… Since my radio show and advice colum has done so well… WHAT? They did not do well. She is such a LIAR!

      • hannavas says:

        And wasn’t the Brownstone started by Al’s father and already well established by the time he took it over? If so that’s not really so much their achievement as his father’s. Also, all three of her great kids have “careers” that were financed by family money and none seem to be doing all that well. The fact that they prefer to be hanging out with their mother and other housewives instead of forging lives of their own does not indicate wonderful parenting to me. Her remarks about now is not the time for Albie to get into a relationship show she is not ready to cut the apron springs.

      • michers says:

        LOl Say what?- I laughed so loud at that! Wasn’t she fired from that radio gig? Wasn’t she only on air like twice, lol? And the column..pfftt.. who ever even saw or read that crap? She is not marketable, or of use to promote anything but family dysfunction! I think thats why Trump NEVER asked her on CA!!!

  3. Andrea from alabama says:

    Ain’t it something these bitches using Teresa to sell books and magazines; but she can’t even acknowledge that they are alive. And Caroline is using her ‘feud’ with teresa and how she is moving on from it, but if Teresa writes a book about her own life or the troubles in it, the she’s selling her family and is crazy.Isn’t this something.

    • JanShe says:

      Andrea, hypocrisy at its finest.
      I WILL NOT be buying any book Caro writes, why would I want to read, anything this hypocrite puts out there. NO THANKS!!!

      Her so-called radio show and advice columns bombed, why she would think that anyone is intersted in her phony/hypocritical advice is beyond me.

      How can this hypocrite deny Tiny Manzo’s Mafia affiliation, he was murdered for stealing money from the Mafia. If he wasn’t in the Mafia, he wouldn’t have been collecting the money, from a Mafia Owned Casino, the Mafia does not trust outsiders. IMO, he was Mafia, and it makes me wonder about Big Al, especially after JoGo kissed Big Al’s ring three times, ON CAMERA, at The Brownstone when he first met Big Al.

      Once a family is in they are in, no walking away. The Brownstone was bought with dirty money.

      Caroline had better make sure, that what she writes about Teresa and Danielle, is the truth, and not HER VERSION of the truth. If she writes lies, she will open herself up to a lawsuits for slander.

      She claims that she is going to talk about Lauren’s weight loss, will she talk about them lying in the media regarding Lauren’s Dr Perricone(sp) diet? And will she admit, the only reason they came out with Lauren’s lapband surgery, is because it came out in all the blogs? Will she also talk about demeaning Ashlee and Lauren, and Gia. Will she talk about calling Lauren an a$$hole?

      I don’t believe the publishers have followed the show. If they did, there is no way they would have worked with her. Have they seen Caro in action? Having her temper tantrums on national television. She acts like an entitled spoiled brat, screaming like a banshee, blubbering like a fool anytime Tiny Manzo’s name is mentioned. What is next for this Red Headed Clown, stomping her feet, or holding her breath? IT IS SICKENING!

      Will she mention her feuds with more that half of her own family? Will she tell us what gives her the right, to involve herself in Teresa’s family problems, all the while not wanting, anyone to bring up, her problems, within her own family? Re her fight with her sister Dina, Caro said: “I don’t want to discuss the situation, on air, out of respect for my Mother.” Will she tell us why she spoke about Teresa’s Mother on air? Everyone has to respect CARO’s MOTHER, but, she did not respect TERESA’S MOTHER.

      CAROLINE IS THE BIGGEST HYPOCRITE, that Bravo has ever had on any of their shows. I will not support anything that the Manzo’s or Laurita’s try to sell.

      • JanieG says:

        Repeatedly, Dina has said in interviews that Teresa was NOT the problem between her and Caroline. Caroline keeps calling Teresa a liar when she says she did nothing to come between the sisters — that means she is also calling her sister Dina a LIAR when she insists the problem has nothing to do w/ Teresa. So the problem lies with: yeah, right…..Caroline!!
        The Bulldog is like a mean, junkyard dog with a bone – will rip you to shreds if it has to, but it WILL have that bone! During her verbal lashing, she turned to Jaq and said: “are you going to take her away from me too?” This woman is obsessive.

      • LifeIsGood says:

        Great response, Jan! I agree 100% with all of your points.

        I wonder if Don Caro will discuss Fat Albert’s (hey, hey, hey!)firing from the water commission?

        Also, wasn’t her own father involved with the Mafia?

        • Andrea from alabama says:

          Fat Albert. Lmao. Two questions (1) why do they (Caroline, Lauren, Albert) LIE about the weight loss surgery when they’re not even small anyway (an extra 20 lbs wouldn’t hurt Lauren or Caroline and 50 to 60 for Albert); and why do they get offended when people talk about weight when they subject Lauren to family discussions about her weight and ignore the fact that Christopher is pretty damn hefty too.

      • Andrea from alabama says:

        Where is the pen for me to co-sign everything you just said. P.S. NO damn body is going to buy that bullshit book. Point blank period and he in that order.

      • michers says:

        Right on Jan!!! Everything you stated is what I believe with this so called “family”.As for questions you posed at the end: I would guess Hell no, lol! If she does mention those things, it will be her versions , full of delusional bs

    • NonnaGabi says:

      I think Teresa should get an injunction to stop publication. Anything Caroline has to say about Tre will most likely be slanderous. Also, why can’t Caroline just do a book without any mention of someone she wants nothing to do with? Oh yeah, that’s right. Because no one wants anything to do with her. Lastly, caroline tweeted that she was looking at apartments in Hoboken for herself, Al and Lauren. While Franklin Lakes was breathing a sigh of relief that these freaks would soon be gone, Caroline intends to keep her boys on a short leash by living rib the same town. So much for independent children. I think Caroline needs to dedicate a few chapters in her book to why she refuses to cut the cord.

      • LifeIsGood says:

        Good Lord! She’s taking Lauren with her to her retirement apt.??? What the hell is wrong with Lauren?? Girl has no pride.

        If Caro had 1% of the parenting skills she thinks she has, she would tell Lauren to live on what she is making at CatFace. If she isn’t making enough, get a second job. Tough Love, Caroline….really???

      • Sugarlump says:

        If Teresa did do something like filing an injunction to stop publication that would only make her look like she gives a damn about this stupid book. The best thing she can do is say nothing and then laugh when the book inevitably fails. I’m sure she could give two shits about this fiasco and neither do I!

