AllAboutTRH EXCLUSIVE: Jan DeDolce Explains Her Falling Out With Melissa, Exposes The Melissa She Knows!

August 18, 2013 |By Continue Reading

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While season five of Real Housewives of New Jersey filmed, Melissa Gorga was facing accusations that she had cheated on Joe Gorga with her ex boyfriend, Bryan “Bulldog”. Bryan surfaced on Twitter during this time and dropped hints about the accusations.

When the show aired, Melissa brought her friend Jan DeDolce on the show because Bravo wanted to film Melissa with her friends, but as it turns out, Jan also became upset with Melissa. A few episodes later, Jan was seen outing Melissa’s meeting with Bryan while she was already married to Joe Gorga!

You might be wondering why Jan “turned” on Melissa, but she has her reasons! I got in touch with Jan recently and she agreed to answer all of your burning questions about her history with Melissa, and she is not holding back! After Melissa said Jan is desperate for attention on WWHL recently, Jan is speaking out after turning down money for paid interviews.

Jan was a very good friend of Melissa’s up until she got on the show, which is when things began to change. Jan has had enough saying, “I can’t watch her lying. She’s just such a good liar.” Check out AllAboutTRH‘s chat with Jan, found exclusively here!

AllAboutTRH: How long have you known Melissa?
Jan DeDolce: I would say over 12 years.

How did you guys meet?
We met a long time ago through a mutual friend, this girl Melissa Giordano. Melissa [Giordano]’s parents were divorced, so she would spend time here [Jan lives in Northern Jersey] and she she would spend time down the shore. She would always take Melissa Gorga out with her, so that’s how we met. And then I started dating someone from down the shore so we were just able to get together all the time.

You guys were friends and then you were in her wedding to Joe Gorga, so when did things begin to change?
Well, people get married and have kids and go on with their lives so we don’t get to see each other every day, but I guess when she got on the show, she just got weird. She is not the same person that I was friends with seven years ago.

Before she was on the show, did she ever speak negatively about Teresa?
Yeah. She didn’t like Teresa before the show. She asked me to write an anonymous letter to Bravo so she could get on the show.

Did you do it?
No, but someone else did.

Really?
Yeah, that’s how she got on the show. She would take me to Dina Manzo’s Ladybug conventions at the Brownstone and Melissa would follow the freakin’ camera around. Melissa would be seated in the back corner, and then she would always get up and prance around in front of the camera.

So obviously she was bitter that Teresa was on TV and she wasn’t.
Yeah. What she asked me to write to Bravo was that Teresa was hiding a younger, prettier girl who had more money than her.

Is Melissa that much better off than Teresa?
I mean, not at all. Her husband owes a lot of people money.

The house that they live in right now, was that built for them to live in or to sell?
What Joe does is he builds homes and sells them. So they were trying to live in this house but they can’t because they owe too much for it.

Is this why they are selling it now?
Yeah.

What type of house did they live in before this one? Was it a modest house?
Well, no, when Melissa first met Joe he had a beautiful McMansion in Franklin Lakes that he sold to a football player or somebody. Then, they moved into a house they rented in Lincoln Park until this house was built.

Even when they were moving in, they were talking about when they were going to sell it. That’s what they do. It’s like, the bank owns it, but they did move in before the show.

What did you think when she finally made it into the show? Did she tell you?
Yeah, it was actually my daughter’s birthday party. She came in and she was all like “They cast me! They cast me!” She was all excited, and I was so excited for her. She was like, “Don’t tell anybody!” yet, but then she went around to each person and told them all that she was on the show.

Did she promise to feud with Teresa in order to be cast on the show?
Well yeah, of course. They want that. They weren’t going to bring anyone who wasn’t going to bring any kind of drama to the next season.

So how did Bravo find out about you?
So, it was weird because Melissa and I started having problems. I don’t know what her deal was, but she started talking about me to people. Very two-faced. That’s when I started getting mad at her.

A picture came on Twitter of her [Melissa] from that girl Penny that only I had. What happened was, I was doing my extensions, and they were saying she had her nose done. And at that time, Melissa hadn’t had her nose done and I was like, arguing with them like, “No, her nose is real! Look at this!”

At the time, the guy [her make-up artist] was just contouring it, but now her nose is done. Her nose is completely new, so when she denies it, she’s lying about that.

So I was showing them the picture trying to prove that it was the same nose, and the girl Penny must have taken a picture with her camera. I didn’t even have a Twitter account at the time. I signed onto Twitter maybe four or five months ago but I don’t use it. This picture went up about one or two years ago.

So Melissa calls me out of nowhere asking if I had put up that picture. I said, “What are you talking about?” She started sending it to me and I told her that I had shown people the picture because they were saying she had a nose job and I was showing them that she didn’t.

So, we talked. We got set up for lunch, whatever. But of course, it was just to find out information. We didn’t talk for a few months because she’s so busy with her life and what not. There was something that went on Facebook that had upset me that she put up, and I was just over it.

How did she approach you to film with her and her other friend Maria?
Out of nowhere, she calls me to go meet her for lunch. Again. She wanted to know if I told anybody about the night we were out at Sushi Lounge with Bryan. I said no, but of course there were other people there. And Bryan is friends with Penny!

So she asked me if I would come on and film with her to say that there was no meeting together. I didn’t really want to get involved, but she asked me to film because she needed girlfriends to go to lunch with her. Melissa doesn’t have a lot of girlfriends. If you look at her wedding party, I’m the only friend at her wedding. It was all family. Her two sisters, her cousin, Teresa, me, I think Kathy might have been there too.

