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Siggy Flicker Goes On A Massive Rant About Margaret Josephs!

Siggy Flicker just can’t stop talking about her arch nemesis Margaret Josephs.

The Real Housewives of New Jersey star took to Instagram on Wednesday and went on a massive rant all about Margaret.

In the post, Siggy listed, what she believes to be, all of Margaret’s crimes and made it clear that she thinks the RHONJ newbie is a “MEAN GIRL.”

However, Siggy didn’t stop there and claimed that Margaret’s Hitler comment was “cold and calculated.”

Siggy also attacked Margaret’s business and accused Margaret of targeting her relationships with her son, Josh and her husband, Michael.

See Siggy’s full rant below!

DON’T MISTAKE MY KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS! I forgive when someone sincerely apologizes. But when someone apologizes and five minutes later repeats their actions, is that a sincere apology? I’ve had enough of the constant jabs! Never back down to a MEAN GIRL! 

1. She questioned my husband’s manhood without ever having met him. #PreCake#EpisodeOne

2. 36 hours after I welcomed her into our group of friends, she scheduled a memorial at my beach club for my friends without inviting Me!

3. She walked into my home & ridiculed a collage that my husband gifted me while her foyer is decorated with a dead bear carcass that her husband shot, killed & mounted to display

4. During a heated argument with friends that I actually care about, instead of defusing the situation, Margaret decided that is the perfect moment to antagonize me by ridiculing that I am sensitive and labeling me Soggy

5. She thought my medical condition was a proper subject to mock. Millions of women go through menopause naturally, try having your ovaries, fallopian tubes and uterus removed, and then have Margaret use it as a punch line.

6. She does not waste an opportunity to attack my business. Throughout the season she reveled in poking at my interpersonal skills and how it translates to my job. 25 years, I have an unblemished record, I never mentioned she is drowning in lawsuits #VineyardVines #Bankruptcy

7. She targeted my relationship with my son. Kids are off limits, so why mock my relationship with my son when she knows the pain of a strained relationship with her kids

8. HITLER? Really? She purposely inserted herself in a conversation to once again inflame a situation & hurt me. She didn’t look at Dolores, Teresa, Danielle or Melissa; she looked at ME, the only Jewish girl & referenced a mass murderer, knowing that my father Dr. Mordecai Paldiel is a Holocaust Survivor & Scholar. I wouldn’t be alive today if Hitler had his way & my father & his father didn’t have the help of a Catholic priest in Evian, France to escape! Hitler rolled off her tongue so effortlessly. The Hitler reference was cold, calculated & meant to freeze me in my tracks! #RHONJ

DON’T MISTAKE MY KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS! I forgive when someone sincerely apologizes. But when someone apologizes and five minutes later repeats their actions, is that a sincere apology? I’ve had enough of the constant jabs! Never back down to a MEAN GIRL! 1. She questioned my husband’s manhood without ever having met him. #PreCake #EpisodeOne 2. 36 hours after I welcomed her into our group of friends, she scheduled a memorial at my beach club for my friends without inviting Me! 3. She walked into my home & ridiculed a collage that my husband gifted me while her foyer is decorated with a dead bear carcass that her husband shot, killed & mounted to display 4. During a heated argument with friends that I actually care about, instead of defusing the situation, Margaret decided that is the perfect moment to antagonize me by ridiculing that I am sensitive and labeling me Soggy 5. She thought my medical condition was a proper subject to mock. Millions of women go throughmenopause naturally, try having your ovaries, fallopian tubes and uterus removed, and then have Margaret use it as a punch line. 6. She does not waste an opportunity to attack my business. Throughout the season she reveled in poking at my interpersonal skills and how it translates to my job. 25 years, I have an unblemished record, I never mentioned she is drowning in lawsuits #VineyardVines #Bankruptcy 7. She targeted my relationship with my son. Kids are off limits, so why mock my relationship with my son when she knows the pain of a strained relationship with her kids 8. HITLER? Really? She purposely inserted herself in a conversation to once again inflame a situation & hurt me. She didn’t look at Dolores, Teresa, Danielle or Melissa; she looked at ME, the only Jewish girl & referenced a mass murderer, knowing that my father Dr. Mordecai Paldiel is a Holocaust Survivor & Scholar. I wouldn’t be alive today if Hitler had his way & my father & his father didn’t have the help of a catholic priest in Evian, France to escape! Hitler rolled off her tongue so effortlessly. The Hitler reference was cold, calculated & meant to freeze me in my tracks! #RHONJ