    • Say What?? says:

      Teresa should hurry and write a book about being on this show with family and tell us all the back stories of how they are backstabbing poor excuse for humans. She can also explain how she kept her head up during financial ruin and Joes legal problems…. I would love for Caroline and Teresa to have similar books out at the same time. Teresas would shoot straight to the NY Times best seller while Carolines sits in the bargin bin!DO IT TERESA! ;)

      • michers says:

        Say What? – No need for T to write a whole book she said enough to boil Caro’s bunny when she pointed out the 1/16 th Italian and compared her to the Olive Garden, lol! On the other hand, I like your idea for her to have something out to shoot past her on Bestseller’s list. For a fourth time!! ( BTW- sorry Olive Garden for any abuse you may have taken).

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Andrea – you’re as refreshing as a cool breeze on a hot humid day on the redneck riviera. The whole thing makes no sense and as JanShe says, hypocrisy at its finest. Caroline is going to tell someone (not me) all about Albie’s learning disability and Lauren’s weight issue? Shouldn’t those be their story to tell? Oh but they will get to scribble their truth in the margins for people to read. Maybe this was the “between the lines” she said we should read between in the beginning of the season. I don’t know. Haven’t quite figured out what she meant.
      Don’t know if I ever shall, not sure it matters… Nt even a little bit. X

  4. CeeGee says:

    “Are you looking forward to Caroline’s book release?”

    Hell no! I don’t give a shit. Not one dime from me!

    • jen says:

      Me either. Could care less what nonsense she writes now. More then half the book I’m sure will be Teresa did me wrong,Teresa did my kids wrong,Teresa took Dina away from me, Teresa is trying to take Jac away from me,Teresa,Teresa,Teresa!!!! She will not own up to anything or even acknowledge that some of the problems were caused by her and ONLY her. And this will be her reason why she can’t discuss anything at the reunion because its in her book. YOU HEARD IT HERE FIRST!!

      • Andrea from alabama says:

        She’s going to put some receipts in the book. Is that the only way she could get a cookbook??? Somebody please please answer me, why do they think that people want to hear or read about their bs “facts” on weight loss when they’re fat as hell (even with the surgery). I know the secret to weight loss. It really isn’t rocket science: burn more than you take in jackass. You could put every receipt from McDonald’s if you want.

        • U can't hide stupid says:

          Mmm hmm… Only way she could is right. And she says that she’s doing this now because her PR people told her to? Strange, right?

          • Sugarlump says:

            Notice how Teresa has no PR people and still wouldn’t touch an idea as stupid as the one behind this book.

    • NonnaGabi says:

      Nope, not gonna read it and will ask my library not to purchase it either.

    • Margie says:

      Ditto for me CG. Caroline and Jacqueline justify their ugliness more than I can stand. It’s my truth, it is what it is, I am real, take of the mask…. bleh. Save it Caroline.

      • Joey says:

        Ditto for me too…Caroline and Jacqueline can’t see the forest for the trees. They are so self righteous and full of themselves. Even when C admitted she was horrible to Kathy and Melissa her excuse was it was T’s fault telling me not to like them. I thought she said she had a mind of her own and was not influenced by other people’s opinion. I see another Jill Z book coming and more lies. Enough! I can’t go on or they will rob me of my joy, but you guys cheer me up with some of your humorous comments.

  5. stalina says:

    “and my attitude is always a positive one” HAHAHAHA this garbage bag is so full of shit she’s ripping at the seems

  6. hoolie says:

    Oh I just can’t wait for the whole chapter on Teresa. God knows she will go in depth on her crazy reasonings/jusitifcations for the shitty, underhanded displays towards her- cause you know it’s all Teresa’a fault. Teresa is the Devil and ……..our poor poor St Caroline… ha!

    St Chuckie- Patron saint of Hypocrites and LapBand recipients

    St Kathy- Patron saint of Shit Stirrers

    St Meho- Patron Saint of GoldDiggers and Autotune

    St Joe Gorga- AKA Angel from God, defender of the Poison

    St Richie the Perve- Patron Saint of morning hard ons and secret crushes on cousins wives

    St’s Albie and Cwittofur- Patron saints in adult breastfeeding

    St Lapband- Patron saint of whining and bitching

  7. karen says:

    Caroline knows her book would not sell if she didn’t have Teresa in her book. Hypocrite that Caroline is she said – Teresa would climb over anyone for success BUT here she has written a book with Teresa and Danielle in it, her to sworn enemies. Why didn’t she just write a book about her family. Sounds like she is riding Teresa’s coattails to sell a book. I will never buy anything associated with the Manzo’s .

    • jen says:

      I know! When she was on WWHL I think in July a caller called in and asked her why she still talks about Teresa. Her response was this was taped a year ago I haven’t talked to her since. I don’t talk about her I couldn’t even tell you what car she drives. But yet she was writing a book using Teresa’s name in the hopes that it would sell.

  8. Boss640 says:

    Caroline your a big phony!!! and the only one’s who will buy your book are your stupid kids and Fugly Kathy so we will see an epsiode where Kathy is sucking up to you and saying see Caroline I bought your book not teresa , You know what, take your book and your stupid kids and lets not for get Kathy and Greggy and go somewhere far far away, STUPID!!!!!!!!!!

  9. Boss640 says:

    I guess Caroline is not Done with Teresa yet!!!! PHONY Phony!!!!!!

  10. hotsummerday says:

    I’m not surprised that Caro has to make her book about Teresa and Danielle. Nobody wants Chucky’s dumb advice, and she has nothing of interest to say about her own life, so she has to make her money off of Teresa.

    Meanwhile Teresa keeps puttng out good quality products that people can actually use: cookbooks, wine, hair care products, etc.

    • DJ says:

      hotsummerday,
      TOTALLY AGREE!!! She had to put Teresa in it. She knows anything that Teresa is attached to sells and makes money. I will not be buying this!

  11. singer030587 says:

    The only thing her book is good for is throwing it in a big Fire!!!

  12. R8dernationbby says:

    Color me surprised ..Caroline has shown once again what a low life she is. She will use Teresa to sell some books, throw in her rejected recipes, and praise her self on what a “winner ” she is. But of course she didn’t want to write a book right? It was her people..yeah.

  13. Stacey says:

    Gag me. I hate this woman. I sure hope it never comes out that Al really does/had a mistress with all of her blabbing about having a good marriage. And Im sorry but I think her kids are losers. With the family money they really should be more sucessful that they are. Lauren has her mother’s horrible attitude, so what is there to be proud of there. Carohag really should just shut her f’ing mouth and crawl away.

    • jen says:

      All 3 kids live off their BRAVO paycheck. Someone should really tell them they need to find something more secure because BRAVO will not be paying their bills forever

      • Park view says:

        Let the manzo babies collect their Bravo welfare check for now. Before we know it they will all be washing dishes at the Frownstone. But I thought Caroline at first said she would not address Teresa in her book. Guess she realized she actually has to sell some books to make a buck.