She was like “Please, please, please,” so I said alright. Now mind you, I denied a majority of the stuff because I just didn’t want to get involved in this. So we go out to lunch and after that, Kim D and Penny start calling me and my partner. At first, they tried telling me that Teresa had a hair product line and she wanted it in my salon.

Kim D has this guy Damien who was friends with my old partner, set up a meeting behind my back with Penny and they wanted to see if we could get me to come on the show. I said I didn’t want to get involved, but then they said it would only be about the hair products and Melissa wouldn’t be there. Kim D gave me the whole run around.

My partner then begged me and said it’ll be good for the business. At the time, I was still mad at Melissa because she had used me to get information about Bryan and to deny all that stuff. So when we get there, they push Malcolm, who is my partner, to the side and they place me next to Penny to make it seem like we came here together.

The night at Bellissimo’s [with Teresa, Kim D, and Penny] I was defending her. They were attacking her and ambushing her. And once again, I’m sticking up for her and Bravo switched it up because apparently Penny has a lawsuit with Bravo, so they didn’t use her in that scene bashing Melissa. I don’t know, maybe they wanted to make it look realistic. I have no idea. The whole thing was just fake.

They just started bashing Melissa. At the table, when they showed me saying all this stuff. It had nothing to do with Melissa. We were talking about an old boyfriend. It was just stuff that had nothing to do with Melissa. They re-arranged the entire conversation which was really messed up.

So then someone behind the cameras asks me to tell them about how Melissa cheated on Bryan, and I said no. I knew we went to dinner together, but I didn’t leave with them so I don’t know what happened.

So what you know is that you all had drinks with Bryan but you don’t know if she cheated. When was this?
This was right before she got pregnant with her third son.

Did Joe know that she was going out and Bryan would be there?
Absolutely not!

He obviously wouldn’t have liked that.
He would’ve killed somebody! She wasn’t even allowed to go to my bachelorette party, that’s how crazy they are together.

So who’s idea was it to hang out with Bryan?
Hers! She set it up. They were talking.

In this week’s episode you say she deserves an Academy Award, why do you say that?
Because she’s full of sh*t! She’s a confused person now. Everything about her is a lie. She’s like a “shore girl.” She slept around. She did whatever she could to get money, houses… She pretends to be better than everybody.

For example, her relationship book about how to keep a man. She’s just trying to make money. First it was her singing, now it’s her trying to write a book. The Housewives is going to be short-lived, I mean how long is she going to carry this out for? She doesn’t have anything else.

She’s just not a real person.

Do you think Bryan will tell his side, since he insists that they hooked up while she was married?
I kind of hope he does because she’s saying that I’m desperate for attention. Really? I’m not pushing 40 on stage trying to be a singer. I’m not trying to follow my sister-in-law’s footsteps.

She said you’re desperate for attention, but she brought you on the show first to defend her about allegations?
Yeah! Every magazine has tried getting in touch with me to pay me for articles, to bash her, sell pictures and what not. And I didn’t do it. There was one guy [reporter from the National Enquirer] who showed up to my salon twice, showed up at my house, the next day he left a note in my mailbox, called my salon.

If I wanted attention I would have done that. Bravo wanted me to get involved in other stuff. Kim D wanted me to do other things, and I just said no. I wanted no more part of it.

Do you think you would attend the reunion if asked?
I don’t know. I just think it’s such a degrading thing and I’m mad that I even got involved. I don’t want to bring that back to my family. I don’t know. I have a little bit of a temper, and I’m just afraid that I’d get to the point where I’d smack the shit out of her.

What would you describe the real Melissa as?
Melissa’s very selfish. She’s very cheap. Seriously. She’s the kind of person who will go into a store and wants to get everything for free. She’s never had style, she never knew how to dress herself. She had to call my sister or somebody, ‘Where did you buy this? Where did you get this?’

If she saw Teresa wearing something she had to find out where Teresa bought it. She’s just never had a mind of her own. She went and took Teresa’s freakin’ make-up artist, her hair stylist. It’s just crazy.

For her daughter’s Holy Communion this year she had people doubting if she actually paid for the big party or Antonia’s dress because she was constantly tweeting about the designer and vendors and plugging their business. She even had a paparazzi photo agency take pictures at the reception.
Probably because it was free. She did that because she probably didn’t pay for the dress. Trust me. She gave a gift to my daughter once for her birthday and on the tag of the outfit it said it was for Antonia.

How did she really meet Joe?
She went on the show lying at first. ‘Oh, I was a secretary, that’s how we met.’ No, he met you at Lookers. What do you mean? You were working at a strip club. No, she wasn’t a stripper. But she would only date guys with money. [If] you didn’t have money, she wasn’t dating you.

So she met Joe Gorga at Lookers?
They met in Cancun years ago, I think he hooked up with her friend in Cancun when they were on spring break. Then he saw her again at Lookers. That’s when she called me, “I met this guy he wants to take me out, but I don’t know. He’s a little short for me…”

When she finally went on a date, he took her back to his house, and all of a sudden she made up this whole story that she had to get out of her apartment, her roommate bailed on her, just so she could go and live with him.

How soon after they began dating did she move in with him?
Like, six weeks. Six months later they were engaged. Six months later they were married, and then six months after that she was pregnant. Crazy.

She was so nice to Teresa in the beginning. I don’t like Teresa, I think she’s sneaky, but I do know for a fact Teresa tried to welcome her as a friend, as a a sister, and as soon as they got married she started treating Teresa like shit.