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  • Larry

    Soggy you are seriously bat sh#! Cra cra!! Please leave show and go away and never look back you are MOST talentless person ever seen never give any advice to anyone just walk away

  • LSE

    Siggy Flicker is a terrible narcissistic human being. How in the hell did she ever get a job dishing out advice? She’s just awful!

  • pastagirl

    OMG….Siggy STFU! This woman is totally nuts. Please get her off the show. I just can’t stand her horrible behavior…she is ridiculous.

  • jane doe

    not to mention ANYONE on twitter who disagrees with siggy is deemed a “fake account” by her!

  • Candace Campbell

    I read yesterday that she isn’t coming back next year, I wish it were true. She has added a kind of delusional behavior that is difficult to accept. She is a manipulator with words but never acts as she should. She is mean, unkind, and I believe, mentally unfit for TV. Her husband is part of her continuing her self serving delusion. She is no expert on anything but whining and waving her hands.

  • justathought39501

    This chick is crazy and very far reaching. I think her hormones need an adjustment or something. Her and Doloris both have issues. And neither know how to be loyal.

  • Jenna

    So Siggy’s been insane this season, but in tHis blog I? can actually understand why she is sensative to the word holocoust,but I?t was pretty clear that was the opposite of Margaret’s intention. Siggy & Dolo gota go…..btw what did MJ day about Josh, don’t recall that? Margaret is a RHONJ natural & made season 8 for me.

  • Nicole Elaine

    Yes, Siggy, she looked at you when she referenced Hitler (as an analogy, you moron) becasue she was responding directly to you for saying you judge Kim on how she treats you. Looking at someone when you’re talking TO them is generally how conversations work. And no, she didn’t just “insert” herself into a private conversation. You were at dinner talking to the entire table. Get off reality tv, quit Twitter, and seek professional help.

  • Robinhood

    She needs to STFU.

  • Just me

    All I hear in that is me me me me me me. If this is what Siggy seriously thinks happened then she is much worse off mentally than originally thought. PLEASE GET HELP Siggy !

  • HelenWheels68

    The only thing “cold” and “calculated” about the Hitler reference is Soggy’s shameful willingness to try to make it what it wasn’t by twisting it to fit her agenda.

    It was an analogy and a good one. I’ve made the point before that Hitler loved his dog and was filmed playing with it. He was indulgent with Eva Braun. Does he get points for that? Hitler affected the entire world. The Jews don’t hold some sort of first-right-of-refusal when it comes to discussing him.

  • Sosa

    I honestly cannot believe she called Margaret anti-semitic simply because she said Hitler. Like what the heck? Does that mean that mentioning the Holocaust is anti-semitic? Isn’t that the opposite of what one should do? Shouldn’t we remember it happened and make sure it doesn’t happen again? Siggy sounds like a denier.

    • Mar

      Well according to Siggy she said that Marg said a smart remark before she called her anti-Semitic and that Bravo edited it out. lol I do admit that the editing on this show is horrible. But it can’t edit bad behavior or personality.

      • Kissme

        I read Siggy excuses about editing and what Marge supposedly said and it still didn’t make sense as to why Siggy flipped out.

  • samael

    and Soggy’s role model – Jack ass – now says she is STARTING to watch RHNJ..she is a chubby bag of lies!