        • Lysel says:

          Exactly Park view I was totally going to say, help me find where Caroline swore she wasn’t going to even talk about the other housewives…guess her publishers said “you will if you want this deal to go thru” Who cares about her bragging about her family that is not doing GREAT at all! The only way she’s going to get readers is to put in negative things about housewives. It must be killing her that she said she wasn’t going to and NOW she has to.

          • Park view says:

            You can find caroline saying she wont say anything negative about the other ladies In her book on Stoopid Housewives. I dont know how to post a link but use search on stoopid housewives “DonCaro,s book…says its almost done”. So i guess she must have only good things to say about teresa and danielle. She really painted herself in to a corner here.

  14. pita0013 says:

    Thank you so much for this post. I just wrote a comment on Caroline’s Bravo blog…..I sure hope it gets posted. I am so tired of this woman’s superiority complex, I literally cringe when she comes on the TV. I can’t stand any of the Manzos or Greggy (their politically correct friend). Talk about arrogance!

  15. Sugarlump says:

    If it’s not a memoir or an advice book, then what the hell is it exactly? The book is titled Let Me Tell You Something. Sounds like all she is going to “tell” is the favorite recipes of her children, Lauren’s lap band surgery (I wonder if she’ll discuss her own) and weight struggles, Albie’s learning disabilities and her reasons behind her arguments with Teresa and Danielle. Who thought this would be a money maker? Her “peeps”? This book will be an epic fail as it should be.

    • Say What?? says:

      Well since her radio show and advice colum did so well…. why not write a book that will do equally as well? LMAO BARGIN BIN!

    • Joey says:

      Yeah! Like “Let me tell you something about my family, we are as thick as THIEVES.” She raves so about not wanting her parents hurt, and she is the one who is the most disrespectful by showing no humility what so ever. Sorry, didn’t mean to ramble on she is just so irritating. Who is this woman?

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Sugarlump. (love the name btw). She should call it “let me tell you something u don’t want to know about something u care nothing about”. I mean, just for accuracy and all

  16. Larry Morris says:

    I think your all nuts to just rag on caroline so much and give theresa just a pass. Theresa is a evil bitch. What the hell are all you seeing?

    • singer030587 says:

      How Teresa is more successful and has admitted shes wrong unlike those pawns of Satan what show are you watching?

      The Point is they have no reason to hate Teresa everybody knows they are wrong, and remember Bravo edits a lot of the stuff to make Teresa look bad and people are calling out the other ladies on there BS

    • Dubbalicious says:

      This is what we see..

      This is what we see.

      RHONJ’s Caroline Manzo- Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder
      Posted on July 5, 2010
      Once again I am delving into the psychological issues of the Real Housewives of Bravo television. Again I must preface my post with a disclaimer that while I have a legitimate psychology degree, I am not a mental health professional. My conclusions can only be based on what I see and reliable sources, such as direct interview, so take the information with a grain of salt. These posts are intended for entertainment purposes only, if you are not entertained I apologize.

      Today I am examining the behavior of Caroline Manzo, one of the stars of The Real Housewives of New Jersey on Bravo. It is easy to see that Caroline is devoted to her family, extremely devoted. It is also easy to see she has some serious control issues. She also seems to be judgmental, rigid and moralistic. Bear with me here but I see that she is a mother, the head of her family, that is her job and that is her obsession. I think she has Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder that centers on that, her utter devotion to and control of her family.

      Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder is a pervasive character disturbance involving one’s generalized style and beliefs in the way one relates to themselves and the world. Persons with OCPD are typically deeply entrenched in their dysfunctional beliefs and genuinely see their way of functioning as the correct way. They tend to be deeply committed to their own beliefs and patterns, resistant to accepting anyone or anything that does not adhere to this rigidly held belief system. Most often, people with OCPD place blame for their unhappiness on external circumstances. people or their environment but with OCPD it is one’s dysfunctional philosophy which produces anxiety, anguish and frustration.

      With Caroline, we see her with her family, always being the authority. Her way is the only way. Her children must pursue goals in her manner. Lauren must take certain beauty classes, Albie must continue with the law regardless of struggle, Christopher will be in the family business, somehow Caroline will make sure these events occur. Supportive? Yes. Also a bit controlling and overly involved in my opinion. These *children* are all in their twenties and still living at home, throwing ham and living their lives with their parents supervision and guidance. Whenever one of the *kids* deviates from the path that has been set out for them we see Caroline swoop in and play fixer. They are not allowed to fail or learn from their own mistakes, they are lectured and supported to smooth and bolster them to continue on the given path.

      Although rarely observed by others, the experience of inner turmoil within this syndrome is immense. As much as others are often victimized by OCPD’s oppressive and demanding style, the high standards often apply two-fold within the OCPD sufferers’ expectations directed toward themselves. It is not uncommon for a person with OCPD to feel deeply entrenched in the belief that they are a *good person*. This belief can paradoxically often lead to feelings of depression and disappointment. The high standards which their idealized self is expected to live up to are often far beyond the capacity for any human being to consistently fulfill. Since ones humanness prevents an OCPD sufferer from living according his own high standards, a tremendous amount of self-hatred is imposed.

      Within the OCPD population is a cognitive style characterized by dichotomous thinking. Dichotomous thinking is the tendency to categorize all aspects of life into one of two perspectives, all good or all bad. The world is viewed predominantly through clearly defined black and white realms. All that is pure and wholesome is valued. It can take only one stain or blemish to have the person completely find justification in discarding anything which evidences a flaw.

      I think that is really the way Caroline is. She barely knew Danielle yet finding out she had a tainted past sent Caroline into a tizzy. Immediately she did not want anything to do with Danielle or for Danielle to have anything to do with her family, friends or intimate social circle. She did not give Danielle a chance to explain, judging her without hesitation. When Jacqueline continued to be friends with her, she railed that Danielle was causing a split in her family and that Jac was allowing Danielle to influence everything. To be frank, Caroline’s focus on Danielle is every bit as much to blame for that as Jac’s friendship with Danielle was. It is really out of line to tell other adults who they may or may not associate with. Caroline hammered and hammered away at the situation until she got her way.

      For persons with OCPD, facts and confidence are all too often turned into I’m RIGHT and your WRONG. The way I see it represents the way it is, end of story. For others, refusing to yield to the correct perspective often entails encountering tension and discord. This manifestation of OCPD entails one’s adamantly guarding his dogmatic beliefs to such a degree that casual conversation often converts minor disagreements into heated debates. The relative importance of any topic rarely is of consequence in determining the degree of the intensity expressed in the midst of the debate. For the person who experiences OCPD, abstract ideals and moral standards become rigidly held truths.