Is her new book about having a sexy marriage a sham?
She wasn’t even into him [Joe Gorga] like that. She was not attracted to him. Of course, I’m sure she fell in love with him eventually, but the first thing was the money.

When she first met Joe she was hooking up with like three other guys at the time. There was a guy Dave who she came to see at my house after she was married. She didn’t hook up with him, but why would she come to see her ex-boyfriend? But she couldn’t be with Dave because he didn’t have enough money.

Thank you Jesus, right?
Thank you, Jesus. Please! She did tell me, I remember, we were driving home from a wedding shower for our mutual friend. We were driving through this nice part of town, and this is when she was with Bryan.

Bryan and her didn’t have that much money, he had just broken his knee so he was out of commission for making money. And she kept saying, “See, this is what I want. I pray to God to send me someone with money. I want a nice house, I want this, I want that.”

She would say that? I read the first chapter of her book and in it she writes that her family had the first Lincoln town car in her neighborhood…
Her dad may have had money, but then they were poor. Her mom used to go to a salon and she didn’t have money to tip. She’d ask if she could bring a bottle of wine or something. She didn’t have money to tip her hair stylist.

So ultimately why do you think Melissa is making up her whole act?
Right now, I think it’s for the public eye, so that they like her and not Teresa. And she is putting on an act for Joe. Joe’s family is old-school Italian, he doesn’t want to be with a girl who slept around. If he had known how many people she slept around with he would have never married her.

So do you think he knows now how she used to be?
No I think she has him blinded and he will just say people are jealous. Listen, they couldn’t ever leave each others’ side. They were always trying to hook me up with one of his friends, because Melissa wasn’t allowed to go out without him. This is why it was a surprise to me, how she got out that night for Sushi Lounge. I think he was going somewhere.

He’s very jealous. He slapped her on the face one time because she was dancing with his one friend down the Jersey shore. He got mad at her because she was dancing with his friend and he thought she was flirting. She was dancing with him trying to be friendly, and Joe didn’t like that. So, when they left the club, when we got in the car together, he smacked her on the face.

Are you shocked by what Jan had to say? Do you believe Melissa has cheated in the past!?

Author:

Roxanne

Roxanne Jajo created All About The Real Housewives in November, 2011, to keep fans up to date with all their Real Housewives news. Roxanne resides in Detroit, Michigan and works full time as a recruiter in the HR department at Quicken Loans. In December 2014, Roxanne came out with her first fictional novel, ‘Shattered Depiction. Roxanne works on the website on a daily basis in order to bring fans of the show the most exciting and captivating stories of all of their favorite (and not so favorite) reality TV stars. Roxanne is very thankful to all the readers and commenters who have continued to support the website.

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jerseygirl
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jerseygirl
3 years 7 days ago

From what I’ve seen of Jan, I would NOT want to get on Jan’s bad side. And it looks like Melissa has done just that.

With Teresa it wasn’t a fair fight. She’s just not capable of engaging in a catfight and winning it. Jan on the other hand looks like she’d fight to the death. Whether or not anything she’s saying is true, I am completely entertained!

Estelle
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Estelle
3 years 7 days ago

Jan looks and acts like an desperate, washed-out and totally hardened drug addict. I think her days of caring about what’s true and what isn’t are over.

Anacapri
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Anacapri
3 years 7 days ago

But not as desperate as Melissa-that cheating hooker! I know she’s your sister and all—but come on we all see what she is! 🙂

wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

Love it!

emily
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emily
3 years 7 days ago

There is the Marco strategy shining through. When in doubt call them drug addicts. If they have brain cancer, gloat that they’ll be dead soon anyway. Estelle, you don’t do much to make your client more sympathetic. You just make people detest her even more. I hope Melissa is not paying good money for your advocacy, because frankly you really suck at it.

Just Me
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Just Me
3 years 7 days ago
Wow, that’s harsh. You know what else is harsh? I’m just going to say it, and I’ll probably get a lot of criticism. But doesn’t anyone else see between the lines of what so many are really “saying,” re: the paternity of Melissa’s youngest child (including Jan in this article)? Melissa says herself that Gino is the annoying, aggressive kid because he’s “All Gorga.” What a thing to say, haha. So, first Danielle Staub says at the Season 2 reunion, Teresa won’t acknowledge her new nephew. Jan and Melissa say on the episode last night that Teresa and Joe Giudice… Read more »
Whatever, Girl
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Whatever, Girl
3 years 7 days ago
It was harsh. I don’t like it when people come on here acting so self-righteous about rumor-mongering and/or name-calling but then in the next breath do the exact same thing to someone else! Either do it or don’t. I understand some commenters don’t like the vitriol and that is fine but you’re either in or out, I say. But I guess she said “look and act” so that makes everything okay. I’ll have to remember that one 😉 As far as the rest of your comment: very compelling! I think you may be on to something with the paternity thing.… Read more »
wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

It’s the same as the double standard that the Marco’s always seem to be guilty of. Hmmmm.

Whatever, Girl
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Whatever, Girl
3 years 7 days ago

For someone who just complained upthread about nasty insults and mean rumors, you sure do have a lot of nerve calling someone a drug addict.

Face it, Estelle – you just don’t like it when people disagree with you.

Anyway… I guess I’ll go “shove it up my ass” now since that’s your favorite comeback.

Good day.

Estelle
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Estelle
3 years 7 days ago

I said she LOOKS and ACTS like one (which she most certainly does); obviously I have no clue whether she is or not.

Have fun.