    @JacLaurita

    I finally watched and saw the @POSCHEbykimd episode.Guess they falsely can’t blame me again this time for her http://appearance.Kim does help bring ratings though. She’s a bad ass! She doesn’t need an army. She holds her own.

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8dae3e7d1d7595cfb06a18eaf14a84c5609944a829a14bf4fe030db2d3526b1d.jpg

    • BAPS C

      I know right ! I saw her tweet. Jaq is a liar.

      • samael

        Yup BAPCS C …another RH who believes her own hype!

    • luvs2ride

      Holds her own what?
      Cocaine, guns, what?

      • samael

        both!

        • luvs2ride

          Ha!

  • Lea

    What did she mean by #1, was it when Margaret made the joke something like, ‘I looked in the dictionary for a man and Michael Campanella (sp) wasn’t in there?’ That’s a small joke, a light joke, something a kid might say. I don’t see the strong offense there.

  • Pokémon

    This is good drama so fire TreCnt already she’s not needed

  • Jshappyday

    Siggy needs mental help. Her twitter feed shows how insane and narcissistic she is full on. She really believes a minor comment is a world war 3 level offense. Siggy needs a real problem – a sick child, a house destroyed in a fire, a real health disease problem…to understand what a problem, trauma or outrage is, because what she lists above is insanity on display, not offenses. I made the mistake of going to Siggy’s twitter page and I was fearful reading it and those who fed into her baloney. Siggy is living on twitter attacking Margaret irrationally and viciously all day, responding nearly to every fan comment trashing anyone who tries to logically point out her errors or escalations and she just loses it further. She also gushes over anyone who backs her up and she now has this lonely online brigaide of people who think Siggy is her BFF and they just flatter each other all day. It is unreal. Bravo — remove Siggy from the show because something sad is happening here.

    • Khipp

      Hey Happy. Some “relationship expert” huh? Deranged.

      • Jshappyday

        Exactly! How is the way she is acting helping her business and profession. It is mind boggling.

        • luvs2ride

          Her self-proclaimed “profession” has officially bitten the dust.
          She better hope that husband of hers doesn’t dump after all this either.

    • Hanky Panky

      She has a bizarre obsession hating Margaret. Even when she “apologized” to Danielle, she went on a hate filled tirade about Margaret that you could tell had Danielle sitting there thinking ‘this women is f*cking nuts’…lol

      • Khipp

        Hanky, Soggy did the same thing, “hate filled tirade”, when she had a sit down with T. Soggy is scary sick.

        • Hanky Panky

          That is true! I remember how it seemed to go on FOREVER…lol

      • luvs2ride

        See my reply to Lea above.

    • BAPS C

      It is simple for Siggy: she needs to understand that Marg just do not like her. Period.

      • Khipp

        Baps, I disagree. I think Marge did like Soggy until Soggy dragged her for no apparent reason. If I was Marge I’m have my attorney fire off a C & D letter. Enough is enough with the slanderous comments from Soggy.

    • Liberated

      OMG! You read my mind and wrote it so profoundly! Truly. She needs to be fired from the show because it is the show that is creating her mental deterioration. Her rants are now legendary among #rhonj fans and all it has done is alienate the majority of fans she had from last season. The fans that are left are sycophants that imagine a personal relationship with her. It has turned from sad to sick and it needs to stop.

    • Kissme

      Her Twitter feed is frightening.

  • September24

    It was a poor analogy not antisemitism.

  • Fat Violet

    I keep getting the impression that Dolores stands firmly behind Siggy to help her self sabotage…..I think she tries it with Teresa, but it doesn’t work..I think she did it with Jaqueline.

    Siggy seems to be grasping at straws to get upset and react for show. It’s seems to me anything Margaret says is distorted to offend Siggy. The woman cant catch a break! Margaret maybe insensitive with her comments, maybe she shouldn’t have referenced Hitler…but I think it is much worst to call anyone anti semitic…first of all it is unacceptable coming from Siggy if indeed her family endured the hardships first hand from this level of ignorance.