      Caroline is very rigid indeed. She never admits to any mistake in judgement or apologizes for any turmoil she causes those around her. I realize many of you may agree with Caroline and her assessments but whether she is right in her judgements or not is beside the point. The fact remains that she judges people harshly, they are either good or bad and nothing will change that view, she then bullies those in her circle to think exactly as she does.

      She is blind to flaws within her family or friends, their bad behavior is always excused or justified. Ashley can assault Danielle and she is merely defending the family. Christopher can do a stripper car wash and he is an over eager go-getter, wink wink. Teresa can flip a table and pot stir fights and she is only a passionate woman or just being *Teresa*, giggle. Those bad behaviors are merely silly or justified. Point this out to her and if you push her, she will continue to defend their bad behavior. Even if she has to scream, cry and rage at you to do it, her friends and family are never wrong.

      It would not be unusual for an OCPD sufferer to literally take delight in being wronged, since it affords them, what they perceive, as the justified opportunity to deliver a steep punishment. The term righteous indignation was probably conceived with this perspective in mind. Crossing a person with OCPD provides her the license to hold a grudge and forever hold your mistake over your head.

      I feel with Danielle, Caroline takes joy in the conflict. She loves blaming everything on her. It gives her someone to make her look better in life. She is clearly superior to this *garbage* in her mind. I fail to see how anyone can see this play of righteousness as being healthy. She likes to play victim, to see her family as innocent and good and Danielle or any of her supporters as all bad.

      In a conflict with someone who has OCPD, the non-OCPD person might be motivated to desperately seek closure. In the process of attempting conflict resolution, the non-OCPD might discover that every minute the quagmire becomes deeper and deeper. It is almost as if the mere effort to find resolution is a punishable offense. In a close relationship, encountering this zone of contempt is bewildering and frightening. All one wants to do is to bring this controversy to an end, and then, you are punished for not being willing to deal with the issue at hand. Within this zone, the person with OCPD feels a great need to bring about absolute clarity for the issue to be resolved. Once again this need for the perfect resolution creates a seemingly never ending tweaking of the issues. Agreeing to disagree is rarely a reasonable solution and often not in the scope of the OCPD’s world.

      This really is Caroline. She will not let the Danielle thing go. As obsessed as Danielle is with the Manzos, Caroline and her crew are always talking about her. The healthy person would simply move on, refuse to engage. Caroline takes the more passive aggressive approach, pretending to be trying to move on but not really. She stews about it and she also contributes to other’s obsessions such as Teresa and Jacqueline. You can see the smirky glee at every report of Danielle, the I told you so attitude. She then of course says she did not want to talk about her but we all know if Caroline did not want Danielle discussed she would not be, Caroline always controls things.

      OCPD sufferer feels that a lack of genuineness is wrong and being totally open, no matter what the consequence, is the only option. If others are offended by what I say, too bad for them. Moral righteousness and preaching morality as a dogmatic necessity is not an uncommon expression of OCPD. Both of these realms are steeped in the potential for the OCPD sufferer’s truth to override consideration and respect.

      Caroline has no issues being blunt to the point of being hurtful. I think she broke Jacqueline down with this method. I also saw this in action by Caroline taking Danielle’s book around New Jersey, informing everyone that she knew about Danielle’s transgressions. Not necessary, she had no call to smear anyone whether it was true or not. What kind of person delights in trying to ruin another person’s reputation, particularly one with children who will be hurt by it? Regardless of Danielle’s past it was uncalled for and it was not Caroline’s business to broadcast Danielle’s issues to the world.

      Overall I feel that Caroline is ruled by this moral indignation of her form of OCPD. I feel she is blind to the flaws of who she has already deemed as good and worthy individuals. I feel no matter what someone she has deemed as bad or outside of her circle does that they will remain bad and therefore, the enemy. I feel she controls her family and friends and that she always needs to get her way. I also feel she is unforgiving and inflexible to anyone who she feels is not one of *hers*. I feel that she systematically will try to get rid of anyone who might try to *contaminate* her perfect group, her family. The maintenance of this group’s goodness is her job and keeping them on the right path is her only responsibility.

      Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder is a pervasive pattern of preoccupation with

      • Dubbalicious says:

        Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder is a pervasive pattern of preoccupation with perfectionism, and mental and interpersonal control. This comes at the expense of flexibility, openness, and efficiency. It is present in a variety of contexts as indicated by four (or more) of the following:

        Is preoccupied with details, rules, lists, order, organization, or schedules to the extent that the major point of the activity is lost
        Shows perfectionism that interferes with task completion
        Is excessively devoted to work (in Caroline’s case, family) to the exclusion of leisure activities and friendships
        Is overconscientious, scrupulous, and inflexible about matters of morality, ethics, or values
        Is unable to discard worn-out or worthless objects even when they have no sentimental value
        Is reluctant to delegate tasks or to work with others unless they submit to exactly his or her way of doing things
        Adopts a miserly spending style toward both self and others; money is viewed as something to be hoarded for future catastrophes.
        Shows rigidity and stubbornness
        For anyone having navigational issues here are the links to the other discussions on the housewives of New Jersey:

      • hotsummerday says:

        This totally describes Caroline. Except I would disagree that finding out about Danielle’s past is what sent her into a tizzy because Caro has had criminal friends such as Bernard Kerik. She just used Danielle’s past to justify ostracizing her. She didn’t want Danielle to be friends with Jacqueline and Dina.

        Now she’s trying the same crap with Teresa, because now she’s threatened by Teresa’s success, and envious of her relationship with Dina.

        • Say What?? says:

          Caroline needs someone to hate on. She needs to force others to take her side to validate herself. It makes her feel powerful and loved. Very sick person. One day her children will notice this. I predict it will happen when the boys marry and have children. :)

        • Cara says:

          Hotsummersday, that’s true about Danielle’s past not being the thing that caused Caroline to not like her. With Al’s best friend being Bernie Kerik, Tiny Manzo for a father-in-law, and Chris Laurita facing federal embezzlement charges, it’s obvious that staying on the right side of the law is not high on this family’s list of priorities.
          Caroline just didn’t like Danielle from the get go and she had her investigated. Caroline stated during the Atlantic City episode that before she likes someone she doesn’t like them. And she also said prior to that that she didn’t like Danielle because she was getting too close to Jacqueline too quickly. So she just plain didn’t like her. I believe there was also some tension between Danielle and Dina prior to filming season 1 which could have added another reason. After having her investigated and discovering what she did about Danielle’s past, Caroline then simply had a reason to justify doing what she did to her.
          But all of these still point to OCPD – the unnatural obsession with her own ideals, the right vs. wrong, the need to ostracize anyone who does not fit her rigid set of morals, the justification of behaviors from her own people but crucifixion of those she doesn’t like for doing the same things (applying double standards), the prolonging of conflict despite saying that she is over it, etc. These were all things she did to Danielle and is now doing to Teresa.