Whatever, Girl
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Whatever, Girl
3 years 7 days ago

And spare me another one of your lame-ass RECYCLED comebacks. You use the same ones on everybody.

“Have fun”… derp… oh-kay.

…Next you’re going to say “it’s just a show, I don’t care” HA

Whatever, Girl
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Whatever, Girl
3 years 7 days ago

I see.

YOU can make assumptions about the character of others bc of the way they LOOK and ACT… How special. You must be so unique.

Well you ACT like know-it-all snot and that makes you LOOK like a hypocritical child when you get caught making an ass out of yourself on these boards day after day.

Honnie Badger
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Honnie Badger
3 years 7 days ago

Actually, I think she’s quite beautiful, and so is Melissa; both are gorgeous to look at. I think Melissa looked even better before this recent nose job; she never should have touched it, as I think it gave her face more character. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that’s just how I behold her! 🙂

Susan
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Susan
3 years 7 days ago

Actually, the fact that she has been offered money and hasn’t sold any of her information gives her loads of credibility in my eyes. What she says make a lot of things make more sense. I believe Jan, and believe she knows a lot more but is not interested in getting involved. Good for her!

michers
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michers
3 years 8 days ago

Nope, not shocked at all. I heard he smacked her a year or so ago, someone on here actually brought it up, think the name was ” The Source”- always had good intel, and it seems they were right. So , you mean to tell me, that ALL of these people form NJ to Florida are lying, just because they are jealous of Melissa? No freaking way. The girl did some dirty stuff and people are sick of her lying and getting away with it- point blank.

Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 8 days ago
I read he slapped her more than once. Someone sent a link on RealityTea during Season 3, and when I read how crazy their relationship was… I was actually shocked! He could control her, and he knew how she was a stripper before, so he had to be with her all the time. She was crazy when he would go out and talk to other women, too. Now that I’ve read this… Not shocked at all! They are all shit! Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. Be careful, MeHo…… Read more »
BionicMe
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BionicMe
3 years 5 days ago

Everyone forgot that he was accused of raping someone in college?

Gigi T
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Gigi T
3 years 7 days ago

Well said! I totally believe her interview! I think Melissa is a gold digging, selfish , piece of crap! Her children are RUDE and treat Joe with no respect at all! I’ve seen that ” little Joey smack Joe in the head and call him Stupid a number of times

Babs
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Babs
3 years 5 days ago

Come on…get real….They are ALL selfish and on the show for the money, not just Melissa! And the ONLY well behaved children on this show are Kathy’s, Teresa’s children are just as rude as Melissa’s!

wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

I hate it when people say things when they have no idea what they’re talking about. Have you read Kathy’s kids tweets? They’re horrible and vile and should be ashamed of themselves. As far as the other little kids, they’re KIDS! Give it a rest. Like all of you I’m sure have perfect little angels.

TopGun1
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TopGun1
3 years 7 days ago

That’s the older boy and his name is Gino…he looks like Old Man Gorga. Who I also think was/is probably a mean drunk.

michers
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michers
3 years 8 days ago

Yes and she also is crazy! Slashing tires and what not! But knowing he really did hit her is horrible. Now that that truth is out again, she will write a book in future, he will be away from her she will be the single mom.. heard it hear first! Caro – right prediction, wrong couple!!!!

Summer
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Summer
3 years 7 days ago
michers Isabella Patricia ITA with u guys but if he’s that old school there’s no way he’ll divorce her and risk losing the kids and $$$, they certainly deserve each other their both friggin nuts. I hate the fact that he hit her even tho i can’t stand her and would love to smack the shit outta her myself there’s absolutely no reason for a man to hit a women. Little stumpy needs to get off the roids and get anger management. Im also very surprised that if has that much control over her. Well to assume someone is cheating… Read more »
wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago
If he hit her and she wants a divorce, he doesn’t have a say in it. Actually even if he didn’t hit her and she wants a divorce there’s not a damn thing he can do but watch her walk out the door. Of course he can punish her by not making it easy. There’s things he can do to make her life hell. But if it’s a divorce she wants, she’ll get it. She can’t do that until she has another rich man or until she can make enough money on her own. Whoever said what Teresa repeated, in… Read more »
michers
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michers
3 years 7 days ago

@ Summer- my reply to you guys did not go where intended. Sorry!

Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 8 days ago
I was gonna say this… Lol. She could hold this over Joe and threaten to expose him if he doesn’t listen to her. Lol. He could get in a lot of trouble (I’m not gonna bother mentioning it but you know his shady past), and this may be a way to divorce him if needed be. She could write a book and say “I’m a victim. I was too scared to open up. I love Joe and I wanted us to work.” Lol. She needs a sugar daddy who will provide for her first. Usually, women who stay with their… Read more »
globug
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globug
3 years 2 days ago
Good for you Isabella! It does take a lot of courage to speak out as you have. You are an inspiration to many, hope others read your post and follow in your foot steps. As for Joe Gorga being abusive, I’ve seen it from day one! Like Joe and Teresa I too come from an old school Italian family, my parents are also off the boat. Which I guess is why I can relate to Teresa at times. Having been around old school Italian men my whole life I know how they can be, and they can be very mean… Read more »
Aussiegirl
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Aussiegirl
3 years 6 days ago

Isabella: I fucking love you.

And you know that.

And nobody has a right to put their hands on you except for me when I am virtually high fiving you right now for telling that loser where to go. Which is far, far away.

You deserve many Tim Tams for your bravery.

He deserves public shaming a a swift kick to the janglies.