    To Siggy’s point above:

    1. She didn’t question your husbands manhood in her comments she stated she looked up the word in the dictionary and didn’t see his picture. News flash non of the husbands would be found in the dictionary under such word. Siggy is the one who took the comment to question her husbands manhood.

    2. You were all invited to the beach you decided not to go….the memorial was clearly a surprise because no one knew. If Siggy’s point had any weight to it…Joe Gorga and his father should have taken offense since it was a tribute to their mom and wife.

    3. She walked in Siggys house and made a comment about the pictures on the wall. She didn’t ridicule Siggy…Siggy did that on her own by posting those pictures.

    4. During that argument she called you Soggy….you in fact told to “F@(% off” the night prior because she thought you should calm down and told you to “take it down a notch”. I think Siggy was more offensive to Margaret early on than Margaret was to Siggy.

    5. She didn’t use Siggy’s condition as a punchline she merely made light of it…..I am certain she at her age and mom’s age as well Margaret is well aware of menopause and it’s symptoms and complications. She just doesn’t cry about it to make it a story line.

    6. Margaret didn’t insult Siggy’s business. She has valid questions…experiencing first hand the way Siggy navigates their relationship and how Siggy allows her emotions to dominate her personality…..I don’t think she is causing harm to Siggys business….Siggy is doing self sabotage on her own.

    7. Margaret didn’t mock the relationship with Siggy’s son…in fact part Siggy’s therapy sessions during the retreat were to impersonate each other and Margaret imitated Siggy on the phone with her son….where is the mockery?

    8. The Hitler reference was just a reference …maybe a poor choice but a reference …she used his ignorance to make a point …Hitler wouldn’t kill her but that doesn’t make him a nice person…Siggy on the other hand is not a nice person…again calling someone anti Semitic….is way low especially if you know the true meaning of the word.

    That’s all I gotta say about that! Sorry for the typos!

    • Khipp
      • samael

        where did Fat Violets post go?

        • Fat Violet

          That was strange…it disappeared for a while! I thought Siggy started having another fit!

          • samael

            for me it is still “gone” …that soggy ???

          • Khipp

            Still gone. What the what? Was a most excellent post Fat Violet.

          • Khipp

            Fat Violet. Okay on my screen it says “this comment is awaiting moderation.” Then “Show comment.” Just click on “Show comment” and your post will appear. Odd.

            • HelenWheels68

              I wanted to thank, “Fat Violet” for that comprehensive response but for some reason the reply option isn’t there.

              Anyway, it’s a rocket of truth firing on all cylinders!

    • samael

      Perfect post!

      and to add, Siggy accepted an apology for each and each time said “I love you”..it is a disfunctional and abusive relationship for sure.

      • luvs2ride

        I wish Fat Violet could have crashed the reunion just to read that post aloud.

        • samael

          YES!!!

  • samael

    Soggy crossed the line …that is an understatement. For a “relationship expert” she is not aware of her friends ethnicity..I give mag’s props for keeping her cool,

    This is what mags tweeted after Soggy made her declaration “you’re anti semitic”
    *************************************
    @MargaretJosephs

    She basically just said that I hated my own children, their father and my beloved ex-husband and wonderful in-laws — what is wrong with her?? #RHONJ #RHONJinMilan #typicalSiggy #sadlySiggy
    ****************************************

    and of course Soggy returned with: https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/614724721e75aac92ac11fce328a4384df2a32b2a323339c45aa1e21b3d05c08.jpg

    • Khipp

      Hi Sammy. Sobby Soggy went so low on Margaret it was beyond distasteful. It was disgusting, and frankly disturbing that Soggy would go so deep for really no apparent reason. Well, except to destroy Marge. And I believe that’s Soggy’s mission…to destroy EVERYTHING that is Marge. I don’t get that kind of hate.