    • Nicole says:

      If Teresa is an “evil bitch’ then kudos to her for being a wonderful actress at hiding her “evil bitch” attitude and kudos to her for biting her tongue while the rest of her cast mates act like rabid animals. Evil bitch or not, Teresa is laughing all the way to the bank while Caroline and co. have one failed business attempt after the next.

    • michers says:

      You are nuts! Why do you insist on making instigating comments to people , just because of Teresa? Go to Caroline’s page and worship her falsehoods or something..

  17. MaryWanna says:

    I will buy it when I see it in the Dollar Store, otherwise I’ll ignore it.

  18. Dubbalicious says:

    The past 2 seasons have been nothing more then a Teresa gang bang. This past season has been nothing more than a giant Infomercial. I have never seen a franchise more desperate to brand themselves as the NJ Housewives have. Caroline the “Entrepreneur”. Kathy the “Pastry Queen”. Melissa the “RockStar” Jacqueline the “advocate” at the end of the day the only Star that has emerged is Teresa. She did it first and she’s done it best!! The rest of these ladies are second rate knock offs. If you paint the sole of your shoe red does it make it a Louboutin? I think not!! I’m so disgusted with Bravo, these hideous women and the BS they’re shoving down our throats!!
    Take a hike Larry…you’re an insult to my intelligence!

    • renee says:

      Dubbalicious, your awesome! Lov it and you are exactly right!

      • Dubbalicious says:

        Thanks Renee! My tolerance level is very low lately. Can you blame me?? Lol. :)

        • Joey says:

          No, I don’t blame you because I am right there with you and others. Thanks for the info and in layman terms that one can understand.

          • Dubbalicious says:

            The Caroline Manzo article?? Good stuff..yes??
            Can’t stand her and the rest. Another site did a little video retrospective of the NJ ladies. 2009- present. Very interesting how the dynamics have changed. It’s at SH. :)

  19. OMFG says:

    Did Caroline actually say she was “positive”??!!??!!??!!

    Well, OMFG! Caroline must be hiding something from all of us because never in 4 seasons have I ever seen her discuss anything positive except for that one time when Albie was kicked out of school for not doing his homework! (heard Albies learning disability was BS & coverup from embarrassment. Sad).

    I mean, we are talking about the same women that pretty much calls her lazy mooching daughter a fat ass & encourages the easy way out by having get lapband surgery!

    Oh! If she’s so positive, why bother even bringing up Danielle Staub & Teresa? Oh ya! That’s right! Sales! Using Teresa to make a buck. Probably the only reason anyone would consider buying her stupid book!

    And will she address the fact that Hubby Albert Manzo had an affair for several years with a hair stylist? Of Course not… Because Caroline Manzo created the “perfect” family and they are all so wonderful, happy, and positive and everything is picture perfect!

    LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING Caroline Manzo… You’re full of shit and it’s time to hang up the Chucky costume and GTFO of reality television.

    PS: you’re a bully not a fucking unicorn with hearts & roses!

    • Rosalie Marie, says:

      You’re full of shit and it’s time to hang up the Chucky costume and GTFO of reality television.

      PS: you’re a bully not a fucking unicorn with hearts & roses!
      —————————

      Oh My God! lmao

    • Say What?? says:

      I heard he wasnt accepted into Law School period. But i have no idea if thats true. I kind of believe he was too consumed with being on a reality show and started failing. Law School is no joke. Its interesting to me because they gave poor Ashley (i know most dont like her) such a hard time for being so interested in the reality show… yet all the others were just as obsessed.

      • jen says:

        Yes they did! For how many seasons week after week Large mArge and her crew would talk down to and talk sh*t about Ashlee. She wasn’t doing anything different then Albie,Chris&Lauren. The 3 of them weren’t going to school and also had no J.O.B. Hell Large Marge bought Lauren her own business then Lauren talk to Ashlee like she was a POS because she wasn’t taking it serious doing the drawing for her. Maybe she knew it was a bunch of BS and didn’t want to waste her time. Didn’t Lauren quit that business after 1 whole day?

      • Joey says:

        Ashley never had a chance against these bullies and Carolyn loved to play like the big therapist who pretends to have all the answers. All I could see Jacqueline doing was poor mouthing sometimes silently and other times outright mean cursing etc. I know Ashley got on my last nerve but I now understand her more and why she reacted the way she did against some of the adults. I will always remember the day Caroline and Jacqueline decided it was their place to correct Teresa’s daughter Gia.

      • michers says:

        I think I can see that- being too consumed with the show! And if his disability was such a crutch or obstacle to overcome, how did het get through High School so well? Before going off to a College/Law School , wouldn’t that be something that he addressed BEFORE starting ? Before getting the letter on national tv that said he could not come back because of his grades or whatever? Nope- they used it as a storyline. I actually felt a little something for her that episode also.. Until I connected the dots and figured out how they operated. Shame..

    • Shipp says:

      Yup Caro is positive…..positive for rabies.

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      OMFG. V funny.llll.

  20. Daisy says:

    I thought Caro said she would NEVER write about a book and talk about the other housewives? So what is this then? Did her publisher ask her to include some housewife gossip to help sell the book? Is this no different than what Teresa may have been asked to do? Caro is big hypocrite.

    Read the reviews for her upcoming book on amazon. FAIL

    • Divorce says:

      Yes, of course. No publisher would have signed her for a deal unless she talked about Teresa. Tired of Caroline’s hypocrisy. I hope Tre brings that up at the reunion.

      • Rosalie Marie, says:

        Divorce, I to am sick of the hypocrisy, lies and deceit that has come from Caroline. Caroline has been caught lying…a lot! Now Caroline wants to ride on Teresa’s coattails.

        God, Teresa you need to change your clothes! You have too many people riding your back! Melissa, Kathy, Jacqueline and now Caroline!
        Wait! Teresa, I have a better idea! You don’t need to change your clothes. Just spray some roach medicine on yourself and that should keep the cocky witches off. lol

    • mzjulesaz says:

      I don’t get it either contradicts what she is posted on the Bravo site … Was there anything off limits when it came to what you’d write about?

      I absolutely refused to do anything negative about any of the other ladies. I did speak to being on Housewives and how it changed my world in so many ways, but it’s just about me. It’s about my kids and my marriage and my world now. Again, at 46 at the time [when I joined Housewives], taking that leap of faith. It’s a positive thing — nothing negative at all. I hate negative — it makes me insane. Nothing negative about any Housewives — franchise-wide.