My heart to you babe xxx

MonkeyFighting
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MonkeyFighting
3 years 6 days ago
And now we have MeHO’s 2nd book title, I’m a Victim & Got away! Think you nailed it Isabella P! Her hamsters in head r running now plotting her next move. I totally believe this Jan girl & don’t think it’s for 15 min. I think if my good friend went on show doing what Melissa does then I may speak up. It must get annoying week by week reading BS when you know the truth! The fact that Melissa wrote a book is mind boggling to me. What? IMO, their relationship is extremely controlling and so NOT healthy! Melissa… Read more »
EJJ
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EJJ
3 years 7 days ago

Isabella Patricia, I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I am glad you found your way out of the situation. Thank you for sharing with us. Even if just on this blog, someone could be reading your story and it could help. God bless 🙂

jerseygirl
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jerseygirl
3 years 7 days ago

Wow. Isabella P. Sorry you had to go through that. The fact that you had the strength and good sense to walk out the door and not look back is pretty amazing. You are my hero of the day!

LMAO in Louisiana
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LMAO in Louisiana
3 years 7 days ago

Isabella, you are a strong woman and should be commended for standing up to the epitome of a bully. I’m thankful that you had the strength to get him out of your life.

RabbleRouser
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RabbleRouser
3 years 7 days ago
Hi Isabella, The accusation against Joe is concerning to me and made me wonder, if he did slap Melissa then maybe the story about him rapping a girl in college is also true. He does objective his wife and I vividly remember once him seething with anger and resentment because the night before, she turned him down for sex. At the same time, it seems like she uses the lure of sex as power over him. Which is one of the reasons why I don’t look to their relationship as some sort of ideal. One thing I have noticed is… Read more »
Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 7 days ago
RabbleRouser, thanks, hon. Yeah. A lot of women get abused daily so I mentioned this story because I believe Joe Gorga may have been the same way. I can’t stand MeHo, but if this story is true (which I’m inclined to believe it), why is she still with him? I think she stayed all these years for the money. Joe Gorga needs help. He has a scary abusive side that makes me uncomfortable to watch. I know Teresa loves her brother to death, but he does mentally abuse her. Of course she’ll have her brother’s back and stick by his… Read more »
RabbleRouser
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RabbleRouser
3 years 8 days ago

Please don’t apologize Isabella

Not only have you not done anything that requires an apology on your part, you deserve a hug and to be thanked.

It’s very brave of you to share something so painful and personal.

I’m so very proud that you found the strength to walk away and not fall into the trap of abuse.

You keep smiling sweetheart knowing you don’t have to sleep with one eye open.

Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 8 days ago

Oh, man… This is too much info. Oy vey! Sorry…

Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 8 days ago

*financially unstable

jpg
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jpg
3 years 8 days ago

Caroline’s prediction thus far is uncannily accurate.

She didn’t call Teresa going to jail too, though.

Aloicious
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Aloicious
3 years 7 days ago

What do you mean jpg? Just about Teresa and Joe? Or are you referring to something about Melissa?

jpg
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jpg
3 years 7 days ago

NO. Caroline was dead on with the right couple.

michers
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michers
3 years 7 days ago

– right prediction, wrong couple!!!!

Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 8 days ago

*tock

Summer
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Summer
3 years 7 days ago

@michers

AMEN sister was just thinking that so many ppl from NJ to Florida are that jealous of her PPHHLLEEZZ.

Im on twitter and friends with two of her ex Bryan just made a little interview yesterday he’s put the link up and he’s had enough and he’ll be doing another full interview telling his side and what he knows what happened.

Also another ex which Im friends with is also being interviewed but it’s in writing WITH PROOF.

THANK YOU JESUS!!!! LOL

yeah Melissa your that gorgeous and talented we’re all jealous of you LMFAO

yosoyo
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yosoyo
2 years 10 months ago

Omg say it ain’t so!! Looks like you got the scoop!! Post the links in here! My nosy self wants to see!! Lol I’m a good judge of buckshyt and I’ve always thought Melissa was sneaky. I told my husband when she first got on the show ‘something about her is off…she looks sneaky as fuk’ Lol and bam! Here Ya go! I knew it!Lol

michers
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michers
3 years 7 days ago

Take away that crap we know from last 2 seasons; that BOOK itself will do her in! And that is ALL her fault also! Im still waiting for the Boca Bitches to show up ( if they are real , LOL)

Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 7 days ago

Boca Bitches?? Who are they?

BionicMe
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BionicMe
3 years 5 days ago

The cheerleaders that made her the mascot? LMAOOOOOOOOOO

Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 7 days ago
Omg, that story! Haha! I find this hard to believe because I don’t find her attractive in the least. Who the hell would be jealous of MeHo?? Especially girls in Florida?? There are a ton of exotic women who are actually pretty and have a lot of style. I doubt this story is true. You know how many women would come out spilling her ass if this were true? MeHo would be scared as shit to release something like this. Such a stupid girl. MeHo, get over yourself! You are not pretty. You have no style. Your face is unattractive… Read more »
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cass
3 years 7 days ago

I watched a Lifetime movie once that had the same storyline. Girls were jealous and took their former friend out in the desert and beat the crap outta her. I think they killed the girl in the movie. Guess Meho didn’t want to go that far 🙂

michers
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michers
3 years 7 days ago

No one knows… only Melissa 🙂
There are talked about in her “book”… hehe..
If you go online the fist chapter or tella novella, is out there somewhere. So if you are in the mood to piss your pants laughing, have at it sister! Allegedly, they were girls that finally befriended her only to be jealous of course of her beauty and turned on her. And like 30 of them , in a remote area mind you, bullied her and attacked her… The Boca Bitches.