      • samael

        I agree Khipp!

        soggy is a piece of shit! seems she is taking notes from Vile. I felt so awful for Mag’s yet she never lowered herself to the gutter with soggy…and you guys are right..a whiff of Jack Ass for sure!

        • Khipp

          Sammy, I’m almost speechless at the degradation Soggy threw at, and on Marge. It’s beyond reasonable thinking. Soggy is nasty to the core.

          Edit – And calling Soggy a piece of shit is a compliment.

      • luvs2ride

        Her antics were worse than Drunky’s in Vermont, and that’s saying ALOT.

        Deplorable, disgusting, and cringeworthy.

        • samael

          right? luvs?

          what kind of human, gives themselves permission – hourly- to be as disgusting as herself?

      • VtheFashionista

        Didn’t she tell Marge at brunch that she would “destroy her”?

        • Khipp

          Yup V, she did, at the cafe sit down with Marge. Just because Margaret called her Soggy.

          • luvs2ride

            If anything she should rage on US, as we have said it here before Marge joined the show.

            “I’m just sitting her trying to eat my salad..”

            God, I love that Marge.

            • Khipp

              Love the Marge too.

    • luvs2ride

      Your avi, sam!

      At first I thought it was nasty Nelly Olsen from Little House on the Prarie. I was laughing my ass off.

      Then I realized it was that prostitute from BH.

  • holy cannoli

    Seriously, this is so pathetic!!
    Stop Siggy, Just Stop!!

    • Khipp

      Hi Holy. I’m so disgusted with obnoxious Sobby Soggy and her ridiculous rants. She’s just plain nuts. And…obviously those pellets aren’t helping.

      • holy cannoli

        Hi Khipp
        I so agree!!

    • samael

      Good afternoon Holy!

      the comment/behavior of Soggy and the fact that it never occurs to her to “stop”..surreal

      • holy cannoli

        Good Afternoon Sam

  • Judite M Lima Marchany-deCastr

    Siggy needs help. she sounds crazy all the time…she has kidnapped the show from the others…. she needs help…..

  • cammierari

    Poor Siggy is losing her mind! So sensitive! She is one of those people who say they’re comfortable in their own skin, yet take offense at anything anyone says that isn’t a complete validation of Siggy and her life. If you put up a shrine of pictures to YOURSELF in the foyer, you should expect people to comment on it, and IF they’re really your friends, they will give you their honest opinion. Margaret has gone the extra mile to cater to Siggy’s childishness, but enough is enough.

  • Hanky Panky

    She is ruining her own reputation with her bizarre over-reactions and blaming Margaret for everything that is wrong in her life. Maybe if she stopped deflecting by attacking Margaret and would once own up to her actions, she would come across as so crazy.

  • Jennifer Donohue

    Lots of ME, MY and I’s in there. I liked her so very much last season and this season her true colors are being shown. She’s a fraud. She can dish out advice, but doesn’t take it. Hypocrite and comes off very narcissistic. She’s helped out the franchise last year, only to ruin it this season. I don’t think half the issues going on with Dolores would be a problem if it wasn’t for Siggy. She’s a cancer to the show and truly needs to go.

    • Hanky Panky

      Dolores is looking like an idiot with her constantly defending Siggys Cray-Cray actions. She claims she has her own mind and likes who she wants, but keeps showing the opposite by refusing to give Margaret a chance because of Siggy.
      Margaret is right saying she would deny Siggy killed someone even if she was holding the bloody knife.
      And can Dolores PLEASE find a shirt or blouse that covers her boobs for once!!!!!!!!!

      • Khipp

        DullorAss needs a good swift kick in the pants. There’s a big difference between being “loyal” and being a stooge.

        • Gene Hyde

          Why does Teresa require so much loyalty? She thinks she a queen or something. I don’t really see her being loyal to Dolores. And Teresa probably is cheating on Joe.

          • Khipp

            Your opinion, not mine.

  • Sara McCarthy

    Siggy needs to go. Seriously. She is R.I.D.I.C.U.L.O.U.S