      • cammierari says:

        actually, Roxy’s story didn’t say that Caroline was going to talk about Teresa or Danielle…more that she would talk about the effect they had on her life. Doesn’t really mean that Caroline will be talking about anything other than herself I guess….which means it’ll be a book I can stay FAR away from! lol

      • Lysel says:

        Thank you Mzjulesaz, I knew I read that somewhere just couldn’t remember. Exactly! I’m not going to write about the others. Liar!

    • Rosalie Marie, says:

      I think Caroline had to ask Teresa and Danielle if she can put them in the book? I think they also get a percentage of the sales as well. Pay a restitution? I think that’s what it’s called. I heard that by law, Federal law, anyone writing a book about someone would have to get permission.

      I could be very wrong about this but if anyone has knowledge on this matter, please explain if this is true and how it works.

    • renee says:

      Yea and in the last few episodes one of them that is didn’t caroline say in her talking head that she would never use her name to make money or brand herself? I could be wrong but I swore I heard her say something like that because Teresa has put her name to a lot of products.

      • Shipp says:

        Caroline better be very careful what she says about Danielle. We all know Danielle will sue Chunky’s pants off. Tre won’t give Chucky the satisfaction.

  21. Reed says:

    I’ll tell you what. I’ll order the book and fix it so everyone can read it for free!

  22. Jarlath says:

    I thought Caroline was done with Teresa? Oh wait, no-one would read her book unless it were about Teresa! Ouch!

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Bingo,, and yet, Caroline’s hue ego could not accept that fact and let it be said that the book will be all about tre so it would sell. Instead she mentions the stupid Recipe thing.l.lol. Damn she must have been pretty pissed she didn’t get that cookbook a few years back.

  23. Cajsa says:

    I have no interest in anything Caroline has to say. I have heard far more from Caroline for one lifetime. She’s an obnoxious bully whose heart and soul is so infused with hatred, bitterness and jealousy that just listening to her voice depresses me.

  24. MsMaria says:

    You dont have the option to do anything because you see these people and film woth these people…yes, you do have an option carolie, its called GET OUT OF THE SHOW!!!! what fans do you even have standing behind you anymore? You’re a damn hypocrit that wont move on from a “so called joke in a book” you wanna act real? Then why dont you tell us the truth about what is really going on and why you really hate tre??? Oh and famewhore gorga came out with somw pics in a magazine article…hmmm…as much as i adore amtonia melissa is quite the hypocrit. So over these people!!!!

    • jen says:

      She is a bunch of BS! She had Danielle investigated before filming and totally made Danielle out to be someone that should have been on death row. If you are that sure or scared of a person being that insane you decline being on a show with them knowing you and YOUR family will have to film with them. She just didn’t like her and IMO i think its because BIG AL use to check her out.

  25. Melissa says:

    I do not believe for one second that this book was shoved upon her by her PR agents. That is just a load of crap! And not to mention it seems like the book is just going to be about how “amazing” her children are.

    And one final thing, Teresa can’t make a funny joke about you in her cookbook. But you can go on to talk about her in your book? I bet the ladies won’t make a fuss about it. And i bet that’s going to be the only reason this book sells. Just so everybody can see what your newest reason for hating Teresa is. And this whole part about ” oh well i HAD to interact with her” NO YOU DIDN’T, QUIT THE SHOW. Do us all a favor.
    I’m so fed up with Caroline and everything she does, she is the biggest hypocrite i have ever met in my life.

  26. Jarlath says:

    I’m still surprised by the low sales rank on Amazon … her being a famous and loved celebrity and all LOL

  27. tot says:

    I’m totally team Teresa, but.. sometimes I wonder if there’s any homepage that is pro the others. (maybe wetpaint.com is an example) Does anybody know another link? I mean, at Bravo’s pools (Caroline vs Teresa) don Caro usually wins… and I really keep wondering why???

    • mzjulesaz says:

      There are tons of other sites out there, this is one my favorites. As for the Bravo polls, when Teresa is involved (only time I vote), 1/2 the people I know can’t text their vote.

    • Say What?? says:

      We know Bravo monitors comments on their blogs and Facebook. We also know their polls are bogus. Others … Most blogs that speak to Jac and Melissa (the source) will speak positive about them. Its equal to blackmail.. if teresa doesnt have the time to leak stories they wont write positive stories about her. They get the dirt from the others so naturally want to keep those housewives happy. Just my opinion

      • Margie says:

        I agree that Bravo chooses which comments to post and which not to post. That became clear to me with RHONY. When I saw that happening I quit submitting comments. Strange cause that’s what got me hooked on the darn housewives in the first place.
        Thanks to Rox and ALLABOUTTRH I feel like I get to see what everyone actually thinks. I disagree when I see people posting that comments here are all one sided. I like the fact that everyone shares different opinions. It makes things more interesting :) whether I agree or not.

    • DLL says:

      tot:
      It has been talked about a lot that the Bravo polls are rigged to favor Caroline.
      If you look at all the comments on Caroline’s blog from viewers, the ones that hate Caroline get a lot of “likes” from other viewers which doesn’t make sense if they all love her.

      • jeanie says:

        I will add that that with the Bravo WWHL polls, since the Manzo family (since they spend their LIFE on twitter), including wacky Jac, ALL of Melissa’s skanky sisters and butt-kissing Kathy sit there and vote and vote, and vote and vote until their fingers bleed against anything that has to do with Teresa. The polls SHOULD be closed to all of them. Biased – much?

        • jeanie says:

          OMG, sorry for the non-sensical post. Basically, what I was trying to say is that the Manzo & Laurita (Jac) spend their lives on twitter, Melissa’s sisters & make-up artist hate Teresa, Kathy is a butt-kissing biotch, so when they’re are any polls against Teresa – ALL of them cast their votes over and over against Teresa. They should be exempt from voting.

  28. GrammasOcean says:

    Teresa’s cookbook has her kids favorite recipes in it that she named for all of them. Caroline is doing the same thing…
    I cannot stand that she is using Teresa’s name to try to sell her *cough* book…
    She really has a lot of nerve…

  29. Rosalie Marie, says:

    Oh wow. I typed my comment from my husband’s computer and left it here. Now that I’m back to my computer, my comment is not here. I guess I have to be on my own computer for my comments?

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      No but sometimes it will sit waiting for Roxy to moderate it if it’s the first time u posted from that computer.

  30. Rosalie Marie, says:

    This is what I say about Caroline and her book.