Summer
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Summer
3 years 7 days ago
Isabella Patricia Hun Im so sorry you went through that, and plz don’t apologize i wish more women had the guts to leave their abusive like you. So proud of you girl it’s not easy but you certainly did the right thing. And thank YOU for sharing only hope your story would help other women only if it’s one. @Rabble i noticed the same thing i think she controls him or gets what she wants with sex If he did know she was a stripper or he didn’t trust her y marry her, she must be gr8 in bed, coz… Read more »
Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 7 days ago
A lot of women go through much worse than me so I’m thankful I got out. I was a lot stronger back then because of God. I speak to Him everyday, and praying helps me get through a lot. I’m not perfect, but He helps me… Even when I don’t ask for it. As for Meho, I don’t know how Joe can put up with her. I think they are both controlling, but she makes him crazy! Look at all the past episodes… He acts all calm and normal around Tre, and MeHo says a few words to tick Joe… Read more »
Isabella Patricia
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Isabella Patricia
3 years 7 days ago
Sandy, omg, your story is so sad! I don’t know what I would do if that ever happened to me. Mine is so minor compared to yours. I’m so glad you have moved on and married your best friend. As long as you’re happy. I hope you continue to stay strong. It has affected me and my relationships, but I have learned to let it go. I will never understand an abuser. I have seen and witnessed a lot of men that has gone to jail for beating on his wife, women who stay with their man who continues to… Read more »
sandy
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sandy
3 years 7 days ago
Isabella Patricia! Girl you rock! I too left my abuser oh so many years ago! I am an old gramma now! LOL! I too left my abusive first husband after he almost severed my spine throwing me down a flight of stairs. At the time I was twenty-five and 98 poundstupid peoops. I was hospitalized two months in traction and cast and he went to jail for two years!! I of course divorced him and eight years later married my best friend who I have been with over twenty years now. I think Meho and Joe have a sick kind… Read more »
RabbleRouser
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RabbleRouser
3 years 7 days ago

Hi Summer,

I also think that Melissa must be great in bed (and while we are at it, Kim Z because I have no idea how she lands either sugar daddies or a seemingly great catch like Troy …but I digress).

But I think her major talent is making Joey think that HE is the one who is fantastic in bed…as ego’s need stroking too. 😀

Summer
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Summer
3 years 6 days ago

Hi Rabble

Good point she prob does stroke his ego & makes him feel as tho is some amazing lover in bed. Yuck lol

who’s Kim Z?

anonymous
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anonymous
2 years 11 months ago

Jose,
Please learn how to punctuate your writing if you are going to publish it.

wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago
I won’t say they’re stupid but naive maybe? It’s so easy to see she’s as fake as a two dollar bill. She lies and lies and twists things in her favor. All anyone has to do is compare her own blogs written in her own words. She’ll say one thing one week and the next week it’ll be a completely different story. POS Anyone can see that unless they don’t want to. As far as Teresa, she has her problems to but I don’t think she is evil like Melissa is. Jacqueline has as many problems as Teresa does and… Read more »
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Nuca_K
3 years 2 days ago
great interview,at least someone came out, not like bryan,he is all talk and i dont see him doing anything,i dont know if bravo is paying him to save for last or is paying to shut him up, but if he has something he needs to speak. do i think meho cheated on joe? yes i dont think joe knows about it,i think he suspects now and i do think they have a lot of drama behind the scenes. i think meho is concerned not only about the skeletons flying out but also what joe will do to her. do i… Read more »
Jerri
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Jerri
2 years 11 months ago

Go read >> jezebel.com on what Melissa says in her book and see how incredibly violent and bullying Joe Gorga is. My gawd I hope he doesn’t kill someone.
Melissa and the kids need to get away from him.
Please share the story on fan sites.

duffy1958
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3 years 4 days ago
Hmmm. Looks like the chips are starting to fall where they may huh? I’m just going to say about “Reality TV” and Bravo. I do believe Bravo jacks up the tension. I think they are manipulative to a degree but I keep saying, “Don’t y’all have people like this in your family?” I do. I think Teresa has wondered the right things. It has been completely blown out of proportion what Teresa’s reaction to Mego coming into the family was. That’s a Mego spin. I don’t watch Bravo anymore. It’s poison as sure as I’m sitting here. I refuse to… Read more »
Babs
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Babs
3 years 5 days ago

How DARE you call anyone who supports Melissa stupid! Speak for yourself! Bravo wants Melissa on the show, and she has every right to be there! Many people feel the same way about Teresa’s fans, and question why they support her considering the mess she is in.

Babs
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Babs
3 years 5 days ago

How DARE you call anyone who supports Melissa stupid! Speak for yourself! Bravo wants Melissa on the show, and she has every right to be there! Many people feel the same way about Teresa’s fans, and question why they support her considering the mess she is in.

Babs
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Babs
3 years 5 days ago

How DARE you call anyone who supports Melissa stupid! Speak for yourself! Bravo wants Melissa on the show, and she has every right to be there! Many people feel the same way about Teresa’s fans, and question why they support her considering the mess she is in.

