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Dolores Catania Blasts ‘Sneaky’ Margaret Josephs; Insinuates That Teresa Giudice Has Changed and Is Influenced By Others!

Real Housewives of New Jersey star Dolores Catania is NOT a fan of Margaret and she doesn’t care who knows it. Dolores took to her blog to discuss her thoughts on the Boca trip and the sneaky new housewife! Dolores blasts Margaret for being a disrespectful backstabbing low life and doesn’t hold back when it came to her friend of 20 years – Teresa Giudice. Dolores insinuates that Teresa has changed and is influenced by other people. She says,

“This summer has had its share of challenges and tragedies. Hurricane Irma hit Saint Kitts where my daughter Gabby is attending Ross University School of Veterinary Medicine. Gabby didn’t tell us how bad things were until days later so not to worry us. She makes me proud every single day.

This season will test friendships, loyalties, and morality. Decade-old friendships are tested, old enemies become friends, new friends cause chaos, and some relationships are dissected while others remain unchallenged. But in the end the bonds of true friendships can’t be broken. Loyalty always prevails.

Yes, my ex-husband moved back into my house after 18 years. Our kids are trying to cope with over-protective parents. My dogs, the chinchilla, and the guinea pig can’t figure out what’s going on. My family thinks I’ve lost my mind. As if my home and professional life isn’t challenging enough, my friends have been infiltrated by Sneaky and Crazy.

Well what do you think of Sneaky Margaret? She showed who she is within hours of meeting us.

Sneaky approached me to badmouth Siggy as if I hadn’t witnessed Sneaky’s nasty comments first hand. I shut her down within minutes. From that exchange, she concluded:

“Dolores is like a little mini Siggy. I can’t even get a word in edgewise. I mean it’s like literally she parroted everything Siggy says. I was like I didn’t even realize who I was talking to except that Dolores is a little scarier.”

First off, Siggy is my friend. Being compared to her is a compliment. Having said that, let’s talk sneaky backstabbing disrespectful low life. Welcome to the party, Sneaky Margaret. I witnessed her subversive commentary and her divide-and-conquer tactics. So when Sneaky tried to feed me her bullsh–, I told her I didn’t want to hear it. She couldn’t get a word in edgewise because I won’t waste my time listening to fools manipulate what I witnessed. Sneaky reporting back and misquoting what I said doesn’t surprise me. I expected it.

I have known Teresa and her family for 20 years. We are friends—not TV friends—but real friends. Real friends celebrate the good, comfort during the bad, sometimes fight, always make up, and never have hidden agendas. I’m not in competition for Teresa. I know what we’ve been through.

Teresa has gone through drastic changes in her life recently. Many people she depended on are not around, and some shady characters moved into place. The old Teresa would have stopped the new girls from mocking Siggy and Michael Campanella or questioning my loyalty. The old Teresa would have told Siggy she was overreacting about the cake but she was sorry about making her feel bad. The old Teresa would have told Melissa to stop acting like a self-absorbed child. The old Teresa would have demanded to know where the hell Siggy and I were during the beach ritual. The old Teresa would have told Siggy they had a ritual when Siggy asked what they did that day on the way to Lori’s house. The old Teresa valued old friendships and wasn’t influenced by anyone.

Siggy spent a lot of time planning the trip to Florida. She was over-the-top excited, showering Sneaky Margaret with praise while getting battered in return. The birthday dinner became the great reveal. Margaret was challenging everything Siggy said. She was going at Michael Campanella like a starved dog with a bone, attacking a man she never met.

I saw Siggy’s expression as soon as she realized Sneaky was not her friend. Sneaky came with an agenda, and that agenda was to alienate Siggy from the rest of us. She kept jabbing and punching at Siggy, knowing when you attack someone’s family or profession, eventually you’re going to get a reaction. When the reaction came, Sneaky switched her approach to “Hey, tone it down. Why you overreacting, Soggy Flicker, Mrs Relationship expert?” Siggy was left picking up the pieces of her shattered plans.

I never received a group text about yoga. I found out from Siggy. On our way to Lori’s house in the van, Siggy asked them what they did that afternoon. Their answer was “yoga.” Wasn’t the ritual more important than yoga? Why lie? It was to land another blow to Siggy while at Lori’s house. The new girls spent the day criticizing Lori’s hospitality. Siggy was so disgusted with how they were picking the luncheon apart that she told Lori what was going on.

The dinner at Siggy’s house was to be the choreographed knockout punch delivered to Siggy. Everyone was screaming over each other. I remained silent, preferring to keep my eye on the crazy to my left to make sure her ass didn’t leave the chair. Sneaky was licking her chops as she delivered her overly-rehearsed Soggy Flicker line. Melissa kept whining about her cake and her birthday and wanting to spend it with fun people, blah blah blah.

Teresa asking me to confirm events from the night before jolted me from my happy place. No I didn’t remember everything said the night before. I remember Sneaky’s exhausting attack on Michael Campanella, me telling Siggy to let it go when I saw how devastated she was, and Melissa whining. So being asked about specifics was futile. I said I don’t remember hearing it, I didn’t say it wasn’t said. Melissa accusing me of taking the fifth made me laugh almost as much as when she slapped Teresa to cue her to get up for their grand exit.

Being Italian and concerned about them missing the meal, I offered to bring a doggie bag.

We’re just getting started!”