    Nothing, nothing Caroline will tell you in that book will differ from what we know already. Caroline is going to tell you the same as already says on the show and that is, Teresa sold stories to the tabloids. She is trying to use the feud she had with Danielle and is having with Teresa to sell her book.
    Keep in mind, if Caroline is boring on television, most likely her book will put you to sleep. If she were interesting, wouldn’t she still have a radio show? Hmmmm? lol
    Anyway, I am going to tell you how to handle this should you feel the sudden, curious urgency to buy her book….

    Go to Barnes and Nobles, buy a cup of Starbuck’s coffee, have a seat and read the book free.

    This will also work at your local library. It’s okay to peek through the book, but at least you won’t feel guilty for buying it. lol

    • Rosalie Marie, says:

      Oops…. Caroline is going to tell you the same as she already says on the show and that is, Teresa sold stories to the tabloids.

  31. cammierari says:

    ok before I read any of the comments, I have to say-CAROLINE MANZO is DELUSIONAL!!!! Can someone PLEASE get thru to her that she has NOT done a wonderful job as a mother! If she had, her kids would be out from under her skirts by now and ON THEIR OWN. (By the way Christopher, it’s only OK to admit you’re a HUGE mama’s boy once you’ve MOVED OUT-til then, it’s just creepy.)

    Ok, on to read the comments! LOL I’m sure this won’t be the only comment I make about this though…

    • Say What?? says:

      So true!! She has two children that didnt go to college.. and have no goals in life aside from making money off housewives.. You think Lauren would have this dumb beauty store if not for the show? Caroline can not BUY careers for her children. Once housewives is over what exactly will those two grown adults do to support themself?

      I left Albie out, he completed college and seems to have the abilty to do something with his life.. some day? lol

    • LifeIsGood says:

      Buckle up, Cammi! Can you believe that she is taking Lauren with her to her retirement apt.??? And she has the balls to refer to herself as a “tough love” mom???

  32. Kathy says:

    Where do all u nuts keep your Tre shrine? Especially you Roxy. I’m guessing most of you are under thirty. Not much life experience, or, just plain stupid-

    • SpoiledEastCoast says:

      What don’t have to be 50 lmao to have life experiences! LMAO

    • Say What?? says:

      Thats hilarious!

    • renee says:

      This is her shrine so GET THE FUCK OUT!

    • Margie says:

      I don’t think Teresa is perfect but she’s WAY better than the rest of those women. They actually make her look good IMO.
      I’m over 40, by the way, and haven’t ever considered myself a nut…except for the fact that I’m hooked on watching the trainwreck which are the Housewives shows.

    • DLL says:

      Kathy,

      I am over 50 and menopausal and I can’t stand Caroline because she’s a lying sack of shit! And she does a big cop-out by blaming menopause on her sickening behavior. Also, she is the biggest hypocrite to walk the face of the earth.

    • Lysel says:

      I’m well above thirty, and smart enough to know that you don’t have to be 50 or over to have an opinion, or express it. Apparently Kathy you can’t have much life experience or you’d realize that age is nothing but a number. A 50 year old like Caroline for instance…can sit at home on her behind for over 50 years, raise 3 not so fantastic children, alienate many family members and basically make herself a huge public liar. All those years got her was a reputation as an idiot. So much for life experience.

    • LifeIsGood says:

      I’m 45 with ample life experience. Teresa has nothing to do with my opinion of Caroline. My opinion of Caroline is based on what she has shown me of herself – nothing more.

      It’s a blog, not a newspaper. Roxy is entitled to operate her blog and present her opinions in anyway she sees fit. I might add that she is also several years younger than Caro’s brood, and has a hell of a lot more going on than they do. She created and grew a successful, money making blog while attending college full time. It’s obvious that her mother and father did not subscribe to Carolines parenting methods, thank God!

      • michers says:

        OMG! All the haters of Tre are working this weekend, lol ! Are these people kidding me? Let me get this straight: They come on a BLOG, where we gossip, share thoughts, debate comments about a SHOW, then say ignorant things about the site host, and the people who maintain respect and civility, while they trash talk , incite arguing, and call us names?! Ok, I got it.. but those of us who are sane are the nuts!! Im tracking now, lol!!!

        • LifeIsGood says:

          I know!

          If you are on twitter (I’m not, but i read the NJ-related tweets), you have to check out @lisaslying. It sounds like she has some really bad dirt on Joe Gorga. I hope Roxy gets the scoop on this one. If I followed it correctly, I think that Joey’s dad sold off his property, including his home, to get Joey G out of a non-business related legal scrape a few years back. Joe Jr. then moved his parents into one of his investment properties – only to sell that out from under them. THEN, he sabotaged a plan for T to move them into her house. My guess is, that garage that T and Joe were building was a place for her parents to live. Joe Jr. apparently called the building inspector on his sis and now her parents have moved into an apt.!

          I have to copy this post and spread it around! If it’s true, I hope that little weasel is publically shamed over it.

          • michers says:

            LifeisGood, no Im not but I read some things on there, especially when someone tells me about it, lol!

    • michers says:

      Coming from you and the little group of 5 or 6 Teresa bashers, its a compliment! Where is your Jackhole4 shrine? Don’t answer that…eww.

    • U can't hide stupid says:

      Did someone forget to put the sign on the shrine door? Oh dang, was it my turn to polish the picture frames today? Sry…. Lol

  33. melinda says:

    This woman is unbelievable. Before her book was about her family and advice and her business success, and her kids’ favorite recipes. Now we have all the negative comments and the tags on Amazon, and so now she does an interview that she will also include juicy comments and interactions with Danielle Staub and Teresa Giudice. I guess both her and the publisher see that no one is interested, so hopefully now if she gives up dirt on her interactions with Danielle and Teresa, I guess they are hoping will want to buy it for that reason. This is so pathetic and disgusting, and she says she has to be true to herself, so people, I guess this is her true self. Trying to make money off tabloid type information, and the backs of Danielle and Teresa. We already saw what she had to say to them, and it wasn’t anything nice or kind, so why would we want to read more of the same vile comments. Can anyone say GARBAGE!

  34. Chupacabra says:

    Chapter One

    Love

    I am such a lucky woman. I truly have the most amazing man in the entire world. He means everything to me, he is my soul mate, my confidant, and my one true love. I simply melt when he gazes into my eyes, and my heart still flutters whenever he touches me. I count the moments when we are apart as they are painful and our separation always fills me with desire. I could not have endured all I have without his companionship and support. So thank you Albie, without you, my world would be empty and joyless. May all of my fans be as lucky as I!