BBC
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BBC
3 years 6 days ago
Jan sounds mean AND crazy. So it was wrong for Jacq to allege cheating and that one of the Juicy’s kids could not be his, but this Jan is just telling the truth? I think these people are showing themselves to be the liars they were suspected of being. If this is all the Bravo producers, and not Teresa, how is it possible that it just KEEPS happening? She’s lunching and hanging out with people who are plotting behind her back? REPEATEDLY? This clumsy B.S. is exactly, IMO, the reason the Giudices were so easy to catch and are under… Read more »
Lawdy
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Lawdy
3 years 6 days ago
IT is so f**king frustrating how none of these people ever make any damn sense. She is obviously trying to sit the fence now, and pretend she was never out to get Melissa. Too bad she sounds like a complete liar. I believe the cheating, but come on Jan, own your crap. I mean, someone took a picture of a picture you had??? COME ON! And your convo about her cheating was about an old boyfriend but not about her cheating??? The footage was just perfectly edited??? You are full of it! You came in a la Lori of the… Read more »
jose
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jose
3 years 7 days ago

damn it seems like maybe jan is a little jealous of melissa? not for nothing she looks like a man, ugly girls are always jealous of their pretty friends. shes kissing her ass one day at lunch and tearing her up the next. anything to get her 15 minutes. i know its good for ratings but come on i dont want trash like that on the show. also that older women what is she the new kim g? at her age she should above this kind of stuff.

eggmitit
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eggmitit
3 years 6 days ago

I think Jan is a way better looking than Melissa. I don’t think she’s jealous of M’s looks. Who is the old lady you’re referring to? Penny?

Afton
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Afton
3 years 7 days ago

Why is this on the top of the page, posted first above newer stories??

ellen
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ellen
3 years 7 days ago

I have no doubt this total famewhore use to sit next to Melissa and gossip with her about the Guidice’s and now that THAT is no longer workingfor her she’s out to destroy Melissa.

Think This Through
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Think This Through
3 years 7 days ago

P.S. SO DO YOU All About!!!!! (Sorry!)

Kittle
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Kittle
3 years 7 days ago

Jan looks like a hot tranny mess. I don’t think all Jan had to say is a lie but so much of it is just vindictive and getting digs at a former friend. I think she is filled with hate. Needs to let it go. She sounds a little Lauri Petersonish to me. Especially about Melissa seeing an ex boyfriend right before her third child was born. If you don’t know, don’t insinuate.

wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

As I said, Melissa chose her. Do you really think Melissa is going to have a high caliber of friends?

it's a little fat shoe
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it's a little fat shoe
3 years 7 days ago

Christmas came early this year! Thank you Jan!

fortheloveofshoes
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fortheloveofshoes
3 years 7 days ago

Well I believe the part about Melissa being cheap. She always shops in forever 21 garden state plaza and willow brook. Melissa needs to fess up and come clean about her dirty laundry before it gets aired out in the worse way.

Ry
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Ry
3 years 7 days ago
ALL these people lie. I’m sure there’s some truth to what this Jan person says, but probably not all of it. It’s quite simple-if you really don’t want to be “famous”, you don’t appear on tv. No one forced her to do so. The fallout with Melissa is so childish. If someone starts acting weirdly or does/says something you don’t agree with-move on and cut the person out of your life. That’s the mature thing to do. Don’t continue interacting with someone and getting into drama over it-that’s very high school. Jan has shown herself to be perfect for housewives.
wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

Very true but Melissa chose her as a friend. She also initiated the meeting.

I’m actually happy there are finally people coming out to expose Melissa for the POS she is. Pretty soon, no one will be able to deny it. You know, for those who are blind to her true character. I still can’t understand how anyone can’t see through her – her lies alone should give her away.

sss
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sss
3 years 7 days ago

Melissa claims that she was the most beautiful girl in all the land, so naturally every girl was a jealous hater and every guy was desperate to get with her. She is still trying to maintain this lie even though there are pictures of her from back then that show Melissa was FAR from being a supermodel.

Notice in this photo of her friends in their 20s, Melissa is easily the least attractive girl in the bunch:?w=490&h=370

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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

I agree. She’s got nice teeth even though they look ridiculously white. I don’t know if you watched “Friends” but it reminds me of the episode with Ross and his over whitened, glowing teeth.

wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

Forgot to finish my thought – her teeth are the only thing about her that’s attractive. Although as I said, they’re shockingly white.

sss
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sss
3 years 7 days ago

Waaaaaaaaah!!!!!!

Today is a bad day to be a Marco, huh Estelle & JPG?

LOL!!!! Better have an emergency meeting today!

Lia
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Lia
3 years 7 days ago
Wow. This whole season is just bizarre for me because I’ve flip-flopped on everyone, LOL! I was never a Teresa fan, but now I do like her (even though I think she’s guilty of the charges). But still, I think she’s been treated unfairly by everyone, especially Melissa. Even though I think she should be held accountable for any illegal activity, I do hope the best for her. Melissa I did like in the beginning, but where there’s smoke there seems to be a whole lot of fire. I do think Jan is telling the truth here. I didn’t like… Read more »
digital
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digital
3 years 7 days ago

These women as well as you avid watchers of the show. Are weak by definition. You live all your lives behind a man. You have no worthy career. And you never will.

wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

It says more about you that you would make such an ignorant comment about the many posters here when you have no idea who any of us are. That’s the epitome of foolishness and idiocy. I am not going to defend myself to someone as low as you but I assure you that my situation proves how inane you are for making such a statement.

chupacabra
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chupacabra
3 years 7 days ago

LOL

Just Me
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Just Me
3 years 7 days ago
I respectfully disagree. I have a good job, which I’ve been at for 15 years. I also enjoy the Housewives. The only TV I watch is Housewives and Breaking Bad. Both are compelling, but in different ways. I got hooked on Housewives after being sucked into a marathon of episodes during my maternity leave. You know what’s funny (and a little scary)? I agree with the other people on these posts who are saying one of Melissa’s sisters is posting a lot of junk on this thread today. I’ve spent 2 minutes of my life reading her tweets. The tone,… Read more »
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

digital deserves no respect. She states her lowly opinion of people who watch the show yet here she is posting on a blog for this same show. What an a$$.

styleeyah
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styleeyah
3 years 7 days ago

“Like, six weeks. Six months later they were engaged. Six months later they were married, and then six months after that she was pregnant. Crazy.”