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  • Margaret’s blog is Up.. I Don’t Hold Grudges, I Hold Standards Must, must, must, READ..Siggy and Dolores heads are going to spin off into crazy madness. Truth Bomb at it’s best. go, go, go, Margaret agree 100% Margaret you Rock my world..’
    CONGRATULATIONS RHONJ Season 8 esp.1 premier 2.4 Million Viewers. New Jersey is Back!!!!

  • Margaret blog is up. I Don’t Hold Grudges, I Hold Standards Must, must,must READ!!!!!! Siggy and Dolores heads are going to spin off into crazy madness. Game match.. Truth Bomb at it’s Best!!! go, go go Margaret…Love her….

  • Dolores is DELUSIONAL and this blog just proved it. I couldn’t tell if she wrote this or Jac Laurita… talk about Passive Aggresive. Something has never felt quite right about her and Teresa’s 20+ Year Friendship that they speak of and I think it’s obvious that they aren’t friends. They’ve just known each other all that time. Dolores clearly chose the Manzo/Laurita’s hence why her relationship with Dina also got on the rocks as a result.

    The way she’s acting this season though I’m starting to think perhaps she belonged on Mob Wives.

    • I could tell by her blog she had a long talk with Jac! This is what Jac would say. lol Yup all they are is called “acquaintances.”

  • The old Teresa learned a valuable lesson from old friends and family members. After the way her good friends Jacqueline and Caroline treated her, she is not getting in the middle of and sticking out her neck for anyone. Dina said it best when she said that she never have to question Teresa’s loyalty and vice versa. I don’t think that Teresa can say the same for Dolores especially when she is still good friends with Jacqueline and Caroline. People can be friends with whom ever they want but turning a blind eye when your friends is in the wrong is just stupid.

  • no Dolores the Bravo paycheck has changed you..don’t come for Teresa..no one controls her! Facts!!

  • Doesn’t want Teresa being friends with sneaky and the whore. But my friends all want to hurt, lie, attack, backstab, copy, are hostile haters of my friend of 20 yrs. Team Margaret In the end Teresa is Friendly with them ALL..

  • Wow, Did Dolores actually write “The dinner at Siggy’s house was to be the choreographed knockout punch delivered to Siggy” REALLY????? She was the one that started the name calling which in turn riled everyone up. Dolores is definitely following the instruction of the ones who turned their backs on Teresa to begin with (Jac and Caroline). Really, “The old Teresa”…..Teresa was back stabbed by the two people who started the show with her that were “like family” all in the hopes of taking her down and having the show for themselves. Where was their loyalty when Melissa and Joey joined the show and they assisted in the constant attacks on Teresa? Dolores has no idea what loyalty is. That would have been Dolores standing up to Siggy and telling her she is overreacting about the cake. That Teresa has been through a lot and maybe she was releasing some stress and anger. Nope, she immediately sided with Siggy, forgetting about her “friend of 20 years”. Bitch please….I am so tired of this loyalty crap. When something is wrong or someone is wrong, you say something. You don’t side with your friend and “FORGET” what was said at dinner. I mean, it was a food fight at a restaurant, and I get that isn’t the classiest thing to do, but its also not that bad or as big of a deal as Siggy made it out to be. Siggy flipping out on everyone and calling names because of a cake is a freaking joke. Me thinks she is trying to secure her spot for next year. Dolores and Siggy need to go.

    • I see why she was single for so long. She can’t take any blame and twists the story. I can’t stand people like that. She twisted the loyalty card on Teresa. She’s no friend. only the kind with an agenda! #B####
      Sorry but this posses me off.

  • Delirious could you pull your head out of Siggys butt. Lost count on how many times you said Siggys name in your blog. Delirious constantly talking about loyalty, but yet she isn’t very loyal to her friend of 20 years. Delirious is so annoying.

  • Ok, another “explanation” from Dolo that I still don’t buy. Her calls for loyalty, claims of family and friendship all while co-signing Sigs wacky ways are really annoying. Between her and that Sig and people reacting to them in that over the top sweet fake way to keep the peace for the show, I’m really not liking any time her or Sig speak, lol. IMO, if Dolo and Sig were not invited to yoga or anywhere it’s because they’re high maintenance downers. I’m ready for them to move on, lol, they’re ruining the show for me,

  • uughh…wasted my time reading this crap that soggy wrote.

    Dull conveniently forgets she threatened to bash Mags in the noggin with her tennis racket..that’s mature
    Dull crawl your way back to soggy bottom’s ass cheek..wow Dull..

    Where was all this passion for the Truth – when Teresa asked you for it at the reunion when outing Jack Ass? hmmm..?

  • Maybe Dullorass the NEW Teresa doesn’t give a shit about what nonsense you and Soggy bring to the show. And, stop trying so hard to give The Marge the nick “Sneaky”. That’s laughable. Most viewers know who the Sneaky’s are. Yeah, looking at YOU and SOGGY, aka LIARS.

    Yup the old Teresa “valued old friendships” … “friends” who turned around and kicked her in the teeth. Now you want her to trust those “valued old friendships”? Three episodes in and you, Dullorass, are proving my point. Nothing but a minion, following marching orders, from Meatball and Booze Bag. Go suck up to Soggy. Maybe she’ll let you and the ex use her Boca town house. Eh.

    Italian salute…Bafa…


  • Oh geez. Dolores is probably nice, but….boring. Teresa at least gets that, which is why she is “siding” with the more interesting cast of characters. The slumber party segment was silly and again, boring