  35. Chupacabra says:

    Chapter Two

    Life

    Everyone is always asking me for advice. I am often told that my deep and profound wisdom should be shared with the world, so here it goes, my life advice for all of my fans. Life is like a box of chocolates. You gotta’ put on your big girl panties and keep on truckin’. You have to make it work because all’s fair in love and war. You have to go against the grain and remember, an apple a day will keep the doctor away! When you find yourself between a rock and a hard place, remember, it is what it is, so don’t count your chickens before they hatch and never put all your eggs in one basket! Because at the end of the day, every dog has his day. Don’t cry over spilled milk, just say to yourself “ashes to ashes, dust to dust“. The squeaky wheel always gets the grease, so seize the bull by the horns!

  36. Donna says:

    About the Don’s book, I put my money where my mouth is, my money is going to dine at the Olive Garden.

  37. Coinjockstyle says:

    Would Teresa or Danielle have any legal recourse if Caroline slanders them in her book?

  38. Annamaria says:

    I cried so much on the last episode of the housewives of NJ.
    Teresa and JOe they were tortured by the Manzo clan.
    Caroline she has a superiority complex….”Hey Caroline ….you are a NOBODY…do you hear me????
    For what you did to Teresa and Joe…. GOD will send you to hell.You have no compassion and love in your heart.You are poisoning your kids aganist the GIUDICES.
    I will not buy your stupid book…you are satan in the flesh.Your brothers and sisters they have problems with you…they are NOT talking to you only because you are a ”NUT CASE”".

  39. Meredith says:

    ewwwwwwww hasn’t she said enough already? ugh shut UP already Caroline Manzo!

  40. Annamaria says:

    I hope that Bravo and Andy Cohen have the sense to send this bitch home.
    She abused Daniell Staub and Teresa Giudice.Who did she thinks she is????
    She calls her kids…children of privilege….what??????????????
    Her kids are LAZY and Abused by their own mother….she’s in charge ….
    Albert Manzo he does Not speak…he knows vey well that his wife NEEDS HELP.

  41. michers says:

    OHhh, of course! She will discuss Teresa and Danielle, because THAT is the only way she will sell that paper stack of poo!!! So, its ok for her to talk about Teresa when it actually benefits her? Hmm.. I get it now Caro I have read between your bullshyte lines!!!

  42. michers says:

    Ok, I went back up to finish reading and I can’t! Its full of lies, yet again from her mouth! When has she ever been positive? She is the rudest most overbearing woman who is bossy as all get out, and destroys bonds and relationships! I find ti highly disturbing on Harper Collins part to publish this CRAP.Its a fantasy, loaded with lies !!!

  43. MsMaria says:

    Caroline must have a third nipple. I’m pretty sure the kids favorite recipes are mamas titty milk since they are all still attached to it! You can also pump the breast milk cause they sure do love mamas milk warm also! Oh, and your also gonna show us the recipe of what you used to make your daughter which caused her to get a lapband? No please!!! My insurance is about to cut off and i cant afford one like lauren can!!!

  44. Cat says:

    OMG, I wish Bravo would get rid of this old, bitter, red head.
    She brings nothing to the show.
    All she wants is a show of her own, with two boring sons, a husband who is a lump on a rock, and a daughter who is a lump………..
    Now she feels she needs to write a book of all her hate…
    Go away Manzo, do us all a favor, please..

  45. Samantha says:

    This will be the first book I’ve ever bought by one of the “Housewives,” and solely because Caroline’s writing it.

    I think Caroline has changed the most, and for the better, because of the whole reality show experience. She’s been very forthright about this in her non-HW interviews and admits to it having been a major learning experience for her in terms of how she views other people. This interests me very much, not just that she sees her mistakes and LEARNS FROM THEM, (ex: crediting gossip from so-called “friends” to judge others), but that it’s made her much more curious about and interested in people outside of her immediate friends and family. This is going to work for her immensely in whatever she chooses to do after this.

    I think she’ll be the most honest chronicler of this whole experience, and I trust that she’s her usual, blunt, “Bulldog” self.

    • MsMaria says:

      Oh, ok. Make sure you wait cause it will hit the sales rack or the 99 cent store in a week. And keep your reciept in case you want your 99 cents back. What tips will you learn from her? How to treat people like shit? No thanks. The way she talks about people and treats them is nasty. But i hope they do have pica of when lauren lookes like a hamburglur and the recipies of what she ate so much that made her fat.

    • cammierari says:

      LMAO!!!!!! Samantha you sure are one hell of a yarn spinner. I gotta say, I usually scroll past anything with your name on it, but I just HAD to read that one-and it was worth it just for the laughs. Never again though Troll.
      That is, UNTIL Caroline Manzo is fired and exposed for the hypocritical b*tch she is-when that happens, you BETTER be here Samantha, and I will LOVE READING those posts! hahaha

      • Samantha says:

        The Manson Family seems to be having a collective nervous breakdown. Is there a problem?

      • michers says:

        HMM.. Manson Family or “ManZon Family”.. You be the judge..DUNDUNDUN….And I think for a certain someone here, its ManZon Family , party of one…

      • Samantha says:

        They also seem even more bloodthirsty than usual. I think one of you should march straight up to Charlie, DEMAND a break, and then head to the nearest bar. The least she can do is treat you to a drink.

        Or maybe she just forgot to FEED you today lol.

  46. Park view says:

    I take great comfort knowing that Samantha sides with the Manzos. Now I know for sure I am completely sane.

  47. Laurie says:

    I read most of the comments bit not all so I don’t know if this was mentioned….

    But a couple of quick observations:

    1. I could have sworn I heard that Caro didn’t have PR people or anyone- that she was just a HW.

    2. Isn’t the suggestion from her PR that she write a book (that she never wanted to write in the first place a little suspect condsidering it will come on the heels or just preclude Season 5 (must be to keep her relevant and give her a storyline).

    3. She better be very careful when she spouts off about how great her Big Al is when rumors now are heating up about his mistress Jill

    4. As Mego says…. If she’s gotta write a book and throw people under the bus to make a buck, who are we stand in her way?

    5. Back to my 2nd point above…. Maybe her PR people teamed the book so that if she was indeed fired and not filming S5, she’d still be in the media.

    • pinkie says:

      i wouldn’t spit on any rag she wrote, and hope to see it all scuffed up and reduced to almost nothing, in walmarts book bin.

  48. Laurie says:

    Typing on an iPad. Excuse the typos above. But you get the gist.

  49. Cat says:

    Manzo will do anything to make a buck, Think about it, if she was never introduced to Tre’s brother and cousin, Manzo wouldn’t have any friends except her kids.
    I said this before, she wants her own show and will do it any way possible. She is the evil one on the show. I’m no fan of Tre but Manzo and her family are the jokes of this show.
    Sell your book Manzo, hope the two you will be making money off of, sue you big time.

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