Did anyone else notice that Melissa likes to do things in the number six month increments – 6 6 6 – Thank you Jesus huh?????

wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

OMG you people are hysterical. There’s some great comments in here.

JustMe
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JustMe
3 years 7 days ago
I think it’s funny that Melissa’s getting a bad edit this year because she and Joe Gorga have been super-annoying for a long time. She reminds me so much of Gretchen from OC… a compulsive liar who is constantly putting on this little show, acting like the Melissa she thinks she is supposed to be. I don’t necessarily think Jan is lying about a lot of it. For one thing, her conversation with Teresa at the girl’s night was all sliced together in a fake way. (And BTW, so was Jen’s conversation explaining to Melissa what Jan said.) Jan is… Read more »
Honnie Badger
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Honnie Badger
3 years 7 days ago

I don’t think it’s as pedestrian as a “bad edit” but something that had to be addressed due to all the off-season gossip, re: Bulldog Bryan, etc.

Of all the reunions, this one should be very, very riveting.

wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

I’d love it if that’s when Bryan showed up with all of his proof. And I do believe he has proof.

A taste of her own medicine!
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A taste of her own medicine!
3 years 7 days ago

TELL IT LIKE IT IS JAN!!! I LOVE IT!! MELDUSSA HAS FINALLY GOTTEN A TASTE OF HER OWN MEDICINE!!! YAY!!!!

Deneph
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Deneph
3 years 7 days ago

I rather think this is all a bunch of hoopla to get people talking about Mel. I think she and her friends (including the ex) are all in on it. Her skeletons come out, it gets the fans talking about her and in the end she can blame it on Teresa. It’s all a set up. No such thing as bad PR right?

Jenn2013
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Jenn2013
3 years 7 days ago
Hi D, Agree with ya. Brilliant P.R. stunt!! I think on the show Teresa was just trying to clear her name and Melissa’s. She stood by to make sure Mel didn’t get attacked which was more than Mel does for her when Teresa’s getting attacked by everyone else. Example, Caroline ripped T a new arse in that Jacuzzi scene and Mel just sat there petting JAc’s head like she was a freaking cat…lol Do I think they fight for real? Oh yes, I don’t doubt that. I’m just 99% convinced like a dam DNA test result..haha that this is all… Read more »
BBC
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BBC
3 years 6 days ago

Why didn’t she speak up and admit that she was present on the night Jan claimed that an affair took place? That didn’t require a fight. Instead those rode hard-put away wet hags attacked Melissa and instead of standing WITH her SIL, the queen of indictiments stood with them facing DOWN her SIL. I can see why JoeGo is just over it. He could see clearly what was going on.

NonnaB
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NonnaB
3 years 7 days ago

Not to change the subject but did anyone else notice how upset the bartender was when JoGo stabbed the knife in the bar top. She blew a gasket. They sure edited that out. But yet JoGo never uttered a word when Jan and Penny were accusing his wife. Hmmmm.

Estelle
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Estelle
3 years 7 days ago

No, he didn’t. He just sat there and laughed in their faces.

NonnaB
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NonnaB
3 years 7 days ago

It was a lady and she said “are you F—- kidding me” and then you can tell it was edited and showed them smiling.

Estelle
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Estelle
3 years 7 days ago

I’m not talking about the scene in the bar. I’m talking about at the hair thing when Jan and Penny were obviously lying about his wife and proving to be the worst actresses ever. Joey was laughing his ass off.

And I loved it when he tried to get rid of Teresa (who was determined to stay and make sure everyone got their lines right) by saying, “Why don’t you go mingle?” And he was smiling when he said it. He TOTALLY has her number. 🙂

wtf?
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wtf?
3 years 2 days ago

Sure. Joey laughs his ass off when anyone says anything about HIS wife – HIS property. Just like he came charging in the PFS last season to hunt down the guy who dared to say “hi Melissa, remember me”? Right. Joey is so even tempered. You can say it as much as you want Estelle. It will never make what you’re saying true.

eggmitit
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eggmitit
3 years 6 days ago

Like he’s that smart! You give that oompa loompa waaaaaaay too much credit. If it has nothing to do with his penis, he’s oblivious.

michers
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michers
3 years 7 days ago

Sounds like you coached him well “Estelle”… Now pat yourself on the back for that one!

Estelle
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Estelle
3 years 7 days ago

Except that the only reason Melissa finally broke down and exasperatedly said, “YES, Teresa, we BELIEVE you,” was to make her GO AWAY, which she just wasn’t doing despite ALL their efforts.

IOW they didn’t believe her AT ALL, and if anything Teresa made herself look even MORE guilty about the PFS setup.

And Joey’s impression of Teresa, (“Make sure you tell dem I had nuttin’ to do widdit, RIIIIGHT?”) was HYSTERICAL! 🙂

AlexA
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AlexA
3 years 7 days ago

I believe Teresa was truly relieved that it was proven she wasn’t involved – but she really should have butted out towards the end. She was unintentionally making the whole thing about her. She should have taken a walk at the end.

Daisymay
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Daisymay
3 years 7 days ago
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